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Anticipation followed by frustration

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By *enjamin Button90 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

East Midlands

There must be many of us who plan meets and get excited with anticipation, only to be disappointed and frustrated when things don't turn out as planned.

I had one such experience today. Planned to meet in a sauna and everything seemed OK, until 30 minutes before the meeting time, my new friend had to cancel. I understand the reason and it was unforseen, but nevertheless it's still frustrating.

To try and make the best of the situation, I then drove 30 miles to Derby to go to the Attic Club, thinking there might be some like minded people to chat to and maybe more. It just happens that today was the quietest day they had seen all year. Just my luck.

Anyway, keeping my head up, and planning for better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

It's usually anticipation followed by satisfaction to be honest op.

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By *eliWoman
13 weeks ago

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Sorry to read things didn't go as planned OP!

I've been (wouldn't say lucky...) fortunate and not experienced that. There are people who are more compatible with you out there.

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By *enjamin Button90 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

East Midlands


"Sorry to read things didn't go as planned OP!

I've been (wouldn't say lucky...) fortunate and not experienced that. There are people who are more compatible with you out there. "

Well, if any did let you down they would be a monumental fool

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By *tr8MrEMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I always go in with no anticipation of anything that way you can avoid all that might be deemed negative

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By *ove2LurveCouple
13 weeks ago

Dartford


"I always go in with no anticipation of anything that way you can avoid all that might be deemed negative"

This -we've recently had two different couples cancel long arranged meets just before the date. Not having anticipation doesn't mar the enjoyment of our meets that go really well.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I usually anticipate disappointment when people meet me.

On their part. 🤷‍♂️

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By *tormidaysWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester

This is why I love an MMF

An opportunity to disappoint 2 guys at the same time 😇

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Sorry to read things didn't go as planned OP!

I've been (wouldn't say lucky...) fortunate and not experienced that. There are people who are more compatible with you out there.

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Well, if any did let you down they would be a monumental fool "

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I let her down without compunction. I'm a raspberry fool compote.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"This is why I love an MMF

An opportunity to disappoint 2 guys at the same time 😇"

🤣🤣🤣

I can do that without even contemplating having the sex with them..

it’s my superpower

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By *tormidaysWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester


"This is why I love an MMF

An opportunity to disappoint 2 guys at the same time 😇

🤣🤣🤣

I can do that without even contemplating having the sex with them..

it’s my superpower "

We should team up an disappoint whole teams of men all at once 😁

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By *ittlebirdWoman
13 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"This is why I love an MMF

An opportunity to disappoint 2 guys at the same time 😇

🤣🤣🤣

I can do that without even contemplating having the sex with them..

it’s my superpower

We should team up an disappoint whole teams of men all at once 😁"

Done. You take the tall ones…

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By *tormidaysWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester


"This is why I love an MMF

An opportunity to disappoint 2 guys at the same time 😇

🤣🤣🤣

I can do that without even contemplating having the sex with them..

it’s my superpower

We should team up an disappoint whole teams of men all at once 😁

Done. You take the tall ones…"

I thought you liked to climb them 😂

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