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"Shag - are you sure your dates aren't all the same woman putting on a different wig and accent ? "Sally ! Although that would actually be quite hot.🤭 | |||
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Great that you’re enjoying your dating x 🤗 | |||
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"Where are these dates coming from? I've been using dating apps since I split with my partner 9 months ago - it's like a slow torture. I live in a quiet town & don't meet anyone new so thought I'd try that😬" I use local facebook dating groups, where you make a post saying what you are looking for and then some reply to it too  | |||
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"Fantastic news Shag and it's great to hang out with people from different countries. I've had a couple of non Fab dates recently; she is British. Not too many Swedish hotties around here alas." Ty, yes, it is great to hang out with people from different countries and to get to know them, that is good you had few dates too | |||
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"Shag - are you sure your dates aren't all the same woman putting on a different wig and accent ? " | |||
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"I'm now thinking of dating, I recently parted ways with my ex partner. I'm excited at the prospect of finding someone new but these dating sites aren't for me, unfortunately this seems to be the way forward. Good luck OP "Tbh, they are ok but nothing like actually meeting someone either in a pub or supermarket etc.. it’s just a pic and a txt, which don’t always start good .. | |||
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"I haven't dated for longer than you've been alive Shag. I reckon I would be ok once I got over the trepidation but I hope I never have to do it. " Hi nicecouple, that is good you could be ok with it, yes, it is about getting over the trepidation too | |||
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"Soon the “ who had a dry sex month” threads will stop, Shag
Great that you’re enjoying your dating x 🤗 "Hi _viatrix, yes, maybe. I might still do the threads with a twist, ty yes. I am enjoying my dates, it is fun to spend times with others too x | |||
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"Been happily married for the last 24yrs, so don't think the husband would be too chuft if I started dating again 🤔 😂 . " Hi _andt, yes, you are right there, that you cant date again too | |||
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"Dating is fun! I'm not on normal dating apps right back but I might go back. I quite fancy a doing-something date. Like paddle boarding. Or a theme park. " Ooh a theme park would be fun! Having a fwb makes days-out dates possible. Mr and I don't get to date, we always have kids in tow 🤭 | |||
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"Dating is fun! I'm not on normal dating apps right back but I might go back. I quite fancy a doing-something date. Like paddle boarding. Or a theme park. Ooh a theme park would be fun! Having a fwb makes days-out dates possible. Mr and I don't get to date, we always have kids in tow 🤭" Doing family stuff still sounds fun but in a different way. I used to have a platonic friend who was my theatre buddy. But he moved away from London and left me in the lurch! So I guess I'm looking for that too. | |||
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"Doing family stuff still sounds fun but in a different way. I used to have a platonic friend who was my theatre buddy. But he moved away from London and left me in the lurch! So I guess I'm looking for that too. " Oh absolutely! Family stuff can be fun. We don't get to do things like zoos and theme parks etc, our ND kids don't cope well. Aww no, I feel this. I have a best friend who moved far away too, and she's the only one of my friends group who enjoys days out 🙈 She's visiting this weekend, and we have beach plans. So fingers crossed for the weather... it is Wales! 🤣 | |||
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or I just find them boring. So I've given up on it again.
I'd rather be single having great sex without commitment than settle into a relationship I'm unfulfilled in for the sake of not being single. I don't mind my own company, I'm fucking awesome.
All of my recent dates have been British but that's just how it worked out rather than a active choice. | |||
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"I've tried other apps and saw lots from here on them using the same pics. It's the same pool of folk all over. Here at least you can be open, up front, about things 'vanilla' dating takes weeks to reveal. And tbh the poolwater is just as murky and risky no matter which jetty or shoreline you launch from. I've had a fair few unpleasant characters to sidestep and the followers of the Alpha mentality telling me if I don't like them then either I'm broken or a lesbian or whatever else they can throw down. It's exhausting running on the hamster wheel of positivity so these days I'm actually just happy with my status quo. I've a lovely bunch around me and I'm not looking for more than I have the energy for on any given day. Protect your peace lovelies "I agree with the dating pool or rather cespit. I've tried dating from this site and met with only emotionally unavailable men who'd rather play with your emotions than be honest with you. | |||
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"I love 'dating', the majority of people I meet are not via fab, but via other apps usually. The last man I went on a date with is from London. I am meeting a Persian man soon for a date." Hi sweetiepie, same here. I meet all mine not from fab, but from facebook, that is good you also love dating, have a good date too | |||
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"I havent been dating for a long time and it isnt from now that I am getting back into it again and loving it. I have already dated 3, one french, the other dutch and hungarian. I have 2 more dates lined up this month, one who is irish and swedish too. It seems that walking dates are very popular now, which I enjoy as well. I was a bit nervous at the beginning that I wouldnt have so much to say, but the conversation flowed really good with all of them, with the french one. I tested my french, she was really impressed. That got me thinking, do you like dating and are you also into vanilla dating, what was the nationality of your last date? I am becoming a serial dater
"If I was dating someone I wouldn't want them seeing a few others at the same time. Dating to me is spending time together and not seeing anyone else . | |||
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"I’ve recently gone back to the vanilla dating world. I’ve been talking to someone since Sunday morning who I’ve really hit it off with. She’s a few miles away from me and she’s a gorgeous British born Desi woman. I’m going to ask her out for a coffee and a walk around Kew Gardens. Pleased to hear you’re putting yourself back out there Shag. Enjoy yourself 🍻 " Ty, yes, it is fun, that is good you have also gone back to dating too | |||
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It's such a lighter feeling and there's so much less pressure to just be free from it all.
If I have a person I savour them today. No worry for next year. Then be thankful for them and look ahead again.
Well, that's how I feel today, this week, this month. The future's a great big blank page | |||
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"I'm really happy for you shag and glad it's all going well for you. Dating isn't for me I couldn't image going through the process of getting to know someone all over again. I've had my happy ever after and have my memories thats enough for me" Hi diamondsmiles, ty, yes, it is fun to get to know others, that is good you had your happy ever after and memories of it too | |||
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"I went back to the dating sites a few months ago. Found no one wants to message, even though you've matched. " I see a lot of women complaining about this ! I natci with a lot but don’t message myself because once you send a message they tend to go full on and it’s exhausting , so I let them sit there until I’m ready to properly engage and meet | |||
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol " Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 | |||
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 " Mine wasn't quite that awful but when the person you're with insults your husband and then starts crying. 🤣🙄 | |||
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 Mine wasn't quite that awful but when the person you're with insults your husband and then starts crying. 🤣🙄" Ok, that is bad. 
Mine was a “single” woman. Turns out her boyfriend had cheated on her and she was looking to get even by meeting me. She was hysterical, in tears for over an hour, told me she was being taken to court because she was refusing to take her 8 year old son to school and that she was suicidal.
When I expressed my concern about her own safety, given what she had just said she got angry and started insulting me.
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 Mine wasn't quite that awful but when the person you're with insults your husband and then starts crying. 🤣🙄 Ok, that is bad.
Mine was a “single” woman. Turns out her boyfriend had cheated on her and she was looking to get even by meeting me. She was hysterical, in tears for over an hour, told me she was being taken to court because she was refusing to take her 8 year old son to school and that she was suicidal.
When I expressed my concern about her own safety, given what she had just said she got angry and started insulting me.
Worst. Date. Ever! "Lol our respective dates must have been related 🤣 | |||
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 Mine wasn't quite that awful but when the person you're with insults your husband and then starts crying. 🤣🙄 Ok, that is bad.
Mine was a “single” woman. Turns out her boyfriend had cheated on her and she was looking to get even by meeting me. She was hysterical, in tears for over an hour, told me she was being taken to court because she was refusing to take her 8 year old son to school and that she was suicidal.
When I expressed my concern about her own safety, given what she had just said she got angry and started insulting me.
Worst. Date. Ever!
Lol our respective dates must have been related 🤣"Should we try and set them up? | |||
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 Mine wasn't quite that awful but when the person you're with insults your husband and then starts crying. 🤣🙄 Ok, that is bad.
Mine was a “single” woman. Turns out her boyfriend had cheated on her and she was looking to get even by meeting me. She was hysterical, in tears for over an hour, told me she was being taken to court because she was refusing to take her 8 year old son to school and that she was suicidal.
When I expressed my concern about her own safety, given what she had just said she got angry and started insulting me.
Worst. Date. Ever!
Lol our respective dates must have been related 🤣
Should we try and set them up?"🤣🤣🤣 To my knowledge mine is no longer on here lol | |||
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"I'm now thinking of dating, I recently parted ways with my ex partner. I'm excited at the prospect of finding someone new but these dating sites aren't for me, unfortunately this seems to be the way forward. Good luck OP "Hi pollypocket, ty, it is fun, that is good you are also thinking of dating, good luck to you too | |||
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"Dating is fun! I'm not on normal dating apps right back but I might go back. I quite fancy a doing-something date. Like paddle boarding. Or a theme park. " Hi feltcute, yes, dating is fun, that is good you might go back to it, paddle boarding or a theme park is fun too | |||
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"The last "date" I went on went a little pear shaped to say the least lol Mine didn’t go pear shaped. Mine was the atomic bomb. 💣 Mine wasn't quite that awful but when the person you're with insults your husband and then starts crying. 🤣🙄 Ok, that is bad.
Mine was a “single” woman. Turns out her boyfriend had cheated on her and she was looking to get even by meeting me. She was hysterical, in tears for over an hour, told me she was being taken to court because she was refusing to take her 8 year old son to school and that she was suicidal.
When I expressed my concern about her own safety, given what she had just said she got angry and started insulting me.
Worst. Date. Ever!
Lol our respective dates must have been related 🤣
Should we try and set them up?
🤣🤣🤣 To my knowledge mine is no longer on here lol"Mine might have returned to her home planet 🤔 | |||
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"I havent been dating for a long time and it isnt from now that I am getting back into it again and loving it. I have already dated 3, one french, the other dutch and hungarian. I have 2 more dates lined up this month, one who is irish and swedish too. It seems that walking dates are very popular now, which I enjoy as well. I was a bit nervous at the beginning that I wouldnt have so much to say, but the conversation flowed really good with all of them, with the french one. I tested my french, she was really impressed. That got me thinking, do you like dating and are you also into vanilla dating, what was the nationality of your last date? I am becoming a serial dater
If I was dating someone I wouldn't want them seeing a few others at the same time. Dating to me is spending time together and not seeing anyone else ."I agree with this notion | |||
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"Oh I like dates. Not so much first dates though, my brain is always overthinking and consciously analysing everything. I like it a few dates in when the brain goblins have chilled out some. The majority of people I date are British. Not out of deliberate choice, I just live in an area with next to no diversity. I'm genuinely surprised if I see a person of colour in my city, and the eastern European community seems closed to me as a whole. I have dated a Hungarian and a Czech girl in years past, and a fuck buddy I haven't seen for a while is Italian. My last monogamous relationship was with an Irishman. But yeah, mostly just plain Brits in the border cities 💜" As a plain Brit I/we can also come in other varieties..Salty & Vinegar, Cheesy & Onion, Fickled Onion, Scrawn Cocktail, Dopey Bacon, Boast Chicken.. | |||
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Happy for you.
You write in such a positive way about it. x | |||
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"Shag, This is my most favourite thread of yours ever
Happy for you.
You write in such a positive way about it. x "Hi, ty, that sounds good to me, yes. I do, it is fun dating too x | |||
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"Even as an older guy , I still do a bit of online dating ..a mix of good , average and bad. Here is a Polish meet from a month ago...we do a bit of texting , she says her English is not great .but her texts are decent enough...we go for a coffee and cake meet...after about 2 mins she gets her smart phone out for Google translate to chat ( obviously she has been using that for her texts to me) I try to be enjoying this as we pass her phone back and forth. We then go for a walk in a nearby park...sit down on a bench...I say something ,but she doesn't understand...she gets her phone out...but oh dear..there's no internet connection ....so it just goes from bad to worse and we say our goodbyes." I was seeing someone like this , when her phone died I used to tell her all my secrets ! | |||
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"No more dry sex months for shag!!" Hi nora, yes, you are right there, no more dry sex, not yet | |||
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"I have a date tonight, fingers crossed it goes well "🤞🤞 you are going to have to come back now and let us know how it went! | |||
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"A little too old for all that now " Rubbish. I'm 59 and get dates | |||
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"I have a date tonight, fingers crossed it goes well "Hi pollypocket, good luck and let us how it went too | |||
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"Oh I like dates. Not so much first dates though, my brain is always overthinking and consciously analysing everything. I like it a few dates in when the brain goblins have chilled out some. The majority of people I date are British. Not out of deliberate choice, I just live in an area with next to no diversity. I'm genuinely surprised if I see a person of colour in my city, and the eastern European community seems closed to me as a whole. I have dated a Hungarian and a Czech girl in years past, and a fuck buddy I haven't seen for a while is Italian. My last monogamous relationship was with an Irishman. But yeah, mostly just plain Brits in the border cities 💜" Hi _reytothefairies, yes, that is good you like dating, yes it also depends in what area one lives in too | |||
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"Aww Shag this is brilliant to read! I hope you continue having many more successful dates that bring you the happiness you so richly deserve. I adore dating. Going on dates. The ritualistic element of getting ready, the different things to do, the flutterflies, the excitement of seeing someone for that first time. Learning them as the date unfolds. It's incredibly rare I've had a bad date, I think I'm really quite lucky. I've been on dates with people as mixed as me, various nationalities. The last person I went on a first date with would be someone from a far warmer country than here. " Hi _eli, ty, yes. I hope so too. I like dating, that is good you also adore dating, yes, it is about the excitement of seeing someone for that first time and to get to know them as well | |||
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