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By *4Fmeet OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

It does make me chuckle on here sometimes, the amount of females that are all bark no bite.. can talk a good game then just flake when it comes to it..

Is anyone actually serious on here anymore

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Just cos they're not biting you, doesn't mean they're not biting someone else

I think most members here accept that women hold far more cards than the men

They will play their cards as they want to play them and, as men seeking women, we should be accepting of the fact that those hands will sometimes exclude us

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It's a thing across all demographics as far as I can tell 💜

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
3 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole


"It does make me chuckle on here sometimes, the amount of females that are all bark no bite.. can talk a good game then just flake when it comes to it..

Is anyone actually serious on here anymore "

You have just thrown a grenade into a firebox.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I agree….I’d rather have them biting me than barking at me to be honest, although I like the noisy ones, barking is really not my thing.

No complaints though from me, you must be chatting to the wrong ones

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By *4Fmeet OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

Didn't say i wasn't getting bit lol.. and I agree they definitely do hold all the cards. I can accept if not interested same the other way round.. calm down fellas just an observation 🤣

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By *ude LawMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

I thought they didn't bite - hard!!!

LOL

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By *ude LawMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate


"I thought they didn't bite - hard!!!

LOL"

This post was brought to you by Karen's daily memes.

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By *4Fmeet OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend


"I thought they didn't bite - hard!!!

LOL"

Let's hope it wasn't to hard lol maybe I'll stick to the barking lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Maybe they are going at a different speed.

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By *aron_xMan
3 weeks ago

London

Deep breath everyone.

If you're not meeting up, it probably says more about you and your 'offering' than theirs.

Keep your expectations low, behave as you would in the 'real world' and treat others as you'd like to be treated.

Beyond that, it's all a lottery

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By *oorman 2025Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

Is what it is mate I'm on here just for a perv now no point sending messages out as don't get replies it's gone down the pan past few years on here

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Just cos they're not biting you, doesn't mean they're not biting someone else

I think most members here accept that women hold far more cards than the men

They will play their cards as they want to play them and, as men seeking women, we should be accepting of the fact that those hands will sometimes exclude us"

Nope. Nobody holds all the cards.

Men can be as choosy as they wish, and rightly so. If they choose not to that's their prerogative.

Maybe during the barking something was woofed that made them decide not to bite? People are entitled to change their minds at any time. Red flags dont always get hoisted early into a conversation. 🤷‍♂️

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By *4Fmeet OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

Definitely could be a number or reason could be me could be better offer who knows.. I feel a lot of the ladies on here get so much abuse from men that can't take no and move on it has an effect on the decent ones.. iv had a few decent convos and it hasn't gone anywhere but they do say how they have had so much abuse.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Definitely could be a number or reason could be me could be better offer who knows.. I feel a lot of the ladies on here get so much abuse from men that can't take no and move on it has an effect on the decent ones.. iv had a few decent convos and it hasn't gone anywhere but they do say how they have had so much abuse. "

Does anyone else's behaviour really impact others?

Nothing I do affects anyone else but me. I don't represent any other guys, they don't act on my behalf and that'll never change. I've never been told that because someone else reacted a certain way, or phrased a message using certain words that they viewed me any differently.

We're all captains of our own ships. I'd actually say the opposite is true. If some don't act in a respectful manner it makes it significantly easier to come across differently. The 'some guys behaviour tars us all with the same brush' line is I guess, a convenient reason for some to use as a lack of success, but most women and couples I know are more than able of differentiating between the good and the bad.

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By *4Fmeet OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend


"Definitely could be a number or reason could be me could be better offer who knows.. I feel a lot of the ladies on here get so much abuse from men that can't take no and move on it has an effect on the decent ones.. iv had a few decent convos and it hasn't gone anywhere but they do say how they have had so much abuse.

Does anyone else's behaviour really impact others?

Nothing I do affects anyone else but me. I don't represent any other guys, they don't act on my behalf and that'll never change. I've never been told that because someone else reacted a certain way, or phrased a message using certain words that they viewed me any differently.

We're all captains of our own ships. I'd actually say the opposite is true. If some don't act in a respectful manner it makes it significantly easier to come across differently. The 'some guys behaviour tars us all with the same brush' line is I guess, a convenient reason for some to use as a lack of success, but most women and couples I know are more than able of differentiating between the good and the bad. "

This is very true.. and coming from a man with a lot of experience.. notes taken and appreciated.

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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"Definitely could be a number or reason could be me could be better offer who knows.. I feel a lot of the ladies on here get so much abuse from men that can't take no and move on it has an effect on the decent ones.. iv had a few decent convos and it hasn't gone anywhere but they do say how they have had so much abuse. "

It's very much what Obi has said. I've experienced poor behaviour from men (not so much in terms of crude/awful messages). I've said no to men and it's not been great.

Those things don't make me think all men will behave in that way. Talk to me in that same manner.

What it does make me do? Think that person was a bit of a twunt but it doesn't stand to reason every interaction will be that way going forward. I don't write people off because they happen to share the ability to pee standing up.

If you're a decent person, an actually decent person, not self titled? If anything women can sometimes be so relieved because the bar is in hell that they'll quickly think you're the greatest.

And then you've got another problem on your hands.

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago


"Just cos they're not biting you, doesn't mean they're not biting someone else

I think most members here accept that women hold far more cards than the men

They will play their cards as they want to play them and, as men seeking women, we should be accepting of the fact that those hands will sometimes exclude us

Nope. Nobody holds all the cards.

Men can be as choosy as they wish, and rightly so. If they choose not to that's their prerogative.

Maybe during the barking something was woofed that made them decide not to bite? People are entitled to change their minds at any time. Red flags dont always get hoisted early into a conversation. 🤷‍♂️"

I happen to agree

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By *olinOfBathMan
3 weeks ago

Corsham

Ahhhh, Fabland, the home of countless photo-collectors, time-wasters, dreamers, and just plain fakes. Then, mix in all those charmers who actually exist and want meets, but who get abusive when - probably inevitably - ladies reject their advances.

On the other hand...

I'm told that genuine chaps benefit, because they rather stand out from the crowd.

Who knows?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Interest is there, until it isn't. The problem is that too many don't have realistic expectations here and don't understand that filtering will continue following after the first message. Most people are not mutually compatible but it takes time to discriminate just who is and isn't right for you.

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