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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

Damn autocorrect I meant do you push yourself to be more open minded? I get people telling me they’re open minded like I should appreciate it.

So, are you? And is it something you’ve had to work at?

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By *eoBloomsMan
6 weeks ago

Springfield

People telling me they're open minded doesn't count for much; not many people go around telling you they're narrow minded a- holes.

Politically I think I've tried to be more open minded in the last few years as things have got more tribal and divisive. I can see good and bad on the left and right.

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By *ildbillkidMan
6 weeks ago

where the road goes on forever

If someone says their open -minded, I think they're just trying to double their chances for a date

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"If someone says their open -minded, I think they're just trying to double their chances for a date"

People on fab go on dates??

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

...Oh, this is sensible thread. Ooops, my mistake I'll change back out of my spiderman costume and leave immediately. I am actually open minded however to changing into a Ninja Turtle outfit?

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"...Oh, this is sensible thread. Ooops, my mistake I'll change back out of my spiderman costume and leave immediately. I am actually open minded however to changing into a Ninja Turtle outfit? "

I would have done a non sensible thread but I’m too sensible.

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By *ildbillkidMan
6 weeks ago

where the road goes on forever


"If someone says their open -minded, I think they're just trying to double their chances for a date

People on fab go on dates?? "

I was gonna say you know what I mean ,but this being fab ......

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

I thought this was going to be a "Bum me with whatever is closest to your left hand" type of thread.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 weeks ago

North West

I just came here to bum you. Darn it.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Just here to watch Julie bumming Glow *settles down in corner*

Mrs TMN x

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"I thought this was going to be a "Bum me with whatever is closest to your left hand" type of thread. "

Dammit.

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
6 weeks ago

Somewhere in Neverland


"Just here to watch Julie bumming Glow *settles down in corner*

Mrs TMN x"

*Pulls up a pew, too*

It's because we're open-minded...

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m over minded I think it goes hand-in-hand with just being curious and adventurous about well just about everything! Although I’m not an experienced junkie at all, I tend to find what works best and stick with it. I’ve just bought two massive bags of wholewheat penne, I don’t need any other kind of pasta, but if someone says spaghetti or linguine , I’d be like sure whatever

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"I just came here to bum you. Darn it. "

Go gentle. Ass virgin n all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I always fancy a bum!

Oh wait it’s about something else…. ….hmmmm, open minded can be all kinds of things to different people. There are plenty of sexually open people who I find utterly narrow minded in other aspects of life and politics and freedom and will shoot you down if you dare challenge the agreed swingers mainstream of thought. I think I try my best and generally do a reasonable job at staying open, learning from others and accepting that it’s okay not to agree on everything. I wouldn’t eat myself up about it though because nobody is perfect and everyone has a different perfect too!

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By *aizyWoman
6 weeks ago

west midlands


"Just here to watch Julie bumming Glow *settles down in corner*

Mrs TMN x"

Budge up, you can share my opera glasses.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
6 weeks ago

North West


"I just came here to bum you. Darn it.

Go gentle. Ass virgin n all that. "

Will do. I'm pretty new at the bumming myself. 😘

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"Just here to watch Julie bumming Glow *settles down in corner*

Mrs TMN x

Budge up, you can share my opera glasses."

So so boujee I love it

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By *edSirenWoman
6 weeks ago

magic mountain

Usually those who proclaim they are open minded, are the least. At the end of the day there shouldn’t be any opening of the mind to be had, it just is. By insinuating one’s mind needs to be open to accept something, to me, is hypocritical

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I’ve never bummed anyone. It’s not through lack of trying, purely biology 😔

Errrrrrm when people tell me they’re open minded on fab I approach with caution. Usually it’s followed by something incredibly unhinged/borderline illegal.

Away from fab I only ever really hear my elderly neighbour say it when she tries something new. Like coriander

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By *edSirenWoman
6 weeks ago

magic mountain


"I’ve never bummed anyone. It’s not through lack of trying, purely biology 😔

Errrrrrm when people tell me they’re open minded on fab I approach with caution. Usually it’s followed by something incredibly unhinged/borderline illegal.

Away from fab I only ever really hear my elderly neighbour say it when she tries something new. Like coriander "

I’m really open minded. Want to try it? 😁

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Just here to watch Julie bumming Glow *settles down in corner*

Mrs TMN x

*Pulls up a pew, too*

It's because we're open-minded..."

This is happening in a church? How positively transgressive.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
6 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"I’ve never bummed anyone. It’s not through lack of trying, purely biology 😔

Errrrrrm when people tell me they’re open minded on fab I approach with caution. Usually it’s followed by something incredibly unhinged/borderline illegal.

Away from fab I only ever really hear my elderly neighbour say it when she tries something new. Like coriander

I’m really open minded. Want to try it? 😁"

What? Coriander?

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"I always fancy a bum!

Oh wait it’s about something else…. ….hmmmm, open minded can be all kinds of things to different people. There are plenty of sexually open people who I find utterly narrow minded in other aspects of life and politics and freedom and will shoot you down if you dare challenge the agreed swingers mainstream of thought. I think I try my best and generally do a reasonable job at staying open, learning from others and accepting that it’s okay not to agree on everything. I wouldn’t eat myself up about it though because nobody is perfect and everyone has a different perfect too! "

I actually enjoy respectful disagreement. It’s more interesting than just agreeing with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"I’ve never bummed anyone. It’s not through lack of trying, purely biology 😔

Errrrrrm when people tell me they’re open minded on fab I approach with caution. Usually it’s followed by something incredibly unhinged/borderline illegal.

Away from fab I only ever really hear my elderly neighbour say it when she tries something new. Like coriander

I’m really open minded. Want to try it? 😁"

Alright but if you steal my kidneys I’m gonna be so mad

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By *edSirenWoman
6 weeks ago

magic mountain


"I’ve never bummed anyone. It’s not through lack of trying, purely biology 😔

Errrrrrm when people tell me they’re open minded on fab I approach with caution. Usually it’s followed by something incredibly unhinged/borderline illegal.

Away from fab I only ever really hear my elderly neighbour say it when she tries something new. Like coriander

I’m really open minded. Want to try it? 😁

What? Coriander?"

There was more???! I got to bumming and replied.

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By *sWyldWoman
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I think I am . Others have said I'm probably too open-minded at times. I don't think that's possible though. However despite being open minded, I can also be pretty judgemental at times too .

Guess it's a balance

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
6 weeks ago

Ipswich

Open minded yes big gob yes should know really when to give my gob a rest

Unfortunately that’s not me say as I see it even if people don’t like it

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"I think I am . Others have said I'm probably too open-minded at times. I don't think that's possible though. However despite being open minded, I can also be pretty judgemental at times too .

Guess it's a balance"

Open minded needs parameters so surely even being open minded needs judgement?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't think I'm open minded I'm very experimental and open to try new things

Try and understand different people's experiences but if I decide I don't want to do something or I have no interest in something I have no interest in learning

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

As a simple response yes, I am quite open to experience.

What's the context: sex, morality, beliefs, values..?

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm an over thinker if that counts

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 weeks ago

little house on the praire

For example, politics bore me, I never will have an interest in learning about them. Yet if I'm interested in something or someone I will find out all about them

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"As a simple response yes, I am quite open to experience.

What's the context: sex, morality, beliefs, values..?"

Whatever context you would define yourself as being open minded about

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"As a simple response yes, I am quite open to experience.

What's the context: sex, morality, beliefs, values..?

Whatever context you would define yourself as being open minded about "

Oh any it's something I enjoy being challenged on. I believe it's a pathway to self-awareness. It's quite rare that I find people who want those depths and types of conversations.

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By * and R cple4Couple
6 weeks ago

swansea

Before this thread made me overthink i would have said i was definitely open minded..

But thinking about it now when it comes to religion and politics I'm probably not .. Which is why i tend to stay away from them subjects.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
6 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Before this thread made me overthink i would have said i was definitely open minded..

But thinking about it now when it comes to religion and politics I'm probably not .. Which is why i tend to stay away from them subjects. "

I used to think I was open minded when I was younger then when I got older I realised I wasn't as open minded as I thought

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I’m trying to work out if I’m open minded by being less judgemental 🤷🏻‍♂️

K

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'm trying to work out why I never started threads to get people to bum me months ago! It never occurred to me that it was that easy. I must be closed minded. Although presumably it's being closed legged that's actually the problem. 🙄

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
6 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Open minded about what ?

Soft buggers think such phrases make them sound sophisticated and wordly wise..... they are prob just into eating the gherkin on a maccies.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
6 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"I’m trying to work out if I’m open minded by being less judgemental 🤷🏻‍♂️

K"

Nope.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

6 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm so open minded that everything I knew fell out so I had to close it.

Soz

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By *ggdrasil66Man
6 weeks ago

Saltdean

I would have thought that most people on here are more open minded than those who you might meet outside of here. We are fab swingers after all.

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By *ansoffateMan
6 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Open minded about what ?

Soft buggers think such phrases make them sound sophisticated and wordly wise..... they are prob just into eating the gherkin on a maccies."

That's more sophistricated.

The worldly wise and sophisticated amongst us know that you leave the gherkin on a McGangbang.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
6 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole


"If someone says their open -minded, I think they're just trying to double their chances for a date"

But does it work? (Asking for a friend.)

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By *ungandMan
6 weeks ago

daveyhulme

Very open minded these days

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By *lowupdoll OP   TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London


"I'm trying to work out why I never started threads to get people to bum me months ago! It never occurred to me that it was that easy. I must be closed minded. Although presumably it's being closed legged that's actually the problem. 🙄

"

Or close bummed?

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
6 weeks ago

Merseyside

I think it is more about saying they will try anything to get a meet in my

Opinion and we are open minded people but we do know what we like or don’t like

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
6 weeks ago

saddleworth NW


"Just here to watch Julie bumming Glow *settles down in corner*

Mrs TMN x

Budge up, you can share my opera glasses.

So so boujee I love it "

So many sexy arsed girls on here I’d bum anyone of them he he

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