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"Welll this is interesting. I say things on the forum and even mentioned a couple of times how many I've roughly slept with . Most of the guys I've met from fab haven't used the forums and I haven't said anything to them as quite frankly its none of there business I've had a colourful past and don't think.i should be judged on it. The only person that 100^ knew my sexually history was my late partner and I never had to explain anything to him he just got me" I had the same with my late partner | |||
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"I do judge people more than Rob Rinder tbf." why do you judge people and what on | |||
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"I do judge people more than Rob Rinder tbf.why do you judge people and what on" I think most people judge others, whether they admit it or not, its a normal part of how we form an opinion on other people. Judging doesn't mean I think they're a good or bad person, just that their behavior might not be compatible with mine. I have absolutely no problem being judged either. | |||
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"I would never judge them but it may mean we aren't compatible because I'm only looking for those on a similar journey to mine which involves a very limited history. " perfect answer. where all compatible things, I hope that is what our bio is for. Surely the aim of our experience those we are compatible with | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" no in fact I enjoyed hearing about what she done | |||
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"No, I wouldn't judge them whatsoever. Their historical promiscuity would tell me that perhaps they are not compatible with me or we don't align." I respect that but how would you know someone's sexual someone's sexual history | |||
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"No, I wouldn't judge them whatsoever. Their historical promiscuity would tell me that perhaps they are not compatible with me or we don't align. · I respect that but how would you know someone's sexual history" • Because they would have told me or it would be common knowledge...which gives credence to the whole notion of whether I would judge or not. | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Nope, what's in the past is in the past and has no bearing on the here and now | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Christ no. Far too much judgemental crap in this world. If you elect to be on this site then such attitudes are not only probably inappropriate but also hypocritical | |||
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"I’m too busy trying to live my own life to worry about how other people live theirs, and judging someone you met on a swinging site for having a sexually active past is… odd. " Precisely. It’s not as if you met at church on a Sunday!🤣 | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Depends what you mean by judge? They are presumably complete strangers so you can't really "judge" anyone but as far as is it information that helps you choose whether you'd like to meet and get to know them, yes it probably plays a part..nothing happens in isolation and without consequence. | |||
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"I’m too busy trying to live my own life to worry about how other people live theirs, and judging someone you met on a swinging site for having a sexually active past is… odd. Precisely. It’s not as if you met at church on a Sunday!🤣" I bet you look so pious in your Sunday best 😇 | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Generally wouldn’t concern me. All I would be bothered about is how myself and the person are interacting. Everything else is irrelevant x | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜" There definitely is. They'll have women they'll quite happily fuck but wouldn't have a relationship with. It's disgusting. | |||
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"Maybe judging who she was with, " Why? | |||
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"Maybe judging who she was with, Why?" Hell I still judge me for some bad decisions in the past. Definitely demonstrated a lack of critical thinking or reasonable risk assesment 💜 | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Judge? No. People are free to do as they please. Potentially use it as a factor in whether I choose to engage with them or not? Of course. But that's not judgement. That's just me making an informed decision. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜 There definitely is. They'll have women they'll quite happily fuck but wouldn't have a relationship with. It's disgusting. " Why is it disgusting that a guy may want to fuck someone but not have a relationship with them? This is a sex and swinging site not bumble! There’s more facets to a choosing a relationship with someone than whether you want to fuck them or not! | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Absolutely not op, We all get one shot at life, so why anyone should be made to feel guilty about what they get up too is beyond me. As long as you're not hurting anyone, go for I say,❤️🌈 | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜" I concur with this statement. I do however feel that if you are asking a partner how many people they have slept with. Then you clearly care about the answer. It is i feel no-ones business and shouldn't be relevant unless it does matter to some extent to you. All that said. I wouldn't go near Bonnie blue with a borrowed cock. Lol | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜 There definitely is. They'll have women they'll quite happily fuck but wouldn't have a relationship with. It's disgusting. Why is it disgusting that a guy may want to fuck someone but not have a relationship with them? This is a sex and swinging site not bumble! There’s more facets to a choosing a relationship with someone than whether you want to fuck them or not! " It's not a statement about having fuck buddies. Sexual chemistry without romantic attachment is if course fine in itself. It's the actively looking down on people for doing the thing you're doing that's the issue 💜 | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜 There definitely is. They'll have women they'll quite happily fuck but wouldn't have a relationship with. It's disgusting. Why is it disgusting that a guy may want to fuck someone but not have a relationship with them? This is a sex and swinging site not bumble! There’s more facets to a choosing a relationship with someone than whether you want to fuck them or not! It's not a statement about having fuck buddies. Sexual chemistry without romantic attachment is if course fine in itself. It's the actively looking down on people for doing the thing you're doing that's the issue 💜" Doesn’t mention anything about looking down…says that it’s disgusting that guys have women they will fuck and not have a relationship with…. | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜 There definitely is. They'll have women they'll quite happily fuck but wouldn't have a relationship with. It's disgusting. Why is it disgusting that a guy may want to fuck someone but not have a relationship with them? This is a sex and swinging site not bumble! There’s more facets to a choosing a relationship with someone than whether you want to fuck them or not! It's not a statement about having fuck buddies. Sexual chemistry without romantic attachment is if course fine in itself. It's the actively looking down on people for doing the thing you're doing that's the issue 💜 Doesn’t mention anything about looking down…says that it’s disgusting that guys have women they will fuck and not have a relationship with…." Well I took it with the context of the post they were replying to. It's open to interpretation I guess. But those people who think that all the slags on here are fine for fucking but not worth their time otherwise, they can fuck off as far as I'm concerned 💜 | |||
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"If you push her away, you’ll spend every day from then chasing Amy, so to speak." Nice to see a silent Bob quote. | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜 There definitely is. They'll have women they'll quite happily fuck but wouldn't have a relationship with. It's disgusting. Why is it disgusting that a guy may want to fuck someone but not have a relationship with them? This is a sex and swinging site not bumble! There’s more facets to a choosing a relationship with someone than whether you want to fuck them or not! It's not a statement about having fuck buddies. Sexual chemistry without romantic attachment is if course fine in itself. It's the actively looking down on people for doing the thing you're doing that's the issue 💜 Doesn’t mention anything about looking down…says that it’s disgusting that guys have women they will fuck and not have a relationship with…. Well I took it with the context of the post they were replying to. It's open to interpretation I guess. But those people who think that all the slags on here are fine for fucking but not worth their time otherwise, they can fuck off as far as I'm concerned 💜" Guys that treat women on here like meat are low lives I agree with you But also both men and women are on here for no strings sex and not looking for relationships and that’s fine. As long as people are treated with respect, that is the main thing | |||
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"Guys that treat women on here like meat are low lives I agree with you But also both men and women are on here for no strings sex and not looking for relationships and that’s fine. As long as people are treated with respect, that is the main thing " Like I said, absolutely nothing wrong with fuck buddies and casual hookups. There's no respect from the people who think the women on here are less than for having such. | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Absolutely not! It's none of my business. | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Absolutely not, no. The past is the past! | |||
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"No, I wouldn't judge them whatsoever. Their historical promiscuity would tell me that perhaps they are not compatible with me or we don't align." I agree. If a man had 3 veris a week from different people there’s not a chance in hell I’d be interested. It’s not really judging. It’s more that’s great that you enjoy what you do but no ta not for me. If you all think that’s judging I’m good with that too 🤷♀️ | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" I'd be aware of it but it depends what their intentions are now x | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜" Absolutely correct. I've dated women that had 1 partner to others who had 300+ before I came on the scene. Never mattered to me, but I've known guy friends who all loved to fuck a woman with a high body count, but wouldn't date one. | |||
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""What? You've had unvetted 20 man, no holds barred, bareback gangbangs every week for the past 10 years? No darling, it doesn't bother me in the slightest." Said no man ever. Well, unless he's from fabswingers, apparently." 🤣 and no man is gonna comment on here that it would bother them. Funny though as that’s the man I’d prefer. | |||
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""What? You've had unvetted 20 man, no holds barred, bareback gangbangs every week for the past 10 years? No darling, it doesn't bother me in the slightest." Said no man ever. Well, unless he's from fabswingers, apparently. 🤣 and no man is gonna comment on here that it would bother them. Funny though as that’s the man I’d prefer. " It wouldn't bother me because I wouldn't be chatting to anyone who was into gangbangs in the first place so it would be irrelevant. That's not judgement as I said above. It's a preference. | |||
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""What? You've had unvetted 20 man, no holds barred, bareback gangbangs every week for the past 10 years? No darling, it doesn't bother me in the slightest." Said no man ever. Well, unless he's from fabswingers, apparently. 🤣 and no man is gonna comment on here that it would bother them. Funny though as that’s the man I’d prefer. It wouldn't bother me because I wouldn't be chatting to anyone who was into gangbangs in the first place so it would be irrelevant. That's not judgement as I said above. It's a preference. " Yeah I don’t think most of the stuff people say is judging on here actually is. | |||
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"Yes, I have judged a women on her past before. It wasn't really the the amount of people that she slept with that was bothering me, it was the quality of the guys that she slept with. She would just get d*unk and let anybody sleep with her. Not really for me 🤷🏽♂️" But “no thanks your lifestyle isn’t for me” isn't judging. But people seem to think it is. “Wow you fucking slag shagging all those people”. Yeah I’d accept that as judging. | |||
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""What? You've had unvetted 20 man, no holes barred, bareback gangbangs every week for the past 10 years? No darling, it doesn't bother me in the slightest." Said no man ever. Well, unless he's from fabswingers, apparently." 🤣🤣 | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" her past is none of my business.... | |||
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""What? You've had unvetted 20 man, no holes barred, bareback gangbangs every week for the past 10 years? No darling, it doesn't bother me in the slightest." Said no man ever. Well, unless he's from fabswingers, apparently." Are we living in a black mirror episode where people come with a list of previous encounters? Sure, if they tell you you could make a judgement based on that, but that's for you to decide. | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" We all have a past, so no judgement from me. Not my monkey, not my circus. 
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" I've never judged or kissed and told personally I've been a rite un myself | |||
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"I am discerning, but that's not on the basis of judging someone as a good person. It's more about whether we are compatible. For example, my sexual attraction tends toward intimate understanding of each other. If a woman isn't interested in getting to know each other, or simply doesn't have the time - then it's not going anywhere. In a sense that's a judgment based on my interaction with her. If there was no judgment at all then what would it mean to like or love someone? Promiscuity past or present isn't a problem for me. However, deception is. I still wouldn't consider a deceptive person bad, just not a good match for me." Judgement just means taking a considered opinion, based on the evidence, and I think we all do that most of the time. It doesn't have to be a moral good/bad judgement at all. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?"" If it was a Rolex I'd question her taste. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?"" • If it was a Patek Philippe™ timepiece then at the very least you would know she's playing with a plethora of classy men. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" · If it was a Rolex I'd question her taste." • I agree. I'm all for horological judgements. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?"" Could be the time of the month. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" • If it was a Patek Philippe™ timepiece then at the very least you would know she's playing with a plethora of classy men." 😂 I do love your style Nero. Time is money so I spent it on a watch. Girls is players too! | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Yes, but not the numbers, I like experienced, I look at veris and see who she’s been fucking and what they say - quality not quantity. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" • If it was a Patek Philippe™ timepiece then at the very least you would know she's playing with a plethora of classy men. 😂 I do love your style Nero. Time is money so I spent it on a watch. Girls is players too!" Yes, he certainly knows his timepieces. If I was a betting man I would suggest that I would fish out the Casio C-80 which again would raise a few more questions. Starting with "how fucking long has that thing been in there?" (Judgey I know) and ending with "does the calculator still work?" | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" • If it was a Patek Philippe™ timepiece then at the very least you would know she's playing with a plethora of classy men. 😂 I do love your style Nero. Time is money so I spent it on a watch. Girls is players too! Yes, he certainly knows his timepieces. If I was a betting man I would suggest that I would fish out the Casio C-80 which again would raise a few more questions. Starting with "how fucking long has that thing been in there?" (Judgey I know) and ending with "does the calculator still work?"" I am not sure a Casio is waterproof to that depth. Splash proof maybe? | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" • If it was a Patek Philippe™ timepiece then at the very least you would know she's playing with a plethora of classy men. 😂 I do love your style Nero. Time is money so I spent it on a watch. Girls is players too! Yes, he certainly knows his timepieces. If I was a betting man I would suggest that I would fish out the Casio C-80 which again would raise a few more questions. Starting with "how fucking long has that thing been in there?" (Judgey I know) and ending with "does the calculator still work?" I am not sure a Casio is waterproof to that depth. Splash proof maybe?" I would argue it would need to be a G-Shock model too. | |||
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"I must admit I am jealous I wasn't the first with my wife
But that's my fault 😞 "It was a long time ago and I've already apologised for being so fucking good too 😉 | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" • If it was a Patek Philippe™ timepiece then at the very least you would know she's playing with a plethora of classy men. 😂 I do love your style Nero. Time is money so I spent it on a watch. Girls is players too! Yes, he certainly knows his timepieces. If I was a betting man I would suggest that I would fish out the Casio C-80 which again would raise a few more questions. Starting with "how fucking long has that thing been in there?" (Judgey I know) and ending with "does the calculator still work?" I am not sure a Casio is waterproof to that depth. Splash proof maybe? I would argue it would need to be a G-Shock model too." G spot? | |||
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"I'm being serious for once and I really am interested. Would you judge a woman on her sexual past if so why. I won't judge anyone for their reply but I'm genuinely interested" Nope, never ever will. Her past is none of my business | |||
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Some very interesting answers, lack of sexual compatability and preferences arnt judging.
I'm more than happy to be judged depending how they do it
Majority of people who judge you will ne wr know.
It's the guys that have come on the foru.s in the past gobbling off that all women on a swinging site are slags.
Noon of any significance in my life has judged me or tried to guilt trip me.
The reason I don't tell people stuff from the go is because I don't see it as their business and also because most of the time I can't be bothered to talk about sex. I don't hide it away like so e dirty little secret, the more someone gets to know me the more they find out.
When I do decide to mention something on the forums I use it as a safe space and accept some will judge but I also know some won't bat an eyelid.
Anyway guys thankyou and the ladies for your contributions it's been most interesting
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" Anyway guys thankyou and the ladies for your contributions it's been most interesting " It wasn't even time consuming 😉 Leo, you'll like that one! | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?"" This genuinely made me lol 😆. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" This genuinely made me lol 😆. "I could tell a funny story about finding a guys watch in my knickers and having to give him it back the next day. But I won't as I will be so judged | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" This genuinely made me lol 😆. I could tell a funny story about finding a guys watch in my knickers and having to give him it back the next day. But I won't as I will be so judged "Not by the ones that count you won't. Did you have both hands in your knickers? | |||
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"I think the majority are smart enough not to burn their bridges by publicly stating in the place they're looking for casual sex with women that they look down on women who have casual sex. There's plenty who do 💜" 👏👏👏 Anyone with any sense and hope of getting laid isn't openly going to admit that they do judge (but a lot will. Whether that means they will stop them fucking the women they judge is another question entirely though) | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" This genuinely made me lol 😆. I could tell a funny story about finding a guys watch in my knickers and having to give him it back the next day. But I won't as I will be so judged
Not by the ones that count you won't.
Did you have both hands in your knickers?"I used to be a barmaid and fancied this lad for ages, he offered me a lift and we went up a dark country lane. We ended up having sex over the bonnet of the car with my knickers round my ankles. Finished off and took me home. Went to go for a pee and his watch fell out my knickers god knows how it got there, must of fell of and landed in my knickers don't know how I didn't notice. All very embarrassing handing it back to him over the bar the next night | |||
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"No, in fact would enjoy the stories " This. I love a woman telling me about what she has got up to in the past. | |||
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"If I was fingering and my whole hand went in and I pulled out someone else's watch I would have a few questions and I don't know what order they would be in. It wouldn't include judgey body count questions but would include "could I keep the watch?" This genuinely made me lol 😆. I could tell a funny story about finding a guys watch in my knickers and having to give him it back the next day. But I won't as I will be so judged
Not by the ones that count you won't.
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"Nah, but in certain cases (not talking about body count) it'd be good to know so as not to make them uncomfortable with anything. A friend of mine once had severe issues with oral due to an ex, for example." That's just common sense and to discuss your likes, dislikes and expectations before a meet. I'm talking about disclosing your full sexual history | |||
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"Nah, but in certain cases (not talking about body count) it'd be good to know so as not to make them uncomfortable with anything. A friend of mine once had severe issues with oral due to an ex, for example.That's just common sense and to discuss your likes, dislikes and expectations before a meet. I'm talking about disclosing your full sexual history" I wouldn't judge her on anything, no. | |||
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"Nah, but in certain cases (not talking about body count) it'd be good to know so as not to make them uncomfortable with anything. A friend of mine once had severe issues with oral due to an ex, for example.That's just common sense and to discuss your likes, dislikes and expectations before a meet. I'm talking about disclosing your full sexual history I wouldn't judge her on anything, no." What if she'd shagged her brother? | |||
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"Absolutely not .. The Past has past ! " You’d be shocked how that past can pop back up in the future.  | |||
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"Nah, but in certain cases (not talking about body count) it'd be good to know so as not to make them uncomfortable with anything. A friend of mine once had severe issues with oral due to an ex, for example.That's just common sense and to discuss your likes, dislikes and expectations before a meet. I'm talking about disclosing your full sexual history I wouldn't judge her on anything, no. What if she'd shagged her brother?" Then I probably wouldn't sleep with her. But I wouldn't think she was a bad person, necessarily. And before anyone mentions anything less legal, yeah I'd judge some things tbf. | |||
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"I think we all judge most of the time on most things, as much as we might like to say we don’t. We’re on a forum fgs, it’s the ultimate in opinion expression and judgement! Maybe the key word in the OP it’s “past”. When we say past it could very well be something that has changed. If it’s not changed then I think we’re okay to judge because you can’t force anyone to like you or find your behaviour attractive, right? Anyway, I think judgement is okay. If people don’t like to be judged then they can use their own judgement and use other people’s judgement of them as a filter and judgingly block the judges…
Happy Friday folks x"It's not about being judged as much as the way people go about it. Judging people is part of life. I was just curious to see who judged based on past history. | |||
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"I think we all judge most of the time on most things, as much as we might like to say we don’t. We’re on a forum fgs, it’s the ultimate in opinion expression and judgement! Maybe the key word in the OP it’s “past”. When we say past it could very well be something that has changed. If it’s not changed then I think we’re okay to judge because you can’t force anyone to like you or find your behaviour attractive, right? Anyway, I think judgement is okay. If people don’t like to be judged then they can use their own judgement and use other people’s judgement of them as a filter and judgingly block the judges…
Happy Friday folks xIt's not about being judged as much as the way people go about it. Judging people is part of life. I was just curious to see who judged based on past history.
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