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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

I really need your opinion...I regularly do the school run with my grandsons and have got to know a few of the school Mums... Out of the blue today I have been asked out for a drink by a 30 year old school Mum ...yes she has told me that she is serious...yes this is a genuine post and not a fantasy. I don't want to embarrass my daughter as she is ten years younger than my daughter but I suppose, as many men would be, I am very tempted to say yes... good advice only please..

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

lots more questions before a considered opinion could be formed, but don't rule it out just becasue of age.

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
12 weeks ago

Cotswolds

Don't do it

School run mum's are trouble 😇

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"lots more questions before a considered opinion could be formed, but don't rule it out just becasue of age."

Please feel free to ask

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
12 weeks ago

Brum

There’s a lot to consider here.

Firstly… how big are her tits?

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Can I ask how do you think your daughter would feel/react?

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Can I ask how do you think your daughter would feel/react?"

That's part of my problem..I really don't know..she has always encouraged me to date just unsure how she would feel about the age gap..

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By *oeBeansMan
12 weeks ago

Derby


"Can I ask how do you think your daughter would feel/react?

That's part of my problem..I really don't know..she has always encouraged me to date just unsure how she would feel about the age gap.."

Are you sure the signals haven't been crossed somewhere and she thinks it's more of a friendly drink rather a date?

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Do you pick your grandchild up in a Porsche?

Just keep in mind if you meet up with her and stuff escalates and then sours, that School run will be extremely awkward for you to do ever again.

And School mums do gossip (and bitch) to each other.

So yes, it may be flattering and it could be wonderful. It could also be a potential nightmare.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Do it.

If it leads to more and your daughter has an issue with it deal with that when it becomes an issue. If it becomes an issue.

Right now it’s a lot of ifs, buts and maybes.

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Can I ask how do you think your daughter would feel/react?

That's part of my problem..I really don't know..she has always encouraged me to date just unsure how she would feel about the age gap..

Are you sure the signals haven't been crossed somewhere and she thinks it's more of a friendly drink rather a date?"

She has been quite upfront... more than a friendly drink..

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

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By *etro manMan
12 weeks ago

manchester

What is wrong with going for a drink chat she might be interested in getting to know . you and you could ask other people if they now anything about her ie single married etc you never know till you try just be careful about your personal life she might have asked questions about you

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪"

Because I care about what my daughter feels

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"Can I ask how do you think your daughter would feel/react?

That's part of my problem..I really don't know..she has always encouraged me to date just unsure how she would feel about the age gap.."

Could you possibly talk to your daughter about it, if you are close, she may even know what other mums are really like

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By *ilverfox for youMan
12 weeks ago

Hull

Are you married ?

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"What is wrong with going for a drink chat she might be interested in getting to know . you and you could ask other people if they now anything about her ie single married etc you never know till you try just be careful about your personal life she might have asked questions about you "

I know she is single and not seeing anyone

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Are you married ?"

No ...long time single

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels "

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs back doors in do you? 🥪

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'd go for it, very little to lose

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

o o OO o o

If you’re worried about your daughter’s feelings on the matter then best to be upfront and just tell her. She’ll either like it or not. No harm in just a drink. You may not even get on.

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By *urry BlokeMan
12 weeks ago

I would say thanks, but no thanks

I have quite strict rules around who I meet

If someone is already in my life, however casual or incidental, it's a no from me

I want to meet people who become part of my life as opposed to meeting someone I already know

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

o o OO o o


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs back doors in do you? 🥪"

Wouldn’t need to - playground gossip is not just for the kids!

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪"

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

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By *innersh WillMan
12 weeks ago

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You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or ..

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I'd go for it, very little to lose"

Apart from my daughter's respect no... and I value that

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or .. "

I'm not asking for randomers how they feel about it I'm asking for advice

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I would say thanks, but no thanks

I have quite strict rules around who I meet

If someone is already in my life, however casual or incidental, it's a no from me

I want to meet people who become part of my life as opposed to meeting someone I already know "

Thanks...I wouldn't say that I really know her but I know what you mean

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or ..

I'm not asking for randomers how they feel about it I'm asking for advice "

Talk to your daughter and see how she feels about it, you don't have to name names either, best to be honest with her she'll respect you more for that

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By *nn_JamesCouple
12 weeks ago

East Berks / South Bucks


"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or .. "

This…

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By *reative-mindMan
12 weeks ago

exeter

100% yes for it!

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By *innersh WillMan
12 weeks ago

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"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or ..

I'm not asking for randomers how they feel about it I'm asking for advice "

So far it’s a balanced mix of go for it, and don’t go for it.

I wish you all the best ..

My advice : tell your daughter you’ve been asked for a drink and ask how she feels given the age gap, explaining you don’t want it to be weird for her.

But I’m just a randomer off t’internet and I know I wouldn’t listen to me if I was in your shoes!

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By *reative-mindMan
12 weeks ago

exeter


"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or .. "

Where is this fuck site you speak of?

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"If you’re worried about your daughter’s feelings on the matter then best to be upfront and just tell her. She’ll either like it or not. No harm in just a drink. You may not even get on.

"

Thanks, I will talk to her and be guided by her response

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or ..

I'm not asking for randomers how they feel about it I'm asking for advice

So far it’s a balanced mix of go for it, and don’t go for it.

I wish you all the best ..

My advice : tell your daughter you’ve been asked for a drink and ask how she feels given the age gap, explaining you don’t want it to be weird for her.

But I’m just a randomer off t’internet and I know I wouldn’t listen to me if I was in your shoes!"

That's my worry..I wouldn't want her to think that I'm a weirdo

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

I really don’t see any harm in going for a drink with the lady. If things do progress relationship wise your daughter will probably be happy for you…..maybe just keep her in the loop when you know how things are going xx

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs back doors in do you? 🥪

Wouldn’t need to - playground gossip is not just for the kids!"

Well I'd the OP doesn't say anything that would only leave one possible person leaking that info...🥪

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone "

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Really depends if you're good in bed or not as I guarantee everyone's gonna know!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
12 weeks ago

Coventry

I think if you won't to you should totally take her up on it. Its only a drink at this stage and personally I don't see that it is anyone else's business (including your daughter). Obviously depending how things go going forward then you need to how you aproach this with sensitivity.

But for now that's all just jumping the gun. Say yes and go for that drink.

Mr

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I really don’t see any harm in going for a drink with the lady. If things do progress relationship wise your daughter will probably be happy for you…..maybe just keep her in the loop when you know how things are going xx "

Thanks..I'd like to think she would be happy for me. I suppose I might be overthinking things and just go with the flow and see what happens x

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
12 weeks ago

Cotswolds


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪"

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London


"You could either ask your daughter how she would feel about it, or randomers on a fuck site.

Either / or ..

I'm not asking for randomers how they feel about it I'm asking for advice

So far it’s a balanced mix of go for it, and don’t go for it.

I wish you all the best ..

My advice : tell your daughter you’ve been asked for a drink and ask how she feels given the age gap, explaining you don’t want it to be weird for her.

But I’m just a randomer off t’internet and I know I wouldn’t listen to me if I was in your shoes!"

Another random agrees 👍 with this one.

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By *usty kayWoman
12 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

Definitely talk to your daughter, she'll either be supportive or she won't and then you'll know what to do.

Either way she may be able to give you the gossip about this potential friend. If she's known for being a psycho best to find out before the coffee

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London


"If you’re worried about your daughter’s feelings on the matter then best to be upfront and just tell her. She’ll either like it or not. No harm in just a drink. You may not even get on.

Thanks, I will talk to her and be guided by her response "

👍 👍

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"

She has been quite upfront... more than a friendly drink.."

Is she married ?

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣"

Hey...that's the guy that smashed that hot milf....oh no the indignity....😂🥪

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By *innersh WillMan
12 weeks ago

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"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣"

Or .. he could become a legend among the yummy mummies and end up knee deep in muff, depending on how good he is at making the beast with two backs …

2 sides of the same coin, and it’s good to think postively tbh

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one."

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣

Or .. he could become a legend among the yummy mummies and end up knee deep in muff, depending on how good he is at making the beast with two backs …

2 sides of the same coin, and it’s good to think postively tbh "

Absolutely! Finally someone with some common sense! 🥪

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"

She has been quite upfront... more than a friendly drink..

Is she married ? "

No and neither am I

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us... "

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us... "

and if anything happens you come back and tell us, the ones that supported you! Good luck! 🥪

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

"

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪

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By *oeBeansMan
12 weeks ago

Derby


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us... "

Jeez, I can't believe you're actually going for it OP. What would your daughter think...

I'm kidding! Go for it and have fun you crazy kids!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Have you considered she might want you to father another baby ?

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
12 weeks ago

Cotswolds


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣

Or .. he could become a legend among the yummy mummies and end up knee deep in muff, depending on how good he is at making the beast with two backs …

2 sides of the same coin, and it’s good to think postively tbh

Absolutely! Finally someone with some common sense! 🥪"

Can tell you've not been in a playground environment for a while 🤣🤣

They don't talk about types of bread and the best yoghurts to give their little darlings anymore 🤣🤣

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
12 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"I'd go for it, very little to lose

Apart from my daughter's respect no... and I value that "

Then I think you've answered your question mate

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Really depends if you're good in bed or not as I guarantee everyone's gonna know!

"

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣

Or .. he could become a legend among the yummy mummies and end up knee deep in muff, depending on how good he is at making the beast with two backs …

2 sides of the same coin, and it’s good to think postively tbh

Absolutely! Finally someone with some common sense! 🥪

Can tell you've not been in a playground environment for a while 🤣🤣

They don't talk about types of bread and the best yoghurts to give their little darlings anymore 🤣🤣"

So word gets around he's hot stuff in bed...oh the shame, stop cock blocking the man! 🥪

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

and if anything happens you come back and tell us, the ones that supported you! Good luck! 🥪"

😂 Thanks I will update for my supporters 😀😂

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"Say Yes!! Why are you even asking? 🥪

Because I care about what my daughter feels

You don't have to tell her you smashed some milfs background doors in do you? 🥪

I wouldn't discuss my sex life but I would tell her I am seeing someone

You don't have to say who, you're an adult it's up to you who you see, it's only a drink, just go and see how it goes, what have you got to lose? 🥪

His dignity in the school playground on the Monday morning?

All gossip gets out - school playgrounds are vicious places! 🫣

Or .. he could become a legend among the yummy mummies and end up knee deep in muff, depending on how good he is at making the beast with two backs …

2 sides of the same coin, and it’s good to think postively tbh

Absolutely! Finally someone with some common sense! 🥪

Can tell you've not been in a playground environment for a while 🤣🤣

They don't talk about types of bread and the best yoghurts to give their little darlings anymore 🤣🤣"

😂😂

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

and if anything happens you come back and tell us, the ones that supported you! Good luck! 🥪

😂 Thanks I will update for my supporters 😀😂"

🙌 🥪

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By *ools and the brainCouple
12 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"I really need your opinion...I regularly do the school run with my grandsons and have got to know a few of the school Mums... Out of the blue today I have been asked out for a drink by a 30 year old school Mum ...yes she has told me that she is serious...yes this is a genuine post and not a fantasy. I don't want to embarrass my daughter as she is ten years younger than my daughter but I suppose, as many men would be, I am very tempted to say yes... good advice only please.."

Your an adult, she's an adult your single and free to make your own choices.

I admire your concern for your daughter but going for a drink is not a commitment to a relationship.

If it was to grow into something else at that point speak to your daughter.

Go for it fella

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪"

Well if he's not up to scratch....the kids are gonna have to move schools.

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪

Well if he's not up to scratch....the kids are gonna have to move schools.

"

Nah he spreads a rumour that he caught an STI from her 🥪

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪

Well if he's not up to scratch....the kids are gonna have to move schools.

Nah he spreads a rumour that he caught an STI from her 🥪"

Sounds like you've been there yourself...

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪

Well if he's not up to scratch....the kids are gonna have to move schools.

Nah he spreads a rumour that he caught an STI from her 🥪

Sounds like you've been there yourself..."

Similar, but I had a queue of mums lining up the day after, word gets around 😉🥪

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
12 weeks ago

Cotswolds


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪

Well if he's not up to scratch....the kids are gonna have to move schools.

Nah he spreads a rumour that he caught an STI from her 🥪

Sounds like you've been there yourself...

Similar, but I had a queue of mums lining up the day after, word gets around 😉🥪"

So does the CSA 🤭

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"I used to go on the school run sometimes and had loads of opportunities, never did as was married , had a couple of mates also did purposely because of how easy it was to pull. There were a whole group of them all shagging each other at one time.

I would say go for it, but if you feel it’s inappropriate because of your daughter then don’t do it personally I don’t see what the issue is with comparing who you are shagging to your children’s age I find that wierd. They are horny school mums I doubt they want a relationship just some sex so if it goes south it shouldn’t be much of a problem unless you are unlucky and choose the psycho one.

Thanks, I suppose a drink isn't going to do any harm..I'm single and I know she is and I have admired her from afar for a while...if anything happens it happens and for now it's between us...

And the PTA!

And the WhatsApp groups

And the school FB page

Oh stop scaremongering...let the man get laid! 🥪

Well if he's not up to scratch....the kids are gonna have to move schools.

Nah he spreads a rumour that he caught an STI from her 🥪

Sounds like you've been there yourself...

Similar, but I had a queue of mums lining up the day after, word gets around 😉🥪

So does the CSA 🤭"

So does Iceland supermarket 🤷🏻‍♂️🥪

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By *oelMan
12 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

Just say yes?

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By *ost SockMan
12 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I think I’d say “go for it”.

You’ve already shown that you’re aware of potential pitfalls and ramifications. Add in a good dose of honesty with your daughter and I think that puts you in a strong, realistic position.

Just be clear-headed and perhaps ask your daughter to be a helpful sounding-board.

I say this, partly as my friend was ten years older than his step-mum! He ended up being cool with it .

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By *eoBloomsMan
12 weeks ago

Springfield

As long as she doesn't do the school run in her PJs I'd say go for it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

East Sussex

Here's my take on it.

I'm 68, my dad is 98 and three years widowed so a bit different from your situation but the principle is the same.

He has been actively pursued by a woman who's much younger than him and honestly, I was suspicious as to her motive. My concerns were that she would either humiliate him, hurt him or take advantage of him. I guess any concerns your daughter might have will be similar. If you can reassure her that won't happen she might be ok with it.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

If a man cannot (reasonably) stop questioning his moral compass at the age of 65 on something that doesn't really require an ethical evaluation then when is it acceptable?

Any hesitation should be solely on how •you• feel about the age gap, and not about the legal and moral ramifications... which don't really apply.

Accept her invitation. •She• asked you out. It's a social, not a betrothal.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I will add though that I would have supported my dad whatever he did. He's an adult with the ability to run his own life...except when his laptop goes wrong 🧐

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By *edSirenWoman
12 weeks ago

magic mountain

I wouldn’t overthink it. If it feels right then go for it. Different if they are younger, I get the need to wind it in more then. But at 20 years old, the consideration given to your daughter on someone you are merely going for a drink with should be minimal (although I concede that certain situations may render that statement invalid e.g. friends etc).

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"If a man cannot (reasonably) stop questioning his moral compass at the age of 65 on something that doesn't really require an ethical evaluation then when is it acceptable?

Any hesitation should be solely on how •you• feel about the age gap, and not about the legal and moral ramifications... which don't really apply.

Accept her invitation. •She• asked you out. It's a social, not a betrothal."

Thank you... I've decided to accept her kind invitation 👍

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
12 weeks ago

Niche

You have to live your best life.

I'd just be very aware that anything and everything you choose to share or experience with her could easily end up fodder for the gate-gossip.

So be careful and good luck.

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham


"I wouldn’t overthink it. If it feels right then go for it. Different if they are younger, I get the need to wind it in more then. But at 20 years old, the consideration given to your daughter on someone you are merely going for a drink with should be minimal (although I concede that certain situations may render that statement invalid e.g. friends etc)."

Thanks, my daughter doesn't know the lady.. I've decided to accept her kind invitation and hopefully gain a new friend and maybe more..

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By *oodmessMan
12 weeks ago

yumsville

Is she still waiting by the gates as you ask the internet

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

It’ll be like Gloria and Jay in modern family.

Go for it- some younger ladies -do- like older men.

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By *oelMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels


"I really need your opinion...I regularly do the school run with my grandsons and have got to know a few of the school Mums... Out of the blue today I have been asked out for a drink by a 30 year old school Mum ...yes she has told me that she is serious...yes this is a genuine post and not a fantasy. I don't want to embarrass my daughter as she is ten years younger than my daughter but I suppose, as many men would be, I am very tempted to say yes... good advice only please.."

Have to ask, how is it going with her?

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By *Silver-Man
3 weeks ago

North Wales

Spill the beans, what was the outcome

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London

Enquiring minds want to know.

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By *dalisqueWoman
3 weeks ago

land of make believe

Yes!

Please tell us all the status quo

🩵

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