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"No. You can't complete Fab without a verification from them all."  but then what about the folk that don't leave one?!? | |||
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"No. You can't complete Fab without a verification from them all. but then what about the folk that don't leave one?!?"Hmmm that's a tricky one. | |||
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"Recently a single female and also a couple have replied to my first message by saying I’ve too many verifications and it’s put them off talking too me. Can a single guy have too many? Thoughts. " It's all a bit subjective OP. Whatever you do or say will be not what someone wants. It's just about filtering down to the right people for you. People who think you have too many verifications, probably not the right people for you 💜 | |||
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"I think I’d blink at the number… but then, a lot of people have a lot of social verifications so no I wouldn’t be put off by it " A lot of mine are from hosting not even played with half of them. I love a good veri makes me feel happy people have had a good time at my event. | |||
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"I think I’d blink at the number… but then, a lot of people have a lot of social verifications so no I wouldn’t be put off by it A lot of mine are from hosting not even played with half of them. I love a good veri makes me feel happy people have had a good time at my event. " verifications make a person feel good… out of my Veris only 1 is someone I’ve been intimate with… the rest are social which is really nice to have 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"I think I’d blink at the number… but then, a lot of people have a lot of social verifications so no I wouldn’t be put off by it A lot of mine are from hosting not even played with half of them. I love a good veri makes me feel happy people have had a good time at my event. verifications make a person feel good… out of my Veris only 1 is someone I’ve been intimate with… the rest are social which is really nice to have 🤷🏻♀️" Sometimes when I have a bad day I read through my veris and it makes me feel better, some meets been out of this world and some not so. | |||
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"No. You can't complete Fab without a verification from them all." In should be in alfabetal order | |||
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"Recently a single female and also a couple have replied to my first message by saying I’ve too many verifications and it’s put them off talking too me. Can a single guy have too many? Thoughts. " If it puts them off, you are not compatible.... plenty of people will see it as a positive. X | |||
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"Recently a single female and also a couple have replied to my first message by saying I’ve too many verifications and it’s put them off talking too me. Can a single guy have too many? Thoughts. " No not at all .... it's just fab and veris dont mean people fuxk etc many are just social meets etc | |||
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"Recently a single female and also a couple have replied to my first message by saying I’ve too many verifications..." • You're not compatible is the straightforward answer. In regards to verifications — how many, too few, just about right, none at all...is irrelevant. There is no singleton answer. | |||
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"No. You can't complete Fab without a verification from them all. In should be in alfabetal order" It would certainly make the fabmin easier | |||
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"I find most people look at the quality, not the numbers." · Not necessarily. Sometimes (oftentimes) it's ·who· has written the verification that seems to raise eyebrows or doth a cap. | |||
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"A single man I enjoy meeting has 423 verifications. Sex with him is the best I have ever had. Maybe practice makes perfect ?" 😂😂 | |||
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"Yes! Some twats on here have like 22 verifications! Ridiculous " I had 22 once 😂 | |||
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"I think fab should also show how many years profiles have been active. I’ve been on for around 5 years and been hosting for 3. " Of someone can't be bothered to take that all into account are they really your type of person | |||
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"Every interaction is 50/50. It works or it doesn't. There's no need to read any further into it, I won't change and I wouldn't have the expectation for anyone else to either. Have your own journey and see where it leads "Totally agree fella | |||
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If you wanted them simply to show that you're a safe verified male and not a threat or to give a taste of your likes then you'd only need to display a small curated selection.
If you want to impress folk with how popular/active/liked/*insert adjective* that you are then show them all and display the total number that you've earned.
It's not verifiable proof of anything. People lie and embellish in them.
Just another filter for those who think differently about their journey.
Equally there's nothing to be trusted from having few/none of them either. People meet and don't veri. People veri and don't display. Having few/none is proof of nothing. | |||
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"It all comes down to what they do for a person. Why they choose to swap them at all. Why they choose to display them. If you want folk to see you active, liked, busy busy, in demand. You must like what's said in them or you'd not display them. Folk like the badges. Ding ding ding winner winner winner
If you wanted them simply to show that you're a safe verified male and not a threat or to give a taste of your likes then you'd only need to display a small curated selection.
If you want to impress folk with how popular/active/liked/*insert adjective* that you are then show them all and display the total number that you've earned.
It's not verifiable proof of anything. People lie and embellish in them.
Just another filter for those who think differently about their journey.
Equally there's nothing to be trusted from having few/none of them either. People meet and don't veri. People veri and don't display. Having few/none is proof of nothing."My main reason why I display them is for people to see what people have said about my parties, I’m no sex god and have the body of a Buddha 😂 | |||
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"Recently a single female and also a couple have replied to my first message by saying I’ve too many verifications and it’s put them off talking too me. Can a single guy have too many? Thoughts. " do not display them all maybe just the last 6-10 or spread them out over picking veri's from the last year,,,  | |||
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"Which is a slightly different scenario to most. If it is causing you to miss out on introductions or opportunities to make acquaintances then perhaps making a bigger mention of your social/event hosting on your profile would give them a different context and perspective. My profile does state that I’m a party host, the whole point of this forum thread was to see what other people thought. I’m not arsed what people think and I will continue to show my verifications. I’m proud of my swinging journey so far. Xx Some might linger longer, some might still skip on." | |||
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"Recently a single female and also a couple have replied to my first message by saying I’ve too many verifications and it’s put them off talking too me. Can a single guy have too many? Thoughts. do not display them all maybe just the last 6-10 or spread them out over picking veri's from the last year,,, "I will continue to show them all I was just curious of what people thought. | |||
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"Yes Gov you have too many! "😳 😂😂 | |||
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