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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago

Nobody is busier than a woman who doesn’t like you

A woman who doesn’t like you suddenly had the world’s tightest schedule

Don’t chase her time, kindly move on

Happy weekend all

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By *ansoffateMan
13 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Some people are actually busy and may still like you.

If only there was some solution to avoiding this minefield of assumption.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I often have busy periods where I don't have time to see the people I care about.

Luckily they're all patient enough and understanding enough to let me do my thing until things are less chaotic.

But, if you need more attention than someone is willing or able to give, it is definitely best to just move on 💜

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Some people are actually busy and may still like you.

If only there was some solution to avoiding this minefield of assumption."

I've seen one of my partners and handful of times this year. We're both busy people.

Life stuff is always more important than the chance to meet someone random.

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By *ansoffateMan
13 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Some people are actually busy and may still like you.

If only there was some solution to avoiding this minefield of assumption.

I've seen one of my partners and handful of times this year. We're both busy people.

Life stuff is always more important than the chance to meet someone random. "

I absolutely agree with you.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
13 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Some women who don’t like you will actually just say so.

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By *enk15Man
13 weeks ago

Evesham

Why would you want to chase someone who doesn't like you?

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

This is the second "apologist" thread I've seen in the last 24 hours.

These errant ⚔️ Knights ⚔️ are on a quest across the Fab badlands.

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Some women who don’t like you will actually just say so."

This, I'm old enough to say no thanks to people.

In the past, when I've wanted to meet someone, sometimes it's taken time.

I still work shifts & used to care for my dad ,so I never had loads of free time. It took me months to meet one person one time, but he knew from the start of us chatting that it'd never be a quick process and was OK with that.

I met my partner here and we chatted for weeks before we met.

So it doesn't always mean that they don't like you or want to meet. If they keep saying they're busy, just let them know you'll be there when they're available , if you want to that is.

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By *ansoffateMan
13 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"This is the second "apologist" thread I've seen in the last 24 hours.

These errant ⚔️ Knights ⚔️ are on a quest across the Fab badlands."

I may roam the Badlands but in ghost wolf form. My quest is to recover the mysteries of creation, from a titan vault, recorded on platinum discs.

I know not of these knights, which you speak of. There are Paladins whose puritanical faith has led to great atrocities against nature. In their misguided judgment they seal their own fate.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
13 weeks ago

Cheshire


"This is the second "apologist" thread I've seen in the last 24 hours.

These errant ⚔️ Knights ⚔️ are on a quest across the Fab badlands.

I may roam the Badlands but in ghost wolf form. My quest is to recover the mysteries of creation, from a titan vault, recorded on platinum discs.

I know not of these knights, which you speak of. There are Paladins whose puritanical faith has led to great atrocities against nature. In their misguided judgment they seal their own fate."

Looking for group..... Have 2 DPS and healer....

😂😂😂

If anyone gets this reference, I'll genuinely be surprised!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were. "

If you don't have a lot of spare time then you can't magically create it.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
13 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

I get your sentiment op.

Nobody is as desperate as anyone who keeps asking when they told you they are busy.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester


"Nobody is busier than a woman who doesn’t like you

A woman who doesn’t like you suddenly had the world’s tightest schedule

Don’t chase her time, kindly move on

Happy weekend all"

Sometimes they're just bloody busy.

Women don't wait around on call for men. If a man can't appreciate that, I'm more than happy for him to "move on" to someone else.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were. "

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life.

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By *mwirralMan
13 weeks ago

surrey

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By *mwirralMan
13 weeks ago

surrey


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life. "

Very true but great sex is worth waiting for

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By *exxyyDy11Man
13 weeks ago

North West

Sometimes women are just genuinely busy. Work, kids (if they have them), family commitments etc.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life. "

Why would anybody that busy even be on fab?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
13 weeks ago

North West

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By *estructionDollyWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life.

Why would anybody that busy even be on fab? "

To chat? To keep in touch with friends they have made? To use the forums?

Just because you're online, it doesn't automatically mean you have availability to meet up 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *exxyyDy11Man
13 weeks ago

North West


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were. "

This! This can also include friendships too. I've lost contact with so many so called friends over the years. As soon as I didn't initiate conversations anymore, I never heard from them.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
13 weeks ago

North West


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life.

Why would anybody that busy even be on fab? "

Probably just to pass time in whatever spare time they have. I guess mostly to keep in contact with fab friends or use the forums.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life.

Why would anybody that busy even be on fab?

To chat? To keep in touch with friends they have made? To use the forums?

Just because you're online, it doesn't automatically mean you have availability to meet up 🤷🏻‍♀️"

I hide my profile when I'm not meeting. Stops messages from new people but I can still do all the above,

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast


"Yep she's just not that into you. She would make time if she were.

Utter nonsense. People have to work, have family, other commitments. Sometimes sex isn't that important in life.

Why would anybody that busy even be on fab?

To chat? To keep in touch with friends they have made? To use the forums?

Just because you're online, it doesn't automatically mean you have availability to meet up 🤷🏻‍♀️

I hide my profile when I'm not meeting. Stops messages from new people but I can still do all the above, "

I haven't been meeting for 5 years but fab has never been anything more than a hobby and I spend less than half an hour here each day.

I honestly can't say what keeps me here at all because I haven't sent a first contact message in those 5 years and don't use any part of the site apart from the forums.

I've turned down numerous requests to meet over the last few years because I'm either too busy, too tired or just can't be arsed.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

When you haven't much time you do appreciate those who recognise your honesty and then don't pressure you. Any hassling pressure is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
13 weeks ago

I’m not even referring to “come & shag now” scenario, not at all.

We’re all adults with different levels of responsibilities and lifestyles

When someone you’re into suddenly starts playing I’m very busy card game, for me that’s his or her polite way of saying you’re no longer my priority now.

You better move on than, spam the person with multiple messages or phone calls

Only few will comprehend this advice

It is what it is!

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