FabSwingers.com forum: A follow on !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This question is a follow on to my Sunday evening thread called "Meets and Emotions"

What is going through my mind at the moment is that i am trying to work what is left for a swinging couple if they swing separately !! (No not having a crisis, just wondering lol)

For example; In swinging you have cuddles, kissing, sex of course, terms of endearment and all nighter's !!

Some even have dinner's, drinks and the odd flowers being brought.

So what is left for just the two of you, apart from Children, family and friends.

I apologise if this has been all said before, but i couldn't find anything on here that resembles what i am asking !!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

thats really for you and your partner to decide.

Do you mean sexuall, like keepin something that is just for you to do together?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"This question is a follow on to my Sunday evening thread called "Meets and Emotions"

What is going through my mind at the moment is that i am trying to work what is left for a swinging couple if they swing separately !! (No not having a crisis, just wondering lol)

For example; In swinging you have cuddles, kissing, sex of course, terms of endearment and all nighter's !!

Some even have dinner's, drinks and the odd flowers being brought.

So what is left for just the two of you, apart from Children, family and friends.

I apologise if this has been all said before, but i couldn't find anything on here that resembles what i am asking !!

You have each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have plain sex without the emotions and save that for your hubby/ partner

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Well we go home together at the end...he knows me better than anyone and vice versa..we respect what each other enjoys and have a strong marriage..( have known each other 30years) so are happy to see each other enjoy themselves in whatever way they choose with friends...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The strong emotional bond that exists between a couple which, though there may be others involved in all that other stuff - is the thing that is kept between the two of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, dave is my rock, I know what he is thinking, or feeling without him saying anything. We have a strong deep relationship. Swinging is fun, and not a need xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, I do have a regular partner who does have another half, but she does know about me, however, even though we have been meeting for over 2 years, the boundaries have never been crossed and never will be.

Yes he stays the night, yes we enjoy a few bottles of wine together, yes we have sex (obviously lol) Some food has been shared

But, that will be as far as it goes and I will say, I will always be thankful to his other half, for allowing him/me to meet and yes I have met her as her as well, and they have both said, why can't more singles be like me?

I think problems can arise, when one person, hints that it can and will be more! And yes I have been there a few years ago with another single guy!

I just think everyone need to be honest and not play any mind games!

And I know not everyone is suited to the site as I have had my fair share of stalkers as well! At times it can be a fine line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The strong emotional bond that exists between a couple which, though there may be others involved in all that other stuff - is the thing that is kept between the two of them?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, dave is my rock, I know what he is thinking, or feeling without him saying anything. We have a strong deep relationship. Swinging is fun, and not a need xx"

specially the last sentence..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You two are not just swinging partners though. You've known each other forever and have a much deeper bond than having sex with random strangers, whether that is together or apart.

It's always lovely to have someone to share things with.

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a D/s relationship, so that's the bit I don't do without him there. Although as of Friday I'm not meeting without him there - for me I've lost the enjoyment of wanting to have sex without him there mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every one does all nighters, kisses, cuddles etc. When I was married the cuddles and kisses belonged to my other half. The swinging was sex, be that with other couples with singles or meeting separately. We had things we only did together both sexually and other stuffs.

Admitted now I'm divorced I can do as I want with whom I want, however I still have things (sexual/kink) that I will not do with nsa meets.

and as someone else said, kids, life and love come with partners as does real trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have know each other for years 16 actually, we know what each other is thinking and feeling!

We don't to lovely dovey meets, we meet and play for fun, to be honest playing with others isn't a huge part of our life's, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have know each other for years 16 actually, we know what each other is thinking and feeling!

We don't to lovely dovey meets, we meet and play for fun, to be honest playing with others isn't a huge part of our life's, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't matter!

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