FabSwingers.com forum: What do you wear

By *rs Tooty OP Woman
6 days ago

Ayrshire

To initial meets? Casual clothes or something more exotic.. just incase?

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By *oml and mwgcCouple
6 days ago

Birstall

Casual clothes with nice underwear, however that's what i always wear

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
6 days ago

Close to Newport

Ususal...nice too and jeans ha! Tink 😘

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By *ife NinjaMan
6 days ago

Dunfermline

Smart casual 🤓

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By *ypersoonMan
6 days ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

"Casual clothes with nice underwear, however that's what i always wear

Same though mix some of the casual with a bit of smartness

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 days ago

Reading

Depends on my mood really.

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By *ony MannMan
6 days ago

South Newton

Not my workware

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By *asmin.JTV/TS
6 days ago

Heanor

Meets at home slutty, classy when going out

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By *eliWoman
6 days ago

It depends on where I'm meeting them. Generally a dress and flats. Sometimes a mini skirt and t-shirt.

Underneath I'll wear a nice set. Minus the knickers. That's more for me than them.

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By *ynamite500Man
6 days ago

Angus

Smart or smart casual. 😏

Never scruffy! 🥴

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By *egDaySkipperMan
6 days ago

Liverpool

Shorts commando and a t-shirt

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By *2000ManMan
6 days ago

Worthing

A mankini.

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 days ago

Forest of Dean

To a social? Usually just something nice, my usual slightly quirky vintage style

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 days ago

Belfast

Smart casual. There is never a just in case option because it's only ever a social initially.

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I tend to go smart casual unless I get a specific request.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

Summer dress. Sandals in summer, long boots in winter. Everyone loves a summer dress

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

Usually smart casual, preppy perhaps, but it's really determined (and dependant) on the person I'm meeting and what they will be wearing so that we are congruous the place where we are going.

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By *avexxMan
6 days ago

cheshire

smart casual make a bit of an effort,, i dont dress any other way

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By *each needs some creamWoman
6 days ago

Ilfracombe

Sexy lingerie or naked in bed.

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
6 days ago

Falkirk

My last two meets have been impromptu and after work so I was wearing black jeans and black t shirt

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By *ichaelsmyMan
6 days ago

douglas

i make sure that i know where the meeting is to take place. so if for example a social for a coffee, then casual dressed.

if it's a night time in a pub then shirt and trousers/smart casual.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

Depends on venue and time of day

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By *uchasGMan
6 days ago

Northwest

Best undies, you never know

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
6 days ago

Ipswich

Depends on time of day or night

Casual shirt jeans trainers usually

If it’s after work normally work wear shirt combats

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By *ony MannMan
5 days ago

South Newton

A smile if I am lucky

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By *each needs some creamWoman
5 days ago

Ilfracombe

"A smile if I am lucky"

Your smile is all you need to wear.

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By *ic loves to lickMan
5 days ago

Just Over Here

Expensive after shave

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By *oeBeansMan
5 days ago

Derby

So if it's Winter then a knitted jumper, jeans, and boots. Summer it depends if it's a social or not. For a social, it might just be a polo-neck jeans and trainers but for a sexual meet, it'll probably be more shirt, chinos and shoes

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
5 days ago

Manchester

A nice dress that I'd wear to any pub/bar/restaurant, and usually fishnets with some of my good lingerie on underneath if I expect it could be more than just a social. It's a nice surprise for later.

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By *rincipessaWoman
5 days ago

your wildest dreams,

Very much depends on where the meeting will take place and the person I’m meeting.

I’ve met in a wetsuit at the beach

A floaty dress with a strap on underneath, at a hotel.

A very formal dress, heels for dinner

Mini skirt, fishnets and docs down the pub.

Variety is always more fun

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By *sWyldWoman
5 days ago

Edinburgh

Depends on where it is ..

Usually a dress of some description but equally I've met in jeans and a t shirt before too

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By *emptusboth777Couple
5 days ago

oxford

Casual clothes, looking smart but with great lingerie underneath

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By *arialoueWoman
5 days ago

bradford

Nice top, jeans or leggings

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By *ldNewbie64Man
5 days ago

Bury

I'll let you know the outfit if it ever happens OP.

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By *ergus1622Man
5 days ago

Dundee

"Summer dress. Sandals in summer, long boots in winter. Everyone loves a summer dress "

So true!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I like to ask a lot of questions about what they’re gonna be wearing. Detailed questions

Then I turn up wearing what they’re wearing.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
5 days ago

Norwich

I just wear what I would wear if I was going out to meet friends. Smart casual.

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By *onus!Man
5 days ago

Bath

My best smile

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By *a_brunetteWoman
5 days ago

Wiltshire

Smart casual

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By *eavertrackerMan
5 days ago

Bridgwater

Keep it casual, polo shirt and jeans

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
5 days ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I like a dress, not too fancy though.

Mrs TMN x

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 days ago

Depends on location and time...

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
5 days ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"Depends on location and time..."

Same.

I've done a first social in orange workwear once (they were understanding and demanded I show up as such), tidy casual clobber usually, but have had one in lycra when I showed up on my bike (was dared I wouldn't, so... I did.)

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By *andTWoman
5 days ago

Altrincham

"To initial meets? Casual clothes or something more exotic.. just incase?

First couple of meets were social so I dressed smart/casual with a bit of sass 😉 He wore shirt and jeans

The other meets when we knew we were going to be physical I wore a dress with nice underwear.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
5 days ago

Sherwood Forest

On a social... casual but always have something nice on underneath just incase

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By *urry BlokeMan
5 days ago

Casual, but not sloppy

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By *edSirenWoman
5 days ago

magic mountain

Very much depends. I don’t do dinner dates with peeps I’m just getting to know. Would much rather go to the pub, have a walk, or do something fun/explore somewhere. Soooo casual always - casual dress and trainers, or jeans, low cut top; I do love a tease; and boots. I never mean to but I guess my go to look is a bit rock chicky 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *urvelover87Man
5 days ago

London

Smart casual.

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By *B..Woman
5 days ago

Wiltshire

For a social will always be casual, my socials are always a coffee shop or a pub, so no need to go full out

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By *orbidden eastMan
5 days ago

london dodging electric scooters

Smart casual and a pair of eye catch pants.

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By *.B.D.DMan
5 days ago

Northants

"Smart casual."

This is my go to.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
5 days ago

Manchester

"Very much depends. I don’t do dinner dates with peeps I’m just getting to know. Would much rather go to the pub, have a walk, or do something fun/explore somewhere. Soooo casual always - casual dress and trainers, or jeans, low cut top; I do love a tease; and boots. I never mean to but I guess my go to look is a bit rock chicky 🤷🏻‍♀️"

For our date can you be total rock chick😏😍😘

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By *idnightMischiefMan
5 days ago

London

A shell suit. 🤣

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

Pretty much whatever I’ve put on that morning. But might make an effort with underwear if there’s a possibility they might be seen.

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By *luebell888Woman
5 days ago

Glasgowish

Something comfortable and a smile. It's not what you wear but how you wear it that makes all the difference.

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By *ripfillMan
5 days ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Freshly ironed shirt. Clean black button up Levi’s

That fit well on my legs + belt

Always sleeves part rolled up or cuff links (I have double cuff shirts )

Polished shoes or DM’s

I wear a good perfume such as Hemmes

Argyll socks and probably no underwear …

Possibly a jacket

It’s important to make an effort … the ladies I have met certainly have done … it’s reciprocal

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By *andTWoman
5 days ago

Altrincham

"A shell suit. 🤣"

I would love someone to turn up in a shellsuit! 😍 😂

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By *ucka39Man
5 days ago

Newcastle

Smart casual but no underwear

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By *oopy FroodMan
5 days ago

3rd rock from the sun

Nothing as I don't get meets

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By *outhern77Man
5 days ago

Birmingham

Always Shirt and Trousers .. might not be anything underneath

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By *he Silver FuxMan
5 days ago

Uttoxeter

My Lightning McQueen Onesie

If they can’t take me at my worst..

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By *idnightMischiefMan
5 days ago

London

"A shell suit. 🤣

I would love someone to turn up in a shellsuit! 😍 😂 "
From about 1998 to 2004, it was entirely possible that I actually did. 😳

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By *CLM87Woman
5 days ago

Derbyshire

Depends on the weather and what we are doing... usually for a meal and drinks a nice dress and heels, walk in the park, jeans and top...always have a matching set on underneath, although that's every day for me 😇 can't wear mismatch lingerie/underwear

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
5 days ago

Merseyside

Always make an effort but for initial meets will always be a social only

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By *ommy trucker1Man
5 days ago

south wales

I've turned up in work clothes before now it was an impromptu meet I will say. I'm always in shorts very rare ill wear trousers or jeans. If dress sense is a deal breaker then so be it. I'm there to meet the person not the persona

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
5 days ago

Pontyclun

Casual

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By *urry BlokeMan
4 days ago

I want someone to turn up feeling comfortable in what they are wearing

I view socials as socials

For me, they're not an interview

If I felt like they were, I wouldn't take the job even if it was offered

To that end, I don't want anyone to feel self conscious or on edge

I don't think you get to know anyone when their guard is up or when they are on their best behaviour

Dressing is all part of that comfort

For example

I don't own any trousers

I don't own any jeans

I don't own a blazer or a tailored shirt

Everything I wear is for comfort - cargo pants, hoodies, overshirts etc

I don't even possess a pair of 'smart' shoes these days

It's trainers or nothing

That's what I'm the 'real me' in

Showing that is important to both myself and to those I meet

If a choice of wardrobe means we are incompatible, then that's a good part of the litmus test complete

As I said up there somewhere, casual, but not sloppy

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It's like the choice of venue

I much prefer a weekend daytime meet, where we can chat over a brew and a bite to eat at leisure

A posh restaurant or fancy venue wouldn't suit me at all

Again, I wouldn't be comfortable

Again, if that's what you like or where you are comfy, great

Another measure of incompatibility

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By *layfullsamMan
4 days ago

Solihull

What are these meets you talk of

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By *rookedsmileMan
4 days ago

Derbyshire

A smile and crocs with my initials.

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 days ago

Tonypandy.

Depends where initial meeting is.

Pub / coffeeshop etc will be casual. (Top and tidy jeans)

Organised social, maybe smart trousers and top or a wrap-dress.

Meeting after work, black suit and white t-shirt.

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By *ubslut36FWoman
4 days ago

Woodley

For a social usually jeans and nice top, if it's for more, or likely to be then nice lingerie under something similar. If they are visiting me then usually just the lingerie 😜

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By *andTWoman
4 days ago

Altrincham

"My Lightning McQueen Onesie

If they can’t take me at my worst.."

I have an Elvis one!

🕺🏼

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By *ysteryman6998Man
4 days ago

essex

Tuxedo always

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
4 days ago

Ilkeston

Something casual and sexy underwear normally unless in a club

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By *eys00Man
4 days ago

have boots will travel

Something stylish and modest given it’s an initial meet, but the most important thing to tie the outfit together is a cheeky smile 😇

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 days ago

Coventry

We met off Fab. Our first meet I wore chinos, shoes and a jumper (we were meeting in the day time at a tea rooms for tea and cake). I thought I looked smart (fashion not really my thing). Turns out it was a real miss, she did not like what I was wearing at all (especially with my blue wet weather jacket, it was a wet day).

The meet did not go well and it was over in about 1hr, we were done. Anyway, I just thought fuck it and and kissed her, nothing to lose. So I did, I grabed and kissed her in my car. That kiss changed everything. We then continued the date all day with going out for a bit of a drive in the country, a couple of pubs and a couple of blow jobs. By the end of the day (we had to get back to our respective kids) we were laughing, kissing and holding hands like well established lovers.

So I guess that's just a long winded way of saying don't worry about what you wear because an awesome kiss can redeem the worse of fashion faux pas.

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By *tr8MrEMan
4 days ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

"To initial meets? Casual clothes or something more exotic.. just incase?

Blow up Pikachu outfit "gotta stand out from the norm"

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