FabSwingers.com forum: If you were in your early 20s again

By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

this is one for anyone 30 or over really or even if you are in your 20s and have something you want to share.

If you were in your early 20s again, what is a piece of advice you’d give yourself or wish you done in this era of your life? 😊

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
7 days ago

North West

I don't want to type it out, it's in the box in my brain labelled "do not open".

♿

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By *an8iMan
7 days ago

Bilston

I wouldn't chance a thing, i spent most of my twentys working away all over the UK having a blast and then moving on to the next job every month

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
7 days ago

Close to Newport

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Let it out! 🤣

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Hopefully it was good fun that

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By *iyoursideMan
7 days ago

South Birmingham

Don't hold back....enjoy every opportunity life offers you and say yes to more things

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
7 days ago

North West

"Let it out! 🤣"

No thanks.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

That too many people can’t differentiate between thoughts in their head, and facts.

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By *WANDTGCouple
7 days ago

Borough of Greenwich

Turn the other cheek and just walk away.

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Something I’ve learned in the last couple of years and enjoying life much more from this!

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By *eoBloomsMan
7 days ago

Springfield

Invest in yourself.

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Expand?

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By *ChubsMan
7 days ago

West Midlands

I wouldn't have bought a house with the ex! Although, I wouldn't change the children we had together

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By *allGent99Man
7 days ago

Wirral

To be more confident with women and not be so shy. I had lots of missed opportunities with dates.

Find better paid jobs when younger so I could move out of family home quicker

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By *.B.D.DMan
7 days ago

Northants

"this is one for anyone 30 or over really or even if you are in your 20s and have something you want to share.

If you were in your early 20s again, what is a piece of advice you’d give yourself or wish you done in this era of your life? 😊"

The first thing I'd say is, not to care or worry what people think.

The second would be to go out more, socialise more, travel more.

Lastly, to join the military. (Biggest regret not doing that while I was still young, fit and healthy).

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Yeah I deffo struggle with this 🤣 get to nervous to ask for anything and regret it later

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Couldn’t agree more

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
7 days ago

Close to Newport

Have more fun and travel! ✈️ 🌞 🎉🍾

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By *ysteryman6998Man
7 days ago

essex

Invest in PPE because my early 20s disappeared into the lockdowns so I would make myself rich cos I’d know Corona would happen 😎

Then I’d spunk all the profit on debauchurea (I can’t spell that would because I’m not a French surrender pro)

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Best destinations?

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By *obby3264Man
7 days ago

Cambridge

Your not as ugly or small as you think you are

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By *hil most chillMan
7 days ago

South East & Europe

Don't be a dick

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By *devil!Man
7 days ago

Swindon

Knowing what's coming in later life, I would end my life early with good thoughts!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 days ago

little house on the praire

Buckle up its going to be a hard ride

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
7 days ago

East Sussex

Travel, live in other countries, do not step on the treadmill because it will be over thirty years before you can step off.

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By *vaRose43Woman
7 days ago

Forest of Dean

Enjoy your pancreas while it lasts!

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
7 days ago

N. Wales

Live a little.

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By *evotee101Woman
7 days ago

Houghton le Spring

Looked after my Capri Laser and not sold it

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By *WTTS87Man
7 days ago

Telford

Don't get into that toxic relationship, go travel and enjoy your 20s.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
7 days ago

couple, us we him her.

Start saving even if it's a small amount just get into the habit.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
7 days ago

Manchester

Be bolder and braver, have confidence in yourself

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By *ennineTopMan
7 days ago

York

Don't work/study so hard that you have no life.

Travel more.

Realise that there is someone out there who will love you for who you are, even though it can be difficult to find them.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
7 days ago

Ipswich

Workwise applied myself at school more instead of piss balling about

Bought my parents hours even back then would only cost buttons

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
7 days ago

Ipswich

"Workwise applied myself at school more instead of piss balling about

Bought my parents hours even back then would only cost buttons

Sorry was meant to say house predictive text

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By *ellhungvweMan
7 days ago

Cheltenham

My 20s were good. I had a blast - did a lot of travelling, a lot of climbing and generally had fun. My advice to myself would be do it all again.

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By *illy IdolMan
7 days ago

Midlands

Nothing different other than maybe buy some bitcoin

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By *vory_RoseWoman
7 days ago

Cotswolds

Go travelling and explore first.

Don't get tied down into a mortgage really early/young 🫣🤣

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By *ucka39Man
7 days ago

Newcastle

Don't waste time thinking about it just do it

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By *ife NinjaMan
7 days ago

Dunfermline

Do more. Be more confident 🤓

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By *avie65Man
7 days ago

In the west.

Don’t drink as much & don’t turn back and keep on heading south.

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By *ynamite500Man
7 days ago

Angus

Follow your dream and don't believe anyone who says you'll never make it.😁

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By *oughmanMan
7 days ago

Sunderland

I could say a lot but it sounds more like a trauma dump than an answer.😅

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 days ago

Reading

Treasure my health.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
7 days ago

Manchester(ish).

Stop drinking.

Don't get drawn into shit relationships.

Believe in yourself.

Go to University.

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By *ottsguy80Man
7 days ago

long eaton

Don’t take that “once in a lifetime” trip to the Amazon that left me with a parasitic slide growing in my toe that hospitalised me for 3 months upon returning to the uk

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By *andTWoman
7 days ago

Altrincham

Not to settle for anything less than I'm worth

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By *iss.BellaWoman
7 days ago

Wales

Keep the fuck away from dating sites!

But there is this site called fab..

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By *ottsguy80Man
7 days ago

long eaton

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By *ottsguy80Man
7 days ago

long eaton

"Keep the fuck away from dating sites!

But there is this site called fab..

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By *ansoffateMan
7 days ago

Sagittarius A

It's a good thing that you can empathise with people, but when that becomes a way of justifying treatment that you shouldn't accept - then you are making a rod for your own back.

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By *asty tatsyMan
7 days ago

london

Just go for it, don’t hold back. Take risks and believe in yourself

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By *onk3yb0yMan
7 days ago

south west

Yes…, they were making a pass at you. Go with it. You regret things you haven’t done.

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By *anNFFC37Man
7 days ago

Mansfield

If I was twenty again I'd of definitely eaten out pussy more, and I'd of experimented with different age groups of women. 🤔

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By *erti OP Man
7 days ago

around

Thank you everyone that said things in here, very thought provoking and some really good advice I’ll take on! I definitely need to be more confident especially with woman 😂 but I’m trying to save for those trips away and live life while I can!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
7 days ago

Crumpet Castle

If you really are going to keep killing the neighbours stop leaving bites in the cheese.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
7 days ago

Manchester

Fuck what anyone thinks. Everyone judges everyone.

You’ll always be talked about no matter who you are, what you do and what you look like. You do you, fuck everyone else

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By *ynamite500Man
7 days ago

Angus

"If you really are going to keep killing the neighbours stop leaving bites in the cheese."

Hahaha🤣🤣🤣

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By *auraLoves2020TV/TS
7 days ago

Didcot

get out there and have more sex. Don't be shy plenty of people want to fuck you in a dress.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
7 days ago

Bristol

You don’t need to get along with everyone you meet! If someone doesn’t like you it really doesn’t affect anything

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By *avexxMan
7 days ago

cheshire

i wouldnt change a thing lived liife to the full.. my advice to the younger ones,, just do it

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By *ichaelsmyMan
7 days ago

douglas

to enjoy things a lot more at the time, no regrets.

although as military at that time, maybe not everything.

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By *uchasGMan
7 days ago

Northwest

Don't listen to your heart

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