FabSwingers.com forum: Random Friend Requests

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Since I stopped deleting these about 2 months ago I have built up a store of over 150!! Now, given that I've been on this site approximately 18 months that could, potentially mean I have received more than a thousand random friend requests.

How popular am I? LOL

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm right in saying that if you don't delete them, it prevents the unsuccessful RFR sender from repeating their persistent request time and time again….

But I might be wrong ,,,,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wait until they are offline, then i accept them and have a nosey at their pics before deleting them. Oh, i usually send a nice message saying how i enjoyed their pics! Lol.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checks Friends Requests...

Still zero....

Feels sad...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since I stopped deleting these about 2 months ago I have built up a store of over 150!! Now, given that I've been on this site approximately 18 months that could, potentially mean I have received more than a thousand random friend requests.

How popular am I? LOL

Erm.......very?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wait until they are offline, then i accept them and have a nosey at their pics before deleting them. Oh, i usually send a nice message saying how i enjoyed their pics! Lol."

Thats exactly what smilers does haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

If I had a pound for every random friend request I get I would have...

Well let's just say it would be around the £7.50 mark.

I also keep them so they don't bother me again. Sometimes I do the 'add them when they go offline' if they have lots of private pictures.

But since I got Platinum Membership I can look at anyone's private pictures at any time so no need now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Checks Friends Requests...

Still zero....

Feels sad...

Awww Pwof, I'll be your fwiend

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had a pound for every random friend request I get I would have...

Well let's just say it would be around the £7.50 mark.

I also keep them so they don't bother me again. Sometimes I do the 'add them when they go offline' if they have lots of private pictures.

But since I got Platinum Membership I can look at anyone's private pictures at any time so no need now."

Have you been sent half a request then. ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get friend requests from women which I accept then they don't bother talking

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"If I had a pound for every random friend request I get I would have...

Well let's just say it would be around the £7.50 mark.

I also keep them so they don't bother me again. Sometimes I do the 'add them when they go offline' if they have lots of private pictures.

But since I got Platinum Membership I can look at anyone's private pictures at any time so no need now.

Have you been sent half a request then. ? "

Yeah it's part of Platinum Membership. You can send nonchalant friend requests so as not to lose face if rejected.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have so many on my friends list but after reading this im gonna do the pic perving thing...thanks for the info

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"I don't have so many on my friends list but after reading this im gonna do the pic perving thing...thanks for the info

Always do the pic perv thing if they've got any private pics.

I think some people like to collect friends on here like it's facetube, my friends list only comprises of people that I either talk to or meet on a regular(ish) basis.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"If I had a pound for every random friend request I get I would have...

Well let's just say it would be around the £7.50 mark.

I also keep them so they don't bother me again. Sometimes I do the 'add them when they go offline' if they have lots of private pictures.

But since I got Platinum Membership I can look at anyone's private pictures at any time so no need now."
Who sent you half a request? (Please don't say everybody!)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"If I had a pound for every random friend request I get I would have...

Well let's just say it would be around the £7.50 mark.

I also keep them so they don't bother me again. Sometimes I do the 'add them when they go offline' if they have lots of private pictures.

But since I got Platinum Membership I can look at anyone's private pictures at any time so no need now.Who sent you half a request? (Please don't say everybody!)

Sorry site rules prevent me from naming and shaming.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ah go on then, I'll chuck another 50p in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have so many on my friends list but after reading this im gonna do the pic perving thing...thanks for the info

Always do the pic perv thing if they've got any private pics.

I think some people like to collect friends on here like it's facetube, my friends list only comprises of people that I either talk to or meet on a regular(ish) basis. "

Im glad i never send them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I think I'm right in saying that if you don't delete them, it prevents the unsuccessful RFR sender from repeating their persistent request time and time again….

But I might be wrong ,,,,

That's the point! I read on here that they can't send another one if you just leave it sat there, so that is what I have been doing. Which could, potentially, mean I have received over a thousand in my time here - as I said. Never realised! I guess occasionally they get lucky and someone accepts, but, wow, that's a hell of a lot and I don't think I am in anyway unusual in what I receive!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

How popular am I? LOL

Erm.......very?

I don't think I am - it was tongue-in-cheek. But I reckon there are a lot of folks out there sending tons and tons of them!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its crazy isn't it

I may stop deleting mine and see how many I get

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I don't have so many on my friends list but after reading this im gonna do the pic perving thing...thanks for the info

Always do the pic perv thing if they've got any private pics.

I think some people like to collect friends on here like it's facetube, my friends list only comprises of people that I either talk to or meet on a regular(ish) basis. "

That's who I have on mine - it's a pretty short list. I'm not on here to collect a huge list of friends - can't see the point.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

What I would like to know is, most couples on here state on their profile, 'no friend requests unless we have already been speaking to you' But I find most of my random requests come from couples!

Any ideas why??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I actually state in my profile that I do not accept friends' requests until I have met the person - it has reduced but not completely eradicated the number of random requests - I guess some people do, others do not read profiles.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *picenicelyCouple
over a year ago

third star on the right

We rarely get them, and would love to see some people's faces, may have to put some pics in private to entice people lol!

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How popular am I? LOL

Did you actually sit and count them? I can't be bothered sitting deleting them either, though I can't see any option to say how many are there. If I can't be bothered deleting. I ain't counting them.

I have a very short friends list as I have not been here long and I will not accept random friends requests.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's alsorts of behaviour patterns on this website I don't get

Demanding face pics when they dont have them, sending winks and then don't reply to message you send them, random friend requests, the list goes on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

How popular am I? LOL

Did you actually sit and count them? I can't be bothered sitting deleting them either, though I can't see any option to say how many are there. If I can't be bothered deleting. I ain't counting them.

I have a very short friends list as I have not been here long and I will not accept random friends requests."

I got up to about 50 and was only a third of the way down the page so I guessed it would be around 150 - so, no, I didn't count them all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I would like to know is, most couples on here state on their profile, 'no friend requests unless we have already been speaking to you' But I find most of my random requests come from couples!

Any ideas why??

I know that also baffles me...we wont add you if you don't speak yet they want to add you and not message first

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had a pound for every random friend request I get I would have...

Well let's just say it would be around the £7.50 mark.

I also keep them so they don't bother me again. Sometimes I do the 'add them when they go offline' if they have lots of private pictures.

But since I got Platinum Membership I can look at anyone's private pictures at any time so no need now."

To clarify, do you mean you can see friend only pictures or private pictures? As they are different things. As in, my face picture is in private to send in messages, but smutty photos are friends only.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Always strange how many folk have never attempted to speak to you yet still send a friends request....hmmmmmm x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mma.Woman
over a year ago

DAVYHULME MANC

this annoys me so much lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"I get friend requests from women which I accept then they don't bother talking

Yes, that's happening to me but with women and couples too. I guess they just want to peep at the private pics, which is fine as I can peep at theirs.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I would like to know is, most couples on here state on their profile, 'no friend requests unless we have already been speaking to you' But I find most of my random requests come from couples!

Any ideas why??

Do as I say not as I do...lots seem to have this attitude!

As for the OP - think they can't request again in 30 days, not sure if it drops off the requests after that date though? I often accept when they're offline and have a nosey - after all that's why they have requested me in the first place!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've stopped deleting too to prevent re-friending. 91 in the last two weeks, so it could have been thousands since I joined.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think more and more people are just leaving the friend requests there. Some get confused and think it is Facebook! It does stop them re-sending messages, mine have gone down significantly.

I only befriend those I want to meet eventually x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm right in saying that if you don't delete them, it prevents the unsuccessful RFR sender from repeating their persistent request time and time again….

But I might be wrong ,,,,

You're quite right and I've only just discovered this. Handy as one man has sent me five in the last five days although I said NO five times too so he's joined my exclusive 'B' list lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never delete friend requests or winks! So I must have quite a lot built up lol (only because I never look at them) Though one night when I am bored, I might just go and have sneaky look at the private pics

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"What I would like to know is, most couples on here state on their profile, 'no friend requests unless we have already been speaking to you' But I find most of my random requests come from couples!

Any ideas why??

Do as I say not as I do...lots seem to have this attitude!

Well I have been leaving them sat there for at least 2 months and they are still there!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them now I am not going to meet anyone who can't have a conversation.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I just delete them now I am not going to meet anyone who can't have a conversation.

If you don't delete them though, and don't actually accept, just leave them, then they can't send you another! I found I was getting repeated requests from the same people. So I just ignore them now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just delete them now I am not going to meet anyone who can't have a conversation.

If you don't delete them though, and don't actually accept, just leave them, then they can't send you another! I found I was getting repeated requests from the same people. So I just ignore them now."

They don't want to be my friend that much I only get them once

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them, as says in my profile, I accept and perv whilst they are offline and delete them again

If I know they are not for me (live miles away, married etc) then once I've perved (If I actually bother too) then I will block them (then they cant re-request)

I figure any random requests are simply to see my private pics, so I do unto them, that they attempted to do to me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Since it appears that the old wait until they are offline and have a perv at their pics routine is pretty common, I pose a new question.

Once you've had a little perv at their pics, how often do you think, actually if they'd sent a message I'd have replied. And if you do, have you ever gone as far as accepting the request or sending a message or a wink to try an initiate a conversation?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Since it appears that the old wait until they are offline and have a perv at their pics routine is pretty common, I pose a new question.

I never perv over the pics. I never accept unsolicited friend requests no matter what. If they message me, and we get in to conversation, they send a face pic, I send one back and it all looks possible that we will meet - then, and only then, will I consider accepting a friend request.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"Since it appears that the old wait until they are offline and have a perv at their pics routine is pretty common, I pose a new question.

Sorry, that wasn't directed solely at the OP, I was looking for the opinions of everyone who's posted.

I'm firmly in the camp of waiting then having a perv and occasionally I've actually been quite interested. Once or twice I've even sent a message to try and get a conversation going.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since it appears that the old wait until they are offline and have a perv at their pics routine is pretty common, I pose a new question.

Honestly I rarely actually look at their pics so no I wouldn't initiate conversation, if they cant be arsed to contact me and get my attention mentally then I cant be arsed either.

I wouldn't walk into a club and just pounce on a stranger, (Or perv down their towel) stimulate my mind then maybe my body

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since it appears that the old wait until they are offline and have a perv at their pics routine is pretty common, I pose a new question.

Hasn't been much of an issue so far as most tend to be more cock pics, but the odd one or two that I've thought 'go on then' I'll wink at...never had a reply though that I can remember!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread