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"It's not good sport to jump in on someone else's thread. It's better to create your own " | |||
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"Good profile..but some extra pictures would be better xx even kept as private for friends xx" Thanks for your reply | |||
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"Hi all, I'm looking for suggestions on how to improve my profile. Genuine feedback most appreciated. Tia." In my opinion a good profile, well written and succinct with nice pics Good verifications too | |||
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"Only critique I could give is to expand on why you can't accommodate.... Obviously it's no one's business, but on here... It's generally looked down on" I disagree, I never thought of it looked down on, if people wish to know then they can ask, people don’t accommodate for many reasons | |||
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"I find the pant pics a little unnerving." Things look a little snug | |||
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"Bio reads well. I'd change your profile pic to the one where you're sitting down, with the navy blue shirt and watch. Otherwise, pretty good. " Good call, that’s a good pic! I think it’s a great profile op Donna x | |||
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"I think it's a nice profile. Good variety of attractive pics ranging from normal casual to slightly risqué. Well-written description that conveys what you're looking for and gives a sense of you while avoiding sounding either creepy, lacking in self-awareness, or desperate. I'm not going to suggest any changes - it doesn't need them. Judging from the positive response in this thread, I'd say you've nailed it. "Thanks D x | |||
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"It's a good profile, you can always add more photos. Good luck x" Thznk you, taken on board | |||
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"The bio is pretty generic" Any suggestions would be welcome | |||
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"There's going to be pearls of wisdom and ideas to take on board OP for sure, but don't forget you can't please all the people all the time; tweak your profile too much at the suggestion of others then it's not 'You' you're showing. Thank you 😊 If you are happy with it, if you think, 'this is how I want to be seen', then it'll hppefully draw in people that may be aligned with you if they like what they see!" | |||
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"I find the pant pics a little unnerving." Please expand. | |||
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"OP, did you write the bio?" Yes, thought long and hard about it. | |||
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"Bio isn’t bad but it is a little bland. If it was a condiment it would be mayonnaise and not gochujang. Personally I’m not a fan of the style of pants but that’s totally a preference thing. The last ones remind me of those net bags of garlic bulbs…. Again preference I think. Haha hope i smell fresher than garlic lol " | |||
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"I find the pant pics a little unnerving. Please expand. " I'm imagining baby oil and cheesy music, and grinding. | |||
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"OP, did you write the bio? Yes, thought long and hard about it." Ah interesting. Has it generally been well received? Are you happy with your profile and the attention you get? | |||
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"Looks great!" Thanks for the positive comment. | |||
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"OP, did you write the bio? Yes, thought long and hard about it. Ah interesting. Has it generally been well received? Are you happy with your profile and the attention you get? " I felt it was lacking something, as I feel I could be "doing better" on here tbh. | |||
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"I find the pant pics a little unnerving. Please expand. I'm imagining baby oil and cheesy music, and grinding. " Lol maybe I'll post a video of that om profile haha | |||
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"OP, did you write the bio? Yes, thought long and hard about it. Ah interesting. Has it generally been well received? Are you happy with your profile and the attention you get? I felt it was lacking something, as I feel I could be "doing better" on here tbh. " Ah. I think sadly I'd agree with a couple other posters; generally your profile is great but your bio lacks the warmth of a human voice. It's nice enough but there's not that oomph, which has led to people wondering if software helped. But I don't know how to advise you to add more of your voice, as you type in the forum etc. I don't know if it'll make any difference but that's the only thing that really jumped out at me. | |||
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"OP, did you write the bio? Yes, thought long and hard about it. Ah interesting. Has it generally been well received? Are you happy with your profile and the attention you get? I felt it was lacking something, as I feel I could be "doing better" on here tbh. " This is the thing, though. Add too much, or overcrank it, and you're in desperate territory. One or two comments have queried the description for not having enough zing. I disagree. Not everyone can write 'zingy' profiles. Don't underestimate the appeal of sounding relaxed, casual and confident. Don't underestimate the importance of not sounding desperate, creepy or lacking in self-awareness. And pics... well, pics are Marmite, really. Personally, I think yours are hot; other opinions are available. | |||
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"Anyone else think that the advent of AI is poisoning human interaction even further? Now we're second-guessing what people write about themselves (and fair enough, I suppose). It's all just a bit depressing. "Certainly is, thanks D | |||
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"No offense mate but it reads like a CV" That would effectively be the purpose of a profile on any dating or hookup site, surely? | |||
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"Random guy on fab ..."Please advise on my profile" Women on the forum..."your third picture shows you wearing grey trousers, I don't like the colour grey, you should change that"..." in the beach picture you are wearing flip-flops, I don't like men who wear flip-flops, you should change that"..."your profile pic for some reason makes me believe you're using Sauvage Dior as a perfume, I don't like that scent, you should change that" Yep, pearls of wisdom 👍"  | |||
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"Anyone else think that the advent of AI is poisoning human interaction even further? Now we're second-guessing what people write about themselves (and fair enough, I suppose). It's all just a bit depressing. "Want me to run your post through ChatGPT, spruce it up a bit? | |||
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"No offense mate but it reads like a CV That would effectively be the purpose of a profile on any dating or hookup site, surely?" To me it reads like the intro of s CV applying for a job. | |||
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