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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago

Quick question for all the gents.

Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?

Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?

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By *ickedwillyCouple
12 weeks ago

Bangor

We have met a few gents and when it comes to mounting her fail to get fully hard as they wanked before hand.

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By *att1990xxxMan
12 weeks ago

Plymouth

Gotta save it all up as much as possible!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
12 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Mrs hates it when they have a tactical before a meet,it's always obvious.

It's just an ego boost for the guys.

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

I don’t touch my cock or look at porn for 3 days before a meet. The lady I’m meeting gets it all

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Mrs hates it when they have a tactical before a meet,it's always obvious.

It's just an ego boost for the guys."

To be fair - shooting an overloaded gun early isn’t exactly an ego boost for the guy either.

To answer OPs question: usually go in loaded.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

We prefer a guy to be loaded.

We wil take a good 3 minutes with everything as opposed 30 minutes of banging away until they go limp.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I wish they wouldn't.

Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.

I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ea monkeyMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️"

I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge

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By *oughmanMan
12 weeks ago

Sunderland

Oh I'll go in as fully loaded as possible. I'm good for a few rounds with little recovery time that way.

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By *abswing202525Man
12 weeks ago

HERE

I’m lucky in that I can repeat within 5 mins and shoot consistent big loads! So for me, not an issue

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I wish they wouldn't.

Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.

I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜"

This ^^

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Never play before - I may tease C to get her worked up but I don’t shoot my shot as I want to be worked up myself.

K

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

I wish they did beforehand…

Meet I had a couple of days ago came after 2 thrusts. 2.

I am still a magnet for quick cummers… getting boring now 🙄🙄🙄

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By *upanovaMan
12 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Quick question for all the gents.

Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?

Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?"

Why would you? It will make no difference.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Quick question for all the gents.

Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?

Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?

Why would you? It will make no difference. "

Of course it will for some people ?????

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️

·

I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "

Both of you are philistines. If you're not masturbating whilst watching The Antiques Roadshow then you haven't really lived. You don't know how orgasmic a vintage bakelite telephone can be.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I wish they did beforehand…

Meet I had a couple of days ago came after 2 thrusts. 2.

I am still a magnet for quick cummers… getting boring now 🙄🙄🙄"

Surely if they're not interested in doing more afterwards then if they had a wank before setting off they'd probably decide to just not bother turning up though.

But I suppose that would still be a net gain on not bothering yourself with disappointing sex 💜

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill


"I wish they did beforehand…

Meet I had a couple of days ago came after 2 thrusts. 2.

I am still a magnet for quick cummers… getting boring now 🙄🙄🙄

Surely if they're not interested in doing more afterwards then if they had a wank before setting off they'd probably decide to just not bother turning up though.

But I suppose that would still be a net gain on not bothering yourself with disappointing sex 💜"

To be honest I was the one who was not interested in staying on …I left promptly after that. The whole experience was disappointing, not just the sex. And this was a second meet following a social. Want to open my mind, give things a chance… nope. Will keep trusting my first instincts.

The cunnilingus was good at least 😝

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By *umagain58Man
12 weeks ago

London

This is an interesting question. The thrill of meeting and being with a new person does mean I can cum a little quicker. Then again delivering a very big load can be what they want. For me there is no answer as depends on mood at time and what other person might have indicated they want on this part of meet.

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I wish they wouldn't.

Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.

I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜"

'It' 😂. It's true, it has a life essence of its own. The adventures of Mr Penis and the sperm factory. It's never been the same at t'factory since they unionised, there's a bit of a stalemate and they're working to contract - but there's an indication that they may be willing to negotiate.

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By *oodmessMan
12 weeks ago

yumsville

Nope... sex is sex and honestly, if the wind blows right you could be done in a few mins anyway so little point.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
12 weeks ago

North West

I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

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By *heonixrising500Man
12 weeks ago

Barnsley

Full tank go the miles

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By *esparate danMan
12 weeks ago

glasgow

Its quite a solipsistic dilemma isnt it

Most women dont really care about the volume of the load. Its just a fragile ego thing

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I go loaded a girl wants a stayer and a good amount of cum

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By *entlemanJay39Man
12 weeks ago

Northampton


"Quick question for all the gents.

Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?

Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?"

Nah, I prefer not wanking for a good few days before a meet, longer the better. 💦💦

More fun for everyone that way.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭"

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds

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By *oodmessMan
12 weeks ago

yumsville


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds "

5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I wish they wouldn't.

Even the guy who came on my thigh while trying to put the condom on.

I'd rather that then chilling with some foreplay and teasing while it recuperates to go for round two than worrying they're not into it waiting for what I think is the first 💜

This ^^"

Absolutely this

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By *rolicUsCouple
12 weeks ago

Worth travelling to


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️

I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "

Dare you to try with a photo of Jeanette Crankie next time or Orville

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I go loaded but always make sure that the woman gets hers before i give them my load

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds "

A good few rounds aswell, give you all the loads you want, fully empty them

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
12 weeks ago

North West


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds

5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate"

😈😈😈

When they can’t even touch themselves 😈

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

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I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

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By *JcuriousCouple
12 weeks ago

Nottingham


"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

"

I absolutely have to agree with all of the above Meli.

It's all part of the fun, the build up, the teasing, the energy. It's all wasted without this.

Miss S x

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By *eoBloomsMan
12 weeks ago

Springfield

What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

"

So much this Ms Meli ^^

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By *olarbear73Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

No I don’t OP but I do drink gallons of Pineapple juice before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'm not usually a quick cummer anyway...I can usually go on as long as I want...I've got great stamina but I'm not a repeater..

So a "tactical" wank would just end up with me losing interest and hitting mcdonald instead..

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By *enk15Man
12 weeks ago

Evesham

Hell no, save all that sexual energy.

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By *dx69Man
12 weeks ago

London

Interesting to read the different views on this constant dilemma (as i find it)…

If the chat beforehand is all about them wanting a massive load then I’ll obviously save it up. Otherwise I’ll be tempted to crack one off 24 hours or so ahead

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I wish guys would leave it be. I like a quick firing gun.

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By *oughmanMan
12 weeks ago

Sunderland


"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

"

It's a bit embarrassing if you can't hold out, sure. And you can feel like you're a bit of a disappointment to her. However I've learnt that if you can laugh it of and say that it felt too good and they were too hot, woman are usually willing to give you a second chance and got for round 2. You won't hear an apology from me. It's a mood killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Wrong wrong wrong all the above, if you don’t masturbate before a meet you will make incorrect decisions, like you don’t ever go shopping when you are hungry because you will just end up buying shit you don’t need like onion rings

Meet in the evening? A swift tactical in the morning will eliminate any errors, amateurs you lot honestly

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By *vaRoseWoman
12 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds

5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate"

Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈

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By *ycleguy300Man
12 weeks ago

Ely

Definitely a loaded gun. Especially if it’s been a week or two setting up the meeting then it’s great. Can’t believe you’d empty the tank the day of any date!

Receiving id a nice full load too… don’t be emptying it please.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
12 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Wrong wrong wrong all the above, if you don’t masturbate before a meet you will make incorrect decisions, like you don’t ever go shopping when you are hungry because you will just end up buying shit you don’t need like onion rings

Meet in the evening? A swift tactical in the morning will eliminate any errors, amateurs you lot honestly "

Typical male reaction.

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By *oodmessMan
12 weeks ago

yumsville


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds

5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate

Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈"

The dedication would be unbelievable, I doubt I could do it. It's great teasing but being able to distract for that long is very hard.. especially when something waving about in front of you

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By *Silver-Man
12 weeks ago

North Wales

I never wank before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Each to their own, and we haven't had a meet with others yet but I personally think it's part of the fun if J cums quickly. Even more fun all the foreplay that follows on getting ready for round two!

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By *illy IdolMan
12 weeks ago

Midlands

If I'm meeting my fwb, I'm meeting them fully loaded and unpredictable. I feel no pressure to perform and enjoy that ravenous feeling.

If it's someone I haven't met before I have succumbed to the pressure to perform and emptied the tank, but never just before a meet.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
12 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

"

Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Blessed with fast recovery time so need need to wank beforehand 😜

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By *entlemanJay39Man
12 weeks ago

Northampton


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds

5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate

Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈"


"I am a big fan of fully loaded balls before a meet. I want all the spoils in that first release especially if there has been a lot of teasing in the lead up to the meet 🍭

100% this. If I had my way he wouldn't be allowed to cum for at least 5 days prior, so he's tortured and gagging to go. Then I can see how many times I can get him to "empty" til he's done. I like a few rounds

5 days is a peppy area, 2-3+ weeks would be torturous and have you leaking out of the gate

Ahh but 2 weeks is damn fun to tease 😈😈😈😈"

Imagine after a month of No nut November 😩

The last time I was on here, I met a lady who agreed to tease me every day with Pics and Vids and as long as I agreed not to wank.

That was a fun and frustrating Nov, but a good Dec 😈

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By *r.ZeusMan
12 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

No. I’ve no need as I’ve never had an issue cumming early.

If I’ve not had a release for a few days then my partner will get the benefit when she see me.

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By *ature4fun300Man
12 weeks ago

Willaston

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By *ature4fun300Man
12 weeks ago

Willaston


"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

"

good girl

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
12 weeks ago

North West


"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex."

When you can come multiple times in quick succession and have a rolling orgasm for 15 minutes plus you don't really need to empty the tank 😈

Instead I like to add fuel to the fire by edging to make me feral. 🤣

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex."

I actually tend to not masturbate for a few days before I'm going to have sex. But I find it hard to orgasm

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

The last chap we had over after some wonderful bi foreplay and oral didn't last long once he got to fuck Mrs CD. Seeing his face and hearing his heavy breathing because he couldn't take how good the Mrs felt while he came was an awesome experience that topped off the play.

That would have been ruined if he had a quick one before he arrived.

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands


"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex.

When you can come multiple times in quick succession and have a rolling orgasm for 15 minutes plus you don't really need to empty the tank 😈

Instead I like to add fuel to the fire by edging to make me feral. 🤣"

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️"

I’ve only ever done this once, long time ago I had a really toxic person in my life, but I couldn’t say no to, she used to ask me to come over and I used to be tempted and so have a wank instead

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By *urvescurvesMan
12 weeks ago

leeds

I like to turn up and just shoot my wad, anywhere will do, tits, face, pocket, sink...get it out of the way then have a nice evening chatting and laughing.

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️

·

I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge

Both of you are philistines. If you're not masturbating whilst watching The Antiques Roadshow then you haven't really lived. You don't know how orgasmic a vintage bakelite telephone can be."

I hope you set your age filters correctly. Don’t want you getting too excited over a new Samsung.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I prefer a man with a loaded tank.. a BJ and straight down my throat, was to be able to go again though.. I wanna get messy!!

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By *ust want fun 888Man
12 weeks ago

nearby

I prefer to save it for the time as I’ve much more of a load to shoot, I get the theory that you may last longer when emptied

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By *eoBloomsMan
12 weeks ago

Springfield


"What's the female equivalent of emptying the tank ? Surely in the name of equality they should refrain from strumming the banjo for 5 days before sex.

I actually tend to not masturbate for a few days before I'm going to have sex. But I find it hard to orgasm "

Thank you for your solidarity 🤝

#NowankWednesday

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By *umalotagainMan
12 weeks ago

a town called malice

Never empty the tank but warn my meet that I might cum quickly but they are getting in all and a second round after a brief recovery

No point wasting it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
12 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️

I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "

I’ve appeared on songs of praise several times

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I arrive ready to pump the seed

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"I arrive ready to pump the seed "

What delightful phrasing!

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By *peedyGMan
12 weeks ago

Telford


"No. I’ve no need as I’ve never had an issue cumming early.

If I’ve not had a release for a few days then my partner will get the benefit when she see me. "

Same here, I'm lucky i don't cum too quick, it helps being someone who recovers quickly too.

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"Quick question for all the gents.

Do you empty your tank before you meet for sex?

Or do you prefer going with a loaded gun?"

No . make sure we have a good load from both of us for the lady and stay fully hard after cumming for more

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By *teveanddebsCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwich


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️"

We've always thought this.

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By *ruceyyMan
12 weeks ago

London

If I'm having sex with someone new prearranged, I'll usually aim for 24 hours at least without having touched myself. Sometimes longer. I last a while anyway so I might as well enjoy it as much as possible...

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By *spenfallsMan
12 weeks ago

Northamptonshire


"I can understand why men do. They might have had a previous negative experience, felt embarrassed, the idea that men need to fuck for longer. There's also a lot of pressure on men to "perform" in sex that women don't quite have.

I wish they wouldn't though. I really, really like when men are full of sexual energy. Almost needy with the desire to come deep inside me. It's a big part of why I don't want to be the night after someone has met another. You can tell when a man has tactically wanked and it's such a waste (in my eyes).

I like when men are caught by surprise with how quickly they're about to come. When they tell me to slow down or else they're going to come? Not happening. The 'oh fuck' of a man who comes with that level of urgency and desire is so very arousing.

"

Pure poetry

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Not an issue I face

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By *lint25Man
12 weeks ago

newport

If I'm meeting someone I will abstain from self satisfaction.

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By *unseeker v2Man
12 weeks ago

Cardiff

I used to see a girl who banned me from touching it the week before meets. She seemed to enjoy the resulting quick fire ejaculation. Looking back I'm surprised she never locked me up between meets

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
12 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"I suspect a large proportion of no shows are down to guys having a pre meet wank and then deciding they no longer need the sex, and just flop onto the sofa to watch the football or songs of praise. 🤷‍♂️

I watch songs of praise to wank. I like the challenge "

Have you tried 🌲🌲Carols From Kings🌲🌲?

I've got an old one on VHS, if you can get through all the instructions to come in 'Oh! Come All Ye Faithful' until the last descant chorus, it truly is joyful and triumphant.

B

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By *annessaTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Denham

Nothing is emptied - you never know what you will be asked to do

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By *oomerangboyMan
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Hell no !! Never take that edge off …..

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By *andydan69Man
12 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Like to blow n go again

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

Absolutely love when someone is fully loaded so to speak! Someone that’s as excited to be there as I am is always a preference and I kind of love when they can’t hold on! There’s something very very hot about it xx

I’m always clear that I’m looking for some sort of hours long porn star experience, not my thing at all xx 😘

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By *dnxyzMan
12 weeks ago

LondonX

I can only speak for myself. ... I prefer to go with a VERY LOADED gun. Then again I understand why guys wank before. I do not cum fast at all, so for me it is easy to hold it until the woman finished with me deep inside her and then I let myself free and let go...

Ladies first! Always! Keeps it open for a good meet and a second meet

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By *rNightMan
12 weeks ago

Coventry

I’ve often thought about this but never have. I’ve had a couple of meets where I’m having to hold back and delay because I knew I was close early, made for a poor meet because I couldn’t let myself go. Battling the inevitable.

I do actually think post-nut clarity would sometimes come into play also and I hate to let people down, that’s probably why I never have.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I pull one off first, and it doesn't stop me from performing or shooting a big load.

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