FabSwingers.com forum: FABSINGLES

By *carTissue1984 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Beaconsfield

I have chatted with a few single women on here who share similar views as me.

I'd love to date someone from this site on a more "normal" type of dating to build a relationship with.

If you date on the other vanilla type dating sites, its very difficult to find someone ok with the fabs lifestyle.

So my thought is, there should be a section on fabs for single dating, but obviously the people on here would be open for a kinkier lifestyle and therefore no awkward conversations about it at a later date.

I've really enjoyed the last 6 months on here, but I'm craving the everyday relationship and being part of a couple. I'm a single dad of 1 child, and certainly open to more children in the future, but happy eitehr way. Would love to find someone from here to enjoy the best of both worlds.

Have I missed a section on here that has single dating? Or are there any recommended sites I don't know about to find someone open to this lifestyle who also wants to fall in love?

Any help would be appreciated!?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
6 weeks ago

Next Door

There has been many many threads about dating on here.

Lots have said a dating forum would be good.

Lots of threads also about people looking for someone to date.

I'm open to date someone and maybe I will find that person on here.

Good luck in your search OP

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Dating is not swinging.

There's a million sites for dating but only a few for swinging,this site has been taken over by singles in recent years so honestly if you can't find what you are looking for here then a change of direction maybe needed.

Swing if you want, date vanilla if you want.

Biggest problem I see today is so many people ( mainly men but not exclusively) want their cake and eat it.

Leave the site as it is.

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I can see OP had mentioned it on their profile which would be my suggestion. It’s there in the text if you’re looking for more than casual encounters

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By *bi HaiveMan
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6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I can see OP had mentioned it on their profile which would be my suggestion. It’s there in the text if you’re looking for more than casual encounters "

This. Just put it in your profile.

My last three relationships have come via Fab and I'm still in two of them.

The issue with a specific section is that (much like vanilla dating apps) many will say anything to get sex but not actually be seeking a relationship. How often is it said on here, particularly from men, about how easy it is to find one night stands on normal dating apps?

Just meet, see how things go, and let things progress naturally. You're far more likely to find what you want if you don't go looking for it. 🤷‍♂️

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By *carTissue1984 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Beaconsfield

I completely get that,

Also understand the frustration that a lot of single men cause on sites like this.

Some of the married couples I've met are amazing people, and I want to find a single who would be happy with a swinging lifestyle.

The dating sites I've looked on don't really cater for finding someone with that kind of outlook, hence my frustration and like you say fabs is full of singles that want their cake and eat it.

Which paints us all (single guys) with a bad brush.

I appreciate the feedback though xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
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6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Which paints us all (single guys) with a bad brush.

I appreciate the feedback though xx

Nope. Nothing anyone does on here reflects on me and nothing I choose to do affects anyone else either.

I'm me. They're them. Never the twain shall meet. 🤷‍♂️

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By *a LunaWoman
6 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

Which paints us all (single guys) with a bad brush.

It really doesn’t. Anyone with any sense would know that not ALL men are the same. You get good eggs, you get bad eggs. Whatever the sex.

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By *ceKweenWoman
6 weeks ago

Bolton

I’m all for dating in the fab world… we are all more open on here than a general dating site which I see and hear is extremely hard work

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
6 weeks ago

furnace

"I’m all for dating in the fab world… we are all more open on here than a general dating site which I see and hear is extremely hard work "

Well I’m in

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