FabSwingers.com forum: Is this true.

By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

“Men do not see couples

They see a female with baggage

And will say almost anything to get at the lady”

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By *uality By DesignMan
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

On here it's rare to find a couple it's usually just a guy pretending lol

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By *ampireLoveMan
14 weeks ago

Essex

"“Men do not see couples

They see a female with baggage

And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"

Nope. Swiping generalisation there. But we live I a society that accepts that so let’s see what the majority of views are 😂😂 (notice what I did there? 😏)

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By *arierWoman
14 weeks ago

birmingham

The amount of men who talk to me pretending to be the woman of a couple is insane.

I just come on here to perv now if I’m honest.

We’ve found that club meets are the best way to meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Yes we’ve experienced this a lot, when seeking out a prospective meet we pay a lot of attention to how the man or whoever is talking to us and do they respect us both and accept we come as a couple etc

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
14 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Sorry, but a human male is a legit physical threat to me. I wouldn’t feel safe

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By *ellinever70Woman
14 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"“Men do not see couples

They see a female with baggage

And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"

If these men are straight, what are your expectations of how they should interact with the male half of a couple?

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By *eckard25Man
14 weeks ago

North West Durham

It's probably true of some men. But definitely not all men.

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By *oe moonMan
14 weeks ago

Doncaster

Unless it’s a previously arrange scenario or cuck play .. I’ve always gone into couple play knowing the guy was there to play too .. it’s all part of the fun ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

East Sussex

No it isn't always true, quite a few men understand the concept of a couple

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By *ellhungvweMan
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Seriously? I can’t speak for anyone else but all the couples I meet have the same basic dynamic - their relationship is strong, she likes to meet other guys and he likes to watch and know she is really enjoying herself. They all tell me the reclaim sex is the best. This is all about them making their relationship even stronger.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Chichester

"On here it's rare to find a couple it's usually just a guy pretending lol"

lol

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By *rHotNottsMan
14 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t get this because all the couples I have met, apart from one where the woman plays solo, it’s always been about them. Well, it’s often about her sexual, but the solution is definitely them not her and when you understand this that’s why couples actually want to meet you.

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By *pacecowboy99Man
14 weeks ago

Near You

Not necessarily... In my opinion I'd love to fuck the guy just as much as the woman.

All depends on the agreed play, and type of fun we've all discussed

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By *issmorganWoman
14 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Not all men are like that op.

Some probably are and others will treat and speak to both parties of a couple with respect.

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By *oughmanMan
14 weeks ago

Sunderland

If I see a couple it's as a couple. I haven't engaged with any of them all that much. I would tend to avoid ones with bi males being straight myself. But I'm not saying it wouldn't be a conversation I'd be willing to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I think if I was going to be worried about the dynamic of couple/singles matches, I’d be more concerned that couples often consider themselves the more important side of the equation and the single tends to be viewed a walking vwe/bbc/cock/vagina/arse/mouth/fetish who is only brought in for the entertainment of the couple. Generally I wouldn’t be arsed with couples myself, not unless I had a brilliant feeling from their profile, they made me laugh or we got chatting and they turn out to be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"On here it's rare to find a couple it's usually just a guy pretending lol"

And this!

My mate once got stalked in Morrisons by a single male pretending to be a couple. Literally calling her and telling her what cat she was driving but not saying how he knew…

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Car*

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
14 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

You’ve got a good point, so maybe.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
14 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Thrill is in the chase for many, a couple is an extra thrill the man is husband is surplus but still part of the game for lots of guy's.

It's a dominance thing, I can never understand this personally.

I'm like MEH! You want to fuck my wife, she wants to fuck you my approval is pretty irrelevant.

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
14 weeks ago

Reading

"No it isn't always true, quite a few men understand the concept of a couple "

This.

We happily engage with callers who see two people. Those who only "speak" to Margo are easily spotted, ignored and blocked.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
14 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"“Men do not see couples

They see a female with baggage

And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"

No. No it’s not true but also.. some women think their husbands are baggage

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By *Silver-Man
14 weeks ago

North Wales

If its the woman chatting its her I speak to, if its the male its him I speak to about her and his role.

Will always say hello to both dependant on context and the couples scenario.

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By *ealitybitesMan
14 weeks ago

Belfast

90 percent of the couples I have chatted to in my years here have only ever been the woman chatting.

Some have told me there is no need to refer to "them" as hubby doesn't read any messages.

Some have said he's no longer playing and a few that he never existed in the first place.

These were people I was chatting to off site as well and they sent me selfies during lockdown while they were walking the dog etc so I never had any doubt that it was the woman.

The only abuse I've ever had on fab has been from the male half of couples and in every case they had initiated the conversation and got nasty when I didn't agree to the list of demands in their opening messages.

I'm also one half of a fab couple and while we have received a few messages that completely ignore my existence, I would never speak to anyone on here in the manner that some couples do.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
14 weeks ago

Portstewart

"“Men do not see couples

They see a female with baggage

And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"

Personally we think they see a husband as an inconvenience for them to get laid unfortunately for those that think this we enjoy putting them in there place

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
14 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yes."

OP, did you just use your single profile to agree with the question asked by your couple’s profile?

That is dedication!

And to answer the question, no not always, but sometimes.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ansoffateMan
14 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's a generalisation.

I am a man I don't think female with baggage when I see a couple. I like couples, because I like connection.

Baggage means something else entirely to me. An example could be making too broad a generalisation based on anecdotal experiences.

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"That is dedication!

Or boredom and too many glasses of wine 🍷

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"On here it's rare to find a couple it's usually just a guy pretending lol

And this!

My mate once got stalked in Morrisons by a single male pretending to be a couple. Literally calling her and telling her what cat she was driving but not saying how he knew…

He knew because he was a

cat-a-holic.

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By *uality By DesignMan
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Or boredom and too many glasses of wine 🍷"

What are you saying about me.

People will think that I am a lush…

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
14 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

I think that the female does get more attention than the male, but it could be that most couple profile has more pictures of the female. I often say to hubby nice profile but where are the pictures of the blokes - I like to perv too 😅

Tink ✌️

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By *icecouple64Couple
14 weeks ago

Nottingham

I must have been lucky. All the men we have met have been totally decent and respectful to me. I think that they realise that they are lucky to be with my gorgeous other half! It's very much a team thing for us. I have never felt like baggage nor treated like it...

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By *omeday1955Couple
14 weeks ago

taunton

We are a couple but it is usually mr doing the perving and showing her off. Check verifications for cam and phone work.

I dont claim to be wife ...it would work for me

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By *ackformore100Man
14 weeks ago

Tin town

"“Men do not see couples

They see a female with baggage

And will say almost anything to get at the lady”"

Err no. Though all people are different. Being part of a couples adventures is great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Most of the guys we’ve chatted to are very respectful yeah they likely couldn’t give a toss about me (mr) and there only interested in getting into Mrs nickers . That doesn’t bother me because if I’m honest I only really care about my wife’s enjoyment. It would be nice to meet some friends though and make a genuine connection

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum

"Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information. "

God you’re so fucking sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information.

God you’re so fucking sexy!"

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By *ea monkeyMan
14 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

This is another reason as to why bi MMF’s are superior; everyone gets flirted with

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum

"Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information.

God you’re so fucking sexy!

I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.

Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?

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By *rAndMrsLilCouple
14 weeks ago

Barnsley

Far too many "couples" profiles on here where it's blatantly obvious it's just the bloke talking. And even some of the genuine couples on here will talk to a couple and pretend to be interested in both of us, but it's also blatantly obvious they only want to play with the female half. We've fallen foul of that a few times!

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information.

God you’re so fucking sexy!

I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.

Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?

I'm trying to dumb myself down so all the big strong men find me attractive Samuel

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By *uality By DesignMan
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"This is another reason as to why bi MMF’s are superior; everyone gets flirted with "

Definitely

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum

"Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information.

God you’re so fucking sexy!

I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.

Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?

I'm trying to dumb myself down so all the big strong men find me attractive Samuel

You’re gonna need more unicorns and less moody sepia…

I always liked the no nonsense stuff.

Alas, I’m not the target audience though so yeah, go new raven

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By *uality By DesignMan
14 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Far too many "couples" profiles on here where it's blatantly obvious it's just the bloke talking. And even some of the genuine couples on here will talk to a couple and pretend to be interested in both of us, but it's also blatantly obvious they only want to play with the female half. We've fallen foul of that a few times!"

Yes I was in Chams with a female friend and we both saw someone who we wanted to join us.

We asked him if he was bi, he said yes.

When we all got to the room I went to suck his cock and he said that he wasn’t really bi…..

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By *ensualSwitchMan
14 weeks ago

Portslade

I can't speak on what couples receive from guys on here but as a single man I speak to both the man and the woman in a MF couple.

I like getting to know you both as humans not just the lady. Even in straight MFMs I like to know the guy is someone who I like

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"Men lie to get a fuck?

This is brand new information.

God you’re so fucking sexy!

I don’t tell lies to get a fuck.

Since when did you start using emoji’s anyway?

I'm trying to dumb myself down so all the big strong men find me attractive Samuel

You’re gonna need more unicorns and less moody sepia…

I always liked the no nonsense stuff.

Alas, I’m not the target audience though so yeah, go new raven

I was going for knackered old mare to be honest, is that not coming through?

Ah Samuel, your penis has forever been my target.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
14 weeks ago

Some men might think that.

I don't message couples for that very reason. I know they come as a package and I'm only interested in the bounties in the box of celebrations.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Central

Is this referring to men in general, or Fab men, in Fab?

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By *oeBeansMan
14 weeks ago

Derby

I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

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By *urry BlokeMan
14 weeks ago

I see both the individuals and the couple

It's part of the reason I don't meet couples

It's also part of the reason that we both have singles profiles rather than a couples account

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies."

That’s a great point Cockbeans.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
14 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

That’s a great point Cockbeans."

Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.

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By *oeBeansMan
14 weeks ago

Derby

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

That’s a great point Cockbeans.

Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice."

I just winced at the thought 🙈

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
14 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

In some cases, sure.

In others, no 💜

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

That’s a great point Cockbeans.

Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.

I just winced at the thought 🙈"

Honestly… it’s given me a semi.

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By *oeBeansMan
14 weeks ago

Derby

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

That’s a great point Cockbeans.

Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.

I just winced at the thought 🙈

Honestly… it’s given me a semi."

Down boy!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
14 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

That’s a great point Cockbeans.

Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.

I just winced at the thought 🙈"

Good USP there! Jellybeans perhaps

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By *ermite12ukMan
14 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

I don't. Especially if the male has introduced me to his wife. (Why would anyone, bite the hand that feeds them?)

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

"I don't. Especially if the male has introduced me to his wife. (Why would anyone, bite the hand that feeds them?)"

The lack of self awareness is spectacular. 🤯

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By *oeBeansMan
14 weeks ago

Derby

"I think that's a gross generalisation akin to saying that couples don't see men, they see a cock to aid in their sexual fantasies.

That’s a great point Cockbeans.

Is that what he shoots out the end of it? Nice.

I just winced at the thought 🙈

Good USP there! Jellybeans perhaps "

I don't think the people are ready for a name change Twisty NipNips!

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
14 weeks ago

South Wales

I think sometimes when people message they don’t always pick up that it’s a couples account but we’ve never actually met with anyone that doesn’t understand the whole couples thing xx

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