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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Coming across a lot of profiles recently of white single women or the female of a couple would meet black guys only. Why? Whats wrong with any other type of guy? Sounds kinda racist in a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some say if it aint white it aint right....some say once you go black theres no goin back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some say if it aint white it aint right....some say once you go black theres no goin back"

I just say "variety is the spice of life"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say its just preference

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Its down to personal preference...Its like people only wanting to meet those that are under a size 18 or over 6ft....Are we going to slate them for not being chubby chasers or short person syndrome...No.. Its down to choice and not down to racism or discrimination. I think it becomes racist when they are abusive to person of different ethnicity..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it doesnt..unless they start saying one particular race is better than another..even then its more of a stereotyping than racism

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

I think it is down to preference, no more and no less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its down to personal preference...Its like people only wanting to meet those that are under a size 18 or over 6ft....Are we going to slate them for not being chubby chasers or short person syndrome...No.. Its down to choice and not down to racism or discrimination. I think it becomes racist when they are abusive to person of different ethnicity.."

as one that states this on their profile, I have to say I couldn't have said it better than MissCC here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Coming across a lot of profiles recently of white single women or the female of a couple would meet black guys only. Why? Whats wrong with any other type of guy? Sounds kinda racist in a way "

same other way round?????

for every one of those on a profile.. I bet I can show you a no black guys.. or no asians, no chinese ect ect ect....

not saying its right.. but if the profile was the other way round... would you have started it???

these threads you'll find are only ever started by the exclused..

so it will be a young person or an older person if it is age related..

people of a certain size.. if it is size related...

people of a certain sexuality if it sexual related

and ect and ect and ect...

you are not going to please everyone.. and at the end of the day a preference is a preference is a preference regardless of if you agree with it or not......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hérieWoman
over a year ago

North Wales


"I say its just preference "

Agree.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

We all have our own 'thing' how can that be wrong x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

its preference, end of..

no one should have to justify their choice..

the 'it could be racism' point in relation to this issue does annoy me tbh..

its not racism, those who have suffered it will know what it is...

and its not this..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Its down to personal preference...Its like people only wanting to meet those that are under a size 18 or over 6ft....Are we going to slate them for not being chubby chasers or short person syndrome...No.. Its down to choice and not down to racism or discrimination. I think it becomes racist when they are abusive to person of different ethnicity..

as one that states this on their profile, I have to say I couldn't have said it better than MissCC here. "

Aww thanks...

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By *ooo lushWoman
over a year ago

manchester/Leeds

Well said _isscheekychops ...

As a female on here that only meets blk guys yes its mi prefrence ... Thats it ... Lost count how many times i av ad messages sayin i wont meet u cause ur a bbw lol guess sayin ur fat doesnt class as a form of prefrence does it lol...

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By *ooo lushWoman
over a year ago

manchester/Leeds

Well said _abio x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message very few BBC-wanting cpls/fems, if I think I'm there primarily just as a BBC(which I dont claim to be anyway)- anyway i'm a small skinny sallow skinned type..sometimes whiter than the white people so i hardly contrast(this is a 'feature' many like as its about a sexual juxtaposition)

Rightly or wrongly people of either side( the wanters and the givers) may play upon the race thing...fair enough, unfortunately it makes myself feel uncomfortable knowing I have been selected to 'perform' like some kind of blackcock4whitepussypornstar

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Its down to personal preference...Its like people only wanting to meet those that are under a size 18 or over 6ft....Are we going to slate them for not being chubby chasers or short person syndrome...No.. Its down to choice and not down to racism or discrimination. I think it becomes racist when they are abusive to person of different ethnicity.."

^^^^This!!!

How a WHITE person can be racist for WANTING black playmates beats me!

I'm going to start bitching everytime I come across a profile that excludes me. How dare people have preferences!

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I'm one of those women. For me it's because I'm attracted to tall, stocky, black guys and yes they do have to meet all three. Guess that also makes me heightist and sizeist too. Best chuck in ageist as they also have to be of a certain agel.Or it could just be that I know what I like and am not prepared to settle for anything else..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Coming across a lot of profiles recently of white single women or the female of a couple would meet black guys only. Why? Whats wrong with any other type of guy? Sounds kinda racist in a way

same other way round?????

for every one of those on a profile.. I bet I can show you a no black guys.. or no asians, no chinese ect ect ect....

not saying its right.. but if the profile was the other way round... would you have started it???

these threads you'll find are only ever started by the exclused..

so it will be a young person or an older person if it is age related..

people of a certain size.. if it is size related...

people of a certain sexuality if it sexual related

and ect and ect and ect...

you are not going to please everyone.. and at the end of the day a preference is a preference is a preference regardless of if you agree with it or not......"

Well put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm one of those women. For me it's because I'm attracted to tall, stocky, black guys and yes they do have to meet all three. Guess that also makes me heightist and sizeist too. Best chuck in ageist as they also have to be of a certain agel.Or it could just be that I know what I like and am not prepared to settle for anything else.."

any room for a wee tiddler like me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll quote from the iconic, Michael. Jackson.

" it doesn't matter, if your are black or white " ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming across a lot of profiles recently of white single women or the female of a couple would meet black guys only. Why? Whats wrong with any other type of guy? Sounds kinda racist in a way

same other way round?????

for every one of those on a profile.. I bet I can show you a no black guys.. or no asians, no chinese ect ect ect....

not saying its right.. but if the profile was the other way round... would you have started it???

these threads you'll find are only ever started by the exclused..

so it will be a young person or an older person if it is age related..

people of a certain size.. if it is size related...

people of a certain sexuality if it sexual related

and ect and ect and ect...

you are not going to please everyone.. and at the end of the day a preference is a preference is a preference regardless of if you agree with it or not......"

Couldn't have put it better myself Fabio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how some women really go for black guys when their husbands are white lol

Anyway I think the only preference we particularly feel strongly about is lack of body hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until the philosophy which hold one race superior / And another / Inferior / Is finally / And permanently / Discredited / And abandoned / - Everywhere is war

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I'm one of those women. For me it's because I'm attracted to tall, stocky, black guys and yes they do have to meet all three. Guess that also makes me heightist and sizeist too. Best chuck in ageist as they also have to be of a certain agel.Or it could just be that I know what I like and am not prepared to settle for anything else..

any room for a wee tiddler like me...

Oh gonna have to meet areaist too my list as have to also be within a reasonable driving distance too. God I'm a fussy cow lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont have to keep battering on your point _llie rose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue 'Blue Mink'

OK - my bed time now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Amazing how some women really go for black guys when their husbands are white lol

Anyway I think the only preference we particularly feel strongly about is lack of body hair. "

Fantasy and something different.

Some 50 something women only play with 20 somethings when they're married to some old duffer. What would your comment to them be?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazing how some women really go for black guys when their husbands are white lol

Anyway I think the only preference we particularly feel strongly about is lack of body hair.

Fantasy and something different.

Some 50 something women only play with 20 somethings when they're married to some old duffer. What would your comment to them be?!! "

R u speaking from xperience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say its just preference "

You is so PC

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"Dont have to keep battering on your point _llie rose"

It's not battering it's banter, all a bit tongue in the cheek. Thought forums were for discussion and views!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I will use this as an example...For years I only dated black guys...I would not batter an eyelid at white guys because at that time that was my perference...Now time goes by and my preferences have changed and I don't look at what colour a person is..If they float my boat then that is what I look at..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont have to keep battering on your point _llie rose

It's not battering it's banter, all a bit tongue in the cheek. Thought forums were for discussion and views!"

well said ellie! too many people taking stuff seriously....if they aint happy they know where the door is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont have to keep battering on your point _llie rose"

she was quoting my comment...ease up ffs!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's not racist.

There must be a thread on this every week. Perhaps Fab needs a basic Q&A section...

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


"Coming across a lot of profiles recently of white single women or the female of a couple would meet black guys only. Why? Whats wrong with any other type of guy? Sounds kinda racist in a way "

Funny this thresd, there was one the other week posted by an aian man stating he felt this site was recist as there are too many profiles saying no blacks, asians or mixed race!! I suppose it's the way you look at profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will use this as an example...For years I only dated black guys...I would not batter an eyelid at white guys because at that time that was my perference...Now time goes by and my preferences have changed and I don't look at what colour a person is..If they float my boat then that is what I look at.."

I've just finished ur model boat the '_isscheekychops', lets go to the pond and see if... u all float down here.. oops..my 'IT' side came out there

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I will use this as an example...For years I only dated black guys...I would not batter an eyelid at white guys because at that time that was my perference...Now time goes by and my preferences have changed and I don't look at what colour a person is..If they float my boat then that is what I look at..

I've just finished ur model boat the '_isscheekychops', lets go to the pond and see if... u all float down here.. oops..my 'IT' side came out there "

You are such a silly billy...Hope you got the champers to christen it...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Amazing how some women really go for black guys when their husbands are white lol

Anyway I think the only preference we particularly feel strongly about is lack of body hair.

Fantasy and something different.

Some 50 something women only play with 20 somethings when they're married to some old duffer. What would your comment to them be?!!

R u speaking from xperience?"

About what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazing how some women really go for black guys when their husbands are white lol

Anyway I think the only preference we particularly feel strongly about is lack of body hair.

Fantasy and something different.

Some 50 something women only play with 20 somethings when they're married to some old duffer. What would your comment to them be?!!

R u speaking from xperience?

About what?"

No matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it insulting or offensive if i see someone say they don't like black guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think it's a rather offensive and immature to put something like black guys only on your profile or vice versa. Surely all you need to do is either ignore people you don't like or send a polite thanks but no thanks.

I personally would not meet anyone that put such a thing on their profile as it immediately makes me think they are ignorant bigots and should be ignored so in that way I suppose it's a good thing. It's turning a negative into a positive in that respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see an issue and on a site like this saves both parties a lot of time.

I know i've come across profiles/users that I would have messaged where their profile said they aren't into black guys. No loss (but time saved).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think it's a rather offensive and immature to put something like black guys only on your profile or vice versa. Surely all you need to do is either ignore people you don't like or send a polite thanks but no thanks.

I personally would not meet anyone that put such a thing on their profile as it immediately makes me think they are ignorant bigots and should be ignored so in that way I suppose it's a good thing. It's turning a negative into a positive in that respect.

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it save people wasting their time where we're not going to be interested in them, surely? I don't see how that is immature or offensive?? I'm sure you must have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get offended when I see "white men only" on profiles.

Just that persons preference and just saves time as matey above said...

Horses for courses..

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By *weet6Woman
over a year ago

East Riding

Hmmnnnn..... Not quite the same, but the other day I replied to a message telling the guy I was really flattered from his interest, that his veri's were amazing and that he had a fantastic body, but that he just wasn't for me as he was a little too slim for me

My preference is for taller, stockier guys - I know this from experience so no point meeting no matter how much of a catch he appeared to be

In my head I know it's all about personality, but when my eyes are closed, it's my hands and body that feel what's attractive to me and what isn't....

I won't repeat what his next message said, but it certainly did not appear to come from the 'charming, respectful' guy his veri's, nor his own profile, made him out to be

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many people have already said,it's a matter of preference.We have a preference for interracial fun as it gets us both extremely horny,can't explain the exact reasons why it does but it does.The list of sexual preferences people have is endless so we fail to see why people get so agitated just because they don't enjoy what other people get off on xx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

IF someone puts "No single men" on profile, does that make them sexist??

The women on here looking for black men are no different to women looking for white men....

As has been said, it is only those who have been excluded, complain!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares what people write. If things bother you about other people's profiles then you've way to much time on your hands x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming across a lot of profiles recently of white single women or the female of a couple would meet black guys only. Why? Whats wrong with any other type of guy? Sounds kinda racist in a way "

Their choice! it is a swingers site after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish i could find some in florida

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never get offended when I see "white men only" on profiles.

Just that persons preference and just saves time as matey above said...

Horses for courses.. "

As a black woman I never get offended if I see white women only: why on earth would I?!!

I don't see anything untoward: aren't people allowed preferences without being called names now?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hmmnnnn..... Not quite the same, but the other day I replied to a message telling the guy I was really flattered from his interest, that his veri's were amazing and that he had a fantastic body, but that he just wasn't for me as he was a little too slim for me

My preference is for taller, stockier guys - I know this from experience so no point meeting no matter how much of a catch he appeared to be

In my head I know it's all about personality, but when my eyes are closed, it's my hands and body that feel what's attractive to me and what isn't....

I won't repeat what his next message said, but it certainly did not appear to come from the 'charming, respectful' guy his veri's, nor his own profile, made him out to be

S x"

Now you see, personally I wouldn't have replied to him at all, in fact his message would have been deleted unread.

When visible, I have on my profile I will not respond to anyone outwith my criteria. I read the profile before the message. If they don't meet it...

No insults, no drama, one happy bunny: me!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As many people have already said,it's a matter of preference.We have a preference for interracial fun as it gets us both extremely horny,can't explain the exact reasons why it does but it does.The list of sexual preferences people have is endless so we fail to see why people get so agitated just because they don't enjoy what other people get off on xx"

I think you'll find it's more miffed they're excluded. Some people honestly struggle with the concept that you won't appeal to everyone.

There are some that see people they want to play with but are excluded from contacting them and with a sense of entitlement then act like whining, petulant brats who can't get their own way.

You see it here all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been reading the comments with interest and i agree that its upto the person or persons what they want to get from this site its deff not racist..what could be seen as racist is when a black guy leaves a verification saying ' i pounded the white bitch good and proper ' or ' i emptied 11 days of superior black cum up the white slut '

i have read these comments from black guys quite often as im sure most of us have here too but i just wonder what the reaction would be if it was a white guy saying that about a black female?

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