FabSwingers.com forum: "Show face or no reply"

By *tolly98 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Sunderland

Is it just me who finds it funny/annoying when some profiles say show your face for a reply and have pics on your profile but then their profile has absolutely nothing, no pics, little to no description no green ticks etc?

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By *tr8MrEMan
14 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

They don't deserve any messages if you ask me

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By *aizyWoman
14 weeks ago

west midlands

It doesn't bother me OP, I just pass them by.

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By *tolly98 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Sunderland

"It doesn't bother me OP, I just pass them by."

I pass them by but still it sometimes annoys me when I see it

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By *mmaleiaWoman
14 weeks ago

Trowbridge

what annoys me more is I have blocks on people with no public pics, but they still deceptively get round my blocks thinking they’re clever, instant block

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
14 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

If it doesn't work for them they won't get laid.

It's not really anything to do with me. I have no feelings about it 💜

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By *ansoffateMan
14 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I am sure it's not just you, but I don't find it annoying.

I'm probably not going to send a face picture in an opening message though, so I'd just move on.

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By *a LunaWoman
14 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I get face pics all the time.

I don’t want face pics, I want cock pics!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
14 weeks ago

Brum

I’m not replying as you haven’t shown your face.

Wait…

Oh bugger.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
14 weeks ago

walsall

Why would it be worth bothering about? Their profile, their rules. Their business

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By *riel13Woman
14 weeks ago

Northampton

Why would you message someone you can't see?? Also, why would you reply to someone you can't see?? If I can't see your face how will I know I want to talk to you? But anyway... You don't have to do what they ask

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"Is it just me who finds it funny/annoying when some profiles say show your face for a reply and have pics on your profile but then their profile has absolutely nothing, no pics, little to no description no green ticks etc?"

Absolutely...double standard...usually a "couples" profile run by the/a man..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Central

Lots of things about people will scream that they aren't for you, you're the majority of people who aren't mutually compatible. It's lovely when they make things very easy for you to spot

. No further effort invested.

It might be how they engage with others, their style or anything that's not in your comfort zone or tastes.

That's fine - we don't have to gel with everyone or do things in the same ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

"Why would you message someone you can't see?? Also, why would you reply to someone you can't see?? If I can't see your face how will I know I want to talk to you? But anyway... You don't have to do what they ask"

You can learn a lot about a person by the quality of their chat

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By *riel13Woman
14 weeks ago

Northampton

You can learn a lot about a person by the quality of their chat

I'm not wanting to chat to anyone I'm not attracted to... Otherwise they're just a friend... I'm attracted to faces as much as personality so need to see it, plus a very high percentage of faces, I'm not attracted to and don't fancy having to tell that many people that I don't fancy them so...

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

You can learn a lot about a person by the quality of their chat

Fair point..

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Doh...fair point in the wrong place twice..

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By *teve282002Man
13 weeks ago

leeds

I don’t send out face pics unless I get to know them a bit-which is difficult on here as it seems like a “no reply” culture

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
13 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

"what annoys me more is I have blocks on people with no public pics, but they still deceptively get round my blocks thinking they’re clever, instant block"

We had a friend request this morning from a profile like that despite our filters blocking them

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By *nglishdelightMan
13 weeks ago

mansfield

Don’t bother me personally

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By *eformed_CharactersCouple
13 weeks ago

round and about

Im no5 bothered at first as long as they do send a few messages in

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By *vaRoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"what annoys me more is I have blocks on people with no public pics, but they still deceptively get round my blocks thinking they’re clever, instant block

We had a friend request this morning from a profile like that despite our filters blocking them

Yeah it means they made a pic public long enough to get around my filters and then hid it again. Instant delete

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

If you're gullible enough to send a face pic to a blank profile that's on you.

If you're gullible enough to send a face pic to a complete stranger on the internet just because their profile asks for one, that's on you.

If you are smart enough to do neither but get annoyed that people you've never spoken to or have any intention of doing so, have particular demands on their profile, that's on you.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 weeks ago

North West

"what annoys me more is I have blocks on people with no public pics, but they still deceptively get round my blocks thinking they’re clever, instant block"

Oh, that annoys me too!

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By *riel13Woman
13 weeks ago

Northampton

"what annoys me more is I have blocks on people with no public pics, but they still deceptively get round my blocks thinking they’re clever, instant block

Oh, that annoys me too! "

I think they only need to have friends only pics to get around it

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
13 weeks ago

North West

"what annoys me more is I have blocks on people with no public pics, but they still deceptively get round my blocks thinking they’re clever, instant block

Oh, that annoys me too!

I think they only need to have friends only pics to get around it

Really? That seems pointless as a filter. It makes people seem like sneaky filter sneaks when they might not actually realise I've a filter in place.

Still, no pics I can see means instant delete.

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