FabSwingers.com forum: Girls!...how many men are truly able to make you come just using their tongue? (2)

By *utofthebluexxx OP Woman
11 weeks ago

London

I found this Lounge’s museum masterpiece. Must be old because almost all the forumites on there have got UNLOS.

The replies really blew my mind.

What do you think about it?

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/240167

In my case, just two partners have met the expectations. Two more guys did a decent job, but because it can take a long, I felt they were losing their enthusiasm turning me off immediately.

To please a woman is not easy at all. You need to be patient, show a constant burning desire, paint all over the canvas and don't forget the frame too, have a velvet tongue and soft moist lips, find the perfect in-crescendo rhythm and nail the timing to go deep and hard.

So, how many? 👅🥵❤️‍🔥

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By *a LunaWoman
11 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Two. But that was only because they were doing something else that I find hot.

Their technique was nothing to do with my pleasure.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm that easily stimulated I'm pretty sure anyone could do it if I was remotely into it 💜

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By *each needs some creamWoman
11 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I think I have lost count, they have been a few that haven't, but most guys have.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

My favourite comment in that old thread:

"Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …"

🤣

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By *estructionDollyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Nobody has ever made me cum with their tongue alone. I need vigorous stimulation for quite a long time, a tongue alone just can't achieve it.

That doesn't mean I don't enjoy oral. But I need something extra to tip me over the edge.

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"My favourite comment in that old thread:

Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …

🤣"

Anticlockwise apparently works better.

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By *usty kayWoman
11 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

I'm not sure I've ever cum from tongue alone, need fingers too.

I can't take an age to cum and honestly get bored after a few minutes

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

I definitely won't say that everyone who has attempted it has managed it because some people are not skilled in this area.

But if you're into it and I'm into it? Fireworks most times.

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By *utofthebluexxx OP Woman
11 weeks ago

London

"My favourite comment in that old thread:

Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …

🤣"

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
11 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Only one so far! A lot just don’t have the patience

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Nobody has ever made me cum with their tongue alone. I need vigorous stimulation for quite a long time, a tongue alone just can't achieve it. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy oral. But I need something extra to tip me over the edge. "

I know it’s a cliché, but … every woman’s different.

Sometimes the anticipation is so high, that the barest touch and lick is enough. Sometimes I can be down there between your thighs for a long, long time with tongue, lips and fingers. Some girls just need the focus on their clit. Others want penetration, and for those women a tongue alone is never enough. And on top of that, even the same person reacts differently at different times.

It’s that variety that keeps things interesting, right?

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
11 weeks ago

Aberdeen

None that I can think of, I take forever to orgasm and definitely need the fingers to achieve it. Even then it's not a given it will happen.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I know it’s a cliché, but … every woman’s different.

It’s that variety that keeps things interesting, right?"

This is it, it would boring if sex was the same every single time with every single person. This is why I like variety

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
11 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

In.

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By *sWyldWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes it happens, and sometimes it doesn't. That's ok .

However,from my experiences its as much about my head space at the time as it is about what the other person is doing and how.

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
11 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

Only my husband so far 😜🥵

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By *G TMan
11 weeks ago

birmingham

"Two. But that was only because they were doing something else that I find hot.

Their technique was nothing to do with my pleasure."

Finger in the bum at the same time?.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

Quite a few...

My favorite way 😈

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

A fair few over the years.

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By *elix85Man
11 weeks ago

Peterborough

"My favourite comment in that old thread:

Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …

🤣

Anticlockwise apparently works better."

That and the hour hand occasionally being stuck at 1pm.

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By *elix85Man
11 weeks ago

Peterborough

I like to vary things up by inserting a finger (or two) and massaging the g-spot. However, for *some* women, this can be too stimulating, requiring me to focus solely on one ‘act’ or the other. So I have found that the tongue can indeed do it alone.

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By *ueandbillCouple
11 weeks ago

Leyland

Hubby is a expert, every time

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
11 weeks ago

Preston

Hubby without fail and a few lovely guys over the years

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By *huck5772Man
11 weeks ago

dukinfield

"Hubby without fail and a few lovely guys over the years

I'd love to try

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By *cottish guy 555Man
11 weeks ago

London

I couldn't possibly comment. It would be for those who have met me to say.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Many have tried, many have failed.....

It's rare, luckily the husband can, but it's that rare I'd rather avoid blokes bothering to try, stick to women 😂

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By *umagainandagainMan
11 weeks ago

Altrincham

I bet i could make you cum just with my tongue

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By *dalisqueWoman
11 weeks ago

land of make believe

If my mind is stimulated first,the anticipation alone is enough.

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?

I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.

My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor.

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By *asty tatsyMan
11 weeks ago

london

I’m in 😁

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By *edSirenWoman
11 weeks ago

magic mountain

With just their mouth? No fingers too? And a hard hard holy fucking shit cum?

Red & women - 3

Red & men - 1

Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘

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By *asty tatsyMan
11 weeks ago

london

"With just their mouth? No fingers too? And a hard hard holy fucking shit cum?

Red & women - 3

Red & men - 2 pending

Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘"

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By *avie65Man
11 weeks ago

In the west.

If only I was able to write out the Chinese alphabet with my tongue.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘"

What about Red & couples?

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By *edSirenWoman
11 weeks ago

magic mountain

"With just their mouth? No fingers too? And a hard hard holy fucking shit cum?

Red & women - 3

Red & men - 2 pending

Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘"

I like the confidence 😉

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
11 weeks ago

little house on the praire

op put the name of the thread as I can't copy and I will try and guess the users

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By *edSirenWoman
11 weeks ago

magic mountain

"Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘

What about Red & couples? "

I was counting them according to which made me gush 😁 however if you’re talking about them going down together… especially when it involves a certain sexy lady… I suppose I’d be up for it. Purely for the interests of sexual science of course 🤓😁

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
11 weeks ago

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Only 2 I think….

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
11 weeks ago

little house on the praire

have zero idea

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
11 weeks ago

Hatfield

"Only 2 I think…. "

I’d like to try for 3 please …

To have a lady hold my head and cum as I’m tonguing her is one of my life’s pleasures … so horny ..

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
11 weeks ago

Cork

Just 1, there have been a few who said they could and never managed but have 1 that does it evey time

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?

I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.

My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor."

Personally it's a man skill issue from my side, you try and direct they just do whatever they want regardless....

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
11 weeks ago

Hatfield

"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?

I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.

My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor.

Personally it's a man skill issue from my side, you try and direct they just do whatever they want regardless...."

Not all of us …

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

"Just 1, there have been a few who said they could and never managed but have 1 that does it evey time"

Rookie mistake. Like the squirt guys with magic fingers who could make Mother Theresa gush in the Gobi desert

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By *aoirse NaughtyWoman
11 weeks ago

Cork

"Just 1, there have been a few who said they could and never managed but have 1 that does it evey time

Rookie mistake. Like the squirt guys with magic fingers who could make Mother Theresa gush in the Gobi desert "

Most guys get too distracted and dont put the time in or listen to me when I tell them what works and what doesent

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?

I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.

My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor.

Personally it's a man skill issue from my side, you try and direct they just do whatever they want regardless...."

Fair. Communication is a requisite skill

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By *IXEN200Woman
11 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

There's been no man that's made me cum with oral at all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
11 weeks ago

little house on the praire

To be honest I've never really given it much thought, but now it's mentioned I like a guy to insert his fingers at the same time

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I was counting them according to which made me gush 😁 however if you’re talking about them going down together… especially when it involves a certain sexy lady… I suppose I’d be up for it. Purely for the interests of sexual science of course 🤓😁"

Purely for science. Of course.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We've met some lovely couples and the men have always succeeded.

Most of the solo men have been a huge disappointment.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
11 weeks ago

North East / London

My favourite, but good cunnilingus is always a duet it needs active participation for both parties.

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By *tormidaysWoman
11 weeks ago

Manchester

It cam be a bit of a lottery, you can always tell when guys are just dialing it in

Being in the hands of an enthusiast who loves doing it is a joy 🥰

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

"Is this really a skill issue for men or is it a simple factor of a ladies ability to cum in a given set of circumstances?

I'm just asking because I know who are orgasm machines and will get there on a strong breeze and I also know women who need things to be just right before they can get there.

My oral skills are not usually the deciding factor."

I'm one of those women who can get there on a strong breeze. Multiple times. It's great. Of course it is.

I can count on a few fingers the amount of people I've come from oral alone with. I think I'm quite good at communicating during sex, verbally and with body language but perhaps it's something I need to work on.

Many reasons why - men forget to almost warm me up in the excitement of it. Straight to where you think the clit is really frickin' hurts.

- They're not really in to it.

- They're using it as a way to get to fucking (skip it, let's get straight to it).

It's also... why do people speed up when you're closer to orgasm? I get men fuck harder etc when they're close but that change in rhythm always stops me. Stick to what you're doing, please.

And sometimes it's me. I feel more comfortable giving oral because I'm more likely to be aroused from it. Really enjoy it. Relax in to it. It keeps the desire feedback loop going.

The times when someone has been really in to it, they're not in a rush to be fucking me? It's been really good. I wouldn't say orgasms are as important as getting there but when your body is as responsive as mine sometimes it can be a bit frustrating.

I tend to say I don't really like receiving oral and then it avoids all the above.

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

I can't remember where I read/heard/saw to not change rhythm when a woman is climaxing but I realised I definitely did go harder when I thought the moment was right. Turns out the moment is often much, much later than I thought

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By *isskxxyvWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

One man🙈🤣

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

"I can't remember where I read/heard/saw to not change rhythm when a woman is climaxing but I realised I definitely did go harder when I thought the moment was right. Turns out the moment is often much, much later than I thought

Yep. It makes sense and I completely get why people do it. Men do it naturally when they're about to come without thinking about it, they think oh women must be the same, they must want harder.

Some probably do. I really don't. Consistency is enough.

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

When women say that men don't listen, so they mean they use words to say what they like or don't? Or do they mean men don't read clearly communicated signs like moans of encouragement and bucking hips?

I've only ever met one woman who actually told me exactly what to do in words. In fact she took my finger and literally showed me what to do. I was 19.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

"Soz guys, you lose to the women 😘

What about Red & couples?

In the name of science… I volunteer as tribute 🥵🥵

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
11 weeks ago

Ilford

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
11 weeks ago

Ilford

"My favourite comment in that old thread:

Well we could go round in circles forever with this one …

🤣

Anticlockwise apparently works better."

Sounds logical, like operating a screwdriver... Righty tighty, lefty loosey...

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"In the name of science… I volunteer as tribute 🥵🥵"

Wait, does that mean me & Red going down on you? This changes everything.

Red, I’ll need an adjudication from you here. This could require a whole new scoring system.

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By *xfordjohnMan
11 weeks ago

Oxford

Are men allowed to comment here?

The lady I met last week came three times from my tongue and not at all from penetration so I must have been doing something right.

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By *utofthebluexxx OP Woman
11 weeks ago

London

"op put the name of the thread as I can't copy and I will try and guess the users"

Sorry for my late reply Diamond

Here we go:

girls!.....how many men are truly able to make you come just using their tongue

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By *FF23Man
11 weeks ago

London

I love nothing more than making a partner cum with my mouth and tongue. Such a turn on. Feeling the shudder through their body. And licking up every drop from between their legs.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
11 weeks ago

Cardiff

Nobody yet

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By *FF23Man
11 weeks ago

London

"Nobody yet"

Challenge accepted. Say when and where. X

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Less than a handful for me as I require a very acquired skill set and technique but Mr can make me cum through tongue, fingers and cock every single time without fail no matter what he uses! That’s why he’s the best in my opinion!

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By *ust want fun 888Man
11 weeks ago

nearby

I’ve never known, but when giving oral to women, my whole intention is to make them come if I can

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By *ondonlad90Man
11 weeks ago

London

Yes but have to get the fingers involved too hahah

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By *aybeLadyWoman
11 weeks ago

West Dublin

None.

I actually dont like oral being done to me. Survived an 18yr marriage without it so now, tbh its something foreign to me & I dont see the point 🙈

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
11 weeks ago

Markfield

None for solely oral. There has to be additional stimulation too it seems. Happy to keep trying tho!

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By *loriouscurvesWoman
11 weeks ago

wild west lothian

I’m pretty responsive so I usually do.

The best ones put me into multiples……

If I don’t it’s usually because I’m tired or head is elsewhere

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By *vaRoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

It depends on the man. Some just seem to know EXACTLY how I like it, they’re observant and adjust what they’re doing based on my response. Most however think it’s a one method fits all

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Most however think it’s a one method fits all"

Well that just seems dumb.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hubby is the only man

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By *odgerMooreMan
11 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

Every woman is different but if you ‘tune in the radio…. And feed the horse!!’ You will be waist deep in lady juices every single time - ive done it on a simulator…. On the X Box - so I know what Im talking about !!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I don't cum from just a tongue.

However, when James starts nibbling my clit. Whoah baby

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By *inx000Couple
11 weeks ago

Manchester

It's very difficult to be able to cum by a guy or girl just using their tongue.But it has happened to me once which was unexpected and so damn hot and intense.🔥

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
11 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Just my husband. Maybe my ex fiancé, Idk. I usually need fingers too, but Mr.DS can definitely get me there with just his tongue, it just takes longer.

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By *loydyMan
11 weeks ago

British

If you can't your probably like most men don't know wer the clit is lol

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By *utofthebluexxx OP Woman
11 weeks ago

London

"Nobody yet

Challenge accepted. Say when and where. X

So confident ❤️‍🔥

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By *itty69xWoman
11 weeks ago

all over

Only 3 have succeeded but this is more a me problem than them.

I’m very insecure about my large labia that I struggle to relax when a man is down there.

Regular meets/relationships (like the 3) definitely made me relax and be able to enjoy it

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By *entlemanFoxMan
11 weeks ago

North East / London

"Only 3 have succeeded but this is more a me problem than them.

I’m very insecure about my large labia that I struggle to relax when a man is down there.

Regular meets/relationships (like the 3) definitely made me relax and be able to enjoy it"

It’s a funny old world, I have a lady friend who doesn’t like that she has small labia and would like them larger.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
11 weeks ago

Up North

I don’t think I’ve ever climaxed from tongue alone. Fingers usually need to be involved.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
11 weeks ago

Altrincham

Many years ago there was one, then alot who couldn't in between, now hubby can and the BF can too

Imma lucky girl 😁

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By *urora1912Woman
11 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

Just their tongue? None

Fingers are needed too

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
11 weeks ago

North West

"Just their tongue? None

Fingers are needed too "

Yep - same as this!

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
11 weeks ago

Hatfield

I’m pleased to say my tongue and finger technique as taught by first gf has stood me in good stead’s and made a few lovely ladies enjoy having my head between their thighs …

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By *forfuntimesCouple
11 weeks ago

Sheffield

Mr2forfun can always make me cum with just his tongue... probably why i married him..lol

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By *ryorkshirepleaserMan
11 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Easiest way to make a woman cum in my experiences

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By *lue morphoCouple
10 weeks ago

north west

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