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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" If you aren't interested You deleted If they continue then block Why on earth let it get to 20+messages!?! | |||
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"why didn't you block after the first message?" Why should I make the effort to block someone when I can’t even be arsed to reply?🤣🤣 | |||
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"I don't generally block but if hey are persistent or I've replied no thanks and the messages keep coming then I'll block. Maybe at 5.....depends if its in an hour or in 5 weeks???" 12 in 5 hours apparently. I don’t tend to check my inbox all that regularly there’s too many to go through and I get overwhelmed. | |||
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"why didn't you block after the first message? Why should I make the effort to block someone when I can’t even be arsed to reply?🤣🤣" But then you can be bothered to hit the forum about it ! Just block Then you can move on | |||
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"why didn't you block after the first message? Why should I make the effort to block someone when I can’t even be arsed to reply?🤣🤣" But you made the effort to read them and post here? And then analyse the frequency and continue to comment. The block button is your friend along with the message filters.  | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" One - but "no reply" is not always an answer - sometimes messages sat unread and unnoticed for weeks. That's the nature of this website though - for every woman there's a dozen simping men, all climbing over each other for a crumb of attention. This site mostly serves women and men who are in the club/social scene - my advice for everyone else, is to spend your money on other platforms. | |||
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"why didn't you block after the first message? Why should I make the effort to block someone when I can’t even be arsed to reply?🤣🤣 But you made the effort to read them and post here? And then analyse the frequency and continue to comment. The block button is your friend along with the message filters. "Personally I would say posting 1 forum message and interacting with others and their experiences is a lot less tedious than blocking hundreds of people daily who seem to believe they have a right to a reply from a stranger . It was more about the insults after many messages were ignored that had me wondering. | |||
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"bPersonally I would say posting 1 forum message and interacting with others and their experiences is a lot less tedious than blocking hundreds of people daily who seem to believe they have a right to a reply from a stranger . It was more about the insults after many messages were ignored that had me wondering. " I’ve no idea what drives men to send insults or abuse on here, I can’t imagine a scenario where it’s ever going to work in their favour either. It strikes me as very narcissistic. | |||
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"bPersonally I would say posting 1 forum message and interacting with others and their experiences is a lot less tedious than blocking hundreds of people daily who seem to believe they have a right to a reply from a stranger . It was more about the insults after many messages were ignored that had me wondering. I’ve no idea what drives men to send insults or abuse on here, I can’t imagine a scenario where it’s ever going to work in their favour either. It strikes me as very narcissistic." I sometimes wonder if it’s a tactic.. Everything else is ignored but you’re more likely to respond to insults, even negative attention is attention.. But then I realise I’ve probably over analysed and they likely don’t have the brain cells to think of such tactics😅 | |||
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"why didn't you block after the first message? Why should I make the effort to block someone when I can’t even be arsed to reply?🤣🤣 But you made the effort to read them and post here? And then analyse the frequency and continue to comment. The block button is your friend along with the message filters.
Personally I would say posting 1 forum message and interacting with others and their experiences is a lot less tedious than blocking hundreds of people daily who seem to believe they have a right to a reply from a stranger . It was more about the insults after many messages were ignored that had me wondering. "nobody should get abuse, unfortunately some guys can't take rejection. By simply using your block button you stop the abuse. Should you have to? No but it makes for an easier life | |||
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"bPersonally I would say posting 1 forum message and interacting with others and their experiences is a lot less tedious than blocking hundreds of people daily who seem to believe they have a right to a reply from a stranger . It was more about the insults after many messages were ignored that had me wondering. I’ve no idea what drives men to send insults or abuse on here, I can’t imagine a scenario where it’s ever going to work in their favour either. It strikes me as very narcissistic. I sometimes wonder if it’s a tactic.. Everything else is ignored but you’re more likely to respond to insults, even negative attention is attention.. But then I realise I’ve probably over analysed and they likely don’t have the brain cells to think of such tactics😅 " Yeah maybe, maybe to them just some sort of acknowledgement they exist gets their ‘meet now’ boner wet😂 Oh they won’t see it as a tactic, in their mind it’s pure ego driven I think! | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" 1 message that's it.. might send again in 4/5 months time but as a single male you know that you are low on the pecking so will be ignored more often than not, but also that too many messages will get you deleted | |||
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"why didn't you block after the first message? Why should I make the effort to block someone when I can’t even be arsed to reply?🤣🤣 But then you can be bothered to hit the forum about it ! Just block Then you can move on " 🤣🤣 | |||
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"One. Might send another later, if still no reply. I don't bother. I'm not going to have a full blown conversation with myself in someone's inbox. "  ... I never send first messages 🤣... | |||
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"If I send one message that receives no response that's generally where I leave it 🤷🏻♂️" Ditto | |||
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"At least 30+ ...I've heard of this "women playing hard to get" thing and just think it adds to my overall charm once I wear them down "🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I don't generally block but if hey are persistent or I've replied no thanks and the messages keep coming then I'll block. Maybe at 5.....depends if its in an hour or in 5 weeks??? 12 in 5 hours apparently. I don’t tend to check my inbox all that regularly there’s too many to go through and I get overwhelmed." Blocking those you're not interested in would reduce the number of messages, stop repeat contact, lower the amount of time it would take to go through your inbox and hopefully reduce the likelihood of becoming overwhelmed. The tools are there to help people manage their inboxes better. All that's required is to use them. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"At least 30+ ...I've heard of this "women playing hard to get" thing and just think it adds to my overall charm once I wear them down "I heard this works for you too 😁 | |||
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"At least 30+ ...I've heard of this "women playing hard to get" thing and just think it adds to my overall charm once I wear them down
I heard this works for you too 😁"It does! That's the problem, really. Men will stop at 10 or 15 when actually, they need to message even more to get a woman's attention 😇👀 | |||
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"I don’t mind someone sending several messages but the moment the ?? crap starts it’s a block. " Starts to send messages lol 😝 xxxxx | |||
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"At least 30+ ...I've heard of this "women playing hard to get" thing and just think it adds to my overall charm once I wear them down "You're doing it all wrong. You need to send at least 50 | |||
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"At least 30+ ...I've heard of this "women playing hard to get" thing and just think it adds to my overall charm once I wear them down
You're doing it all wrong. You need to send at least 50 "Well get a move on will ya  | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" So rather than reply you start a thread? | |||
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"One. Might send another later, if still no reply. I don't bother. I'm not going to have a full blown conversation with myself in someone's inbox. " Second the motion | |||
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"One. Might send another later, if still no reply. I don't bother. I'm not going to have a full blown conversation with myself in someone's inbox. Second the motion" Thirded (if that’s even a word haha).. | |||
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"1. Or when I get a reply saying ‘no’. Or none, when I read the profile and understand we would never get along. Fab isn’t hard when you figure stuff out. "Exactly this 😁 | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" This was are secret 😬 | |||
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"How many messages do you let a guy send before a reply/block? Enough to create a thread about it. Female problems eh? "  | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" First. Why not just reply with a "not interested ?" Second. Then if he persists.. just block him. I would certainly block after 2 or 3 pesty messages.why wait for 22? | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" Delete and block | |||
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"How many messages do you send before you get the hint no reply is an answer? I have a guy in my inbox that has sent 20+ with no reply and now I’m the ugliest person on earth in his eyes🤣🤣" Fortunately don’t send women messages only friends on hear But if I did just one message saying thank you but no thank you suffices to old for messing about  | |||
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