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How could it be more balanced in your opinion, OP? | |||
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"As long as the process to set up a completely anonymous account is so easy it isn't going to change. Fab puts the onus of defending against the onslaught of zombie accounts on the user by providing a few filter's. I don't understand why women feel the need to announce how many messages they have and when they are deleting them. " All it would do, is attract more mail I think. | |||
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"I just completed The Last of Us on expert, but I don’t feel it necessary to announce it to the world. " Well you should since that's amazing | |||
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"As long as the process to set up a completely anonymous account is so easy it isn't going to change. Fab puts the onus of defending against the onslaught of zombie accounts on the user by providing a few filter's. I don't understand why women feel the need to announce how many messages they have and when they are deleting them. All it would do, is attract more mail I think. " I agree. It can be very easy to think that the message you sent was deleted in the mass deletion before being read (very likely) and you should message again. Almost fallen into that trap myself. | |||
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"Just saw a Lady announce on her status update that she has completed a Mass message deletion as she’s bombarded…. Wish I had the same problem 😆 But another reminder of the imbalance of genders on Fabs… it’s a Sausage Fest as another lady commented…. Lots of profiles start “No solo males” and pleas for No Cock pics…… Gives an image of an army of Horned up Orcs all pounding at Ladies / Couples profiles Shame for everyone it’s not a bit more balanced and chilled…… Thoughts? Agree/Disagree?" My thought is that many will message any woman in a scattergun approach hoping one might get read, often without reading a profile to check if they're the least bit compatible. I also think some don't help themselves by effective use of message filters and the block button. The site has useful tools to minimise a burgeoning inbox and if used it would reduce the issue for all concerned. Sometimes people just don't help themselves. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I just completed The Last of Us on expert, but I don’t feel it necessary to announce it to the world. Well you should since that's amazing "  I guess I already did | |||
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"Hard to disagree and you’re a longer member than I am but good to consider and debate some options on improvements Relatively new but I have been cat fished by fake accounts which seemed genuine but discovered they’re false.. undermines trust in the profile authenticity and rather just accept that the site is flooded with fake profiles maybe a couple of enhancements including existing filters may improve it even more.." Maybe more selective who you engage with if your being catfish. I've never come across a catfish | |||
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"Hard to disagree and you’re a longer member than I am but good to consider and debate some options on improvements Relatively new but I have been cat fished by fake accounts which seemed genuine but discovered they’re false.. undermines trust in the profile authenticity and rather just accept that the site is flooded with fake profiles maybe a couple of enhancements including existing filters may improve it even more.." I've always found the easiest way to determine if someone is a real live person is to either talk to them on the phone, have a video call, or just meet socially for a coffee. I'd never arrange anything just of the back of a couple of messages. To me it's no different to buying a car or a house. Might look great in the words and pictures in an advert but I'm sure as hell going to want to see it in real life before there's any serious interest invested. And I've seen no end of fake car ads over the years. If people rely purely on words on a screen then to me they're setting themselves up to fail. But then some let the horn control their brain, lose any sense of realism and logic and assume that just because someone says something will happen that it will. I've never met a fake person. Nor have I continued chat with anyone if there's enough red flags or suspicion to make me think they're anything but 100% genuine. I don't rush to meet. The longer a conversation goes on, the more likely it is that anyone who's not who they claim to be will get bored and move on to someone else. As I said before. People can do a lot to help themselves. If they choose to. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Fair enough and fair advice… finding my feet with the dynamics of it to be honest.. the case I’m referencing claimed to be a female locally, went into huge level of detail about her job, the local area even school her kid was in…. It wasn’t a horned up chat but genuinely friendly… didn’t see the need to ask for a call as there were no red flags….and from the info she shared she was obviously local.. However when she sent on pics they seemed odd not sure why and I out them through tin eye and sourced from a Russian site…. A lot of effort and waste of time and alarming too… but lesson learned… can only assume it may have been a bloke getting little traction and getting a kick off conversing….. That’s a side issue… for me it’s balancing the ratio and validating entry at profile opening stage " wow and you didn't see all that over sharing of everything as a red flag. | |||
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"If you read my post again I state that she shared that information with me…. " Yes, but you didn't find it strange that she would be giving that kind of information out to a random stranger | |||
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"I just completed The Last of Us on expert, but I don’t feel it necessary to announce it to the world. Well you should since that's amazing " Some of us would like to if only we had a PS5 😞 | |||
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"I never quite understood the point of a status like that as so many of them also say if I missed your message, message me again. If they’re already managing their inbox that badly asking people to resend isn’t going to help." Don't be silly, that makes far too much sense | |||
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