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Mulbarton

Is it just me or does anyone else not really get any interest on their profile/anyone looking to chat/reply to messages?

It's fine if just me, just wondering?

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
7 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

It’s just you and me probably.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
7 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Me three

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Think your only the second to actually make a thread about it today

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

"Think your only the second to actually make a thread about it today"

Day ain’t over yet.

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

DOH! Really? Apologies didn't realise there was another thread about it 😔

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

Most people will never be mutually compatible with most other people. The easier each side makes it to make good decisions upon compatibility, the more effective and reliable those decisions will be.

It's tough but the vast majority of those engagements that are attempted or started, won't result in anything but a dead end. This may seem negative but it's the actual effective likelihood.

Creating realistic expectations will really help you OP, as will doing all that you can to convey yourself well to potential partners. You can also use clubs and socials, which could enhance how others perceive you.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/London

"DOH! Really? Apologies didn't realise there was another thread about it 😔"

There is always a thread on this topic. Not that you shouldn’t start one, but the answers and advice are usually much the same.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
7 weeks ago

cardiff

"DOH! Really? Apologies didn't realise there was another thread about it 😔"

There is no reason why you can't ask, even if there was a thread about it

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

May I ask, what if any puts you off most about my profile?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
7 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Unfortunately, I get a lot of attention and attempts to chat from my profile.

Well, I say from my profile. But if they'd read even just the headline they'd know not to bother.

It's the pictures that do it.

The ratio of men to women on this site means most women are fairly bombarded with messages.

All you can do is make sure you only bother with the ones that you believe to be genuinely compatible and ensuring that you stand out for positive reasons amongst the endless sea of penii on here 💜

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
7 weeks ago

near Putney Heath

"Is it just me or does anyone else not really get any interest on their profile/anyone looking to chat/reply to messages?

It's fine if just me, just wondering?"

Hi Newbie. This is normal for single men. Most women are incredibly picky and the ones that aren't usually live in London or Birmingham or Manchester. Lol!

This is male male-dominated space and women have to be picky 1. because they can't possibly see every single man on this platform and 2.safety reasons.

I might be attracted to a guy but if he doesn't make me feel safe and build trust and consistency...I lose interest. Once I lose interest I block a profile never to look at it again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"DOH! Really? Apologies didn't realise there was another thread about it 😔"
nothing wrong with starting another thread but by the very fact there's already been one proves your not alone

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

You look like Goldberg from WCW

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By *ilverfox for youMan
7 weeks ago

Hull

Me four !

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
7 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

Even as a couple we little to no interest but we never take it to heart and just keep causing in 2nd gear

Mr PF

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
7 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

*cruising

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Your profile looks fine but you've only been here 7 weeks. Sometimes it takes guys over a year to get their first meet.

Just be patient, read profiles and only message those your compatible with.

Unfortunately there are so many men to women you've really got to stand out.

Join in the forums, look at going to socials and clubs, the more people recognize you as a decent guy the more chance you will have

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

"You look like Goldberg from WCW

Thanks for the compliment

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By *aomilatteCouple
7 weeks ago

Midlands

We don't get much interest, and little interest from those we would be interested in

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By *ansoffateMan
7 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It is the few compatible ones that really count in the end, I feel.

It could be equally frustrating if there were thousands interested and you had to find that needle in the haystack?

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

"You look like Goldberg from WCW

Thanks for the compliment

Just think if they ever add naked wrestling to the interests list you'll surely get interest then

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

a sea of men for a pool of women and couples ... its always been a hard scene for men even back when there were much lower numbers of men ..since covid men joining has exploded with women and couples becoming less now than everr i can recall...

i could get say over time 500 messages and not one person will interest me thats how hard it is for women to find the right guys even tho there are 100to 200 men to every couple/women depending on where you live add in the amount of men who who run fake couples/womens profile the there even less ...

this is a scene where there is not someome for everyone psychical / sexual attraction is extremely hard to find and even then you find someone you like and via messages it goes tits up ...

you must know by bow after weeks on here that its a very hard scene for men full stop

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By *parkle1974Woman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"Is it just me or does anyone else not really get any interest on their profile/anyone looking to chat/reply to messages?

It's fine if just me, just wondering?"

Ignore the snide comments...they happen more frequently than repetitive threads...

You have only been on the site 7 weeks, give it time and I'm sure you will gain traction x

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

"Is it just me or does anyone else not really get any interest on their profile/anyone looking to chat/reply to messages?

It's fine if just me, just wondering?

Ignore the snide comments...they happen more frequently than repetitive threads...

You have only been on the site 7 weeks, give it time and I'm sure you will gain traction x"

Thank you

sending hugs 🤗

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Is it just me or does anyone else not really get any interest on their profile/anyone looking to chat/reply to messages?

It's fine if just me, just wondering?

Ignore the snide comments...they happen more frequently than repetitive threads...

You have only been on the site 7 weeks, give it time and I'm sure you will gain traction x"

Goldberg is one of the popular wrestlers of all time. I do admit though mentioning a sport with sweaty men in underpants handling each other was going too far for here

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By *uvery30Woman
7 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

For me personally to "have a chat or reply " they need to of made a bit of a effort in the message.

If they clearly haven't even read my profile then why should I read their message?

But I always Try and be polite with a reply especially if they have made a effort with their message to me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I have had when man starts messaging me then just stops because he can't be bothered to put effort in also I have had some very good meets off here

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By *arialoueWoman
7 weeks ago

Bradford

Me aswell

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

"I have had when man starts messaging me then just stops because he can't be bothered to put effort in also I have had some very good meets off here "

Glad to hear you've had some positives from here and good meets. Whoever blanks you is just a plonker!

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"I have had when man starts messaging me then just stops because he can't be bothered to put effort in also I have had some very good meets off here

Glad to hear you've had some positives from here and good meets. Whoever blanks you is just a plonker!"
😁

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By *exxyyDy11Man
7 weeks ago

North West

Oh my God. I can deffo see it now. OP you deffo do look like Goldberg. Now don't give me a spear alright 😂

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

"Oh my God. I can deffo see it now. OP you deffo do look like Goldberg. Now don't give me a spear alright 😂"

🤣🤣 Just like Goldberg my shoulder is done in so can't do too many effective spears 🤣🤣

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

"😁"

Sending hugs 🤗

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"😁

Sending hugs 🤗"
thanks that's nice

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By *reedomcaptured OP Man
7 weeks ago

Mulbarton

"😁

Sending hugs 🤗thanks that's nice "

It's nice to be important but it's more important to be nice 🙂

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"😁

Sending hugs 🤗thanks that's nice

It's nice to be important but it's more important to be nice 🙂"
😆 depends

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By *im le2Man
7 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

Try update your status and posting a photo at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"😁

Sending hugs 🤗thanks that's nice

It's nice to be important but it's more important to be nice 🙂😆 depends "
your best sending nice polite message reading profile but you seem like that any way

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By *mily36CWoman
7 weeks ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Unless you're constantly doing something to cause the footfall across your profile, like daily new pics, meet updates, update status quotes etc. then no one gets noticed really... such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"😁

Sending hugs 🤗thanks that's nice

It's nice to be important but it's more important to be nice 🙂😆 depends your best sending nice polite message reading profile but you seem like that any way "
mine is more about conversation with the man and he doesn't need to constantly change photos that's shallow to me

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By *tevo56Man
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Timewasters galore on here

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By *uiteman2020Man
7 weeks ago

Warsop

Wish I could get a person to chat but I’m not pushy if a lady or couple wants to message me I will wait time is the key

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