FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing....

By *osh bloke OP Man
13 weeks ago

hereford

For me it's everything..... its the beginning, middles and end of a great encounter...raw and passionate.... why do some not allow it?

If you say you don't on your profile...have you ever relented when the passion has taken over?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I find it's mostly couples who want to keep that between themselves only and the people who don't want intimacy just a fuck.

So, I don't meet people who don't kiss.

If I don't want to kiss someone I definitely don't want to fuck them 💜

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By *luebell888Woman
13 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Slushy, sloppy kissing is something I find hard to do on a fab meet with someone I hardly know. Fucking however, I find much easier to do.

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By *ray_BTWMan
13 weeks ago

Worcester

Kissing to me is compulsory, find it such a turn on....without it, sex is just a cold process to me tbh.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
13 weeks ago

Castlebar

I do get why coulles do that...

But kissing is essential. If someone can't kiss me then they can't turn me on...game over - its gonna be dryer than the Sahara down there...and a same goes for a bad kiss 💋 😘

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

Oohhh I love a bit of snogging eachothers faces off

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
13 weeks ago

North West

It’s a non negotiable for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Kissing is part of foreplay for me, it has to be done 😘

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
13 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

Kissing is definitely a requirement for us - 💋 💋 💋

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By *osh bloke OP Man
13 weeks ago

hereford

I love a good snog.... but I think it builds into that...starting slowly and working up to more raucheous passionate snogging...lip nibbles drive me nuts...such a turn on. Xxx

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
13 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Kissing is a definite for me but it has to be a good kiss or it does nothing for me. I'd rather not kiss than have bad kissing

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By *wo-Of-a-KindCouple
13 weeks ago

Middle Earth

I get it, it was something I was completely uncomfortable trying as I felt it was something more intimate that I only wanted to do with my partner. After a recent meet I decided to give it ago even though I was still unsure. On this occasion it was absolutely the right thing. My fella was so turned on by it

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've only noticed the aversion to kissing on couples profiles, but even then it's not something I've come across that often. Couples have their boundaries which is fine.

I find it unfathomable. Naked entwinement without kissing. How do very archaic and puritanical.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If i didn't want to kiss someone.....i certainly wouldn't be fucking them.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
13 weeks ago

Altrincham

"For me it's everything..... its the beginning, middles and end of a great encounter...raw and passionate.... why do some not allow it?

If you say you don't on your profile...have you ever relented when the passion has taken over? "

I can't do anything without kissing, kissing is a massive part of 'it' for me

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
13 weeks ago

North West

"Kissing is a definite for me but it has to be a good kiss or it does nothing for me. I'd rather not kiss than have bad kissing "

This is the absolute must, I have stopped a bad kisser and declined to go any further.

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By *ic loves to lickMan
13 weeks ago

Birmingham

"If i didn't want to kiss someone.....i certainly wouldn't be fucking them. "

this somes it up for me x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I get some don’t like to share that outside of their partnership but for me no kissy kissy no fucky fucky

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I rarely kiss when i meet guys. I love kissing my partner though.

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By *punk n gushCouple
13 weeks ago

New milton

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By *usty kayWoman
13 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

Kissing was a definite no when we first started out as a couple. It's intimate and although we wanted to explore sexually there were things we wanted to keep sacred to us.

It worked for us, most of the guys we invited in never seemed put off by it and I was already so turned on before they arrived I didn't need it. But it was all very mechanical and I was just being fucked rather than having much input (I hope that makes sense) and after the novelty had worn off it felt like something was missing.

I still remember the first time I kissed a guy in front of hubby, it was by far the most nerve wracking and embarrassing thing I had done and I was constantly checking he was ok.

Now I will not meet a man who states no kissing. Whether we are meeting as a couple or I'm meeting alone kissing is one of the most important aspects of the encounter.

It had to evolve that way for us, like many other aspects of our swinging journey.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
13 weeks ago

Kent

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By *punk n gushCouple
13 weeks ago

New milton

Not a fan of kissing full stop even hubby rarely gets a kiss so unlikely someone we meet will but there usually understanding and accept that

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By *KTim61Man
13 weeks ago

Tipton

When I had my 1st MMF I didnt get to kiss her lips ( mouth ) but I got to kiss & lick her pussy lips & more . . . . . .

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I get why couples keep it for themselves, but for me, it's all part of the build up.

I wouldn't be able to get down to it, with no snogging.

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By *eri24Woman
13 weeks ago

Bridgend

"Kissing is a definite for me but it has to be a good kiss or it does nothing for me. I'd rather not kiss than have bad kissing

This is the absolute must, I have stopped a bad kisser and declined to go any further."

I have done this

Good kissing is imperative

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By *wo-Of-a-KindCouple
13 weeks ago

Middle Earth

"Kissing was a definite no when we first started out as a couple. It's intimate and although we wanted to explore sexually there were things we wanted to keep sacred to us.

I still remember the first time I kissed a guy in front of hubby, it was by far the most nerve wracking and embarrassing thing I had done and I was constantly checking he was ok.

Now I will not meet a man who states no kissing. Whether we are meeting as a couple or I'm meeting alone kissing is one of the most important aspects of the encounter.

It had to evolve that way for us, like many other aspects of our swinging journey. "

Yes exactly this..a journey very much so...

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
13 weeks ago

Cambridge

"I find it's mostly couples who want to keep that between themselves only and the people who don't want intimacy just a fuck.

So, I don't meet people who don't kiss.

If I don't want to kiss someone I definitely don't want to fuck them 💜"

Kissing adds so much to a meet; without it the situation often reflects a kind of emptiness...

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By *ergus1622Man
13 weeks ago

Dundee

I do enjoy a good kiss , it's all apart of a great meet.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
13 weeks ago

Voldsøy

When we first started, I thought I'd be uncomfortable kissing others. I don't know why. Someone kissed me at a group social, and it changed my perspective real quick, for sure!

With someone I'm having sex with, they have to be a kisser. I find myself just going in for kisses automatically, so wouldn't be compatible with someone who didn't want to.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
13 weeks ago

Cheshire

If anyone has a no kissing (of no oral rule) then we're not interested. They are both really important parts of pleasure for us, so if there not on offer, really what's the point 🤷🏻

Not against anyone's preferences, just that it doesn't work for us personally

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By *ousylizaluvscockWoman
13 weeks ago

inurhead

No kissing means so sex. Kissing is what makes me wet. It's what gets me going.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
13 weeks ago

wonderland.

"For me it's everything..... its the beginning, middles and end of a great encounter...raw and passionate.... why do some not allow it?

If you say you don't on your profile...have you ever relented when the passion has taken over? "
for you it's important... for others not so. I rarely kiss other men... Its rarely even noticed. I don't do 121 meets though so it's quite easy to avoid...

Why... because I don't enjoy it all that much with random people.. I adore kissing Mr but others I prefer to not do so.

And even before I was part of a couple I would avoid it a lot.

Cali

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By *ripfillMan
13 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I absolutely love kissing and sharing tongues and lips

It’s so wonderful to be in an embrace in the first part of a body union

Yes please !

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"For me it's everything..... its the beginning, middles and end of a great encounter...raw and passionate.... why do some not allow it?

If you say you don't on your profile...have you ever relented when the passion has taken over? for you it's important... for others not so. I rarely kiss other men... Its rarely even noticed. I don't do 121 meets though so it's quite easy to avoid...

Why... because I don't enjoy it all that much with random people.. I adore kissing Mr but others I prefer to not do so.

And even before I was part of a couple I would avoid it a lot.

Cali "

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By *heGigglersCouple
13 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Absolutely essential for us

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By *avexxMan
13 weeks ago

cheshire

its a must

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
13 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Yes, kissing is a massive turn on

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By *oneyBee200Woman
13 weeks ago

Kent

Definitely a must. The teasing kisses that then trail down the neck and beyond are delicious. When the tension builds a deep full on snog is absolutely 🔥

If I have a social I like a cheeky kiss at the end just to see if they can make my ties curl, if they do then I'm on a winner

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By *olarbear73Man
13 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s a deal breaker for me. Full on backs to the wall pawing, grinding, lip sucking tonsil hockey is what I want.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
13 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"It’s a deal breaker for me. Full on backs to the wall pawing, grinding, lip sucking tonsil hockey is what I want.

Same

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By *immers123Woman
13 weeks ago

South Molton

I love kissing, I hate the half arsed kissing people do though with no tounge or feeling. A proper snog while fucking turns me on

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By *estructionDollyWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester

Not sure I'd even get wet with no kissing

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By *osh bloke OP Man
13 weeks ago

hereford

"Definitely a must. The teasing kisses that then trail down the neck and beyond are delicious. When the tension builds a deep full on snog is absolutely 🔥

If I have a social I like a cheeky kiss at the end just to see if they can make my ties curl, if they do then I'm on a winner

100% I do exactly the same. As good or boring as the social goes I believe you can get the best read of someone from a kiss and how they do it.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
13 weeks ago

Reading

The thing I've asked for the most during sex has been to kiss me. Absolutely vital to my enjoyment.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
13 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't know how you can do anything with anyone without kissing them first... That's just weird.

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By *oomlMan
13 weeks ago

Fareham

Absolutely love kissing.

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By *andadbodMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

kissing can be such a turn on if the person you’re doing it with is also a good kisser. 👍🏻😃

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