FabSwingers.com forum: Never been messaged from your type!

By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
7 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

I think I'm a magnet for kind, funny, interesting people so for me, it happens quite often.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

It's happened, although I don't know they are my type until we get chatting.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
7 weeks ago

kent

Someone who just randomly messaged us? Once. And we spent about a year seeing her. She was exquisite in every way.

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By *eliWoman
7 weeks ago

No one person ticks all my boxes. Never have, never will. And that's okay because I don't expect one person to. I don't really have a type but there are certain traits I find myself drawn to.

In terms of people I might find attractive if a friendship develops? Yes. I've always been quite lucky? Not sure it's luck. Erm... fortunate.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
7 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Twice

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By *eoBloomsMan
7 weeks ago

Springfield

How would you know from a message alone ?

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By *viatrixWoman
7 weeks ago

Redhill

All of them? It’s happened once. Still meeting after 6 years…

Some other people have come close enough and that is a pleasure too.

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By *ergus1622Man
7 weeks ago

Dundee

Not yet but still plenty of time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

It used to happen all the time

I crafted my profile to attract a certain type of guy and it worked.

Still got loads of rubbish in my inbox but they where quickly delt with via the block button.

Fab was always good to me

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I messaged them

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 weeks ago

little house on the praire

oh and I didn't meet tons of guys from here but the ones I did meet all except two became regular gentleman friends so I take that as a pretty good success rate

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
7 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Nevaaaaaar 😄

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By *eyond PurityCouple
7 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I’d say 95% of messages received aren’t our type.

We tend to go out hunting too but now and again we get messages from people we are interested in.

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By *isskxxyvWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

Almost never. I usually end up messaging first if I really want and someone 😏😇

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By *aveyougotmymarblesMan
7 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

As a male I don't receive enough messages for this to even be remotely possible

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By *r.ZeusMan
7 weeks ago

london

Just the once

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By *elboy1978Man
7 weeks ago

Jarrow

None no women or couples message me

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By *arialoueWoman
7 weeks ago

Bradford

Never happened

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

"How many times have you had a DM/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you? "

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Every message I've had never ticked all the boxes for me. The day I receive a message from someone who ticks all the boxes will be the day I leave Fab altogether.

I'm looking for women who tick ·some· of the boxes, the remaining 'un-ticked' ones represent their quirks, their idiosyncrasies and their unconventional traits: all those things that I'm looking for which make them unusual and less ordinary. 🩶

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By *exxyyDy11Man
7 weeks ago

North West

You see that's the thing. To me I don't really know if they tick boxes until we get chatting. They might be extremely attractive but if they have the personality of a brick, then I'm going to lose interest.

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By *im le2Man
7 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?

I would say never.

I can picture my perfect date but if he ever text I would wonder what's wrong with him wanting to meet me.

Plus I've been fantasizing about this Prefect man for years . What if we meet up and he disappoints what them? I could never fantasize about him again.

No thanks I'll stick to all the guys that have little bits of my perfect guy. I could probably make him out of bits from half a dozen men just like I could be one part of there Mr perfect.

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"You see that's the thing. To me I don't really know if they tick boxes until we get chatting. They might be extremely attractive but if they have the personality of a brick, then I'm going to lose interest. "

There’s that too

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By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
7 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

I get that. But …

She’s pretty. The bio is spot on and says everything you’d look for. Her photos look exactly like the person your turn your head to look at.

That type of thing, her personality should shine through her profile text,( hopefully)

The fact her interaction with you might not click, is that thing we’ll never know I suppose u til we get to speak privately and in person, because text has never done anyone any favours to show who we are.

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By *uiteman2020Man
7 weeks ago

Warsop

I wish can’t get a chat or meet seems specially in my area

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By *nallover112Man
7 weeks ago

Northfleet

Never. I need a bbw

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By *mmaleiaWoman
7 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Twice!

Been on this site 16 months & within 1000’s of messages, I’ve had 2 men on here message me that have ticked all the boxes, 1 I saw for a year when I lived in Northampton & he was in the next village, the other is a 30 minute drive where I’m living now.

Nobody has ticked my boxes at a club or social yet.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
7 weeks ago

Merseyside

We give anyone a chance as long as not too far from our preferences but there are so few who tempt my mind

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 weeks ago

Next Door

I've never had anyone who ticks all my boxes, but had 1 or 2 that have ticked many boxes.

Sadly, it wasn't meant to be 😔

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By *ustAnotherMan
7 weeks ago

brumish

Oh yeah, once or twice. Not led to anything though fizzled out in chatting

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

Maybe once a year.

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By *ifeman8211Man
7 weeks ago

fife

All the time... then i have woken up from that dream 😂😂

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By *ikesEmBigMan
7 weeks ago

Herts

Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?

I think I'm pretty clear I enjoy the more voluptuous lady so I get my fair share of messages from the demographic. And a much larger percentage of men I'm not interested in

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By *andTWoman
7 weeks ago

Altrincham

Never been messaged from your type!

Have you? How many times have you had a dm/message from someone that ticked all the boxes for you?

I can count on one hand

90% of messages get deleted without being read completely

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By *lubchuckerMan
7 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

I rarely get messages full stop let alone messages from 'my types' and i'm pretty flexible in what i would consider to be my type. Only occasionally do i even get a reply if i message anybody on here.

Not sure where i'm going wrong but its definitely not working for me.

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By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
7 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

"Oh yeah, once or twice. Not led to anything though fizzled out in chatting "

Ah bugger. That’s sad when that happens.

A story often told.

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