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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What would you do / say / think if, you’ve agreed to go out for a social only and during the starter he casually mentions, weaving into a conversation, that he brought some condoms with him.

For example, what supermarkets do you like, Morrisons I was there for petrol on the way here , bought some condoms….

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By *parkle1974Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd say "good for you" and change thr subject

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

If it was a social and it came out of nowhere like that it would put me off the main.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
12 weeks ago

Altrincham


"I'd say "good for you" and change thr subject "

I'd say "hand them over, I'll use them later"

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
12 weeks ago

your head

Think he always had more than just a social on his mind regardless of what had been agreed. Wouldn't see him again.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I mean I wouldn't normally go for dinner for a social, but I'd probably say "good for you, this food is lovely isn't it. I don't think I'll have the energy for anything after eating this meal. Not sure dinner was a good idea"

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By *rdere OpusCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum - ish

I’d wonder why it was being crowbarred in.

Depending on the discussions beforehand I’d potentially feel it was a bit pushy.

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

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There's not a man alive who could, let's be more realistic.

A man makes a poor, not subtle joke about them or cocks his eyebrow in what he falsely thinks is a laidback, winning fashion and tells me he has condoms?

I'd ignore him and talk about cheese. Or nip outside to check my friend is okay as I've a few missed calls.

You're welcome Notts.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
12 weeks ago

Hatfield


"What would you do / say / think if, you’ve agreed to go out for a social only and during the starter he casually mentions, weaving into a conversation, that he brought some condoms with him.

For example, what supermarkets do you like, Morrisons I was there for petrol on the way here , bought some condoms…."

I’d say do you cum here often

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By *oeBeansMan
12 weeks ago

Derby

Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈

I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
12 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"I mean I wouldn't normally go for dinner for a social, but I'd probably say "good for you, this food is lovely isn't it. I don't think I'll have the energy for anything after eating this meal. Not sure dinner was a good idea" "

A meal that involves a starter and main... I'ma need a nap, not sex! 🤣

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄"

What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure)

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈

I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔"

Would you trim your pubes as well, just in case?

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales


"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄

What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure) "

I’d probably make a Wayne’s World joke…..again, awkwardly! 😄

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"I mean I wouldn't normally go for dinner for a social, but I'd probably say "good for you, this food is lovely isn't it. I don't think I'll have the energy for anything after eating this meal. Not sure dinner was a good idea"

A meal that involves a starter and main... I'ma need a nap, not sex! 🤣"

Exactly 😅😅

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"There's not a man alive who could, let's be more realistic.

A man makes a poor, not subtle joke about them or cocks his eyebrow in what he falsely thinks is a laidback, winning fashion and tells me he has condoms?

I'd ignore him and talk about cheese. Or nip outside to check my friend is okay as I've a few missed calls.

You're welcome Notts. "

What if he then told you he was wearing his ‘Lucky’ Y-Fronts

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By *estructionDollyWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester


"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈

I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔"

I actually don't see anything wrong with bringing condoms to a social "just incase" as things do get carried away when the chemistry is there, and it's pretty responsible actually.

Trying to force it into conversation in that manner would make me cringe a bit though

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By *oeBeansMan
12 weeks ago

Derby


"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈

I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔

Would you trim your pubes as well, just in case? "

Oh definitely. Even if nothing happens, having a wank with a freshly shaved cock just hits different 👌

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Oh God, why would the guy casually bring it up like that? 🙈

I won't lie, I'd bring a couple in case anything did happen after but I wouldn't bring it up... But then would that run the risk of coming across as presumptuous if anything did happen? 🤔

I actually don't see anything wrong with bringing condoms to a social "just incase" as things do get carried away when the chemistry is there…"

🫢

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
12 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
12 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I'd smile. I wouldn't embarrass myself by being outraged by it by assuming he meant to use them that evening or with me.

If he said he'd bought a french stick I wouldn't assume he expected me to eat it.

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

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"What if he then told you he was wearing his ‘Lucky’ Y-Fronts "

A middle aged man in sag... sorry lucky Y-fronts is a sight no woman under the age of 40 can resist.

Swoon a bit and feel my cotton panties become moist. Standard response.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
12 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Bringing condoms to a social… nothing wrong at all, it’s “just incase” but to announce it is just a no… I’d likely make a sarcastic remark and carry on the conversation as if it never happened, but lose any interest in contact with him again

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By *weetncurvyWoman
12 weeks ago

Perth

I would just innocently ask what time his next meet was planned for

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable

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By *rdere OpusCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum - ish


"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable "

So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂

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By *ad NannaWoman
12 weeks ago

East London

I'd mention how I hadn't shaved below my neck for weeks, had a UTI and had diarrhoea earlier in the day,after my bath.

Unless he was really fit though, and I fancied a fuck

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable

So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂"

It happened to me! Just wondered what women would feel like if men behave like that

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By *rdere OpusCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum - ish


"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable

So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂

It happened to me! Just wondered what women would feel like if men behave like that

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Noted! How did you feel?

I think either way it has the potential to feel pushy. It’s one thing to take them. It’s fair to mention if the conversation drifts onto this has gone well, are we both into taking it further today. But it’s an awkward way of initiating that conversation.

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Seriously though adding on the lucky underwear and ‘trimming’ would you begin to wonder he had an agenda and would you feel offended or uncomfortable

So Mr N are you going to tell us what it’s all about? Seeing if you did it right? Wondering how to conduct your next social? Entertaining yourself with the answers? 😂

It happened to me! Just wondered what women would feel like if men behave like that

Noted! How did you feel?

I think either way it has the potential to feel pushy. It’s one thing to take them. It’s fair to mention if the conversation drifts onto this has gone well, are we both into taking it further today. But it’s an awkward way of initiating that conversation. "

When women are pushy is just called being flirty, isn’t it?

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By *ig Handsome DMan
12 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄

What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure)

I’d probably make a Wayne’s World joke…..again, awkwardly! 😄"

Zang! 👍

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
12 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'd change the subject and feel uncomfortable

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands


"I’d probably try to ignore it and start awkwardly discussing the Morrisons petrol part of the statement xx 😄

What if he then added that they were ribbed (for her pleasure)

I’d probably make a Wayne’s World joke…..again, awkwardly! 😄

Zang! 👍"

Schwing!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think he's pushing boundaries already established prior to the social and that he will continue to not respect my boundaries if I allow it to continue.

But, I know how defensive people get about things, and there's no point having a totally shit time for everyone.

I'll stick around for the social, I know I can be quick on the snap judgements, and so I like to give people a chance to prove they're better than what could just be a nervous slip. But I'd hold it in mind, and if it was 'joked' about at all during after that point it'd be a firm goodbye 💜

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

So that's where I went wrong!

It was a 10 pack too 🤣🤣

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

I'd remind him that we're needing for a social. It could potentially lead to never having another meet if he's not respectful of boundaries. It might be he's just nervous and regrets saying it

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By *orphia2003Woman
12 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

That's nice for you. Not sure why you felt the need to tell me though.

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