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"When my fanny batter thickens and the other lips go dry 💜" Couldn't have put it better myself 🤣🤣 | |||
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"that you fancy/like/want to fuck (delete as necessary) someone? Yeah, that's the only question. Makes a change." I know when I fancy someone when, my heart flutters and my stomach twists up... Very rare though, as I don't let people get that close to me... Even I'm quite social and approachable.  | |||
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"When my fanny batter thickens and the other lips go dry 💜" ROFL!🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"When my fanny batter thickens and the other lips go dry 💜" Torn because it's you but you've also ruined my libido (for a few minutes). Darn it, Prey. 🖤 | |||
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"Usually during the first in person conversation. Then comes the delicate dance of finding out if it's mutual. 🤣" So you've never felt it before? How does it work in a group play situation - do you speak to everyone before a mass undressing of hedonism? | |||
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"that you fancy/like/want to fuck (delete as necessary) someone? Yeah, that's the only question. Makes a change. I know when I fancy someone when, my heart flutters and my stomach twists up... Very rare though, as I don't let people get that close to me... Even I'm quite social and approachable. "Oh that's so cute! That's quite a strong physical response. Yeah, I get the whole being social and liking people but not letting them get too close. I think it makes those times when you find someone who has that effect on you even more exciting. | |||
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"that you fancy/like/want to fuck (delete as necessary) someone? Yeah, that's the only question. Makes a change. I know when I fancy someone when, my heart flutters and my stomach twists up... Very rare though, as I don't let people get that close to me... Even I'm quite social and approachable.
Oh that's so cute! That's quite a strong physical response.
Yeah, I get the whole being social and liking people but not letting them get too close. I think it makes those times when you find someone who has that effect on you even more exciting."Aww thank you op,🥰❤️ that actually means a lot, as us blokes tend not to open up like that, however i thought... "What the hell?" I don't care if I'm judged. It helps to speak the truth, not just to others but oneself. | |||
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"Usually during the first in person conversation. Then comes the delicate dance of finding out if it's mutual. 🤣 So you've never felt it before? How does it work in a group play situation - do you speak to everyone before a mass undressing of hedonism? " I don't tend to do group play with people I haven't spoken to. Even the big bi-orgies. There's been occasional soft play in clubs where the hedonistic horny side takes over. But that's not the same as fancying/liking/wanting to fuck someone. | |||
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"On here, Fancy, usually when we start chatting. Like, the more we chat get to know each other. Want to fuck, when we meet and feel that spark when your eyes meet for the first time." I may have misread your OP Meli, sorry  | |||
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"Time wise, anything from instantly to literally years ! Response wise, when I'm thinking about them constantly. When the irrational brain takes over and I let it have its way." Years? Oh have you seen someone differently after years of knowing them? They'll do a random act or say some random thing and then you think oh, I get it. Thinking about them constantly is a good sign they're under your skin. | |||
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"When they give me flutterflies 🦋 and it usually helps (massively) to know they want me too. " Ooooo! Love a good portmanteau and this is *chef's kiss*. Definitely using that bad boy soon. Flutterflies. Oh yes, when it's reciprocated it can really help you realise. That doesn't make sense yet it does. | |||
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"When the flirting messages turn to a long chat on the phone and by the time you’re done you’re smiling with the thought of tearing their clothes off and exploring every inch of them" And this is before you've met. Spoken on the phone and it clicks and you realise you want to tear their clothes off? | |||
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"Whenever I look at your pics Meli "Cute Geo, very cute.  | |||
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"When the flirting messages turn to a long chat on the phone and by the time you’re done you’re smiling with the thought of tearing their clothes off and exploring every inch of them And this is before you've met. Spoken on the phone and it clicks and you realise you want to tear their clothes off?" Yes this is usually before we’ve met. I’m a bit of a slow burn so don’t jump immediately to social and bedroom romps without lots of build up. By the time we meet I’m fairly certain. | |||
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"When do you know... that you fancy/like/want to fuck (delete as necessary) someone? Yeah, that's the only question. Makes a change." When you meet them for the first time and you realise you don't want to be 'just friends' 😈 . | |||
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"I usually have a fair idea after chatting with someone online if I think we will click and I am interested in them. I can get a sense from a conversation if they are for me I think, some people are so easy to talk to even when it's online. Meeting them in person usually seals the deal when I know the chemistry is there. Although, some people can be a slow burn. So it's not totally black and white. " 👍🏼 Good answer 😍 . | |||
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"Reading all the comments I now realise I must have cobwebs. I haven't had flutterflies or any kind of fluid build up over someone for a good year
I need to get out more "I know what you mean about flutters 🦋 I only get them with a couple of people... Oh and wine, wine gives me 🦋 🦋 🦋 😁 . | |||
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"On here, Fancy, usually when we start chatting. Like, the more we chat get to know each other. Want to fuck, when we meet and feel that spark when your eyes meet for the first time. I may have misread your OP Meli, sorry "No you didn't Daizy, don't worry! You answered as is applicable to you and that's what I was curious about, how others viewed it. | |||
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"Usually during the first in person conversation. Then comes the delicate dance of finding out if it's mutual. 🤣 So you've never felt it before? How does it work in a group play situation - do you speak to everyone before a mass undressing of hedonism? I don't tend to do group play with people I haven't spoken to. Even the big bi-orgies. There's been occasional soft play in clubs where the hedonistic horny side takes over. But that's not the same as fancying/liking/wanting to fuck someone. " Oh club antics... I'd not thought of those and the different environment/dynamics until I read your first post. In clubs (and this is nosiness, nothing else), would you engage in soft [redacted] with people you didn't particularly fancy? Do people? Is it more about the general mood than the individual? | |||
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"When I've met them in person. I've never seen anyone on here that I've straight away thought "I want to fuck you".....they may look pretty and catch my eye but it's that initial 1st meet that sparks the rest..." I’d only meet up with someone I’d initially thought ‘you look hot online, I hope I want to fuck you in person.’ I’ve also fucked a few people from fab in my dreams too, I’ve been lucky for those dreams to come true. | |||
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"When all you can think about 24/7 is sitting on their face." I think that for a few people I'd like to suffocate.😳 | |||
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"When all you can think about 24/7 is sitting on their face. I think that for a few people I'd like to suffocate.😳" So funny!!🤣👍 Hahaha. Now, now put that thought back in the box. Only open when needed!🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"When all you can think about 24/7 is sitting on their face. I think that for a few people I'd like to suffocate.😳 So funny!!🤣👍 Hahaha. Now, now put that thought back in the box. Only open when needed!🤣🤣🤣🤣" Nah do it … I like to ignore the tapping out too! | |||
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"When my chastity cage bursts its lock and explodes across the room like a piece of shrapnel, propelled by the explosive force of my instantly turgid surprise package! Zzzzzzanggggggg! Ptweeeeee!" You write pure smut Davina, keep it up. 🩷 | |||
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"Just one question? Barely worth bothering 🙄 I fancy people physically quite readily. But need to meet them to know if I *really* fancy them. " You still did though. Slightly flattered. Thanks ANM. Yes, in person it's when you can really tell if there's genuine attraction. Chemistry. Before then I'm not too sure. Perhaps it's how I view it though. | |||
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"When all you can think about 24/7 is sitting on their face. I think that for a few people I'd like to suffocate.😳 So funny!!🤣👍 Hahaha. Now, now put that thought back in the box. Only open when needed!🤣🤣🤣🤣 Nah do it … I like to ignore the tapping out too! " Hahaha, you sadist!!🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Usually during the first in person conversation. Then comes the delicate dance of finding out if it's mutual. 🤣 So you've never felt it before? How does it work in a group play situation - do you speak to everyone before a mass undressing of hedonism? I don't tend to do group play with people I haven't spoken to. Even the big bi-orgies. There's been occasional soft play in clubs where the hedonistic horny side takes over. But that's not the same as fancying/liking/wanting to fuck someone. Oh club antics... I'd not thought of those and the different environment/dynamics until I read your first post. In clubs (and this is nosiness, nothing else), would you engage in soft [redacted] with people you didn't particularly fancy? Do people? Is it more about the general mood than the individual?" Hey, you used the [redacted] word first! 🤣 I don't know about other people, just me. In that situation I still need to find them attractive. But there's not a need to fancy them (that's deeper for me), it's an in the moment thing. Mainly I much prefer to get to know people properly *and* like *and* fancy them. I'm greedy and lucky like that. ❤️🔥 | |||
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 I could happily fuck someone I dislike
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"Usually during the first in person conversation. Then comes the delicate dance of finding out if it's mutual. 🤣 So you've never felt it before? How does it work in a group play situation - do you speak to everyone before a mass undressing of hedonism? I don't tend to do group play with people I haven't spoken to. Even the big bi-orgies. There's been occasional soft play in clubs where the hedonistic horny side takes over. But that's not the same as fancying/liking/wanting to fuck someone. Oh club antics... I'd not thought of those and the different environment/dynamics until I read your first post. In clubs (and this is nosiness, nothing else), would you engage in soft [redacted] with people you didn't particularly fancy? Do people? Is it more about the general mood than the individual? Hey, you used the [redacted] word first! 🤣 I don't know about other people, just me. In that situation I still need to find them attractive. But there's not a need to fancy them (that's deeper for me), it's an in the moment thing. Mainly I much prefer to get to know people properly *and* like *and* fancy them. I'm greedy and lucky like that. ❤️🔥" Ohhhh I know I did. 🥲 I couldn't think of an alternative name for such an activity and by that point my attention was being diverted by far more pleasurable pursuits and I thought fuck it, that's fine. Now I feel bad for not being truly present during the thread. Women are such sluts. 
Liking and fancying and wanting to fuck a person is rightfully and deliciously greedy. | |||
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"On site If I find someone attractive, it's instant If I have to convince myself, over time, that I want to fuck them, it's usually a no The more I know about someone, the more reasons I find not to fancy them I don't need a psychological/ emotional attachment In fact, I would go as far to say, I don't want one So, if the initial attraction is there and the opportunity is there to bump bones then, well there's no time like now Sometimes, I think my patent honesty about this is a little jarring to others, but I won't make statements just to fit an expected mould " I think that should have maybe started 'on sight'  | |||
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