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By *stwo60 OP   Couple
5 days ago

Hampshire

That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!

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By *oiluvfunMan
5 days ago

Penrith

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By *aizyWoman
5 days ago

west midlands


"[Pictures and verifications Removed by poster at 07/04/25 13:22:45]"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!"

You're not judging but you say it's weird .

Some people use fab to keep in touch with people they meet in clubs.

Some remove all their photos due to stalking or unwanted attention.

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By *stwo60 OP   Couple
5 days ago

Hampshire


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!

You're not judging but you say it's weird .

Some people use fab to keep in touch with people they meet in clubs.

Some remove all their photos due to stalking or unwanted attention."

As we said, we do find it weird, as I believe we are allowed to have an opinion. This is by no means judging anyone. We don’t do bareback with strangers, we think it’s dangerous, but this isn’t making judgement on those who do. As expected, someone would make something out of this personal observation so we will simply keep our thoughts to ourselves in future! Thanks for the input!,

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By *ell GwynnWoman
5 days ago

North Yorkshire

Maybe they just like looking at photos and videos with no intentions of meeting?

There are many different reasons for people being on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!

You're not judging but you say it's weird .

Some people use fab to keep in touch with people they meet in clubs.

Some remove all their photos due to stalking or unwanted attention.

As we said, we do find it weird, as I believe we are allowed to have an opinion. This is by no means judging anyone. We don’t do bareback with strangers, we think it’s dangerous, but this isn’t making judgement on those who do. As expected, someone would make something out of this personal observation so we will simply keep our thoughts to ourselves in future! Thanks for the input!,"

You're allowed to have an opinion as are we all but you did ask 'is it just us?'.

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By *stwo60 OP   Couple
5 days ago

Hampshire


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!

You're not judging but you say it's weird .

Some people use fab to keep in touch with people they meet in clubs.

Some remove all their photos due to stalking or unwanted attention.

As we said, we do find it weird, as I believe we are allowed to have an opinion. This is by no means judging anyone. We don’t do bareback with strangers, we think it’s dangerous, but this isn’t making judgement on those who do. As expected, someone would make something out of this personal observation so we will simply keep our thoughts to ourselves in future! Thanks for the input!,

You're allowed to have an opinion as are we all but you did ask 'is it just us?'.

Fair point!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
5 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!"

Nor weird. Just Fab life.

Some just use the forums. Some only meet in clubs so use the site to get event updates. And yes, some just set up profiles to view others photos and most likely knock one out.

They're easily avoided and you can stop them contacting you simply by using message filters to block unverified profiles, newbies and those without public photos.

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By *stwo60 OP   Couple
5 days ago

Hampshire


"Maybe they just like looking at photos and videos with no intentions of meeting?

There are many different reasons for people being on here."

Agreed, which is why we said we understand everyone will have their own agenda to be here. General consensus is, it is indeed just us that finds it a little strange! Case closed

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By *stwo60 OP   Couple
5 days ago

Hampshire


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!

Nor weird. Just Fab life.

Some just use the forums. Some only meet in clubs so use the site to get event updates. And yes, some just set up profiles to view others photos and most likely knock one out.

They're easily avoided and you can stop them contacting you simply by using message filters to block unverified profiles, newbies and those without public photos. "

Absolutely, we’ve been on and off here for I guess around 12 years or so and come across all sorts of people with all sorts of reasons for being here!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 days ago

Central

Some people aren't promoting themselves to others, which is completely opposite to many others.

As a free access site, you get everyone here, including the clueless and hopeless. If they find anything that they want, they'll stick around and accumulate.

Fortunately, we can use the search filters, to exclude unverified, those without pics etc

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By *iamG2000Man
5 days ago

Walsall

I’ve been on here for a while, but I only have one photo up because I haven’t felt confident enough to share more. I’ve mostly stayed in the background and haven’t had the chance to meet anyone in person to get verified. That doesn’t mean I’m a weirdo or anything, but I do feel like it can be tougher on here as a guy if you’re not super confident or conventionally good-looking - neither of which I am. I’d really love to chat with someone more, but the opportunity just hasn’t come up yet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex


"I’ve been on here for a while, but I only have one photo up because I haven’t felt confident enough to share more. I’ve mostly stayed in the background and haven’t had the chance to meet anyone in person to get verified. That doesn’t mean I’m a weirdo or anything, but I do feel like it can be tougher on here as a guy if you’re not super confident or conventionally good-looking - neither of which I am. I’d really love to chat with someone more, but the opportunity just hasn’t come up yet."

Have you messaged people or been in the chat rooms?

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By *issmorganWoman
5 days ago

Calderdale innit

I'd question it more for couple profiles and ladies , as generally it's easier for them to get meets.

It could be that they're just vouyers though or here to chat/cam.

It's easy enough to pass them by though, if a profile feels off or doesn't fit what you're after.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
5 days ago

little house on the praire

I've never paid to much interest in those I have nothing in common with

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By *onus!Man
5 days ago

Bath

Not being funny but there’s a lot more “weird” shit on fab than that!

I don’t care what other people do with their profiles. I don’t know them and I’m not being force to read

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By *andTWoman
5 days ago

Altrincham

Everyone of us on this site is on here for very bespoke reasons and if we were to publicly voice those reasons someone would find those reasons weird 🤷🏼‍♂️

We're all different, wanting different things and this is what makes us all, well... Different 🥰

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By *hunky GentMan
5 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm on here for 'stuff'.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!"

I don't find it strange. I don't find it weird.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
5 days ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Well I’ve learnt some people don’t like verifications.

Some find it “distasteful”.

Some don’t wanna leave a paper trail

Others must’ve thought I wasn’t worth the Trustpilot review 😜

I only have 3 Meet Veris, but I’ve met more people than that.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
5 days ago

South

After being on here for 14 years, I recognise that some people use Fabs for very unique purposes and not all want to engage with meets or communication.

Some just want to watch from afar in the forums, check content, use the chat rooms, keep in touch with people they meet at clubs or see the latest event listings.

I’ve come across so many people who are on fabs but rarely use it, if at all.

It is what it is.

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By *ack1971Man
5 days ago

Cork


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!"

Not judging but you think it's weird? What's the point of the post, many on here have single profiles as well as a couples one!

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By *each needs some creamWoman
5 days ago

Ilfracombe

I do find it a bit weird, I normally take it to mean it's a single men pretending to be a couple.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 days ago

honeysuckle cottage


"That finds it a little strange when we find folk on here, who’ve been members for over a year, with no pictures, no verification etc. Not judging, but just find it a bit weird. I know we all have our own agendas on here so no need to attack!

You're not judging but you say it's weird .

Some people use fab to keep in touch with people they meet in clubs.

Some remove all their photos due to stalking or unwanted attention."
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