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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? " 100% yes. Alongside all the usual: intense, orgasmic, passionate, etc. sex is also funny. If you feel so at peace that you can approach it with a touch of levity and lightness, and laugh… that’s the best | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? " 
I am quite the giggler, it's mostly involuntary and I can't stop it. It absolutely means I'm having a good time, though some men don't seem to like it as they think I'm laughing *at* them which is absolutely not the case. The more I try to stop, the harder it is! Even with the threat of "punishment" I can't stop it and sometimes it gets worse! I smile too much 🫣 especially when I'm nervous. But for me sex should be fun and I don't take it too seriously.
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled!" I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage  | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled! I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage "
When I say I hate it, I mean I will turn into Mike Tyson 🥊🥊 | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? " All situational I presume. It can elevate it sometimes, if you can giggle at the funny moments it shows you’re confident enough in yourself and the person you’re with in my opinion. It shows a level of trust and understanding. I think it takes away awkwardness! But as first stated, it all depends when the giggles start 🤣 | |||
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"It can be all of those things - a nerve easer, a relaxed shared intimacy, a passion killer. Endearing, comfortable, libido destroyer. People who can find the absurdity in life, themselves and me make me happy. But like with everything in life there's a balance to be had. I enjoy when sex is fluid. People are, our time together is. Primal moments blend seamlessly with the more lighthearted, lust is playfully expressed and at other times there's that intense chemistry where words and laughter aren't present. " Would agree with all that. It's not a comedy performance or Fast Show sketch ! The best sex is absolutely when the mood can flow effortlessly from one thing to another. | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? 100% yes. Alongside all the usual: intense, orgasmic, passionate, etc. sex is also funny. If you feel so at peace that you can approach it with a touch of levity and lightness, and laugh… that’s the best " Love the way you've expressed that. | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ?
I am quite the giggler, it's mostly involuntary and I can't stop it. It absolutely means I'm having a good time, though some men don't seem to like it as they think I'm laughing *at* them which is absolutely not the case. The more I try to stop, the harder it is! Even with the threat of "punishment" I can't stop it and sometimes it gets worse! I smile too much 🫣 especially when I'm nervous. But for me sex should be fun and I don't take it too seriously.
If you don't like so_eone who giggles a lot then I'm absolutely not for you! "It's always easier with a regular partner, at least in my experience, as we are more tuned into each others humour. It can be more challenging trying to read a new lover and lots of us try to hard in that situation, I definitely cringe at some humour that didn't land.🤦 | |||
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"I think it’s important to have some laughter But in context If I was to remove my clothes and they laughed at me or my body then I’d melt and leave But, sex shouldn’t be always serious, sometimes the human body will do what it wants and not as you’d want so laughter helps " Our bodies can be quite ridiculous, especially in the intimate moments.🤭 | |||
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"With my body a sense of humour is an absolute must " Darren all our bodies have their imperfections and idiosyncrasies. Laugh at them yes, but not to the point of being demoralising. | |||
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"I’ve had many women tell me after sex ‘that was hilarious’, and I take that as a compliment. " I had a lover who would laugh out loud after orgasm; other people cry although I've not experienced that. It's a moment of great emotional release. | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled! I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage
When I say I hate it, I mean I will turn into Mike Tyson 🥊🥊"You'll bash me round the ring 😳😳 | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled! I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage
When I say I hate it, I mean I will turn into Mike Tyson 🥊🥊
You'll bash me round the ring 😳😳"🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"With my body a sense of humour is an absolute must Darren all our bodies have their imperfections and idiosyncrasies. Laugh at them yes, but not to the point of being demoralising." I know mate … I was only kidding … a sense of humour is a life skill …. | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ?
I am quite the giggler, it's mostly involuntary and I can't stop it. It absolutely means I'm having a good time, though some men don't seem to like it as they think I'm laughing *at* them which is absolutely not the case. The more I try to stop, the harder it is! Even with the threat of "punishment" I can't stop it and sometimes it gets worse! I smile too much 🫣 especially when I'm nervous. But for me sex should be fun and I don't take it too seriously.
If you don't like so_eone who giggles a lot then I'm absolutely not for you!
It's always easier with a regular partner, at least in my experience, as we are more tuned into each others humour.
It can be more challenging trying to read a new lover and lots of us try to hard in that situation, I definitely cringe at some humour that didn't land.🤦
"I'm not even laughing at anything they've said or jokes they've made. It's more just like... Bashfulness? Shyness? Nervous energy? Sometimes it's an evil cackle of satisfaction. I giggle during impact play which some take as me being facetious and bratty like I'm challenging them "ha is that all you've got" and it's absolutely not the reason I'm giggling. Usually I'm trying *not* to giggle. It's more me involuntarily going "omg that hurt, owww hahaha this is making me nervous and I don't know how to express it, except though giggling" 🫣 If I'm edging so_eone and I can see they are struggling and I'm enjoying it, I do what has been described as my "mean and evil cackle". My inner sadist likes making people squirm and suffer, and I will do a little self satisfied chuckle to myself. If I'm being fucked hard and I'm enjoying it and want more I will do my "yes this is fucking amazing give me more" giggle tinged with animalistic hunger. It all just comes out of me naturally and I don't have much control over it 🤷🏻♀️ I guess it's just how my brain processes a multitude of feelings. By giggling! | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled! I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage
When I say I hate it, I mean I will turn into Mike Tyson 🥊🥊
You'll bash me round the ring 😳😳
🤣🤣🤣"I’d love to bash miss flirty around her ring | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled! I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage
When I say I hate it, I mean I will turn into Mike Tyson 🥊🥊
You'll bash me round the ring 😳😳
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I’d love to bash miss flirty around her ring " 🤣 | |||
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"I’ve had many women tell me after sex ‘that was hilarious’, and I take that as a compliment. I had a lover who would laugh out loud after orgasm; other people cry although I've not experienced that. It's a moment of great emotional release. "I've done both! orgasms and getting to them can be bloody intense. | |||
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"With my body a sense of humour is an absolute must Darren all our bodies have their imperfections and idiosyncrasies. Laugh at them yes, but not to the point of being demoralising. I know mate … I was only kidding … a sense of humour is a life skill …. "  | |||
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"I like so_eone that shares my humour but I don't want to fuck a comedian. So_eone I feel comfortable with and not embarrassed with, yes. So_eone that's gonna crack a joke at every little thing, tedious. " 🤐 | |||
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"It all just comes out of me naturally and I don't have much control over it 🤷🏻♀️ I guess it's just how my brain processes a multitude of feelings. By giggling! " That seems like a really healthy and positive response. ☺️ | |||
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"I like so_eone that shares my humour but I don't want to fuck a comedian. So_eone I feel comfortable with and not embarrassed with, yes. So_eone that's gonna crack a joke at every little thing, tedious. " Yep that's exactly it. Or laugh at every little thing. I like the middle ground. | |||
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"I like so_eone that shares my humour but I don't want to fuck a comedian. So_eone I feel comfortable with and not embarrassed with, yes. So_eone that's gonna crack a joke at every little thing, tedious. Yep that's exactly it. Or laugh at every little thing. I like the middle ground." I like the middle mounds | |||
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"I had a fit of giggles during a very intense session where he relentlessly brought me to orgasm again and again. The giggling was involuntary and just a response to the intensity of the session. We both laughed about it whilst we cuddled afterwards. He totally understood what had happened and loved my response and uses it to tease me now with the threat of making me giggle again! " That's such a joyful image. Go giggles ! 😂 | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled! I also HATE being tickled, which some people use to their advantage
When I say I hate it, I mean I will turn into Mike Tyson 🥊🥊
You'll bash me round the ring 😳😳"I'd bash in your ring! | |||
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"I had a fit of giggles during a very intense session where he relentlessly brought me to orgasm again and again. The giggling was involuntary and just a response to the intensity of the session. We both laughed about it whilst we cuddled afterwards. He totally understood what had happened and loved my response and uses it to tease me now with the threat of making me giggle again! That's such a joyful image. Go giggles ! 😂" We've not been able to replicate it since despite our best efforts | |||
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"Yeah if you can’t have a laugh with a bird it ain’t worth my time. No one wants to fuck a miserable bitch. " I don't know, I do quite well. | |||
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"A particular position made me fart the other day. Apparently I would've got away with it if I hadn't laughed. 🤭🤣" Better out than in - works for farts and laughter 😂 | |||
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"I’ve had many women tell me after sex ‘that was hilarious’, and I take that as a compliment. I had a lover who would laugh out loud after orgasm; other people cry although I've not experienced that. It's a moment of great emotional release. "Oh, I’ve had a woman cry, before and after. | |||
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"A particular position made me fart the other day. Apparently I would've got away with it if I hadn't laughed. 🤭🤣" When you laughed did it rattle it out in time with your laughter? Is that what gave away your position? | |||
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"A particular position made me fart the other day. Apparently I would've got away with it if I hadn't laughed. 🤭🤣 When you laughed did it rattle it out in time with your laughter? Is that what gave away your position?" My partner wanted to know why I was laughing. Which is fair enough when he's balls deep. I didn't realise that he hadn't heard/felt it. 😅 Yes, I'm so sexy. 😬🫣 | |||
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"I don't know, I do quite well. " Yeah, but you’re a *funny* miserable bitch. | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? " Being able to laugh at the ridiculousness of sex and all its funny noises and the things we say is fundamental. There have been times I’ve cried from laughing so hard | |||
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"I had a fit of giggles during a very intense session where he relentlessly brought me to orgasm again and again. The giggling was involuntary and just a response to the intensity of the session. We both laughed about it whilst we cuddled afterwards. He totally understood what had happened and loved my response and uses it to tease me now with the threat of making me giggle again! " Haha, I always giggle after I’ve climaxed. Sign of a good time 😊 | |||
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"I love a man who can laugh me into bed, a sense of humour is really important to me. Altho like Biker Jack said if I get my kit off and he laughs that would deffo kill the mood, also being tickled, I hate being tickled!" I agree with this 👍🏽 | |||
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"Fanny farts. Funny and cute at the same time 🤓" Had this a while back. One position we were in and I was obviously filled with air. I'm sure I've a leak somewhere internally by the amount of air which came out. I was in absolute fits! By the end of it, we were both laughing our heads off. Then we had a bit of a cuddle, then carried on. 😈😈 | |||
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"It's not essential. I can think of several scenarios where it would be positive and several where it might be a mood-killer. And the several where a mood-killer could be funny. Did I answer your question? " Yes Hans, and agree mood/scenario dependent. | |||
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"It is now. I’ve never laughed so much during sex until recently. It just makes the experience so much more enjoyable." The mankini will do it every time 😉 | |||
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"Yeah if you can’t have a laugh with a bird it ain’t worth my time. No one wants to fuck a miserable bitch. I don't know, I do quite well. " Maybe they see it as a challenge, slip you a length and turn the frown upside down | |||
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"It is now. I’ve never laughed so much during sex until recently. It just makes the experience so much more enjoyable. The mankini will do it every time 😉" Hahaha oh I’ve got some other outfits too | |||
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"If I somehow ever ended up with miserable fucker I would deliberately give her fanny farts." · I think you meant "funny farts". | |||
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"If I somehow ever ended up with miserable fucker I would deliberately give her fanny farts. · I think you meant "funny farts"." Fantastic profile pic Nero 🫡 | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? " A sense of fun is very important to me. | |||
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"Inspired by a conversation, is laughter an important part of your sex life ? Do you appreciate the absurd in the amorous ? The humour in the horn ? Does a giggle ease the nerves or is it off-putting, even a passion killer ? " It is important to be able to laugh together, unexpected things happen in sex and I would rather laugh about them then feel awkward or embarrassed 😉 | |||
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"Humour is definitely important. To be honest I wouldn't be naked with anyone if we haven't already shared our most ridiculous jokes & sarcastic remarks in the build up to a meet " 100% | |||
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