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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey there folks, I don't know if this thread has been done to death, if so...apologies!

When you meet somebody from this site or any other, would it bother you if they had a job or not?(not including disabilities/illnesses, just pure dole folks)

If so, why? And is it a turn off?

For me, If it was a one off meet I guess I wouldn't be really bothered, but if it was going to be someone I meet regularly I'd rather they'd be employed so it wasn't me paying for everything like I have done in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same views as you. ive worked hard in the past.. took 3yrs out and now back in work.

i felt like i had to prove to people in those 3yrs that i wasnt a scrounger and i had self worth. i saved up if i wanted to go places. i was never the type to tag along for a free ride.

even though i felt like that when i wasnt working id still prefer a man to have genuine ambition and drive. the desire to want to work..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i never asked if they had a job or not to be fair. it never came up on meets as was too busy having orgasms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i never asked if they had a job or not to be fair. it never came up on meets as was too busy having orgasms "

Haha fair play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would job or no job play any part in meeting up for NSA sex for a few hours unless you're having to give them bus fare?

I would image that something like employment would matter if you were looking to strike up a friendship / relationship with someone?

When did employment status and financial liquidity become a make/break issue in the lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never asked any of our meets if they are in employment or not! Can't see why that would matter when your getting jiggy with it

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Plenty are " professional " here

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If they've got a brain and I find them attractive that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well funnily enough some people do come on here for a fuck buddy etc etc, not everyone comes on this site for NSA for a few hours and fucks off home.

Some yes, but not all.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

As long as they have the money for transport to my house I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me if someone had a job or not unless they expected me to pay for everything. But the same goes for someone that had a high paying job. I go halves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive survived being on the dole for ages and had a good successful lot of meets(not just in and out shags lol)..rarely do i discuss work past/future when opn meets as we are too busy NOT talking about work...so we have stuck to the FUN

fair enough , might not be able to wine n dine too much..but I dont and never have use the site like that..which works for me and those I meet

Now that Iam working I can get around more, however...I wont really change how I meet cos Ive a few more quid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people are out of work now through no fault of their own.

all i care about is are they nice people who will treat me right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of people are out of work now through no fault of their own.

all i care about is are they nice people who will treat me right."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of people are out of work now through no fault of their own.

all i care about is are they nice people who will treat me right. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not working at the moment but wouldn't ever expect anyone to pay my way nor would I want them to. Dont spend that much anyway so always have it just can't afford to drive while im not working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would only be bothered if they hadn't worked in like 5+ years. Then i'd question their morals/work ethic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the days it's no strings attached so why should someone's work status matter? As long as they are hung like a horse I'm anyone's

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it wouldn't bother us if someone had a job or not, these are tough times and plenty are unemployed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me i don't think would depend on if i liked them or not,not what they did.

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