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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland

Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses.

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6 weeks ago

Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋

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By *DerryMan
6 weeks ago

Dublin/Derry/Belfast


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"

Wow you are stunning xx

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By *lassyRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"

This is me

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By *aul53Man
6 weeks ago

NORWICH

You can't beat the taste of a a nice wet pussy x

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By *igad999Man
6 weeks ago

wolverhampton


"You can't beat the taste of a a nice wet pussy x"

💯 this

It makes me so turned on smelling and tasting the wife’s big wet pussy

Smell is like a pheromone

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By *reaky builderMan
6 weeks ago

East London/Glasgow


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"

Look no further. I love to lick and love curvy women

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By *laret_jonoMan
6 weeks ago

Clitheroe


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

Noticed the replies haven't been particularly helpful.

You've got 2 choices - either you're extremely blunt and ask the lady if she'd mind freshening up (obviously you risk a kick in the bollocks) or maybe have a look at some flavoured lube

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
6 weeks ago

mid glam

Hey OP

Women smell different so what do you mean by smell? Like a unwashed smell? Or the natural smell?

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
6 weeks ago

Debauchery

So many questions, what is it about the smell that puts you off? What to you does it smell of? Have you had a previous bad experience?

I once watched a program where a guy didn’t want to go down on his wife because he saw it as unhygienic so they suggested he did it over her underwear for a while and that helped.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...Noticed the replies haven't been particularly helpful.

You've got 2 choices - either you're extremely blunt and ask the lady if she'd mind freshening up (obviously you risk a kick in the bollocks) or maybe have a look at some flavoured lube"

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Other than your kind response the replies have been pretty much puerile and obtuse.

OP, clearly it's a sensitive subject but there's nothing wrong with asking the question. I occasionally tend to enhance the sensation and experience by pouring chilled sparkling water over the quim (or even ice cold Champagne/sparking wine if I'm feeling somewhat opulent) as part of the foreplay, tasting and savouring the combination of the cool nectar and the freshly effervescent quim. 🧊🍾

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By *cottish guy 555Man
6 weeks ago

London

Do you suffer from hyoerosmia? Basically an extremely heightened sense of smell. Do you notice it with other smells being overpowering?

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By *NewBNWOMan
6 weeks ago

back

Man up

put her first & go round & round on the clit unless there's an overpowering smell maybe find another lady or speak to her

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By *assy LassieWoman
6 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Please don't take this the wrong way. I noticed you are bi-curious.

Are you maybe more than curious and maybe more than bi?

The reason I ask is I have a gay friend and in his teenage years (short version) he tried to be with women but couldn't do oral.

So I just wonder have you maybe went through life suppressing your real sexuality. I honestly hope I haven't offended you with this reasoning🥰

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Man up"

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By *igblackchocolateMan
6 weeks ago

London & Essex

Before you go down make sure she’s shaved she eats a lot of fruits you will thank me later

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
6 weeks ago

salford

Believe it or not, I'm quite the connoisseur with this.

Generally, just before her period, musty, "full flavour" and sexy.

Just after period, clean and brand new and sexy.

On period, tastes like rust. Can be mistaken for a nose bleed. Sexy vampire time!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

The thing is op that not everyone likes

every sexual activity. Despite some less than helpful responses here you're probably not alone and I can only imagine the simpering and sychophantic replies a woman posting a similar problem would have received.

I'd say if you don't like it, don't do it.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
6 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"

The op just changed his mind.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
6 weeks ago

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Op if you really don't like it then why force yourself. Plenty of ladies out there hate receiving oral anyway, so to some you may seem like a perfect option.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
6 weeks ago

huddersfield

Love giving oral

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By *ibs4Man
6 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

Have always licked those lovely lips,nothing better than pussy juice all over my face,mmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

For the most part in my experience going down on a woman the have been nice and clean no real taste until they cum but did have 1 woman ther was a smell so stayed away she rang me few weeks later sayin she had chlamidya so i got tested luckily i was clean altho thats what the odour was!!

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By *ushrangerMan
6 weeks ago

Hampshire

As someone who loves plating a woman, I usually finger first and have a rub and try and have a whiff on the sly, disco minge can be a bit too much, if the lady knows you're going to go down then an effort should be done to "make it safe", I do prefer shower fresh, maybe try using a flavoured lube.

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By *andadbodMan
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

It’s not for everyone for sure, my mrs never liked guys doing it to her but kinda went with the flow of things, i do enjoy doing it myself but never spend too much time down there, I see it as part of the build up, as for the smell, it’s a turn on for me and most I guess but obviously there are those that are put off from it, best advise i can give us both of you start your foreplay under the shower, I do this quite often, ensures we’re both nice and clean and ready to play 👍🏻

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Why don't you include bathing together as part of foreplay or showering together.

What it the same woman or different women OP?

Don't worry about it if you don't want to do it it's your choice as much as if a woman didn't want to suck cock she shouldn't do it just because she felt she had to.

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By *ndyman 201Man
6 weeks ago

hereford


"Have always licked those lovely lips,nothing better than pussy juice all over my face,mmmmmmmmm"

Love it,,, mmm

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Morning OP

Ok so simply put unless there is an issue with the lady in questions hygiene or health it could be that you just don’t enjoy performing oral.

You don’t have to, and that’s ok. Not everyone enjoys it and you shouldn’t feel pressured to perform something you don’t enjoy or don’t want to do.

If it’s something you really want to try, why not suggest a sensual and intimate shower together so everything is as fresh and clean as possible before you begin. Use flavoured lubes if that helps and maybe try the taste from the tips of your fingers rather than direct from the source so you can be sure before you begin.

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By *Silver-Man
6 weeks ago

North Wales

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

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Hey OP, sorry you've had some rather daft replies.

Is it the smell of all women you don't like?

There's nothing wrong with not wanting or enjoying any sexual act. I'm only in to receiving oral if someone is really, really in to it so 99% of the time I'd rather not bother. Why do you want to overcome it?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"

Rip your inbox 😂

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By *alandNitaCouple
6 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

From my experience, every lady smells & tastes different... more than that though, they can individually smell and taste differently from one day to the next and at different times of the day.

Obviously personal hygene makes a big difference to your expeience, but also things like diet and whether they smoke or vape will all have an influence.

Cal

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Hey OP

Women smell different so what do you mean by smell? Like an unwashed smell? Or the natural smell? "

I’m presuming it’s the natural smell. As soon as it becomes wet it has a characteristic smell.

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By *RAGO.Man
6 weeks ago

Wirral

Love eating pussy, love the teasing and anticipation before I do, caressing inner thighs, gentle kisses/nibbles along skin.

A hard bite at top of inner thigh, run my tongue across front of knickers then pull them to one side.run my tongue through lips and suck clit mmm

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By *uiteman2020Man
6 weeks ago

Warsop

nothing better than a woman with my head between her legs having them shaking

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By *ake_or_deathMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

As others have said - if you don't enjoy it, maybe it's better to find women who also doesn't enjoy it rather than forcing yourself to do something you don't like?

If you really want to though, I'd suggest building up slowly. If you find it overpowering to be so up close, then maybe start by stroking her pussy with your fingers and acclimatising to the taste and aroma she leaves on them - you can lick her juices off your fingers and get used to the taste of them.

As others have said, different women taste different depending on the time of the month, and their diet. So maybe you've just been unlucky and you've only tried it with women you're not compatible with - or maybe you just don't like going down on women and that's fine.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland

Thank you for the many sensible responses regarding my question. Being told to “man up” is particularly helpful coming from people who consider themselves to be a gold medalist on giving oral sex. Thank you also to the ladies who have commented on this personal subject and to the guys offering genuine advice. I will continue to monitor the thread for further advice and suggestions. I dont think the opportunity to try it is going to happen anyway so perhaps I’m worrying too much. I can’t do it if I haven’t got anyone to do it on can I :*

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Dispute the fact I can really enjoy being given oral, the only way I love it is if its obvious the other person does.

Therfore I'd know if someone wasn't keen and would hate for them to just be going through the motions because they somehow felt they should.

Don't ever push yourself to do something you don't enjoy OP.

Women all smell differently so it may be that one experience has put you off . It may also be you just don't like it . That's completely ok. Boundaries are important.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses.

As others have said - if you don't enjoy it, maybe it's better to find women who also doesn't enjoy it rather than forcing yourself to do something you don't like?

If you really want to though, I'd suggest building up slowly. If you find it overpowering to be so up close, then maybe start by stroking her pussy with your fingers and acclimatising to the taste and aroma she leaves on them - you can lick her juices off your fingers and get used to the taste of them.

As others have said, different women taste different depending on the time of the month, and their diet. So maybe you've just been unlucky and you've only tried it with women you're not compatible with - or maybe you just don't like going down on women and that's fine."

Thank you

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Dispute the fact I can really enjoy being given oral, the only way I love it is if its obvious the other person does.

Therfore I'd know if someone wasn't keen and would hate for them to just be going through the motions because they somehow felt they should.

Don't ever push yourself to do something you don't enjoy OP.

Women all smell differently so it may be that one experience has put you off . It may also be you just don't like it . That's completely ok. Boundaries are important. "

You are amazing saying that thank you so much, makes me feel a little better about it. I guess I just want to please and to be good at it if I can be.

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By *AYENCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It's impossible to know what your smelling, but a pussy shouldn't smell bad if washed and healthy. How many women have you tried to go down on?

There are those 'man jokes' that imply that a pussy smells of fish - if it does its probably due to some sort of bacterial infection.

If she's hairy she'll probably have a musky smell due to the hair absorbing sweat and piss, but the pussy itself shouldn't smell.

If it doesn't smell right it probably isn't right and best if you don't put your mouth on it.

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Thank you for the many sensible responses regarding my question. Being told to “man up” is particularly helpful coming from people who consider themselves to be a gold medalist on giving oral sex. Thank you also to the ladies who have commented on this personal subject and to the guys offering genuine advice. I will continue to monitor the thread for further advice and suggestions. I dont think the opportunity to try it is going to happen anyway so perhaps I’m worrying too much. I can’t do it if I haven’t got anyone to do it on can I :* "

I’m not sure if this is going to help or not but I’m going to go ahead and say it anyway.

Enthusiasm matters. There is nothing worse than someone doing something (could be any sexual act) who is doing it because they feel like they should and not because they’re really into it. To be clear here I don’t mean questionable consent here, that’s a different conversation entirely. I’d much rather someone speak up and say hey I don’t really enjoy this act than a lacklustre encounter.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
6 weeks ago

cardiff


"Before you go down make sure she’s shaved she eats a lot of fruits you will thank me later "

Oh excuse me one sec, would you mind just popping in the shower for 5 to shave please. Oh and then go and eat a bowl of fruit. I don't think so

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"It's impossible to know what your smelling, but a pussy shouldn't smell bad if washed and healthy. How many women have you tried to go down on?

There are those 'man jokes' that imply that a pussy smells of fish - if it does its probably due to some sort of bacterial infection.

If she's hairy she'll probably have a musky smell due to the hair absorbing sweat and piss, but the pussy itself shouldn't smell.

If it doesn't smell right it probably isn't right and best if you don't put your mouth on it.

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Thank you for responding. I’ve been with 2 women and didn’t like the smell. I didn’t want to use the fish word because of causing any offence however both did have that kind of odour which in all honesty just made me want to urge. I didn’t discuss it as I was embarrassed for their feelings at the time and embarrassed by my lack of being able to complete the job. Generally I think it’s me who is messsd up on this.

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By *amseMan
6 weeks ago

birmingham

I really enjoy licking pussy, love the taste and smells, making it juicy, suck the clit and try finding the g-spots inside. Always a vinner!

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Before you go down make sure she’s shaved she eats a lot of fruits you will thank me later

Oh excuse me one sec, would you mind just popping in the shower for 5 to shave please. Oh and then go and eat a bowl of fruit. I don't think so "

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By *r Looking 69Man
6 weeks ago

north


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

Very few actually smell bad . I think you've been very unlucky in the past .

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By *lderLover69Man
6 weeks ago

South Birmingham

Wear a facemask

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"I really enjoy licking pussy, love the taste and smells, making it juicy, suck the clit and try finding the g-spots inside. Always a vinner! "

You are lucky you can do it I’m happy for you!

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By *iss DevilWoman
6 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, as a few others have said, why are you trying to force yourself to do a sexual act you don't enjoy? There are so many other things you can do, giving a lady oral is not a requirement for her to have a good time. And it's coming from someone who loves being licked. However, I can tell when a man is just doing it to "tick the oral box" and it gives him no pleasure whatsoever. Or, like in your case, OP, it disgusts him. Therefore, do work on your "game" in other areas and leave oral alone if it's not your thing.

However, if you really want to go down on a lady, maybe you can suggest, as part of foreplay, to take a shower together, soap each other up, let hands wander and build up sexual tension. Or, if the lady is hairy, ask if you could shave her- but don't say it's because the sight/smell puts you off but again make it part of the foreplay. Or, as someone already mentioned, use some flavoured lube on the pussy, do a little bit of erotic massage of that area, again to build up the sexual tension? Do be mindful that some lube does leave an aftertaste in the mouth, and also that, if the lady is a squirter/gusher, her taste and smell will change once she's cum.

On the subject of finding a lady who'd be happy to teach you oral- good luck with that, OP. I wouldn't think many ladies on here would like to be someone's "experiment". Also, what if you wouldn't be able to get through with it? But maybe you might be lucky, just make sure you communicate with them clearly about your worries.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Wear a facemask"

Silly and unhelpful but thanks for your input.

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By *ellhungvweMan
6 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If it is not for you OP then it is not for you. Life rolls that way. Don’t try and force it.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"OP, as a few others have said, why are you trying to force yourself to do a sexual act you don't enjoy? There are so many other things you can do, giving a lady oral is not a requirement for her to have a good time. And it's coming from someone who loves being licked. However, I can tell when a man is just doing it to "tick the oral box" and it gives him no pleasure whatsoever. Or, like in your case, OP, it disgusts him. Therefore, do work on your "game" in other areas and leave oral alone if it's not your thing.

However, if you really want to go down on a lady, maybe you can suggest, as part of foreplay, to take a shower together, soap each other up, let hands wander and build up sexual tension. Or, if the lady is hairy, ask if you could shave her- but don't say it's because the sight/smell puts you off but again make it part of the foreplay. Or, as someone already mentioned, use some flavoured lube on the pussy, do a little bit of erotic massage of that area, again to build up the sexual tension? Do be mindful that some lube does leave an aftertaste in the mouth, and also that, if the lady is a squirter/gusher, her taste and smell will change once she's cum.

On the subject of finding a lady who'd be happy to teach you oral- good luck with that, OP. I wouldn't think many ladies on here would like to be someone's "experiment". Also, what if you wouldn't be able to get through with it? But maybe you might be lucky, just make sure you communicate with them clearly about your worries. "

Yes you are right I don’t know why I put that it’s probably wrong and insensitive, ladies please accept my apologies. Like you said I don’t want anyone to feel like an experiment I just meant it in the way of some people actually do like kind of teaching people and guiding them. Anyhow I don’t see any opportunities ahead of me as things stand.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"If it is not for you OP then it is not for you. Life rolls that way. Don’t try and force it."

Thank you for that, some really good advice in here and certainly makes me feel a little better about it.

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6 weeks ago


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋

Wow you are stunning xx "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Make it clear from the off, that you only eat freshly washed pussy.

It’s not hard all you got to do is roll your tongue around the clit.

You do know where that is yeah ?

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Make it clear from the off, that you only eat freshly washed pussy.

It’s not hard all you got to do is roll your tongue around the clit.

You do know where that is yeah ? "

Please tell me you are obviously an expert on the female body.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
6 weeks ago

Newport

Whack some cotton wool up your nostrils.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Whack some cotton wool up your nostrils."

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By *iss DevilWoman
6 weeks ago

Bedford


"Make it clear from the off, that you only eat freshly washed pussy.

It’s not hard all you got to do is roll your tongue around the clit.

You do know where that is yeah ?

Please tell me you are obviously an expert on the female body."

OP, I get that you're frustrated by some of the responses on here but don't throw your toys out of the pram. This poster actually made a very valid point, you'd be surprised how many men struggle to find the clit. Heck, I sometimes struggle with some ladies. Not every single clit is well pronounced and clearly visible. Also, not every single woman likes direct stimulation on there. So yes, definitely a valid point about knowing where the clit is.

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By *iss DevilWoman
6 weeks ago

Bedford


"Make it clear from the off, that you only eat freshly washed pussy.

It’s not hard all you got to do is roll your tongue around the clit.

You do know where that is yeah ? "

I do need to make a point about this reply, too. Oral is very much NOT just about rolling your tongue around the clit, it's so much more. Unless your reply was meant to be sarcastic.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Make it clear from the off, that you only eat freshly washed pussy.

It’s not hard all you got to do is roll your tongue around the clit.

You do know where that is yeah ?

Please tell me you are obviously an expert on the female body.

OP, I get that you're frustrated by some of the responses on here but don't throw your toys out of the pram. This poster actually made a very valid point, you'd be surprised how many men struggle to find the clit. Heck, I sometimes struggle with some ladies. Not every single clit is well pronounced and clearly visible. Also, not every single woman likes direct stimulation on there. So yes, definitely a valid point about knowing where the clit is. "

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By *illy IdolMan
6 weeks ago

Midlands

If you don't like the smell, you may just have to accept that it's not for you. This may be better to tackle once you've found a woman who is understanding and patient with you. At least then you could both take things slowly and try to build up over a longer period of time. Just smelling the area to start with and slowly building up from that over a longer period of time.

You won't be the only one who doesn't enjoy it, so try not to worry about it and focus on the things you do both enjoy.

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By *arried curious guyMan
6 weeks ago

Motherwell

Tbh I love it. I licked my gfs pussy a month before she let me fuck her. I was her first cock and that was after 5 months dating

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By *a LunaWoman
6 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

You’re 56 OP, with all due respect, why start licking pussy now if it bothers you so much?

If you don’t want to do it, don’t do it. Just be upfront about the fact you don’t do it.

And maybe ensure your sexual partners take personal hygiene seriously. Albeit there are numerous reasons a pussy may have an odour.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester

I've had sex with men who didn't like to do oral because of "sensory issues" and I accepted that. I would never force them to perform a sex act they were uncomfortable doing, as others have said enthusiasm really matters. And bad experiences can absolutely make you not want to do a thing you didn't enjoy again.

If a person is not really into it, it shows and I'd rather not have it. Just communicate this to whoever you are having sex with and if they are unhappy with that, that's their perogative. I know some women might say, well I won't perform oral on you either then, and if that's how they feel then you also need to respect that. Then plenty to do besides oral, even with foreplay.

Women should not naturally smell "fishy" as you mentioned, that's usually a sign of a bacterial infection or possibly poor hygiene. I'm a woman who has sex with women and I've never noticed any of the women I've performed oral on smelling that way. So it's unfortunate that you've experienced this. But women DO all have a distinct smell/taste and even with the same women this can fluctuate due to a vast number of factors. Perhaps using a dental dam might make you feel more comfortable? They are designed for use with oral sex. Or performing it through their underwear to begin with. To see how comfortable you feel. Others have suggested flavoured lube but I personally try to avoid flavoured lube as the chemical can give me thrush. So again, this should be discussed with the person you are having sex with. I would definitely suggest you are both squeaky clean and freshly showered if you want to try it again.

But if it's just not for you, don't force it. You just need to communicate clearly to the person you are having sex with why you don't want to do it so she doesn't feel insecure, and that it's not a problem you have with going down on her specifically. You may find some women are unhappy with not receiving oral, others will be fine. Every woman is different and has different preferences.

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By *midnight-Woman
6 weeks ago

...

A lot of good advice so far OP.

Lots of things impact a ladies vagina -where she is in her menstrual cycle and her pH which also changes with age and as others have said the amount of fluid she drinks and the food she eats can also have an effect

One trick for you to try is sucking a strong mint first - you'll have a nice minty taste and smell.. and apparently it is nice and tingly for the lady... Although I didn't know what impact that has on her pH.. which kinda takes us back into cause and effect cycle!

Anyway good luck with your endeavors - but it might just not be for you. Oral does ziltch for me and there are plenty of other's who wouldn't be bothered if it wasn't part of a meet.

You may as also find that your sexual interests and desires change over the years, so whilst you don't enjoy it right now, you may enjoy it in later life !

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I only want to be with man enjoys oral sex men that don't not for me

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By *rt123300Man
6 weeks ago

swindon


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"
gladly I love it

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By *teveanddebsCouple
6 weeks ago

Norwich

Op how many women are we talking about here that you've sampled?

If it just a few that could be bad luck.

You do need to learn the sniff test though.

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By *rt123300Man
6 weeks ago

swindon


"I only want to be with man enjoys oral sex men that don't not for me "
I’d let you ride my face as long as you wanted your smoking hot x

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By *dam1971Man
6 weeks ago

Bedford

I know we all like to think we’re masters of sexual prowess here, but so much of our experience is down to luck. If the first times you tried it, it was a bit unpleasant, the smell associated with that can put you off in future.

If you want to try again (and I agree with the posters saying you don’t have to) then maybe try the ideas above like a shower together first, or cold champagne and see if it helps. I’m sure I read somewhere that drinking hot tea can be a strong sensation too.

Once it feels like it’s ok and she gets pleasure from it, the problem will start to melt away and you can enjoy it too.

If you don’t, no worries. Everyone has something they don’t like, don’t get misled by the sex gods here that if you won’t do everything, there’s something wrong with you. That’s bollocks at best, and damaging more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Maybe it's mid life crisis take up hobby go Hiking

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By *espacito56Man
6 weeks ago

Orkney


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"

How about an old, less attractive man who loves eating pussy? Lol

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By *rt123300Man
6 weeks ago

swindon


"Maybe it's mid life crisis take up hobby go Hiking "
message me please x

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Interesting thread

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By *inceIlkestonMan
6 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

I would say your entitled to you preferences like anyone else.

Personally when I go down on someone I tend to only come up for air unless they're ready to move on to the next thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋

How about an old, less attractive man who loves eating pussy? Lol"
I got fetish for young builders and young men seem to have fetish for older curvy woman with big bum thick thighs winner winner chicken dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Come eat my chicken dinner 😋🤣

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol


"Come eat my chicken dinner 😋🤣"

Winner winner

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By *espacito56Man
6 weeks ago

Orkney

Scent and flavour vary immensely, some superb, others minging. Fuck knows why.

My fb isn't my all time favourite, but she enjoys being eaten so much, and is so fucking good at everything else in the sex department, its a small price to pay.

Young local friend, on the other hand, was sweet as a nut to taste, but otherwise a nightmare, so no deal, sadly. Superfine body though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Lol at all the men using this to tell everyone how much they love giving oral

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By *rt123300Man
6 weeks ago

swindon


"Come eat my chicken dinner 😋🤣"
good your offering I’m starving

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By *ynamite500Man
6 weeks ago

Angus

[Removed by poster at 11/04/25 09:23:16]

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Mr N said I taste different at different times. Possibly diet or hormonal changes. I don't think bathing would help here since the smell would quickly return.

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By *ancaster31Man
6 weeks ago

Preston

Maybe it's just not for you! TBH I prefer a stronger taste/smell. Freshly showered is just tasteless

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By *RSTCouple
6 weeks ago

S. Northants

As long as the owner looks after it, a nice wet fresh pussy is one of the world's best delicacies!

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By *Silver-Man
6 weeks ago

North Wales

Your missing out for sure OP, a nice fresh pussy is the best taste ever and I love it.

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By *D07Man
6 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"It's impossible to know what your smelling, but a pussy shouldn't smell bad if washed and healthy. How many women have you tried to go down on?

There are those 'man jokes' that imply that a pussy smells of fish - if it does its probably due to some sort of bacterial infection.

If she's hairy she'll probably have a musky smell due to the hair absorbing sweat and piss, but the pussy itself shouldn't smell.

If it doesn't smell right it probably isn't right and best if you don't put your mouth on it.

"

True

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

If you've tried and failed a few times, I'd probably say it's not gonna be for you.

That's how I feel with certain foods and I've accepted, I won't ever have them.

It's good that you want to get past it, but no woman would want someone to go down, if they don't enjoy it or felt repulsed.

You can tell if someone is really into it and that's a big turn on.

There are plenty of other things you can do sexually and as long as you make people aware that oral isn't on the table, that's absolutely fine.

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By *uliette500Woman
6 weeks ago

Hull

We can't all like doing everything, if it's not for you then fair enough.

All I would say is be upfront and honest about it. If you are arranging to meet someone tell them beforehand so they can decide if this is deal breaker for them.

You will feel much more comfortable going into a meet knowing she isn't expecting that from you and you are not forcing yourself to do something you don't enjoy.

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By *uilder.funMan
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Read the book "she cums first" honestly it should be mandatory reading for all men!

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By *uliette500Woman
6 weeks ago

Hull


"Your missing out for sure OP, a nice fresh pussy is the best taste ever and I love it.

"

It might be for you but if he doesn't enjoy it why should he feel pressure to do it?

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
6 weeks ago

mid glam


"Hey OP

Women smell different so what do you mean by smell? Like an unwashed smell? Or the natural smell?

I’m presuming it’s the natural smell. As soon as it becomes wet it has a characteristic smell."

I understand what you mean. It's a distinctive odour. As the sensible comments have said don't do something your uncomfortable with.

Is it all about the odour? Could it be how the ones you've seen look too?

(Take time in your words to reply on that one OP lol lol)

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By *odgerMooreMan
6 weeks ago

Up Your Frock!

I think if the women you meet live under a bridge.. and smell strongly of sherry then it could be hygiene related… I have met a cple women where it was an issue and they didn’t live under a bridge or have a sherry aroma but in the vast majority of cases a woman is very much like a new high performance car…. Spotlessly clean and with a glossy shine

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By *Silver-Man
6 weeks ago

North Wales


"Your missing out for sure OP, a nice fresh pussy is the best taste ever and I love it.

It might be for you but if he doesn't enjoy it why should he feel pressure to do it? "

Who's pressuring the OP to do it, I just stated that he's missing out and that I enjoy it. He hasn't enjoyed it to date, one day he may like it.

I'm not telling him he must do it.

Find a woman you can relax and feel confortable with OP, maybe take a shower together then experiment.

Apologies if my statement cam over as being pushy.

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By *ockieMan
6 weeks ago

coventry

Love it mmmmm

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By *hipdaleCouple
6 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Breath through your ears

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By *orny PTMan
6 weeks ago

Peterborough


"You can't beat the taste of a a nice wet pussy x

💯 this

It makes me so turned on smelling and tasting the wife’s big wet pussy

Smell is like a pheromone "

Pheromones are meant to be smelt.

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By *Silver-Man
6 weeks ago

North Wales


"...Noticed the replies haven't been particularly helpful.

You've got 2 choices - either you're extremely blunt and ask the lady if she'd mind freshening up (obviously you risk a kick in the bollocks) or maybe have a look at some flavoured lube

•

Other than your kind response the replies have been pretty much puerile and obtuse.

OP, clearly it's a sensitive subject but there's nothing wrong with asking the question. I occasionally tend to enhance the sensation and experience by pouring chilled sparkling water over the quim (or even ice cold Champagne/sparking wine if I'm feeling somewhat opulent) as part of the foreplay, tasting and savouring the combination of the cool nectar and the freshly effervescent quim. 🧊🍾"

Sparkling wine? You just ruined a natural dish in my view.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

This thread has made me feel unwell!

I think you have been extremely unlucky OP! That or you need to up your standards in women! I have never ever come across a smelly lady area!

I also would like to make clear that it’s not only females that have their own smell and taste.. men do also!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London


"It's impossible to know what your smelling, but a pussy shouldn't smell bad if washed and healthy. How many women have you tried to go down on?

There are those 'man jokes' that imply that a pussy smells of fish - if it does its probably due to some sort of bacterial infection.

If she's hairy she'll probably have a musky smell due to the hair absorbing sweat and piss, but the pussy itself shouldn't smell.

If it doesn't smell right it probably isn't right and best if you don't put your mouth on it.

"

Hairy or not, if she hasn't washed after using the toilet the urine drips will smell after a while, it just sticks to skin instead of hair.

Also, the sweat will stay on the skin too, as well as an odour from yourself, if you're going down after you've touched her.

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By *illy-ButcherMan
6 weeks ago

Brigstock

I must be lucky..never had a bad one...always nice n juicy and fresh.

If there is a fishy smell then something is not right and perhaps she does not know..but pointing it out could be a minefield.

You say it's only based on two partners...I'd suggest if you try it with a new one do it right after a shower and have a couple of drinks before hand.

This will lower your inhibitions and anxiety about it...and you'll come to enjoy it.

Especially when you see what pleasure it can give..

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"This thread has made me feel unwell!

I think you have been extremely unlucky OP! That or you need to up your standards in women! I have never ever come across a smelly lady area!

I also would like to make clear that it’s not only females that have their own smell and taste.. men do also!!"

Sorry for that I didn’t mean to do that. This is why I was asking cause I have so little experience I need to know if it’s just me, and in my opinion it’s not something that pops up in conversation easily with a new partner!

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"I must be lucky..never had a bad one...always nice n juicy and fresh.

If there is a fishy smell then something is not right and perhaps she does not know..but pointing it out could be a minefield.

You say it's only based on two partners...I'd suggest if you try it with a new one do it right after a shower and have a couple of drinks before hand.

This will lower your inhibitions and anxiety about it...and you'll come to enjoy it.

Especially when you see what pleasure it can give.."

Thank you that’s great advice as has been on here generally.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading


"This thread has made me feel unwell!

I think you have been extremely unlucky OP! That or you need to up your standards in women! I have never ever come across a smelly lady area!

I also would like to make clear that it’s not only females that have their own smell and taste.. men do also!!

Sorry for that I didn’t mean to do that. This is why I was asking cause I have so little experience I need to know if it’s just me, and in my opinion it’s not something that pops up in conversation easily with a new partner!"

I cannot understand how someone would be unaware if their bits smelt that bad? It’s alien to me!

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Your missing out for sure OP, a nice fresh pussy is the best taste ever and I love it.

It might be for you but if he doesn't enjoy it why should he feel pressure to do it?

Who's pressuring the OP to do it, I just stated that he's missing out and that I enjoy it. He hasn't enjoyed it to date, one day he may like it.

I'm not telling him he must do it.

Find a woman you can relax and feel confortable with OP, maybe take a shower together then experiment.

Apologies if my statement cam over as being pushy."

No it’s fine mate and thanks for anyone looking out for me too.

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"Hey OP

Women smell different so what do you mean by smell? Like an unwashed smell? Or the natural smell?

I’m presuming it’s the natural smell. As soon as it becomes wet it has a characteristic smell.

I understand what you mean. It's a distinctive odour. As the sensible comments have said don't do something your uncomfortable with.

Is it all about the odour? Could it be how the ones you've seen look too?

(Take time in your words to reply on that one OP lol lol) "

To me it’s about the smell, I’ve also discovered I’m more attracted to a smooth lady garden I’ve an overgrown on

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By *permdonorMan
6 weeks ago

Derby

Nothing better than a girl cumming while your licking her out I love the taste and smell of a wet pussy

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By *illy-ButcherMan
6 weeks ago

Brigstock


"This thread has made me feel unwell!

I think you have been extremely unlucky OP! That or you need to up your standards in women! I have never ever come across a smelly lady area!

I also would like to make clear that it’s not only females that have their own smell and taste.. men do also!!

Sorry for that I didn’t mean to do that. This is why I was asking cause I have so little experience I need to know if it’s just me, and in my opinion it’s not something that pops up in conversation easily with a new partner!

I cannot understand how someone would be unaware if their bits smelt that bad? It’s alien to me! "

Agree..most women are very aware of their cleanliness...and check.

Men too. I'm not gonna put my cock forward to be sucked unless it's pristine and fresh.

There is a certain small proportion of people who can't actually smell that fishy smell or percieve it differently...genetic factors.

Maybe that

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By *ippy68 OP   Man
6 weeks ago

Portland


"A lot of good advice so far OP.

Lots of things impact a ladies vagina -where she is in her menstrual cycle and her pH which also changes with age and as others have said the amount of fluid she drinks and the food she eats can also have an effect

One trick for you to try is sucking a strong mint first - you'll have a nice minty taste and smell.. and apparently it is nice and tingly for the lady... Although I didn't know what impact that has on her pH.. which kinda takes us back into cause and effect cycle!

Anyway good luck with your endeavors - but it might just not be for you. Oral does ziltch for me and there are plenty of other's who wouldn't be bothered if it wasn't part of a meet.

You may as also find that your sexual interests and desires change over the years, so whilst you don't enjoy it right now, you may enjoy it in later life ! "

Thank you x

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By *rufflesCouple
6 weeks ago

manchester


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

As much as i enjoy oral sex, I always ensure that whenever I go down on a lady... to put it bluntly, I make sure that my nose is well away from her bum!!

Will leave you to work that one out for yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Make it clear from the off, that you only eat freshly washed pussy.

It’s not hard all you got to do is roll your tongue around the clit.

You do know where that is yeah ?

I do need to make a point about this reply, too. Oral is very much NOT just about rolling your tongue around the clit, it's so much more. Unless your reply was meant to be sarcastic. "

True. But baby steps for a first timer, and no if I was being sarcastic I would of told him to do the a,b,c thing

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By * and R cple4Couple
6 weeks ago

swansea

People are assuming the women had bad hygiene maybe the op just doesn't like the smell of a women and that's totally fine.

Never do something that you don't like just because you feel like you have to.

This makes a nice refreshing and honest change from all the people that can breathe through their ears and can make non squirters squirt .

Hopefully you will meet someone who understands and maybe isn't to keen on receiving.

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By *end1Man
6 weeks ago

southend on sea

A good friend of mine who's black won't go down on a woman his words alot of black guys won't go down on women.

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By *riel13Woman
6 weeks ago

Northampton

Sometimes genitals smell funny... Sometimes it's ok once ya get going ... Sometimes, especially if you like fat birds, other parts of them smell funny (if you need me to explain I will) , near there and if you have been out before heading to bed that might not help... Nobody wants disco minge! (not strictly true!) If it's that bad have you considered talking to her? BV is definitely a thing... I have had it and am now more than a little paranoid about it happening again but all I can do it try n prevent it... If you are comfortable enough to be getting down and dirty with someone you should be ok talking to them about this too... But tbh... If you really wanted to do it you would... And I used to think sucking cock was disgusting so we all have the capacity to have our minds changed... And just ignore the silliness

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By *ongueFkYouMan
6 weeks ago

Bradford


"Looking for young attractive man who loves eating pussy 💋"
I absolutely love eating pussy 👅👅

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

Lådies, Countesses, gorgons and sirens, you have been politely advised: go forth and perform your ablutions on your quinnies, for us mild-mannered men will not go down on a whim for any unpalatable quim. 💗😘

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By *aramel.desiresMan
6 weeks ago

SouthEast.


"A good friend of mine who's black won't go down on a woman his words alot of black guys won't go down on women. "

This is true and partly inforced by our music. Non eatter then thats their loss. And that's comming from a oral positive black guy.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
6 weeks ago

SouthEast.

Also I have must add I absolutelylive the smell. And occasionally when it's marinated for a a day too.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
6 weeks ago

huddersfield

Nothing better than give oral pleasure

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By *antassack889Man
6 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Best thing ever in my opinion

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By *midnight-Woman
6 weeks ago

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The other thing to mention is that ladies vag's are impacted by soap and if they've done too much prep, that can cause a wiffy minge

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By *ude LawMan
6 weeks ago

Harrogate


"wiffy minge"

Backed this in the National last weekend. How did it get on?

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By *yorks4couplesMan
6 weeks ago

doncaster

Bad first experience or better off on fabguys buddy…

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol/Newcastle

Absolutely love it, my favourite part of sex bar none!! The taste, the smell, the experience of feeling/tasting how hot the woman is getting just drives me wild!!

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By *hirleyMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

I mean that "odour" as you put it is what makes me want to get down munching! As soon as it "hits me" is when it draws me in. I can safely say most men I have spoken to about this concur.

If anything it's women that feel embarrassed in some way, yet soon as you start treating her clit like it's a game of hungry hippos, they soon shut up and proceed to make grunting noises with the occasional line of dont stop.

You need to do it, you will forget all about "smells" as soon as you hit her proverbial sweet spot

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By *yorks4couplesMan
6 weeks ago

doncaster

Everyones different never personally felt like the op, god help him having to spit bits of tissue he found should he get over his trauma

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By *mandoMan
6 weeks ago

Shrewsbury


"Before you go down make sure she’s shaved she eats a lot of fruits you will thank me later

Oh excuse me one sec, would you mind just popping in the shower for 5 to shave please. Oh and then go and eat a bowl of fruit. I don't think so "

I mean.. It's been a little sweaty down their before now, but it's never stopped me yet.

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By *ung nine inchMan
6 weeks ago

leeds

Best thing ever

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By *udy3Man
6 weeks ago

Corby

Depends if the PH is off . Could get a bit acidic

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By *atty CoramWoman
6 weeks ago

Wimbledon


"Depends if the PH is off . Could get a bit acidic "

the ideal pH is moderately acidic; bacteria/fungi thrive in an alkaline environment

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By *udy3Man
6 weeks ago

Corby


"Depends if the PH is off . Could get a bit acidic

the ideal pH is moderately acidic; bacteria/fungi thrive in an alkaline environment"

Ohhhh . That’s where I must be going wrong then. My litmus paper test said it was ok. Wonderd why it was sore on my tongue

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By *effdelightMan
6 weeks ago

Grimsby

Wrong pussy

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By *_qattMan
6 weeks ago

central


"Wrong pussy "

Yup.

Going down on women is one of the most enjoyable things for me during sex and is a must however I’ve met a few that make it impossible to allow it to happen simply due to poor hygiene. For me and lots of other on here poor hygiene is an instant turn off and it can never be fully determined usually until all parties are fully undressed and you may think by then it’s too late to back out. Don’t be afraid to be a dick, if you know you’re not going to enjoy something don’t go through with it. Dress back on and head straight out, most likely you’ll feel pretty shitty at the time for making that person feel bad about themself but prioritise yourself always. You’ll probably never see that person again so fuck it!

I would say definitely give it another attempt but take it slow.. a lot of the time you can’t tell if a woman smells bad down there until she’s a little wet and discharging precum so start off with mild foreplay, light fingering until she’s turned on a little and take it from there. Go down and close in, if you can bare the smell then go for it, if not continue fingering strap on a johnny and finish off. Once you find the right one they will taste great smell great and feel great getting them off on the tip of your tongue. Goodluck pal

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By *adgeyMan
6 weeks ago

Bingley

Honestly my favourite thing to do

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By *ho wants it200Man
6 weeks ago

rhos on sea

Genuinely now I understand what you are saying but in seconds of being face down chin deep tongue inside a pussy playing with it with your fingers also there is nothing you have no thought other than using your mouth and hands to tease read the pleasure you are giving to ultimately make a woman squirm and orgasm. They love to receive just like we do and that makes the whole time even more carnal.

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By *uliette500Woman
6 weeks ago

Hull


"Wrong pussy

Yup.

Going down on women is one of the most enjoyable things for me during sex and is a must however I’ve met a few that make it impossible to allow it to happen simply due to poor hygiene. For me and lots of other on here poor hygiene is an instant turn off and it can never be fully determined usually until all parties are fully undressed and you may think by then it’s too late to back out. Don’t be afraid to be a dick, if you know you’re not going to enjoy something don’t go through with it. Dress back on and head straight out, most likely you’ll feel pretty shitty at the time for making that person feel bad about themself but prioritise yourself always. You’ll probably never see that person again so fuck it!

I would say definitely give it another attempt but take it slow.. a lot of the time you can’t tell if a woman smells bad down there until she’s a little wet and discharging precum so start off with mild foreplay, light fingering until she’s turned on a little and take it from there. Go down and close in, if you can bare the smell then go for it, if not continue fingering strap on a johnny and finish off. Once you find the right one they will taste great smell great and feel great getting them off on the tip of your tongue. Goodluck pal "

OP didn't say the women he'd been with had poor hygiene. He said he didn't like the smell. All vaginas have a natural smell and it may simply be that smell that he doesn't like. Let's not criticise the women he has met without knowing the facts.

Men's bits smell too even if they have showered prior to meeting. Some smell stronger than others but the odour is still there and each one is different. I find some men smell better than others but I have never been turned off by it, however, we are all individuals and like different things. If it's not for him he shouldn't feel like he has to go there.

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By *obinhhood6Man
6 weeks ago

nottingham


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

Clearly been with the 'wrong' women

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Without trying to sound insincere, I love eating pussy!

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By *midnight-Woman
6 weeks ago

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OP didn't say the women he'd been with had poor hygiene. He said he didn't like the smell. All vaginas have a natural smell and it may simply be that smell that he doesn't like. Let's not criticise the women he has met without knowing the facts.

Men's bits smell too even if they have showered prior to meeting. Some smell stronger than others but the odour is still there and each one is different. I find some men smell better than others but I have never been turned off by it, however, we are all individuals and like different things. If it's not for him he shouldn't feel like he has to go there. "

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
6 weeks ago

mid glam


"Genuinely now I understand what you are saying but in seconds of being face down chin deep tongue inside a pussy playing with it with your fingers also there is nothing you have no thought other than using your mouth and hands to tease read the pleasure you are giving to ultimately make a woman squirm and orgasm. They love to receive just like we do and that makes the whole time even more carnal. "

Some do some dont

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Without trying to sound insincere, I love eating pussy! "

How's that helping the op?

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
6 weeks ago

West London

Going down on a woman is one of the best experiences in the world, I absolutely love licking pussy. It’s a wonderful experience and you’re missing out if you’ve never tried

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By *atch0101Man
6 weeks ago

Here

I love it. Clean of course.

But if it's not your thing, it's upto you but I wouldn't don't try a get someone to train me . It would take the enjoyment away. OK I know it makes your search a wee bit longer but there are women that feel uncomfortable with someone down there. I have experienced this twice.

Besides. Become a master with yer fingers. And don't be to proud to use a toy. Watch is as good as feeling..trust me

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By *avexxMan
6 weeks ago

cheshire

ive never done this op so cant help

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Have you tried a peg on your nose?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Without trying to sound insincere, I love eating pussy!

How's that helping the op?"

Can you tell me how this is helping the OP?

You don't necessarily have to jump on every comment you know!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Without trying to sound insincere, I love eating pussy!

How's that helping the op?

Can you tell me how this is helping the OP?

You don't necessarily have to jump on every comment you know!"

Yep I'm aware of that.

I think I've commented three times on this thread

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By *eoBloomsMan
6 weeks ago

Springfield


"Have you tried a peg on your nose?"

Would also offer extra clitoral stimulation.

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By *angzMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

If its the natural smell of pussy then you'll get used to. But if it's due to bad feminine hygiene then you'll need to discuss with your partner.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Have you tried a peg on your nose?

Would also offer extra clitoral stimulation. "

I love a simple practical solution.

Maybe there's a product behind this jdea? Designer nose pegs. Variety of colours, animal print, studded, diamante.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
6 weeks ago

North Somerset

Tried putting a peg on you're nose?

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

I haven't read all of the replies here as it's a very long thread but OP there's nothing wrong with not liking it!

I have at least three female friends that are 'above the waist' bi and explicitly state they don't like the odour between another woman's legs.

I guarantee no one is going to have a go them over it.

I don't have any advice. I think it's good to challenge yourself so fair play for asking the question.

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By *eformed_CharactersCouple
6 weeks ago

round and about

I hope you don't expect her to go down on you if you don't return the favour..

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West


"I hope you don't expect her to go down on you if you don't return the favour.."

This is ridiculous.

Expectation should not be a factor on either side and sex shouldn't be that transactional in the first place.

Boundaries and limits should be respected and such a mean spirited view is entirely unproductive.

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
6 weeks ago

mid glam


"I hope you don't expect her to go down on you if you don't return the favour..

This is ridiculous.

Expectation should not be a factor on either side and sex shouldn't be that transactional in the first place.

Boundaries and limits should be respected and such a mean spirited view is entirely unproductive."

You put it way more eloquently than I was gonna

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By *eoBloomsMan
6 weeks ago

Springfield


"I hope you don't expect her to go down on you if you don't return the favour.."

Plenty of people like giving but not receiving oral. It's just about compatibility.🤷‍♂️

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm not sure if this has been said but if the lady in question is same age as yourself possible that she's going through menopause that can really affect her vagina in terms of PH balance resulting in odour that she has no control over and she is probably very embarrassed by it, so I hope she's not on here and reading this thread because if you knowingly posted this and there's a chance she read it bad form old chap definitely not the done thing.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
6 weeks ago

kendal

Ok so. I haven't read all the replies..... because they started to get a little bit ridiculous.

Here is my 2 pence worth as a woman who doesn't like to recieve oral.

it's totally OK to not enjoy something, there are loads of things, kinks and sexual acts, that people don't like.

It doesn't make them odd, or weird, or unworthy of playing with.

Yours is nothing unusual, nor is mine, just find yourself playmates where oral isn't a mandatory requirement!

Some of us just don't enjoy it anyway.

Some of us love giving, but don't want to recieve (that's me)

Some don't like giving or receiving....

No preference is right or wrong.

When chosing playmates, just chose those who don't have 'must do oral as a requirement.

But please don't ever force yourself to try and do something, if you are not 100% comfortable doing it!

And also please ignore the comments from idiots.

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By *azler17Man
6 weeks ago

Castleford

Maybe try it in the shower,plenty of water around,you both couldn't be cleaner,the water would dull anything,but your knees will be knackered, not what you do but where you do it,just a thought

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

Today I learned that flavoured douches exist.

I mean it was an obvious thing to check really.

OP I'd go for cherry or maple syrup.

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By *ornycougaWoman
6 weeks ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

I haven't read the posts above either but speaking as a woman who is both fantastical about hygiene and who loves giving and receiving oral.... I only want it if the guy really loves it. If not - please don't bother

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By *mizhereMan
6 weeks ago

thame area

I adore giving a woman long slow oral

The sight taste and smell of a woman who's enjoying herself mmmmmmmmm

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By * N SyderMan
6 weeks ago

Here and there

God any woman that’s wants to sit on my face, jump this way!!!

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By *GreyWolf68Man
6 weeks ago

Tonbridge

My advice would be good, old fashioned Vics. Rub a little inside your nostrils just before getting intimate and it might mask whatever's offending you. It will also open up the nostrils and make breathing easier, and that's going to be important if you really get into things. Once you're engaged, in my experience any trace scents just disappear. There's nothing I love more than giving a lady multiple orgasms with oral.

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By *mileMan
6 weeks ago

Norwich

I’d leak the anus

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I like proper honest filphy young attractive man who lick my bum too 🤣😁

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Bedfuck


"Hello I’m looking for some advice and maybe guidance here. I have never gone down on a woman because putting it politely the odour of female genitalia has always put me off. I’ve got down there with all good intentions and once I catch that odour I’m out of there. I’m sure I’m not the only one who struggles with this and ad such has anybody found a way of overcoming it? I really want to try doing it however I need to get past this one big obstacle to me. Any guidance much appreciated please. I know many won’t get this and will take the pee but to me this is a big thing. I’d also love to meet a willing lady to perhaps guide me and be patient we it’s this however that’s no doubt one step too far. Thank you in advance for any responses."

And there's the teeth, vangita with teeth it's dangerous beware. Borat will tell you ze details.

I love giving oral to women, love big clits an big labia too. Finishing with a squirt or a gush, perfect.

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By *otguy555Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol


"I like proper honest filphy young attractive man who lick my bum too 🤣😁"
love to lick your bum as well as your pussy

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By *winckle toesMan
6 weeks ago

norwich

Only if they sit in my face

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

It's been very entertaining this cotton thread 🤣🤣

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By *uiteman2020Man
5 weeks ago

Warsop

happy to let some lady to sit on my face

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By *otCouple3737Couple
5 weeks ago

York/Hull

I love to taste Miss HL...soooo wet 😋

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

Good cunnilingus everyone

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

👅

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