FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexual

By *igeltams OP Man
5 weeks ago

clady

So a thought just occurred to me. Is it rare that a homosexual man wud turn to bisexual. As I believe it’s mostly heterosexual men going bi. Any thoughts appreciated

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

My thoughts are this.

There is no answer.

There is no set stage to be at in your life's journey.

You can decided daily if you are gay, straight, bi, pansexual etc etc etc.

This problem only arose when strict societal / cultural rules said that men must do this and women must do that .....

How a person feels sexually is developed from both nature and nurture and isn't set in stone

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By *ansoffateMan
5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Maybe it's more discover than turn?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"So a thought just occurred to me. Is it rare that a homosexual man wud turn to bisexual. As I believe it’s mostly heterosexual men going bi. Any thoughts appreciated "

Do you believe that if you believe something then it is true ? Where does your belief that it's heteros that 'go' bi ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

come from ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I had sex with a bulky cushion yesterday if you count rocking on it while I was mindlessly doing some work .......

Does that make a plushbian ? or a kapokosexual ? Do I have to do it again tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day ?

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By *ansoffateMan
5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I had sex with a bulky cushion yesterday if you count rocking on it while I was mindlessly doing some work .......

Does that make a plushbian ? or a kapokosexual ? Do I have to do it again tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day ? "

You're not a true Scotsman if you don't wear a kilt.

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By *igeltams OP Man
5 weeks ago

clady

I don’t believe that anything I believe is true. I’m quite humble in that sense and more than happy to be proved wrong if it means I understand something a little better. The post isn’t intended in anyway as a snipe against anyone’s sexuality. I’ll put it another way. I know a lot of people of have been predominantly hetro then discovered the bi life. I’m only curious is their many homosexual men that travel

The same journey going into the bi side of life

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I didn't think you were sniping O.P. It's an interesting thing to ponder but why do you believe what you believe is all Im asking

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By *ackformore100Man
5 weeks ago

Tin town

"I don’t believe that anything I believe is true. I’m quite humble in that sense and more than happy to be proved wrong if it means I understand something a little better. The post isn’t intended in anyway as a snipe against anyone’s sexuality. I’ll put it another way. I know a lot of people of have been predominantly hetro then discovered the bi life. I’m only curious is their many homosexual men that travel

The same journey going into the bi side of life"

In many cases it seems to depend on the availability of somewhere warm to put your cock for 3 minutes.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

I agree. I think sexuality fluctuates too, why does everything need to be labelled? I like having sex with humans I like and am attracted to... and inanimate objects that can make me cum if that counts

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By *igeltams OP Man
5 weeks ago

clady

"I had sex with a bulky cushion yesterday if you count rocking on it while I was mindlessly doing some work .......

Does that make a plushbian ? or a kapokosexual ? Do I have to do it again tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day ? "

I hope u had consent from the bulky cushion lol.

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By *ansoffateMan
5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

Is a vibrator inanimate when it's turned on?

I think that's a more meaningful question.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

Is a vibrator inanimate when it's turned on?

I think that's a more meaningful question."

Hmm, good point 🤔

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By *ackformore100Man
5 weeks ago

Tin town

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

Is a vibrator inanimate when it's turned on?

I think that's a more meaningful question."
how do you turn a vibrator on?

Is the vibrator male or female?

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By *ellinever70Woman
5 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't think labels are pointless or useless

They're a very good starting point to enable social interaction

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

Is a vibrator inanimate when it's turned on?

I think that's a more meaningful question. how do you turn a vibrator on?

Is the vibrator male or female? "

Just press the "on" button, mate

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By *ansoffateMan
5 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

Is a vibrator inanimate when it's turned on?

I think that's a more meaningful question. how do you turn a vibrator on?

Is the vibrator male or female?

Just press the "on" button, mate

If you set it to pulse then it's going to get really confusing.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

People saying why put a label on it, it doesn't matter...etc, true that it doesn't matter but you gotta put a label on it as it represents who and what you are???

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By *eve500Man
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I consider myself straight.... but the thought of playing with a cock is getting increasingly horny

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

Is a vibrator inanimate when it's turned on?

I think that's a more meaningful question. how do you turn a vibrator on?

Is the vibrator male or female?

Just press the "on" button, mate

If you set it to pulse then it's going to get really confusing."

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By *ora the explorerWoman
5 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

There was a gorgeous man on here a while ago I was friendly with. He was so bloody hot. He was gay but said he was a teeny bit curious about women so it does happen.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"I had sex with a bulky cushion yesterday if you count rocking on it while I was mindlessly doing some work .......

Does that make a plushbian ? or a kapokosexual ? Do I have to do it again tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day ?

I hope u had consent from the bulky cushion lol. "

Loo k ...... it was an innocent oversight .....

It's probably traumatised

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"People saying why put a label on it, it doesn't matter...etc, true that it doesn't matter but you gotta put a label on it as it represents who and what you are???"

Human. Sex is NOT WHO we are.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"I don't think labels are pointless or useless

They're a very good starting point to enable social interaction "

I guess we KNOW if we are sexually attracted to something without someone naming or describing it ..... our body and brain tells us

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

I knew a few gay men and women who discovered they were gay after being in heterosexual relationships all of their lives. Not many, or any I can think of who went from gay to straight.

I was talking about being bi with another TV a few months ago, they wanted to try but were concerned that it would turn them bisexual. That conversation made me think there’s too much pressure especially on men to be a ‘gold star hetro’ I think it’s so sad to live your life and not experiment due to social norms.

I know I’m bisexual and very comfortable with it and the label, recently I had some online forms to complete at work and it did ask about sexuality so I put down bisexual which was a first for me. I’m not out or intend to come out, but close friends do know and any relationships have to know if they get serious.

Anyway rambling now and forgot what this thread is about

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By *ackformore100Man
5 weeks ago

Tin town

"I knew a few gay men and women who discovered they were gay after being in heterosexual relationships all of their lives. Not many, or any I can think of who went from gay to straight.

Anyway rambling now and forgot what this thread is about

It's interesting what you say about pressure to be gold star hetero... I'd say pressure is the opposite to be bi.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

You're probably much more likely to encounter straight people who venture flexibly outside of their initial scope, because of the volume of people and, I think, because of conditioned repression from society.

As far as I understand, there's no inherent difference between gay and straight people, with each person having potential to want to explorez as they gain retaliation of their tastes and interests.

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By *ackson 501Man
5 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"My thoughts are this.

There is no answer.

There is no set stage to be at in your life's journey.

You can decided daily if you are gay, straight, bi, pansexual etc etc etc.

This problem only arose when strict societal / cultural rules said that men must do this and women must do that .....

How a person feels sexually is developed from both nature and nurture and isn't set in stone "
you are a very wise woman xx

Will you be my mentor x

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I’m straight but the thought of feeling a cock in my hand or wanking in front of a man while he is turns me on massively or a bi couple involving me in a threesome Iv never experienced any of these but would not say I would try it

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By *oubleswing2019Man
5 weeks ago

Colchester

"My thoughts are this.

There is no answer.

There is no set stage to be at in your life's journey.

You can decided daily if you are gay, straight, bi, pansexual etc etc etc.

This problem only arose when strict societal / cultural rules said that men must do this and women must do that .....

How a person feels sexually is developed from both nature and nurture and isn't set in stone "

“Labels are for filing. Labels are for clothing. Labels are not for people.” Martina Navratilova

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By *iger3Couple
5 weeks ago

Dunstable

I think it’s more of a discovery all having fun together

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By *pforanything22Man
5 weeks ago

March

Going to my first swinging club, I was straight but the opportunity to explore and watch others playing give me new fantasy, the first was having my cock sucked but I had to try suck someone else and meeting a couple in a private room, kissing his wife and my first kiss on a male before his wife put her hand on my shoulder to push me on my knees to suck husband. With the lifestyle I am happy and enjoy being a bi oral male and take anything at my own pace x x

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By *ickD80Man
5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Do you think that someone is only bi-sexual once they’ve had sex with both sexes? If someone has sex with someone of the same sex for the first time after years of only having sex with people of the opposite sex do you think that they are heterosexual until the point they first have sex with someone of the same sex and then after that they’re bisexual? Do you really think that someone’s sexuality is determined purely by who they’ve had sex with?

Being bisexual means that you’re sexually attracted to both sexes, someone can spend their whole life only having sex with the opposite sex but still be bisexual if they’re also attracted to the same sex. Someone could meet the love of their life at a young age and they could be together for the rest of their lives and only ever have sex with each other but still be bisexual. Even though they’re with that one person all their lives they will still be attracted to other people because it’s impossible not to be attracted to other people but they will never act on it because they remain faithful to that one person. So if they’re attracted to men and women but only ever have sex with one other person who’s the opposite sex are they heterosexual or bisexual?

There are many, many gay people who have heterosexual relationships before they come out as gay because they are trying to hide their sexuality…it’s sad that it happens but it does. So are those people heterosexual while they’re in the heterosexual relationships and then bisexual once they start having relationships with the same sex? Even though they are only attracted to the same sex and their heterosexual relationships were just a cover up.

You really need to stop seeing people’s sexuality as something determined purely by who they have sex with because it’s determined by who they are sexually attracted to and desire to have sex with, regardless of who they actually do have sex with.

A bisexual person is attracted to both sexes, they may have sex with both sexes, they may only have sex with the same sex or opposite sex, but if someone’s sexually attracted to both sexes they’re bisexual.

If someone is only attracted to the same sex then they’re homosexual regardless of whether they’ve had sex with someone of the same sex.

What you’re witnessing OP is people who have desires to have sex with someone of the same sex will hide it during their younger life because they’re scared to be different and want to follow the norm but as we get older we tend to be less scared and will be who we really want to be. People don’t decide to start being attracted to the same sex they just stop hiding their true feelings. They don’t change from being heterosexual to bisexual, they’ve always been bisexual, they just change from being scared and suppressing their feelings to being open and accepting their feelings. When i was younger i used to pretend that i like the taste of lager because all my mates drank lager and i didn’t want to be the only one who didn’t, now i don’t pretend to like lager and never drink it. That doesn’t mean i have changed from someone to likes lager to someone who doesn’t like lager, I’ve always been someone who doesn’t like lager but i haven’t always felt comfortable with other people knowing it.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Ilkley

"I'm not a fan of the arguments levelled here at people who say they are straight and have dabbled.....

Stop putting labels on sexuality - If I wanted to fuck a man or a woman or a fucking hermaphrodite it doesn't need a label . It's one human fucking another ...... or each fucking each other

In French all the inanimate objects are either male or female... Does this mean that if a vibrator uses a female noun, every french woman with a Rabbit must be a lesbian? And if a condom is male, then french men must be gay if they put their dick into one?

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By *ackformore100Man
5 weeks ago

Tin town

Do you think it could be that as people get older, live their lives engage with people that they change? I mean I didn't like olives until I was 30, and now I do. Doesnt mean I always liked olives but pretended not to because of any reason. They made me puke. People change.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

How can anyone know, really know, what they like until they’ve seen or met enough different types of people? Thst goes for sexual interests even within a single demographic. These days we are all much more aware of different lifestyles etc and understand there might be options if we wanted to explore in a given direction.

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