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"No because I only show Social ones, but I still check it's OK to display them. I would assume sexual veris are quite often hidden to avoid drama ?" Do you hide yours to avoid drama? Just curious.  | |||
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"No because I only show Social ones, but I still check it's OK to display them. I would assume sexual veris are quite often hidden to avoid drama ? Do you hide yours to avoid drama? Just curious. "I've never shown any that suggest we've had sex as a rule, although avoiding drama is part of that rule. | |||
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"I'm not hiding them as such but I don't display sexual ones. Never have, never will. Not even ones that hint at it. Wait, am I hiding them if I don't display them? "Yes. 💯 | |||
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"Are there any verifications you would hide from your friends (or others), because you feel you have to, for whatever reason? "• Yes. But it's not a frequent occurrence, thankfully. | |||
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"I'm not hiding them as such but I don't display sexual ones. Never have, never will. Not even ones that hint at it. Wait, am I hiding them if I don't display them?
Yes. 💯"Oh I see. Yes there is then. I don't know if I feel I *have* to, it's more I can and so I do. | |||
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"Are there any verifications you would hide from your friends (or others), because you feel you have to, for whatever reason?
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Yes. But it's not a frequent occurrence, thankfully."for what reason | |||
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"I have three verifications that I don't show. One is sexual and I don't like displaying it for that reason. The other two had the phrase 'treat this lady with respect' so it goes without saying why I don't show those." ^treating verifications with respect 
I genuinely get it, lots of us will try and display verification that reflects us just like our profiles text is trying to do.
I started the thread because of something someone said to me. I became interested if anyone else felt they’d not want to be associated with someone in some way or other. | |||
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"I got into trouble once through verifications. Someone thought I was mutually exclusive to her and I had other ideas. She didn't read the small print and when another verification popped up, so did her anger levels." I know I shouldn't laugh but it always amuses me when this happens, especially when it's played out in the forums. I know I'm a bad person and going to hell | |||
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"I got into trouble once through verifications. Someone thought I was mutually exclusive to her and I had other ideas. She didn't read the small print and when another verification popped up, so did her anger levels.I know I shouldn't laugh but it always amuses me when this happens, especially when it's played out in the forums. I know I'm a bad person and going to hell" Haha laugh. It's the best medicine. Both the 'cause' and the 'effect' 😂 were non forumites 😂 Magnify x 2.5 if they were I guess. | |||
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"I got into trouble once through verifications. Someone thought I was mutually exclusive to her and I had other ideas. She didn't read the small print and when another verification popped up, so did her anger levels.I know I shouldn't laugh but it always amuses me when this happens, especially when it's played out in the forums. I know I'm a bad person and going to hell Haha laugh. It's the best medicine. Both the 'cause' and the 'effect' 😂 were non forumites 😂 Magnify x 2.5 if they were I guess." guess you only have yourself to blame for being so popular lol | |||
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"I got into trouble once through verifications. Someone thought I was mutually exclusive to her and I had other ideas. She didn't read the small print and when another verification popped up, so did her anger levels.I know I shouldn't laugh but it always amuses me when this happens, especially when it's played out in the forums. I know I'm a bad person and going to hell Haha laugh. It's the best medicine. Both the 'cause' and the 'effect' 😂 were non forumites 😂 Magnify x 2.5 if they were I guess.guess you only have yourself to blame for being so popular lol" I wouldn't say popular. I plied them both with drinks and span incredible dits. They had nowhere to go 😂 | |||
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"I got into trouble once through verifications. Someone thought I was mutually exclusive to her and I had other ideas. She didn't read the small print and when another verification popped up, so did her anger levels." · Women are fickle creatures, dear fellow, and the bane of our very existence. They expect us to trod the yellow brick road of lust, torment and broken hearts, and yet they expect the keys to the emerald city without question. They match our benevolence with their malevolence. What are we to do? | |||
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"I got into trouble once through verifications. Someone thought I was mutually exclusive to her and I had other ideas. She didn't read the small print and when another verification popped up, so did her anger levels." I experienced this on a previous profile and was one of the reasons I left. It got to a point where someone I had only met for coffee made the verification sound as though we had shagged. I thought it was a funny verification so I initially posted it and then suffered the wrath of someone else who wanted me to be exclusive while she continued to post veries from her multiple fbs. | |||
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"I don't want any. I don't give any. I have one to say I am real. It really is the most bizarre thing to write up about a sexual experience with someone. That's my business and no one else's." I agree. I’d never give a sexual veri. None of the people I’ve met would either. I’ve given veris in the past but only to say I’ve met them, whether anything else happened or not. | |||
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"I don't want any. I don't give any. I have one to say I am real. It really is the most bizarre thing to write up about a sexual experience with someone. That's my business and no one else's." ^and the nieghbours business..😬😅 | |||
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"I've always said I'm way to normal for this site, not had an ounce of drama in 19 years" Are you sure? | |||
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"I choose not to show mine as its no-ones business who I've met 1-1..... Is that the same as "hiding" them from someone??" Yes 💯 | |||
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"I choose not to show mine as its no-ones business who I've met 1-1..... Is that the same as "hiding" them from someone?? Yes 💯" Maybe not, maybe it’s a bit of both. | |||
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"I just show the ones I think are the most interesting and informative in as much as a veri is useful for that purpose. No one is going to read them all anyway. Most of the ones I don't show are bland/generic social veri's from events and people I barely spoke too. And from people I didn't speak to. I have a verification from a woman I walked past in a hotel corridor. That's it. We didn't speak but apparently I'm very nice." Haha I had similar. I picked up a lady's dropped handbag and handed it to her. We chatted for a minute and I got a nice veri. | |||
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"I choose not to show mine as its no-ones business who I've met 1-1..... Is that the same as "hiding" them from someone?? Yes 💯 Maybe not, maybe it’s a bit of both. "I would be honest about the number of people I've fucked if they asked...the who would still be irrelevant | |||
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"I choose not to show mine as its no-ones business who I've met 1-1..... Is that the same as "hiding" them from someone?? Yes 💯 Maybe not, maybe it’s a bit of both.
I would be honest about the number of people I've fucked if they asked...the who would still be irrelevant "if someone asked me how many people I'd slept with I'd tell them to fuck off its nothing to do with them | |||
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"I choose not to show mine as its no-ones business who I've met 1-1..... Is that the same as "hiding" them from someone?? Yes 💯 Maybe not, maybe it’s a bit of both.
I would be honest about the number of people I've fucked if they asked...the who would still be irrelevant if someone asked me how many people I'd slept with I'd tell them to fuck off its nothing to do with them"Everyone is different I suppose | |||
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"What makes me laugh about those that take verifications as gossip would go into melt down if they knew someone's real sexual history but the biggest laugh are the social ones that paint people out to be some superior human being" Do you mean those that only show their social ones? | |||
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"I stopped showing my Veris, because of the feedback I was getting from women Apparently the women I’ve met is a reflection of my type? They’re not! I have no type. I like variety " I know what you mean. It's like a panini sticker book. I have only a dwarf and a BBW to collect and then I've completed Fab. If I have a dwarf BBW I will be in a dilemma. | |||
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" I recently asked someone not to display my veris on their profile as it was bringing so much unwanted mail from their veris. I also don't want to intentionally upset another friend who I no longer play with so it's easier to not show veris
I love getting them though! "Same here. Politely ask someone to not display a few years back to head off a potential problem. And verification reading is the equivalent of airport people watching. Love it. | |||
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"I stopped showing my Veris, because of the feedback I was getting from women Apparently the women I’ve met is a reflection of my type? They’re not! I have no type. I like variety I know what you mean. It's like a panini sticker book. I have only a dwarf and a BBW to collect and then I've completed Fab. If I have a dwarf BBW I will be in a dilemma." 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Are there any verifications you would hide from your friends (or others), because you feel you have to, for whatever reason? (It’s from a conversation I’ve just had) "I don't display all mine, not because I'm hiding anything or feel I have to. I just hide the older ones, ones where I haven't seen them for yonks and don't really talk now, or ones that are just a bit bland and don't say much about me. I like to keep the visible ones fairly recent and a fair reflection of me and the people I meet. Tho I don't get veris from everyone I meet. | |||
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"I think all the men on the other post about former sexual history, said it doesn't matter. I'm hiding nothing " Interesting answer… | |||
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