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"Two questions; one serious, one for fun... 1) Where the hell do I find the Forum Rules? I've only ever been sent them with a ban and I delete those messages cos they make me sad. 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? Right and wrong answers only; but keep it light, let's not get this one closed before it begins!" Dai, they are found in the place next to where all my socks disappear to. I can only get myself banned twice a month, going forward is my new rule. It's not been going to plan in the past. | |||
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"Unwritten rule... I will read a forum that winds me up but I then spend time writing a response. But I'll always pause then delete my response as it's normally a huge rant. X" I do this
See something that really winds me up, write out a response then think "fuck it, not worth the headache" and delete.
Sometimes I have to say something but most times I try and avoid any big drama on here. I only really get involved if it's a topic that really bothers me. Better for my mental health not to get involved in arguments with strangers on a website. | |||
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"Any thread that mentions cheese or fish must be turned into a pun thread. Got to brie done." Cheese puns?! 🧀 ...I Camembert them. | |||
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"Any thread that mentions cheese or fish must be turned into a pun thread. Got to brie done." I would add herbs too but this isn't the thyme or plaice to do this. | |||
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"Any thread that mentions cheese or fish must be turned into a pun thread. Got to brie done. Cheese puns?! 🧀 ...I Camembert them." Edam well went there didn't he !👏 | |||
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"Unwritten rule... I will read a forum that winds me up but I then spend time writing a response. But I'll always pause then delete my response as it's normally a huge rant. X" Ahhhhh, that's what I should do. Pause and delete Pause and delete Pause and delete. Ok I'm there. | |||
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"Two questions; one serious, one for fun... 1) Where the hell do I find the Forum Rules? I've only ever been sent them with a ban and I delete those messages cos they make me sad. 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? Right and wrong answers only; but keep it light, let's not get this one closed before it begins!" We adhere to them all whatever they are, as in 8 years we've never had a b@n 🥳 | |||
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"Any thread that mentions cheese or fish must be turned into a pun thread. Got to brie done. I would add herbs too but this isn't the thyme or plaice to do this." And we won't mention your brilliant chicken puns as I'd only get egg on my face.🤦♂️ | |||
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"Any thread that mentions cheese or fish must be turned into a pun thread. Got to brie done. Cheese puns?! 🧀 ...I Camembert them. Edam well went there didn't he !👏" Cheese? Emmental you good and proper Dai, Leo is voted #1 funniest forumite for a reason. Ricotta great repertoire of jokes that one. | |||
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"The forum rules are tattooed on Daizy's left derrière cheek. The 'unwritten' rules are laser-etched on Daizy's right derrière cheek. I suspect having sex behind Daizy's back is going to be a challenge and a half when you're trying to read Fab's terms and conditions. 💗😈" Nerø me old fruit, I'm doing some good work with Daizy on the netball thread. Don't freaking undo this please. Don't piss her off now 😂 | |||
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"Are rules not just there to be broken?😇" I am not sure about that, but rulers break with a satisfying snap. | |||
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"Two questions; one serious, one for fun... 1) Where the hell do I find the Forum Rules? I've only ever been sent them with a ban and I delete those messages cos they make me sad. 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? Right and wrong answers only; but keep it light, let's not get this one closed before it begins!" Just think and speak 'Woke' and you won't require the rules then 👍 | |||
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"Who writes the rules? Because if I am a forum member (whatever that means) then I never took part in that process." the owners write the rules for the members to behave. a member has no special rights, only to participate and obey the rules | |||
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"Who writes the rules? Because if I am a forum member (whatever that means) then I never took part in that process. the owners write the rules for the members to behave. a member has no special rights, only to participate and obey the rules" Absolutely, as long as content is within those rules then no one else has special rights to create rules. I'm good with that. | |||
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" 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? !" One should never change one’s opinion or publicly grovel, in the hope it will get one’s dick wet. | |||
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"Two questions; one serious, one for fun... 1) Where the hell do I find the Forum Rules? I've only ever been sent them with a ban and I delete those messages cos they make me sad. 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? Right and wrong answers only; but keep it light, let's not get this one closed before it begins! Just think and speak 'Woke' and you won't require the rules then 👍" That's not true. I just say what I think | |||
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"Two questions; one serious, one for fun... 1) Where the hell do I find the Forum Rules? I've only ever been sent them with a ban and I delete those messages cos they make me sad. 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? Right and wrong answers only; but keep it light, let's not get this one closed before it begins!" Since nobody else did it....... "Forum Rules In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it. How we moderate We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why. Threads we remove Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like r*pe, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry. Name and shame Please don't name and shame other users. There's no way for us to police this so if you have a problem with another user, please REPORT them privately to Admin (via the report link on the profile), and block them. Admin will review, resolve. Don't be nasty Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated. Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. Disputing admin or moderator decisions The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim. 18+ only Any discussion of sex relating to under 18s isn't allowed and will be removed. Dirty laundry The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile. Links to other sites We have restrictions on where you can link to because otherwise people end up posting spam or links to places that host malware/spyware and it's bad for our users. You can link to: Any well recognised news site (bbc, times, telegraph, sun, notw, cnn and all the rest) Youtube Lovehoney Wikipedia No nit-picking please Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere. No phone numbers, addresses, personal details Please don't post any phone numbers, addresses or personal details of someone on or off the site. In the past people have posted other people's phone numbers as a joke/harassment so it's strictly off limits now. Private mail should stay private Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules. Commercial services Most commercial postings are NOT ok. Some that are specifically related to swinging such as swingers club nights might be, so long as it's not annoying site users. Discretion is applied. Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action. Locations Please don't post exact locations of dogging sites or socials in the forum. You can ask people to mail you privately for more information. Forum timeouts If you've broken forum rules or we consider it in the interests of the community, we may issue you a timeout on participation. You'll get a message explaining what you did wrong and how long the timeout lasts. It expires automatically. Please don't use any other accounts to try and get around timeouts because they will banned. Spot any problems? If you see rule breaking on the forums or if you've posted a thread that you'd like to be removed for any reason, please use the report link underneath the forum post" 😉🤷♂️ | |||
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"Two questions; one serious, one for fun... 1) Where the hell do I find the Forum Rules? I've only ever been sent them with a ban and I delete those messages cos they make me sad. 2) What 'unwritten' Forum rules do you adhere to? Right and wrong answers only; but keep it light, let's not get this one closed before it begins! Since nobody else did it....... "Forum Rules In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it. How we moderate We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why. Threads we remove Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like r*pe, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry. Name and shame Please don't name and shame other users. There's no way for us to police this so if you have a problem with another user, please REPORT them privately to Admin (via the report link on the profile), and block them. Admin will review, resolve. Don't be nasty Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated. Don't be personal Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action. Disputing admin or moderator decisions The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim. 18+ only Any discussion of sex relating to under 18s isn't allowed and will be removed. Dirty laundry The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile. Links to other sites We have restrictions on where you can link to because otherwise people end up posting spam or links to places that host malware/spyware and it's bad for our users. You can link to: Any well recognised news site (bbc, times, telegraph, sun, notw, cnn and all the rest) Youtube Lovehoney Wikipedia No nit-picking please Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere. No phone numbers, addresses, personal details Please don't post any phone numbers, addresses or personal details of someone on or off the site. In the past people have posted other people's phone numbers as a joke/harassment so it's strictly off limits now. Private mail should stay private Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules. Commercial services Most commercial postings are NOT ok. Some that are specifically related to swinging such as swingers club nights might be, so long as it's not annoying site users. Discretion is applied. Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action. Locations Please don't post exact locations of dogging sites or socials in the forum. You can ask people to mail you privately for more information. Forum timeouts If you've broken forum rules or we consider it in the interests of the community, we may issue you a timeout on participation. You'll get a message explaining what you did wrong and how long the timeout lasts. It expires automatically. Please don't use any other accounts to try and get around timeouts because they will banned. Spot any problems? If you see rule breaking on the forums or if you've posted a thread that you'd like to be removed for any reason, please use the report link underneath the forum post" 😉🤷♂️" TL:DR 😂 | |||
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"Derek from Luton with no veris and 47 cock photos posts an opinion, tumble. SexBombSusie says the exact same thing two posts later, 175 replies." isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing | |||
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"Derek from Luton with no veris and 47 cock photos posts an opinion, tumble. SexBombSusie says the exact same thing two posts later, 175 replies.isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing
"Leo, I hope you checked a SexBombSusie doesn't actually exist (aside from being against the forum rules😉), if she does, her inbox is about to explode! | |||
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"Derek from Luton with no veris and 47 cock photos posts an opinion, tumble. SexBombSusie says the exact same thing two posts later, 175 replies." isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing 😂 *This make take a while to sink in... | |||
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"Define ‘rules’. "I think Obi helped us out there!☝️☝️☝️ | |||
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"isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing 😂 *This make take a while to sink in..." you ARE one of the hottest!  | |||
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"Derek from Luton with no veris and 47 cock photos posts an opinion, tumble. SexBombSusie says the exact same thing two posts later, 175 replies.isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing "Sorry diamond, thems the rules ! | |||
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"isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing 😂 *This make take a while to sink in... you ARE one of the hottest! "You old fucking smoothie you, Dai. I tell you mate, if I was into the lieberwürst mate you'd be first up buddy. I would be alright with a Richmond Thin. 😂 | |||
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"Use as many emojis 😈💋😘😍 as possible in every thread/message and if people complain… Use more 🤗🩷✨🤨🤩😜🤣" omg definetly not. There was a guy that used to put every single emoji on his posts used to drive me crackers as you couldn't get away from them. He ended up getting a forum ban(not for that reason)and he's the only person ever I was glad to see the back of | |||
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"Derek from Luton with no veris and 47 cock photos posts an opinion, tumble. SexBombSusie says the exact same thing two posts later, 175 replies.isn't this just so true. The amount of times I say stuff and noone takes any notice till the hotly says the same thing
Leo, I hope you checked a SexBombSusie doesn't actually exist (aside from being against the forum rules😉), if she does, her inbox is about to explode!"So will Derek from Luton’s. 47 cock pics is gonna get a lot of the gay. | |||
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"Any thread that mentions cheese or fish must be turned into a pun thread. Got to brie done. Cheese puns?! 🧀 ...I Camembert them. Edam well went there didn't he !👏" You can do feta than that | |||
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"Miss Bella's threads will all be moved to Games 🤭🤣" Every. Single. Time! Someone dislikes me a lot.. | |||
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