FabSwingers.com forum: Do you care if people like you

By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

I am not bothered

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Sort of... It's nice to be liked but I don't bank my life on it

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

No I don’t care either

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I am the same now, but I used to be a people pleaser.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
12 weeks ago

Always on the move

It's nice to be liked I think, and I care to an extent, but I also understand we can't all be everyone's cup of tea.

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By *an8iMan
12 weeks ago

Bilston

"I am not bothered "

I'm not bothered either, im adorable so it's their problem not mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

I just do what I like doing that's it

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By *idssissyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Often seeking Approval from others too much

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By *aulhcMan
12 weeks ago

here and there

Could not care less!

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By *issFussyWoman
12 weeks ago

hitchin

I’d be surprised if they did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I am the same now, but I used to be a people pleaser."
me too I used to help people out all time people took the Piss I don't bother anymore I have got few nice people in my life

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If someone decides they don’t like me then I can live with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"Often seeking Approval from others too much "
I used to do that when I was younger but I am nearly 52 I don't care anymore

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
12 weeks ago

The Fortress of Solitude

Depends on the person. Some people’s views of me I take very seriously. Others? Not so much…

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum

I don’t care what the weatherman says

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
12 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Not a single fuck given. It's a them problem

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

It’s always nice to be liked but I know there’s always going to be people that don’t like me and I’m ok with that xx 😄

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

If you care what other people think about you, you'll constantly be restricted to do what you want to do.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

"I am not bothered "

Same girl!

No matter who you are, what you look like, what you do. Someone is ALWAYS going to have something to say, so fucking let them.

We all experience life differently which shapes our views and opinions, therefore it’s impossible to please everyone.

So fuck them! 😀

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
12 weeks ago

houghton

Nah, I’m an acquired taste

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By *ocokid69Man
12 weeks ago

leeds

Not arsed at all, their loss. No point in trying to please everyone, you'll never be happy.

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By *ealitybitesMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes,I care what people who really know me think of me.

I care what people I like and care about think of me.

I'm not bothered about anyone else's opinion.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
12 weeks ago

Altrincham

I used to be but now I'm not bothered, if they like me I'm a nicer person, if they don't like me I become more irritating 😂

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
12 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Nah, we never have and we never will.

Trying to please everyone all the time must be exhasuting

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By *inkywife1981Couple
12 weeks ago

A town near you

I'm a pretty laid back guy and easy going and tend to get along easily with people so don't tend to fret over how people might feel about me.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
12 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

I like being liked but if I’m not for you then I’m ok with that, not everyone can like You

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By *lessandra_BWoman
12 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"Often seeking Approval from others too much I used to do that when I was younger but I am nearly 52 I don't care anymore "

Same here. And certain experiences over the past few years have led to me having some trust issues, so now it's just easier to keep people at arms length and not give a f**k what anyone thinks of me.

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By *oe n JayCouple
12 weeks ago

Surrey

"I am not bothered "

It's nice to feel important but it's important to be nice.

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By *exytimeCoolMan
12 weeks ago

swadlincote

Like me or dont i will sleep tonight

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By *ootnootboopCouple
12 weeks ago

Cheshire

Can't please everybody as they say!

We're just us, that means we'll treat you with respect and be generally all round nice to you, but we're definitely not people pleasers.

It's nice to be liked, but at the end of the day, it's healthy to have a recognition that trying to care what everyone thinks is really unhealthy. There will always be people who don't like you and that's totally ok.

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By *oeBeansMan
12 weeks ago

London

Yeah, I care if I think they seem cool and I like them, otherwise I'm not really bothered.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Depends on who it is.

Most people like me though. I’m fairly likeable 😬

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By *itty9899Man
12 weeks ago

Craggy Island

No.

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By *h86Man
12 weeks ago

Nearby

Id like to not be hated, but I cant ask any more than that. Its nice to be liked but I dont spend much of my life thinking about it

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By *he MinionMan
12 weeks ago

"Sort of... It's nice to be liked but I don't bank my life on it"

This

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
12 weeks ago

Aberdeen

No I'm not bothered, I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's ok.

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By *electableicecreamMan
12 weeks ago

The West

I used to. Age seems to have fixed it.

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
12 weeks ago

The Lake District

Not at all,feeling is mutual if im not liked by someone,thats there decision

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By *oxychicWoman
12 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

I dont care wether ppl like me or not, the only ppl I care wether they do or not is my kids and my close family xx☺️

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"I used to. Age seems to have fixed it."
me too

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
12 weeks ago

scunthorpe

Nope. I used to try to please people but now, I couldn’t care less. As I get older I’m finding it a lot easier to cut people out of my life without a second thought.

Donna

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By *Silver-Man
12 weeks ago

North Wales

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By *rSuave88Man
12 weeks ago

Mirfield

The older i get, the less im bothered. Youre never going to please everybody and not everyone deserves your time. I keep my energy for those that deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"The older i get, the less im bothered. Youre never going to please everybody and not everyone deserves your time. I keep my energy for those that deserve it. "
totally agree 👍

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By *ilbzMan
12 weeks ago

Swindon Wiltshire

No its never bothered me at all.

Plus working as a mechanic everyone wants to be your friend for one reason and one reason only, thinking they were your friend they’d get it done for free.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

"Often seeking Approval from others too much I used to do that when I was younger but I am nearly 52 I don't care anymore "

I still have not learnt to

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Only those I like, if they didn't like me back I'd be a little sad.

Those I don't, which is most, I don't care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

"No its never bothered me at all.

Plus working as a mechanic everyone wants to be your friend for one reason and one reason only, thinking they were your friend they’d get it done for free. "
🤣🤣

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By *eoBloomsMan
12 weeks ago

Springfield

Yes, but people generally like me anyway.

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By *punk n gushCouple
12 weeks ago

deal

Nope....

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

People in general? Not really. I know most people actively dislike the me on show and I'm okay with that.

The majority of people who have gotten to actually know me have stuck around and seem to like me. That's good enough for me 💜

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By *mmaleiaWoman
12 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Only if the people are important to me.

In general I couldn’t care either way, I don’t over think it

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By *asty tatsyMan
12 weeks ago

london

It doesn’t bother me if I’m liked by others or not. I don’t do fake

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"People in general? Not really. I know most people actively dislike the me on show and I'm okay with that.

The majority of people who have gotten to actually know me have stuck around and seem to like me. That's good enough for me 💜"

I think you're great

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By *ookie46Woman
12 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Can’t be everyone’s cup of tea

In the past I would have said it bothered me a little bit but mindset changed

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I truly believe the adage you can't please all the people all the time and understand one persons heaven is another persons hell, but that doesn't stop me from trying! I don't like to be disliked (a bitter pill, knowing there are a few out there that don't - but as Philosophised above, that's a them problem)

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Can’t be everyone’s cup of tea

In the past I would have said it bothered me a little bit but mindset changed "

Ah you're absolutely awesome cookie x

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Everyone wants to be liked, but not everyone can like each other 🤓

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
12 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

You cant be everything for everyone.

Theres nothing I can do if people dont like me, I just hope the people I like, like me. Everyone else doesn’t matter.

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By *igboobstCouple
12 weeks ago

barrow

Naaa if you like us you like us if not who cares? not us anyhooo

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By *oughmanMan
12 weeks ago

Sunderland

Not really. I just try to be the least offensive to the most people.

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By *orbidden eastMan
12 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

No, never. Hence why I am just me and always me.

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By *ellinever70Woman
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think most of us care that at least some of the people we like, like us

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By *iura1234Man
12 weeks ago

aberdeen

We all like a little attention but if people care about people not liking them that they haven’t met then they really are not ready for a site like this

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By *B..Woman
12 weeks ago

Wiltshire

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

No not at all, people ewwww

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By *midnight-Woman
12 weeks ago

...

Yeah I'd prefer for people to like me, rather than dislike me... Isn't that natural?

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By *uke_silverMan
12 weeks ago

London

"Yeah I'd prefer for people to like me, rather than dislike me... Isn't that natural? "

This. Not everyone has to think I'm the bomb of course, but I'd be a disappointed if someone actively disliked me.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I dont mind if there's a valid reason.

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
12 weeks ago

Cotswolds

I absolutely couldn't give a shit

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By *avie65Man
12 weeks ago

In the west.

If it’s some random or a twat then no.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think."

Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣

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By *peedyGMan
12 weeks ago

Telford

"Nah, I’m an acquired taste "

Same here.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Pah.. I thought the people I like, liked me.. apparently I was mistaken 🤣🤷

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By *ozzybear1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.

Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣"

😳

I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.

Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣

😳

I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂"

We're not friends according to my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Nope, not on this site. There are people I don't particularly find appealing and I'm sure some feel the same way about me. No skin off my dick, well there is really.

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By *r Man45Man
12 weeks ago

North West

I try to be a nice person to everyone, so if someone doesnt like me, it does bother and like to know why they don't.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.

Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣

😳

I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

We're not friends according to my profile!

A profile doesn’t necessarily mean that two people aren’t friends 😂

And I’ve not long been back on fabs after a break 😂

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I am generally nice to most people

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By *ottom4topxMan
12 weeks ago

Derry

Couldn't careless tbh

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.

Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣

😳

I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

We're not friends according to my profile!

A profile doesn’t necessarily mean that two people aren’t friends 😂

And I’ve not long been back on fabs after a break 😂"

Fair enough..I have forgiven you for ditching me last summer 🤣.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"Not in the slightest.

If someone doesn’t like me then that’s on them, it has no concern to me what those people think.

Pah though we were friends... Apparently not 🤣

😳

I didn’t think that we wasn’t 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

We're not friends according to my profile!

A profile doesn’t necessarily mean that two people aren’t friends 😂

And I’ve not long been back on fabs after a break 😂

Fair enough..I have forgiven you for ditching me last summer 🤣. "

😂

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I wonder whether it's because I don't care that I'm not very likeable or if it's because I'm not very likeable that I don't care.

That's not true, I don't wonder that at all. I thought about it 30 seconds ago and now my brain has moved onto thoughts of cheeseburgers. I really want a Baconator.

If someone buys me a Baconator I'll totally care. Even a Big Mac, I'm pretty low maintenance.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
12 weeks ago

London

No x

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
12 weeks ago

wonderland.

I used to... but now... nope. X

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By *armite 500Man
12 weeks ago

Darlington

Definitely not

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By *leep walkerMan
12 weeks ago

Caerphilly

"Often seeking Approval from others too much I used to do that when I was younger but I am nearly 52 I don't care anymore "

Snap.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Definitely not "

Well people either like you or they don't 🤣

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
12 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I care what my family and friends think and I don't care much for anyone else but it is nice when someone says something nice

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By *armite 500Man
12 weeks ago

Darlington

"Definitely not

Well people either like you or they don't 🤣"

This is true 🤣

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