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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Hey folks i see quite a few posts that seem to say your only a swinger if you do this or that.

Come on we are all slightly outside the norm just by being on this site so come on be nice to each other.

Please if you just wanna be nagative try finding a bitter and twisted chat site some place cos sick of hearing it on here.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Now you've started it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice sentiment!!! xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

awwwwww dont wanna start a fight just some love and harmony honest

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tolerance and respect comes to mind!!

As with anything else there is no black or white, loads of shades of grey! Wouldn't do for everyone to be the same, life would be very boring if we were..........

I just say if your on Fab, enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ach let the whingers whine the lovers love and the rampant shaggers shag!! as long as you are happy and dont have issues about what you do you have no worries!! xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"ach let the whingers whine the lovers love and the rampant shaggers shag!! as long as you are happy and dont have issues about what you do you have no worries!! xxx "

hell i am with that lady

lol fancy a shag

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can u hold off till celebrity bb is finished ...... xxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton

Dunno how long is it on for as it seems to be on all the time lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is whatever 'group' you belong to you may have a common ideal but within that you'll have variations. Some on site will take months socialising with one couple before playing and stick with that one couple. Others will post meet today and shag whatever's on offer. Still others will only play safe others bare back: a diverse section of swingers. What we should refrain from is insulting each other over choices. However, if for example, you post a thread about the joys of gang bangs and you're a fuddy duddy for not taking part in one, then you should expect people to be free to express their opposing views.

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Thing is whatever 'group' you belong to you may have a common ideal but within that you'll have variations. Some on site will take months socialising with one couple before playing and stick with that one couple. Others will post meet today and shag whatever's on offer. Still others will only play safe others bare back: a diverse section of swingers. What we should refrain from is insulting each other over choices. However, if for example, you post a thread about the joys of gang bangs and you're a fuddy duddy for not taking part in one, then you should expect people to be free to express their opposing views."

Quite agree - just seen a few sniping threads and posts recently and although a good debate is healthy and diversity is to be encouraged, there are a small minority who seem to go out of their way to snipe - live and let live is what Steve was trying to say I think Z xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Hey folks i see quite a few posts that seem to say your only a swinger if you do this or that.

Come on we are all slightly outside the norm just by being on this site so come on be nice to each other.

Please if you just wanna be nagative try finding a bitter and twisted chat site some place cos sick of hearing it on here.

Steve "

Is this just another form of dictating how it should be and restricting people to doing things the way you want it to be?... Just a thought.

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Thing is whatever 'group' you belong to you may have a common ideal but within that you'll have variations. Some on site will take months socialising with one couple before playing and stick with that one couple. Others will post meet today and shag whatever's on offer. Still others will only play safe others bare back: a diverse section of swingers. What we should refrain from is insulting each other over choices. However, if for example, you post a thread about the joys of gang bangs and you're a fuddy duddy for not taking part in one, then you should expect people to be free to express their opposing views."

yep cool with all that you say and well put i must say.

Now folks thats how your supposed to put a well composed argument on here

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what your opinions on any subject, there is always someone, somewhere with a totally opposite view. Some people can accept another persons view, just as someone else can't, and will defend their opinions to the nth degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been a firm believer in the notion that if you are going to ask a question you sometimes have to understand you are not always going to get the answer you were expecting and accept it with good grace.

It takes a very big big person to grasp that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone is entitled to an opinion and has freedom of speech and we should be thankful for that!! there is always goin to be differences in opinion. if a person can deal with it without decendin into name calling and insults and put thier point across in a civilised manner then shall be it!! how borin would it be if we all agreed on everythin!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love difference... opinions included.

and mine have changed a few times over the years..

it's life..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Quite agree - just seen a few sniping threads and posts recently and although a good debate is healthy and diversity is to be encouraged, there are a small minority who seem to go out of their way to snipe - live and let live is what Steve was trying to say I think Z xx"
I know what Steve was saying Zoe and I agree with him. It has not been pleasant on here sometimes and people seem to take offense where none, that I could see, was intended. Sadly, asking people to live and let live wont work as there will always be someone who believes they have the divine right to dictate to others! Nice try though x

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Ooooooooooooooh - looks like i have missed summat yet again

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"everyone is entitled to an opinion and has freedom of speech "

Freedom of speech, yes, freedom to insult, no, pity a minority on here have no idea of the difference

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"

Quite agree - just seen a few sniping threads and posts recently and although a good debate is healthy and diversity is to be encouraged, there are a small minority who seem to go out of their way to snipe - live and let live is what Steve was trying to say I think Z xx I know what Steve was saying Zoe and I agree with him. It has not been pleasant on here sometimes and people seem to take offense where none, that I could see, was intended. Sadly, asking people to live and let live wont work as there will always be someone who believes they have the divine right to dictate to others! Nice try though x"

I dont agree or want to join in with what some folks do on here but i aint gonna slag them for it.

A well constructed point if you dont agree is much better

we used to call things like this a debate not a slagging match.

Try it you might just like it

Steve

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"everyone is entitled to an opinion and has freedom of speech

Freedom of speech, yes, freedom to insult, no, pity a minority on here have no idea of the difference "

Ah, someone who talks sense

I do agree with the OP though, when we joined sites like this we thought because of the lifestyle we had chosen, there would be a higher level of tolerance, but sadly we found out quickly this isn't always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everyone is entitled to an opinion and has freedom of speech

Freedom of speech, yes, freedom to insult, no, pity a minority on here have no idea of the difference "

Hear hear!

The mechanics of debate and discussion is putting forward differing views and opinions, and ACCEPTING that there will always be differing views.

Sadly however, there are folk who can't simply put forward a view, and leave it, but have to personalise it against someone's different one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i aint shagged none of ya .

And only pop on to check the forums and have a laugh.

That dont make me anyless a swinger...

Its a mindset...

we all sex mad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and some just mad!! xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Well i aint shagged none of ya .

And only pop on to check the forums and have a laugh.

That dont make me anyless a swinger...

Its a mindset...

we all sex mad really "

hey Peaches, lovely to see you, you ok? xxx

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"and some just mad!! xx "

Errrrrrrrrrrr, like who eh??

eh?

Eh??

Eh????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya hun

getting there slowly...

And bloody slowly it is too.

Im bored stupid but cant do alot.

So daytime tv and here at the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and some just mad!! xx

Errrrrrrrrrrr, like who eh??

eh?

Eh??

Eh????"

Not even gonna go there debz...

I plead the 5th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and some just mad!! xx

Errrrrrrrrrrr, like who eh??

eh?

Eh??

Eh????"

*stands in corner and whistles and rolls eyes in direction of........................YOU!!! LOL XXX

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"everyone is entitled to an opinion and has freedom of speech

Freedom of speech, yes, freedom to insult, no, pity a minority on here have no idea of the difference "

My mum always said when people start name calling it’s because their brain has exhausted its capability… she was always rubbish at getting quotes right lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"and some just mad!! xx

Errrrrrrrrrrr, like who eh??

eh?

Eh??

Eh????

*stands in corner and whistles and rolls eyes in direction of........................YOU!!! LOL XXX "

Oi!!!!!!!!!!!

I am not mad i will have you know

ITs all them others - HONEST

**chases for a swift kick up the japseye!!!!**

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Sadly however, there are folk who can't simply put forward a view, and leave it, but have to personalise it against someone's different one."

It becomes personalised when one's point is defeated, human nature being what it is, people will always want to fight back instead of admitting defeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just plead insanity works for me!

no-one expects a nutter to know much about anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and some just mad!! xx

Errrrrrrrrrrr, like who eh??

eh?

Eh??

Eh????

*stands in corner and whistles and rolls eyes in direction of........................YOU!!! LOL XXX

Oi!!!!!!!!!!!

I am not mad i will have you know

ITs all them others - HONEST

**chases for a swift kick up the japseye!!!!**"

*** shakes bum before runnin off to hide from the crazy lady!!!! xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"she was always rubbish at getting quotes right lol"

Only half rubbish

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