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STI/STD (Sexually transmitted infections/diseases)

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By *uality By Design OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It’s a difficult conversation. Everyone should have an opinion.

But.

How often do you get tested.

It’s a subject that has “Come Up” (Excuse the pun) in private and public conversations, namely the social networking night.

So, Couples, Single Women , and especially “Single” Married Men.

How often do you put your mind at rest.

A x

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By *ildTimes.Man
13 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Only STI I ever had was my Subaru Impreza 🥪

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Often. At least every 3 months OP and definitely now I’m single again. All clear thank goodness

How about you?

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By *tormidaysWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester

Regularly, it's very easy with online options these days xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
13 weeks ago

little house on the praire

When I was active every three months

.Now never.

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous OnesCouple
13 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Only STI I ever had was my Subaru Impreza 🥪"

“Recently tested 28/02/25 - all clear”

Every two months then.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Oh, I'm due this month and I haven't even booked it yet. So it'll be next month for me.

I aim for every 3 months. I manage at least 3 times a year 💜

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Regularly, it's very easy with online options these days xx"

No clap then? 🤣🤣

Sorry. Couldn’t resist

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By *midnight-Woman
13 weeks ago

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I get tested regularly via the standard tests, but it is not all encompassing, so there are still plenty of other potential icks to worry about, even if using condoms

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous OnesCouple
13 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Often. At least every 3 months OP and definitely now I’m single again. All clear thank goodness

How about you? "

That’s a good question.

I haven’t had “Un protected” sex with anyone I haven’t known for about 3 months.

Maybe familiarity is the key.

But you never know what “She/He” has been up to.

A x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
13 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I used to be a right fucker noone was coming near mewithout a condom I always had a large selection no matter how long I'd.none someone

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
13 weeks ago

North West


"Often. At least every 3 months OP and definitely now I’m single again. All clear thank goodness

How about you?

That’s a good question.

I haven’t had “Un protected” sex with anyone I haven’t known for about 3 months.

Maybe familiarity is the key.

But you never know what “She/He” has been up to.

A x

"

Regular testing for this very reason. Never take the word of wick dippers 😂

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
13 weeks ago

Niche

Depends on the who.

I don't meet new people often.

When I first found fab and tried the 'meeting' style of dating for a brief time. I wasn't comfortable. At all. Didn't feel safe. Everyone was so cavalier about it. They still are. It's deliberate, selective ignorance and there have been several 'outbreaks' on the scene that are kept hush hush. Condoms aren't 100%. People stealth.

I always took precautions, always assumed the worst or that the person was lying. Always waited the 2weeks after a meet then tested.

I always tested before meeting anyone new. Even if I hadn't met anyone since my last test. I believe trust is earned and testing should be volunteered as a gesture of good faith, no one should have to ask for it.

I once felt a person I met was a risky link so I tested after every time. I lost interest after 3 dates due to their behaviour and I swore off anything too close to that side of things.

Just not worth the risk IMHO.

I want to look my children in the eye and not feel ashamed of myself for putting my health and, by association, their well-being at risk for a cheap fk.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Every three months as a routine, via SH:UK

But if I was ever in any way worried for whatever reason I'd book an appointment at the walk in centre. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Every three months as a routine, via SH:UK

But if I was ever in any way worried for whatever reason I'd book an appointment at the walk in centre. 🤷‍♂️"

Seriously I just read that as wank-in centre.

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By *uality By Design OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Often. At least every 3 months OP and definitely now I’m single again. All clear thank goodness

How about you? "

I’m lucky because I don’t have sex anymore.

Well occasionally.

But only with “Married Men” & their wives..

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By *ripfillMan
13 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Every 3 months all clear 12/04/25 it’s so easy to use the facility now it’s being responsible, caring, and mature ! OP

A lovely lady I met on here gave me a lecture and was so informed … it IS making sex responsible yet so much pleasure too

Plus I use condoms for meets now too,

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By *estructionDollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I do a postal test every 3 months while I'm active.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Condoms are all very well but what about giving oral you can contract infections that way. I’ve tried giving a bj with a condom on eww revolting.

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By *appyDaze19Man
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

So true, most seem to feel that using a condom is safe sex without realising that something like 80% of sexually transmissible infections can be orally transmitted!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"So true, most seem to feel that using a condom is safe sex without realising that something like 80% of sexually transmissible infections can be orally transmitted!"

This is a good point! The way I’ve always done things is get tested after any occasion of BB, (which is very rare)but yeah aside from that I get tested every couple of months.

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By *yorks4couplesMan
13 weeks ago

doncaster

Twice in three years all clear but glove up unless oral always. (No kissing on lips though ffs) 🤦

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By *ustincider888Man
13 weeks ago

Preston Ish

Just ordered a testing kit after my first weekend of playing since I last tested.

All clear last time but it's best to keep checking

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By *orianafaeCouple
13 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

I’m quite new to this I ordered my first at home test after my first club night took it after my second (and first broken condom) all clear but intend to go with every 6 weeks if theres activity but also considering looking into prep

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Tested September last year, clear of everything and a text to prove it. Not been sexually active so not done one since .

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