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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one

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By *rivervaderMan
4 weeks ago

bolton

Sending a big hug

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Oh sorry to hear this. Sending hugs to you foxy ❤️

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Sending a big hug"

Thank you

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By *vaRose43Woman
4 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Sending love and hugs 🫂

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Oh sorry to hear this. Sending hugs to you foxy ❤️"

Thank you Nora

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 weeks ago

North West

Sending my love and hugs ❤

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By *hil39Man
4 weeks ago

Dagenham

Also sending hugs 🥰

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Sending love and hugs 🫂 "

Thank you

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Sending my love and hugs ❤ "

Thank you

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By *hongmanMan
4 weeks ago

Nearby

There is nt no I'm afraid I lost my Mum recently and have nt had time to grieve yet. Things hit me at certain moments. Mother's day was hard first one without her and when my wife bought a card for her Mum got a right lump in my throat. We have recently moved house as well so had loads of stress with that. It will hit me at some point. They say time is a great healer

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Also sending hugs 🥰 "

Thank you

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By *cottish guy 555Man
4 weeks ago

London

Hugs 🫂 to you OP.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Griefs a hard one. It sneaks up on you. Hugs.

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

Big hug to you 🤗 ❤️‍🩹

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory

My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔

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By *ackformore100Man
4 weeks ago

Tin town


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

Oh gosh can't even imagine how that is for you and your family. So sorry to hear.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

Sending you much love and hugs. 💐🩷

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

I lost my twin 8 years ago. Yesterday I put my out of office on and had a little weep. It doesn’t have to get better. We just find a place in our hearts for it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

I just started typing and kept deleting. It is true that it is so hard to know what to say. In fact I’m sure there are no words of comfort for something like this. I’m so so sorry xxx

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
4 weeks ago

Reading


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

That's a grief that hits hard.

Grief has no expiry date, turns up without warning and shows up again for the strangest of reasons.

Be kind to yourself, cry when you feel like crying.

Sending much love and the most comforting hugs.

M & J

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔

I lost my twin 8 years ago. Yesterday I put my out of office on and had a little weep. It doesn’t have to get better. We just find a place in our hearts for it. "

I'm so sorry for your loss x

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By *ockey64Man
4 weeks ago

Gloucester

Big hugs xx

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔

That's a grief that hits hard.

Grief has no expiry date, turns up without warning and shows up again for the strangest of reasons.

Be kind to yourself, cry when you feel like crying.

Sending much love and the most comforting hugs.

M & J"

Thank you ,I've hardly stopped crying since Belle passed I really feel like my heart is broken

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔

I lost my twin 8 years ago. Yesterday I put my out of office on and had a little weep. It doesn’t have to get better. We just find a place in our hearts for it.

I'm so sorry for your loss x"

And for yours. Big squeezey virtual hug dahlink 🤗x

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By *coobyABCMan
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

It's especially hard when you are the one people go to for support. It can sneak up again, out the blue months, years after. It never goes away but it will get easier. Sending huge hugs and a willing ear, anytime you need

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Thank you all

I know this isn't the place to talk about my loss,it's just easier sometimes to talk to people that you don't really know

Have a nice day whatever yous are doing

I really appreciate all of your kind words ❤️

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"Thank you all

I know this isn't the place to talk about my loss,it's just easier sometimes to talk to people that you don't really know

Have a nice day whatever yous are doing

I really appreciate all of your kind words ❤️"

If you want to talk about it here talk about it. It’s as much the place as any. Behind the profiles are real people and we hear you. X

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"There is nt no I'm afraid I lost my Mum recently and have nt had time to grieve yet. Things hit me at certain moments. Mother's day was hard first one without her and when my wife bought a card for her Mum got a right lump in my throat. We have recently moved house as well so had loads of stress with that. It will hit me at some point. They say time is a great healer "

I'm so sorry for your loss

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
4 weeks ago

Reading

There is no right or wrong to grieve, or a time limit on what you should feel or when. Be gentle with yourself.

Sending you love and virtual hugs.

Xx

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By *unhungguyMan
4 weeks ago

leeds

My grandma passed away last month and yesterday was her funeral was so hard xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Here's a big boobie hug and also a complimentary jelly baby that says you're awesome because it's complimentary

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By *unhungguyMan
4 weeks ago

leeds

Thanks

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

L


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

As much as you are trying to be strong for your daughter, you have to give yourself time to grieve..however long that takes.

No-one has the words when a loved one passes (especially an infant)...asking someone if they are "ok" or such like seems insensitive even though it's not meant that way.

It will be so hard for all the family especially watching her surviving twin reaching their milestones and I feel for you all..it's something that will always be in your mind.

Sending ❤️

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

Have a massive spiritual hug. There really is no time limit on it. I think once you've experienced true grief, you carry it with you forever.

💔

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

Oh no!

😒😪

💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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By *iss DevilWoman
4 weeks ago

Bedford

Sorry to hear that, OP, that you're struggling. Grief can hit us at the least expected moment.

Big hugs! I know it's probably not overly comforting, but what helps me is believing the person/people are in a better place now (however you'd call that place) where there is no pain or suffering.

Hugs again.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Sometimes a cuddle and a hug is the best medicine needed. Sorry to hear this. Sending you the strongest prescription I have in my phoxmacy 😉

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
4 weeks ago

kent

Losing a child is an insult to the order of the world. There are no words for the way it damages you, and there is nothing you can do to alter the process of grief. Whatever you feel, whatever you need, just go with it. Time doesn’t heal, it just wraps layers of experience around your hurt. There will come a day when you don’t cry, and after that, a day will come when you find yourself laughing. It isn’t something you will ever consign to the past, you will never set it aside or let it go. But you will learn to live with it, and then make peace with it, and in time, life goes on. These words won’t be much comfort, no words can be. Stay close to your family, and talk as much as you can. Don’t be alone with your grief, and don’t try to hide it. Stay strong for your daughter of course, but let yourself crumble with someone else, be that here or with a friend. Just don’t shut it away. I’m deeply sorry for your loss ❤️

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By *ynamite500Man
4 weeks ago

Angus

My thoughts are with you all. I'm sorry for your loss.😢

Time is a great healer, though it will never change the pain, it will change how we cope.

My biggest hugs to you all.🥰

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By *rthur30Man
4 weeks ago

Warrington

I can't even imagine what you must be going through.

To lose a parent is very sad but it is something we know will happen, as much as we resist the thought.

To lose a child who you hoped to have loved and nurtured is beyond sad and a cosmic injustice.

Please accept my condolences and the biggest virtual hug I can muster.

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By *lubchuckerMan
4 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Sending a big hug

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By *ocketman81Man
4 weeks ago

Ennis

Hugs and love, time doesn't heal all things

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By *ouno2muchMan
4 weeks ago

Disneyland

Sending lots of hugs!

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By *hegentlemanbullMan
4 weeks ago

Southam

A huge, no strings attached, hug to you. Snuggle down into my chest.

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"A huge, no strings attached, hug to you. Snuggle down into my chest."

Hi and thank you

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Losing a child is an insult to the order of the world. There are no words for the way it damages you, and there is nothing you can do to alter the process of grief. Whatever you feel, whatever you need, just go with it. Time doesn’t heal, it just wraps layers of experience around your hurt. There will come a day when you don’t cry, and after that, a day will come when you find yourself laughing. It isn’t something you will ever consign to the past, you will never set it aside or let it go. But you will learn to live with it, and then make peace with it, and in time, life goes on. These words won’t be much comfort, no words can be. Stay close to your family, and talk as much as you can. Don’t be alone with your grief, and don’t try to hide it. Stay strong for your daughter of course, but let yourself crumble with someone else, be that here or with a friend. Just don’t shut it away. I’m deeply sorry for your loss ❤️"

Thank you so very much for your kind word,I've experienced awful grief before but nothing like this I feel thay I can't breath,I do know that things will ease in time so I'm just taking one day at a time

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Though I haven't replied to everyone on a one on one doesn't mean that I don't appreciate your hugs and kind words because I do

Thank you all from the bottom of the small piece of my heart that I still have left

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"My grandma passed away last month and yesterday was her funeral was so hard xx "

I'm so sorry for your loss xx

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By *midnight-Woman
4 weeks ago

...

I've been thinking of you Foxy and wondering how you and your family are.

I'm sure you are all still numbed and there will be a lot of hard days to come.

Sending you hugs and love - I wish I could magically erase the pain for you all x

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔

I lost my twin 8 years ago. Yesterday I put my out of office on and had a little weep. It doesn’t have to get better. We just find a place in our hearts for it. "

So sorry for both of your loses 🫂

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

Sending hugs to you xx

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By *orester891Man
4 weeks ago

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Losing someone is just the worse thing . It’s difficult . Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

So sorry for what you and your family are going through 🫂

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By *ogmark1Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Sending a massive hug , know how hard it is

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By *ionandleopardCouple
4 weeks ago

Norwich


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

There is no time limit and there is also no right or wrong way to do it. Grieving is a very personal thing and each and everyone does it their own way. It's very cliche , but time does help . Personally I (Mr) don't think we ever truly heal from some losses we just learn to live with them .

Don't try and rush the process just let it happen naturally. We are giving you all the virtual cuddles you need x

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By *adtaffladMan
4 weeks ago

Rhyl


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

A huge hug from Wales . It's bad times when you are grieving and you are right there is no time limit

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By *heTattooedDomMan
4 weeks ago

Winnersh


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

Big Santa hug.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

We all grieve in our own way, I don't think we ever get over a loss but learn to live with it.

Big hugs op

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By *hongmanMan
4 weeks ago

Nearby


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔"

Wow Foxy no words. It's hard knowing what to say as people may not want to upset you. Try and take comfort that her sister and your Granddaughter is still with you. I know you will never forget the one you lost but she is still part of a twin and one is living. Enjoy the one that is living and make the most of her. I know it's hard but try and be positive x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I lost my beloved Aunt recently who was frankly more like a Mum to me, I didn't think it would affect me as hard as it has.

Suffered a lot of death in my life long before I should've to.

All you can do is treasure the time you had together and be thankful for those still with you x

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By *outhern77Man
4 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

Aah no Foxy.. I'm so sorry ..

Here's a Massive Hug from Me xx

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one

Aah no Foxy.. I'm so sorry ..

Here's a Massive Hug from Me xx"

Thank you so much xx

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"I lost my beloved Aunt recently who was frankly more like a Mum to me, I didn't think it would affect me as hard as it has.

Suffered a lot of death in my life long before I should've to.

All you can do is treasure the time you had together and be thankful for those still with you x"

I'm so sorry for your loss,and thank you x

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By *xmcdTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Wrexham


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one"

There isn’t your right and sometimes it hits you out of nowhere. Always remember the good times of whatever the grief is over and talk about them to keep them present and it helps.

Sending hugs x

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"My 7month old Grandaughter passed away on the 3rd of March and I just can't shake this awful darkness ,I'm trying to be so strong for my daughter but it's killing me,I've got a good family and great friends but they just don't know what to say

Belle was twin which is so bittersweet watching her sister grow when Belle won't ever get to do that 💔 Wow Foxy no words. It's hard knowing what to say as people may not want to upset you. Try and take comfort that her sister and your Granddaughter is still with you. I know you will never forget the one you lost but she is still part of a twin and one is living. Enjoy the one that is living and make the most of her. I know it's hard but try and be positive x"

Yes I'm thankyou to still have Lily and your right Belle will live on in Lily it just still doesn't seem real x

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"Good morning folks

I know that there is no time limit on grief ,I really need a hug even if it's a virtual one

There isn’t your right and sometimes it hits you out of nowhere. Always remember the good times of whatever the grief is over and talk about them to keep them present and it helps.

Sending hugs x "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I have no words. But I offer as many hugs as you need.

And this is the place for it. We’re an odd bunch here - up at all hours, a wealth of experiences in life, raw humanity. And we’re all with you xxx

Much love to you & your family.

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By *oxy-Red OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Once again thank you all,your words of comfort have really helped me

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

❤️

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By *ussex_ladMan
4 weeks ago

hastings

Sending hugs

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By *outhern77Man
4 weeks ago

Birmingham


"

Aah no Foxy.. I'm so sorry ..

Here's a Massive Hug from Me xx

Thank you so much xx"

You're more than welcome Foxy x

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Sending g and a hugs to you 🤗🤗🫂🫂

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By *di3491Man
4 weeks ago

Sandbach

I lost my dad ten years ago and it’s still as painful I don’t think you ever get over it you just learn to live with it

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