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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure." My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵 | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵" I get that it's awesome isn't it, like a vicarious physical sensation? Shudder. I love it. | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵" But is that mental pleasure or physical one? I understand where you're coming from but to me that is different to how I physically feel. | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵" This ^^^ | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵 But is that mental pleasure or physical one? I understand where you're coming from but to me that is different to how I physically feel." To me it’s both.. I can’t explain the physical feeling I have.. but it’s fucking good.. I can get myself to the edge of orgasm by just pleasing someone.. I don’t even need to be touched.. it’s hard to explain🙈 | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵 But is that mental pleasure or physical one? I understand where you're coming from but to me that is different to how I physically feel. To me it’s both.. I can’t explain the physical feeling I have.. but it’s fucking good.. I can get myself to the edge of orgasm by just pleasing someone.. I don’t even need to be touched.. it’s hard to explain🙈" Ok interesting. I wasn't aware you could experience that much physical pleasure from mental stimulus alone  | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵 But is that mental pleasure or physical one? I understand where you're coming from but to me that is different to how I physically feel. To me it’s both.. I can’t explain the physical feeling I have.. but it’s fucking good.. I can get myself to the edge of orgasm by just pleasing someone.. I don’t even need to be touched.. it’s hard to explain🙈 Ok interesting. I wasn't aware you could experience that much physical pleasure from mental stimulus alone "I think there are many different depths to sex that most do not go to.. or understand 😄 | |||
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"Hey OP, I'm guessing you don't want to hear about pleasure we derive from others but our own? What we most enjoy about our own orgasm. I'm going to answer with that in mind because it's an interesting question and not one I've really thought about in that specific way. Nor read on here. I think my pleasure is mainly in the build up. It's ridiculously easy for me to have an orgasm. Multiple. When there's that buildup, the sheet clenching, thighs tensing, teasing, gradual build up I can easily lose track of time, thoughts about anything else. It's that exhilarating headspace where I can't get enough of what's happening. Sometimes I have a very, very intense orgasm. Full body, sweat dripping, forgetting my name and unable to walk properly kind of intense. Those are fun but the edging just about edges it for me." Yes, correct. Just like above I do also find intense pleasure from pleasing my partner, like it feels good and it turns me on knowing I'm pleasing them but I wouldn't get orgasm or even close to it from doing that. I see, well I guess it can also be different for ladies or even men who experience multiple/rolling orgasms as their pleasure isn't stopped but gets intensified. So I take it edging for you also feels better than multiple orgasms? I would love to experience that myself but the closest for me would probably be post orgasm torture  | |||
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"To me that is 100% more sexually arousing than the act itself. I’d be gushing over their cock before they were even fully inside me after a sesh like that 🥵 " I knew I liked you, Red. | |||
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"To me that is 100% more sexually arousing than the act itself. I’d be gushing over their cock before they were even fully inside me after a sesh like that 🥵 I knew I liked you, Red." I’ll fight you for her. | |||
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"My pleasure is mostly in the build up I suppose. The anticipation of seeing them naked. Touching them, tasting them, teasing them. I particularly enjoy teasing. And denying. And teasing again. I like to see him practically panting to insert himself inside me. And I then like trying to get him to cum asap, the first round. " Tease and denial is what I meant by edging, it drives me absolutely wild | |||
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"To me that is 100% more sexually arousing than the act itself. I’d be gushing over their cock before they were even fully inside me after a sesh like that 🥵 I knew I liked you, Red. I’ll fight you for her." You know I’d happily be shared with you both 😉 | |||
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"1000% about the build up. Pleasure comes in so many forms, not just an orgasm. My orgasms are fucking intense, but hard to reach. I adore all the sensations of sex and intimacy, the mental as well as physical connections. I'm more than happy to play for hours without an orgasm. " I'll count that as another point for pre-orgasm  | |||
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"Im definitely a build up kinda gal. I love the anticipation, the tease, the foreplay. The flirting, the intentional eye contact, the touching, the suggestive tones and body language. Turning each other on, especially if somewhere public. A hand creeping up my thigh under the pub table, spreading my legs slightly as we keep our composure for anyone who happens to glance over. Edging until we’re both at the point we don’t give a fuck anymore, just need to feel, taste and fuck. To me that is 100% more sexually arousing than the act itself. I’d be gushing over their cock before they were even fully inside me after a sesh like that 🥵 " I know it's a controversial topic/aspect but one of my most intense sensations was tasting a lady off my fingers in a cafe 🥵 | |||
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"You know I’d happily be shared with you both 😉" I think what she really wants is to be the one winding you up before you gush over my cock …  | |||
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"Im definitely a build up kinda gal. I love the anticipation, the tease, the foreplay. The flirting, the intentional eye contact, the touching, the suggestive tones and body language. Turning each other on, especially if somewhere public. A hand creeping up my thigh under the pub table, spreading my legs slightly as we keep our composure for anyone who happens to glance over. Edging until we’re both at the point we don’t give a fuck anymore, just need to feel, taste and fuck. To me that is 100% more sexually arousing than the act itself. I’d be gushing over their cock before they were even fully inside me after a sesh like that 🥵 I know it's a controversial topic/aspect but one of my most intense sensations was tasting a lady off my fingers in a cafe 🥵 " Why the hell is it controversial?? I’d be pulling you in for a deep kiss so I can taste myself on your tongue then sucking the rest of your fingers clean 🥵 | |||
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"It’s like being the conductor of an orchestra, guiding every note, every rise and fall, until that final explosive crescendo." Yes. All of this. Yes. ❤️ | |||
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"Where does your pleasure mainly comes from? Do you physically enjoy the climaxing part more or the edging towards it? I personally have a long recovery period and therefore much more enjoyable edging over orgasm because it feels the same to me but it can last for a longer period of time. While the orgasm is a quick shot of intense pleasure. My pleasure most definitely comes from others getting pleasure rather than my own orgasm. The build up and knowing I am the reason they are moaning and feeling so good is just a feeling I can’t explain. It’s like an electric shock through my body.. nothing compares 🥵" I totally get the intensity of seeing a lover losing control with me. I’m not sure if two sensualists together would cancel each other out competing to make the other cum or make a perfect storm. | |||
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"You know I’d happily be shared with you both 😉 I think what she really wants is to be the one winding you up before you gush over my cock … "oh okayyyyy thennnnn… if you insist 😜 as long as I get to taste her on it too 🤤 | |||
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"Enjoy it most when she is orgasming. I love that feeling when she tightens on me and her body shudders and knowing you can go again. " Omg how could I forget that! That feeling is absolutely amazing, when she squeezes your cock so hard it gets pushed out sometimes  | |||
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"Im definitely a build up kinda gal. I love the anticipation, the tease, the foreplay. The flirting, the intentional eye contact, the touching, the suggestive tones and body language. Turning each other on, especially if somewhere public. A hand creeping up my thigh under the pub table, spreading my legs slightly as we keep our composure for anyone who happens to glance over. Edging until we’re both at the point we don’t give a fuck anymore, just need to feel, taste and fuck. To me that is 100% more sexually arousing than the act itself. I’d be gushing over their cock before they were even fully inside me after a sesh like that 🥵 I know it's a controversial topic/aspect but one of my most intense sensations was tasting a lady off my fingers in a cafe 🥵 Why the hell is it controversial?? I’d be pulling you in for a deep kiss so I can taste myself on your tongue then sucking the rest of your fingers clean 🥵" The public play aspect. Don't get me wrong, I would be disappointed if you didn't taste yourself off my lips  | |||
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"To those who like me get off on their lovers orgasms, would you describe yourself as a sexual empath or is it more about domination/control? I’m honestly not sure for myself." A bit of both. Their pleasure turns me on, and there is definitely a bit of compersion in it. I am also a Domme, and that element of control is just as much of a thrill. There is something incredibly powerful about knowing exactly how much pleasure they are feeling… and that it is all because of me. | |||
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"I’m like you OP. I like a long edging session as the enjoyment lasts longer and if you find someone that knows how to do it, it’s incredible. However I equally enjoy dishing out the pleasure. That look they give you as you bring them pleasure and make them shake knowing I’m the one that did that feels equally good. " Ahem. I would need to see/feel this in action to ensure my agreement isn’t made in ignorance of your skills 😁 | |||
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" The public play aspect. Don't get me wrong, I would be disappointed if you didn't taste yourself off my lips "Yup 👌🏻 love a naughty tease sesh 🤤 bet I taste amazing on your tongue too | |||
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"Yes, correct. Just like above I do also find intense pleasure from pleasing my partner, like it feels good and it turns me on knowing I'm pleasing them but I wouldn't get orgasm or even close to it from doing that. I see, well I guess it can also be different for ladies or even men who experience multiple/rolling orgasms as their pleasure isn't stopped but gets intensified. So I take it edging for you also feels better than multiple orgasms? I would love to experience that myself but the closest for me would probably be post orgasm torture "I thought I'd guide the thread in the direction of the OP - selflessly helping with comprehension with all the subtlety of a sledgehammer. Standard me. As much as I love desire feedback loops and conversations surrounding it and have typed about it a fair bit, I've not seen a thread for some time on how someone views their own orgasm. Certainly not one asking if the journey or destination is more satisfying. And I rather liked that take. Yes, the journey even with multi orgasms is generally more enjoyable. Both are though, don't get me wrong. I think I'm just greedy. P.S post orgasm torture really doesn't sound anything like a multi-O | |||
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" The public play aspect. Don't get me wrong, I would be disappointed if you didn't taste yourself off my lips
Yup 👌🏻 love a naughty tease sesh 🤤 bet I taste amazing on your tongue too"Only one way to find out 👅 | |||
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"Hey OP, I'm guessing you don't want to hear about pleasure we derive from others but our own? What we most enjoy about our own orgasm. Yes, correct. Just like above I do also find intense pleasure from pleasing my partner, like it feels good and it turns me on knowing I'm pleasing them but I wouldn't get orgasm or even close to it from doing that. I see, well I guess it can also be different for ladies or even men who experience multiple/rolling orgasms as their pleasure isn't stopped but gets intensified. So I take it edging for you also feels better than multiple orgasms? I would love to experience that myself but the closest for me would probably be post orgasm torture
I thought I'd guide the thread in the direction of the OP - selflessly helping with comprehension with all the subtlety of a sledgehammer. Standard me.
As much as I love desire feedback loops and conversations surrounding it and have typed about it a fair bit, I've not seen a thread for some time on how someone views their own orgasm. Certainly not one asking if the journey or destination is more satisfying. And I rather liked that take.
Yes, the journey even with multi orgasms is generally more enjoyable. Both are though, don't get me wrong. I think I'm just greedy.
P.S post orgasm torture really doesn't sound anything like a multi-O "Yeah that's the whole point I was trying to made but I guess when people start thinking of this topic they get excited and the mind drifts and they're somewhere else
I can't blame them because reading some of the replies made me horny too
But yeah I do think majority people focus on other persons pleasure when discussing their own orgasm rather than their own and it's hard to gain that perspective as a result | |||
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