FabSwingers.com forum: put off straight away

By *romley boy49 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Essex

arranged a meet today after several messages, around 10 miles away so not to far, but as soon as i got there well i dont think furniture polish, cleaning spray, and even a hoover has been on there shopping list recently, made my excuses and left, anyone else had this issue before or am i being to picky

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By *ax_glasscotMan
11 weeks ago

glasgow

Yes.

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By *iresmillyWoman
11 weeks ago

Stillorgan

Yep- met a lovely lad, had a cup of tea, went to the bedroom and blood on the sheets- not a huge amount, but like a nose bleed in a few places- there he was, trying to tempt me with restraints- not a hope and not today Satan!! I made my excuses!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Was there not any hint of it in their photos to warn you of it?

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

No you're not being picky. You're adhering to your principles.

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By *ottom charlieMan
11 weeks ago

Washington

"arranged a meet today after several messages, around 10 miles away so not to far, but as soon as i got there well i dont think furniture polish, cleaning spray, and even a hoover has been on there shopping list recently, made my excuses and left, anyone else had this issue before or am i being to picky"
yes once went to meet a guy at his place in newcastle,,, went up to the bedroom and there was hair and fluff up either side of the stairs and all around the edges of the bedroom and curtains were nailed on to the window frames and did not shut in the middle,,, people in an old folks home could see straight into the room,,

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

Not a chance I would go to someone's house after a few messages or vice versa. I think you can often get a 'feel' for these things

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By *tormidaysWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Not picky, repsect for your environment indicates respect for yourself I think

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

So you arranged to meet someone the same day after a few messages but her house wasn't clean so you didn't fuck?

None of that screams picky, don't worry about it.

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By *romley boy49 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Essex

no nothing

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By *sWyldWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

And this is why I won't go to someone's house and always want a social first

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

Several messages?

The old adage 'play silly games, win silly prizes' spring's to mind.

Fab roulette.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Lol love a bit of reading, good luck out there fabbers

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By *aitonelMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

Was she hot?

Whip out a duster first and the get to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

House meets wouldn’t be for us unless we knew the person/couple. It’s definitely not being picky though if hygiene is in question you’re well within your rights to move on (mr)

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By *eoBloomsMan
11 weeks ago

Springfield

"No you're not being picky. You're adhering to your principles."

Sounds like he could have adhered to the furniture 🙈

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By *oxychicWoman
11 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"No you're not being picky. You're adhering to your principles.

Sounds like he could have adhered to the furniture 🙈"

Or stuck to the floor , was it wipe your feet on the way out lol 😂😂😂

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By *eoBloomsMan
11 weeks ago

Springfield

"No you're not being picky. You're adhering to your principles.

Sounds like he could have adhered to the furniture 🙈

Or stuck to the floor , was it wipe your feet on the way out lol 😂😂😂"

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By *he MinionMan
11 weeks ago

In the style of Viz Top Tips..

Cant be arsed to clean your house but have a hot date coming round ?

Make out you are kinky and upon opening the front door to them, blindfold them immediately.

Oh and dont take it off till they are half way out the door again.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

Maybe they thought they'd get a sympathy housekeeping and shags?

It's right to politely move on, when someone or something isn't right for you

I've done it

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By *a LunaWoman
11 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Some people just don’t see mess.

That’s not an excuse, but just how it is with some folk.

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By *mizhereMan
11 weeks ago

Thame area

No excuse for an untidy home or bad hygiene

It's not hard

I've walked away because of both and one where the lady was being coerced by hubby

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
11 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

I wonder if she’s reading this thread 😂

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By *urry BlokeMan
11 weeks ago

So, when they said 'bring rubbers', they meant gloves not condoms

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

"I wonder if she’s reading this thread 😂"

You assume it was a she?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
11 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"I wonder if she’s reading this thread 😂

You assume it was a she? "
I do think this could also be a woman thing as well as a guy thing

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

"I wonder if she’s reading this thread 😂

You assume it was a she? I do think this could also be a woman thing as well as a guy thing "

Oh for sure both, but in this instance he didn’t specify the gender.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
11 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"I wonder if she’s reading this thread 😂

You assume it was a she? I do think this could also be a woman thing as well as a guy thing

Oh for sure both, but in this instance he didn’t specify the gender. "

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By *ic0Man
11 weeks ago

Ware

What was the excuse? I think I’d have probably done it and then hated myself eternally afterwards

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
11 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

I would have absolutely gone ahead still.

My dick has led me to places I wouldn't even go with a gun.

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By *vonne5exMan
11 weeks ago

Doncaster

"arranged a meet today after several messages, around 10 miles away so not to far, but as soon as i got there well i dont think furniture polish, cleaning spray, and even a hoover has been on there shopping list recently, made my excuses and left, anyone else had this issue before or am i being to picky"
I've lived by myself for the last 15 years and when I bring a lady back they can't believe how clean I keep my house, it's not hard work either, I went to work today at 4am, 3 hour drive there and a 3 hour drive back at 1pm, I put the kettle on and hoovered up while I waited

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
11 weeks ago

scunthorpe

"I would have absolutely gone ahead still.

My dick has led me to places I wouldn't even go with a gun."

I’m sorry but this did make me chuckle 😂😂

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By *umagainandagainMan
11 weeks ago

Altrincham

I went to see a TV i had been talking to. I had only seen her from the neck down so i didn't know what to expect. I couldn't believe it when she had a beard. It was a major turn off. I still fucked her but never went back for seconds.

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By *aissez-faireMan
11 weeks ago

Right behind you…. Boo

"I would have absolutely gone ahead still.

My dick has led me to places I wouldn't even go with a gun."

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By *punk n gushCouple
11 weeks ago

deal

We had this went to a man's house one night and was pretty grim mess and dirt everywhere could tell he hadn't cleaned in years and he smelt as bad we were honest and told him so sorry but I won't sugar coat things to spare people's feeling

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
11 weeks ago

Altrincham

I'm picky AF, not a chance, I'd be outta there 🤷🏼‍♂️

I have standards

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By *and12Couple
11 weeks ago

flint

We had a meet when we arrived the couple greeted us with a glass of beer each

he spent the next 3 hrs talking to my boob's and she spent hours going round with a cloth and bleach cleaning up then said wasn't interested in swapping but was happy for him to play with me we didn't stay and slept in the car down the road

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By *dalisqueWoman
11 weeks ago

land of make believe

"I would have absolutely gone ahead still.

My dick has led me to places I wouldn't even go with a gun."

🤣🤣🤣

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
11 weeks ago

South Wales

We would be exactly the same…..this is why we always try and host if possible or meet at clubs! Xx

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By *romley boy49 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Essex

didnt expect as much positive backing to this thread, yes she was not bad looking friendly and polite, but i guess we all have standards, advice from some of you about meeting socialy first is a good idea, but until you get into anyones home you just dont know, enjoy the warm weather everone and take care x

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By *rikTheVikingMan
11 weeks ago

Swansea

I once met a woman mid 60s, very attractive, amazing figure, Incredibly posh on the phone and in her photo's..

Turned up at her's on time, house stank of rollie's and to the point my eyes were stinging (she'd clicked non smoker on profile, although i will meet smokers , not ashtrays), she had a dog and there was dog hair everywhere, literally don't think the place had been hoovered or any cleaning done for years,and feces in the carpets.. I asked as it was a nice day to sit outside for a cuppa (couldn't stand the smell any longer inside), tried to give benefit of the doubt as we did get on well on the phone.. Outside was 10x worse , shite everywhere..

I said I wasn't feeling to well and I'd have to go.. I can't imagine how that bedroom looked.. Didn't take the risk...

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By *idssissyTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I try to keep my place clean but my mh acts up and at times it becomes difficult.

When I used to have meets they often happened in my hall way or one room.

Currently have marked as non accommodation as I know it annoy people but try to keep one room tidy enough for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I am looking for naked cleaner 😁 must be hot attractive skills washing dishes and dusting making brews 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

My bedroom carnt be that bad 🤣 he was only supposed to stay few hours but stayed 2 days I done my bedroom like forest 🌳🌳🌳🌳🌾

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