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"In 21 years of being together, I can count on one hand how many arguments we've had, we find it's always best to discuss any issues through, arguments tend to bring out the worst in people "Think Jay brings out the best in me lol, im such a fiery cow but never with him lol must be mellowing in my old age | |||
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"Do you and your partner argue. Do you think its good for a relationship to clear the air? Do you have really heated arguements then spend time making up. In 3 years jay and i have had about 4 arguements and none of them lasted more than 20 minutes. We just dont do the arguement thing although i have been known to loose it with a few guys" now i know im feisty and very firey..but nope we dont argue......not seriously..lots of banter but thats it | |||
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"Right now i'm probably not the right person to ask. Just got back from a club. I've spent all day getting ready (I'm a tranny-it takes time) and my partner has gotten so d*unk we've had to come home early. It was horribly embarrassing and i'm really angry. She's in bed asleep & i'm seething on the pc!" We were watching a programme on BBC earlier today re celebrities who passed away during 2009, Kid and me had a great discussion about how short one's life existent really is, I hope you make up asap  | |||
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"Right now i'm probably not the right person to ask. Just got back from a club. I've spent all day getting ready (I'm a tranny-it takes time) and my partner has gotten so d*unk we've had to come home early. It was horribly embarrassing and i'm really angry. She's in bed asleep & i'm seething on the pc! We were watching a programme on BBC earlier today re celebrities who passed away during 2009, Kid and me had a great discussion about how short one's life existent really is, I hope you make up asap "I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other. She is a great girl but so many things grate on my nerves & tonight has really got me thinking. | |||
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"I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other" Only you know the answer to that, try not to make any knee jerk / irrational decisions tho | |||
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"I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other Only you know the answer to that, try not to make any knee jerk / irrational decisions tho "I agree, maybe best sleep on this and not post anything you might regret tomorrow? 
Either way, this forum probably isn't the place for your OH to find out should she read this | |||
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"We honestly just don't get it! "I think some people feel “someone” is better than “no one” sadly, that opens another door re insecurity issues | |||
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"I actually pondering at this point whether we are right for each other Only you know the answer to that, try not to make any knee jerk / irrational decisions tho "I'm angry and embarrassed at the moment. It's very hard to be a TV who wants to be open about his/her lifestyle & the lady in question is that rarest of people - the actively understanding female. However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home and & i'm wondering in spite of her protestations to the contrary whether she can really accepy who/what i am. | |||
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"However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home" You obviously need to sit down and do some talking as to why she gets so d*unk, look at any High Street on a Friday / Saturday night, all the piss heads fighting / arguing, yet any other time most wouldn't say boo. | |||
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"However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home You obviously need to sit down and do some talking as to why she gets so d*unk, look at any High Street on a Friday / Saturday night, all the piss heads fighting / arguing, yet any other time most wouldn't say boo." I don't know. tonight we had a half bottle of champagne each and a half bottle of red wine. I'm not a big person so it (theoretically) should affect us the same but she was all over the place. It's hard to get a d*unken woman into a taxi wearing 4" heels & a micro skirt in the damn snow! | |||
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"of course Mother Teresa herself hates our guts. Especially since we blocked her. "wtf!! PMSL that did make me | |||
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"of course Mother Teresa herself hates our guts. Especially since we blocked her.
wtf!! PMSL that did make me "Her own fault - we told her we dont meet single women | |||
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"However, this is not the first (or even tenth) time she has gotten poo-faced at a club and we've had to go home You obviously need to sit down and do some talking as to why she gets so d*unk, look at any High Street on a Friday / Saturday night, all the piss heads fighting / arguing, yet any other time most wouldn't say boo. I don't know. tonight we had a half bottle of champagne each and a half bottle of red wine. I'm not a big person so it (theoretically) should affect us the same but she was all over the place. It's hard to get a d*unken woman into a taxi wearing 4" heels & a micro skirt in the damn snow!" Surely you should have seen it coming then as like you said it wasnt the first time. Maybe she cant handle her drink, talk to her and maybe suggest she doesnt drink so much when visiting clubs etc before you make the decision to end the relationship. Just our opinion. We have been together for over a year and had never had an argument, we might not always agree but we can talk things through unlike some people it would seem. L&Jx | |||
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"so we had a row over wether we argue or not and now I am not speaking to him." Good opportunity to block him  | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!! "Your a very brave man! | |||
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"so we had a row over wether we argue or not and now I am not speaking to him. Good opportunity to block him "ooooooooo why didn't I think of that ! | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man! "I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!! | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!! "She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead | |||
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"just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead "And if she does, don't come here for cover! | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!!
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead "6 in peep toed killer heels in black suede. Quite happy to have them pass by my neck as long as her feet are inside them and one goes over each shoulder | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!!
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead
6 in peep toed killer heels in black suede. Quite happy to have them pass by my neck as long as her feet are inside them and one goes over each shoulder "well they have the same ones in red suede too may be in the sale we can go look monday hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!!
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead
6 in peep toed killer heels in black suede. Quite happy to have them pass by my neck as long as her feet are inside them and one goes over each shoulder well they have the same ones in red suede too may be in the sale we can go look monday hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe "you bloody well better not have bought any red ones!!!!
You PROMISED!!! you DID!! | |||
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"Number 351 on their way "352! she sneaked some silver boots in saying they were pre ordered!!!! | |||
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"He he he well i find the purchase of shoes usually kicks up a stink!!!
Your a very brave man!
I am guessing said UNWORN shoes might be thrown at me now!!!
She probably wouldn't chance them being scuffed....so you are safe from the shoes........just hope she doesn't pick up anything heavier to throw instead
6 in peep toed killer heels in black suede. Quite happy to have them pass by my neck as long as her feet are inside them and one goes over each shoulder well they have the same ones in red suede too may be in the sale we can go look monday hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
you bloody well better not have bought any red ones!!!!
You PROMISED!!! you DID!! "i havent bought em.................yet ...but my powers of persuasion may get ya to change ya mind and overlook one more pair | |||
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"Do you and your partner argue. Do you think its good for a relationship to clear the air? Do you have really heated arguements then spend time making up. In 3 years jay and i have had about 4 arguements and none of them lasted more than 20 minutes. We just dont do the arguement thing although i have been known to loose it with a few guys" . Based on a sample of 2, my ex-hubby and my late partner, I'd say argument is good in a relationship. My ex-hubby would always agree with me for the sake of a quiet life. In the end, I felt there was no spark between us, rightly or wrongly!
My late partner and I fought like cat and dog, and we had heated arguments all the time. Sparks definitely flew, and one night he ended up banged up in a cell!
However, we loved each other to bits, and our relationship went from strength to strength, despite the arguments.
So yes, arguments are good, they clear the air, and stop peeps from having things bottled up and brew resentment, IMHO!  | |||
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"Do we argue? err yes Les seems ta love it lol xxx "You only argue cus you can't bear the fact that Les is right all the time! | |||
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"Do we argue? err yes Les seems ta love it lol xxx
You only argue cus you can't bear the fact that Les is right all the time! ". She definitely talks more sense than Craig! | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx "You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect! | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect! "Errr since when exactly lol xx | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect!
Errr since when exactly lol xx "Since the rest of your pathetic little gang disappeared or wimped out! | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect!
Errr since when exactly lol xx
Since the rest of your pathetic little gang disappeared or wimped out! "Huh ya thinks i needs a gang for you lot i dont think so xx | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect!
Errr since when exactly lol xx
Since the rest of your pathetic little gang disappeared or wimped out!
Huh ya thinks i needs a gang for you lot i dont think so xx "Thats big talk for a small man | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect!
Errr since when exactly lol xx
Since the rest of your pathetic little gang disappeared or wimped out!
Huh ya thinks i needs a gang for you lot i dont think so xx
Thats big talk for a small man"Oi shut it or ill bite ya ankles xx | |||
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Mmmm gangin up on me are ya xx
You are now the King of the Doris's..... what the fuck did you expect!
Errr since when exactly lol xx
Since the rest of your pathetic little gang disappeared or wimped out!
Huh ya thinks i needs a gang for you lot i dont think so xx
Thats big talk for a small man
Oi shut it or ill bite ya ankles xx "If you can reach that high | |||
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