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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

How many messages do women get in a day?…

And how many do you manage to reply to?… Asking for a friend 😂 ……..

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By *ustus5555Woman
1 week ago

Mansfield

If you discount the forum ones, usually around 30ish

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 week ago

Forest of Dean

Depends what filters I’ve got up

20-200+

No chance to reply to lots of it’s a heavy mail day.

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By *acey_RedWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool

0

0

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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

Don’t believe 0 maybe this morning 0 😂

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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

Wow no wonder messages never get read 😮‍💨 need to up my game 😂

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By *acey_RedWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool

Pretty sure I haven't had any messages this year

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By *weetRoseyxWoman
1 week ago

North West

Around 15-20 today , depends! X

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
1 week ago

Reading

Daily? Depends on how active I've been in a day but between 20-50 on average. If I post a new picture, closer to 50-100.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
1 week ago

your head

None. I love it, it's peaceful.

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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

Because you don’t want messages from single guys probably but u would get lots today if you took that off I’m sure 😂

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By *EAT..85Woman
1 week ago

Nottingham

About one a minute that I'm active online if I have my settings open.

It's rare I have them open for this exact reason.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
1 week ago

your head


"Because you don’t want messages from single guys probably but u would get lots today if you took that off I’m sure 😂 "

I dont want messages from anyone. I'm not here, just passing by.

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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

I would like just 1 message I know that sounds sad but it’s true 😂 I only receive messages bk after I have sent one.

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By *allGent99Man
1 week ago

Wirral


"0

0"

No way Lacey, I would thought you would have tons

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By *riendwithbenefitsMan
1 week ago

Coventry

Rarely, I get a first message. I do appreciate a friendly reply. Even if it's a no thanks as I take time to read a profile and word messages nice.

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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

Little Miss tinkerbell

We all do like a perv as do I 😂

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By *acey_RedWoman
1 week ago

Liverpool


"0

0

No way Lacey, I would thought you would have tons"

Cross my heart

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By *23squirt on me OP   Man
1 week ago

perth

Hope you get some x

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
1 week ago

Ipswich

0

0

Normally a few friends about on hear

Must had busy Sunday they will probably message through the week though

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
1 week ago

Honeysuckle lane

Only 1 today that’s a fantastic day for me

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By *andTWoman
1 week ago

Altrincham

Because of the filters I have and the wording of my profile I still get 20+, more when I'm actually online

The majority of them I don't reply to, the polite/complimentary ones I reply to and people I chat to regularly

☺️

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

I use a fair few filters, so including those I speak to regularly, about 12 ish.

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
1 week ago

La La Land


"How many messages do women get in a day?…

And how many do you manage to reply to?… Asking for a friend 😂 …….."

0-2

Reply to 99% 😎

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

We get around 50-100 messages - we post pics regularly though.

OP, if you’ve got a lot of cock pics that’ll be a reason why you don’t get messages - a profile that’s overly focused on the little brain isn’t going to get anyone going.

Haven’t looked at your profile but guys saying they aren’t getting anywhere are either full of cock pics or blank/bland profile wording.

K

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By *mandoMan
1 week ago

Shrewsbury

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By *mandoMan
1 week ago

Shrewsbury


"Pretty sure I haven't had any messages this year"

That's surprising 😮

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By *assy LassieWoman
1 week ago

Lanarkshire


"Wow no wonder messages never get read 😮‍💨 need to up my game 😂 "

Going by where you stay i would hedge my bets that women in your area get a lot less messages per day than those replying on here, densely populated areas will attract more traffic to a profile.

Therefore the question you should probably be asking yourself if you struggle with replies is. Would you reply to you. Most women check profiles before looking at a message. Look within and you will find your answer

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By *ella_and_FellaCouple
1 week ago

Somewhere

We've had nearly 400 in our first two weeks but assuming that's because we're new.

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By *mandoMan
1 week ago

Shrewsbury


"We've had nearly 400 in our first two weeks but assuming that's because we're new."

Nice pics 😎

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

I get so many i've taken on a secretary to answer them all

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By *orphia2003Woman
6 days ago

Tonypandy.

Really does depend. If we discount messages from a few online mates who I chat with daily, 0-10 probably.

I try to respond to them all unless they are offensive or just 1 word.

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
6 days ago

IRVINE

It can be different from day to day some days I can get up into the high 20s and other days 50 .but I do try to answer most of them but takes time to do so mrs

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By *ilbzMan
6 days ago

Swindon Wiltshire

I rarely get any to be honest. It doesn’t bother me, after all it’s not a popularity contest 😂

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By *kbwc1995Man
6 days ago

manchester/bradford

That's probs coz of your filters lol

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
6 days ago

newcastle

Yep a lot. Most of them from my bf asking for stuff. So not complaining! Xxx

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By *a LunaWoman
6 days ago

Wherever the wind takes me

Between 5 and 8

I have tight filters though (oh er).

But as a tall fat hairy bird I’m not really the target audience for most men

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By *orseman82Man
6 days ago

Marlborough

I’m shocked that some women don’t get any messages!!?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
6 days ago

Next Door

10 maybe, most of them will be hi and a blank profile.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
6 days ago

Maidstone

A handful. It's such a struggle ignoring them all.

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By *reative-mindMan
6 days ago

exeter

It's not just women I'm literally beating them off with a stick...

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By *oneyBee200Woman
6 days ago

Kent

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