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"Just delete if you are looking for meets and get tinder etc keep if you like a perve.....just my two cents Dan " yh might keep just for the forums | |||
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"3 weeks is no time at all A lot of single men wait months, if not years for a meet The solution is not by spending time online, but getting out and meeting real people - social events or clubs Again, they won't guarantee sex, but they will improve your presence, which may, eventually, lead to sex For an average bloke on here though, it's a tough ride - there's no easy way of saying that For every door that opens, 50 or more will probably be shut in your face Reduce expectations Get rid of entitlement you might think membership brings Improve your persona Dress your shop window " I been on here for years mate just a new profile that's all | |||
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"What would it take to make it worth you staying? What are your expectations, are they realistic, how much are you prepared to put in to achieve them? " it's not just about naughty meets I'm happy just chatting to people too with similar interests | |||
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"Use it for social nights at clubs / events. If you goto some of them the site becomes much easier to use over time " Absolutely agree with this for a single guy. | |||
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"Use it for social nights at clubs / events. If you goto some of them the site becomes much easier to use over time " yes I might attend few of these thank you | |||
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"Just delete if you are looking for meets and get tinder etc keep if you like a perve.....just my two cents Dan " This.  | |||
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"What would it take to make it worth you staying? What are your expectations, are they realistic, how much are you prepared to put in to achieve them? it's not just about naughty meets I'm happy just chatting to people too with similar interests " The chat rooms might be an option for you then The thing is that so many people say they don't mind just chatting but don't mean it. This makes it difficult for people like you | |||
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"What would it take to make it worth you staying? What are your expectations, are they realistic, how much are you prepared to put in to achieve them? it's not just about naughty meets I'm happy just chatting to people too with similar interests The chat rooms might be an option for you then The thing is that so many people say they don't mind just chatting but don't mean it. This makes it difficult for people like you " tbh most of the time the message gets opened and just left so I think forums and event nights will be good | |||
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"Definitely stay, the decent, genuine men always rise to the top and the time wasters and rude lads always sink, so definitely stick around "cheers pal | |||
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"What would it take to make it worth you staying? What are your expectations, are they realistic, how much are you prepared to put in to achieve them? it's not just about naughty meets I'm happy just chatting to people too with similar interests The chat rooms might be an option for you then The thing is that so many people say they don't mind just chatting but don't mean it. This makes it difficult for people like you " Very true. I love chatting about every topic under the sun, and now I have the time for chat, but 98% of time single men try to steer it towards sex chat or pressuring to meet, despite me saying several times from the very beginning I am happy to chat but don’t find them attractive enough to meet in person (harsh, you may think, but 1. It’s the truth and 2. I don’t want to waste anyone’s time.) But hey, we’re on a sex site after all, right? Yeah, but I decide what I want to talk about. So I just stop responding or block. | |||
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"Definitely stay, the decent, genuine men always rise to the top and the time wasters and rude lads always sink, so definitely stick around "• How do you distinguish between the "decent" and "genuine men" and the "time wasters and the rude lads"?...for they swim in the same bucket. | |||
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"What would it take to make it worth you staying? What are your expectations, are they realistic, how much are you prepared to put in to achieve them? it's not just about naughty meets I'm happy just chatting to people too with similar interests The chat rooms might be an option for you then The thing is that so many people say they don't mind just chatting but don't mean it. This makes it difficult for people like you Very true. I love chatting about every topic under the sun, and now I have the time for chat, but 98% of time single men try to steer it towards sex chat or pressuring to meet, despite me saying several times from the very beginning I am happy to chat but don’t find them attractive enough to meet in person (harsh, you may think, but 1. It’s the truth and 2. I don’t want to waste anyone’s time.) But hey, we’re on a sex site after all, right? Yeah, but I decide what I want to talk about. So I just stop responding or block. " I reply to all messages I get even if not interested as it's still polite | |||
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"So I just stop responding or block. I reply to all messages I get even if not interested as it's still polite " Even if someone is being consistently pushy? Or abusive? Or is so outside your clearly stated preferences as to be laughable? | |||
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"So I just stop responding or block. I reply to all messages I get even if not interested as it's still polite Even if someone is being consistently pushy? Or abusive? Or is so outside your clearly stated preferences as to be laughable? " no I completely understand it from that point of view if they being pushy or rude or nasty then yes I'd block as there's no need for any nasty messages | |||
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"What would it take to make it worth you staying? What are your expectations, are they realistic, how much are you prepared to put in to achieve them? it's not just about naughty meets I'm happy just chatting to people too with similar interests The chat rooms might be an option for you then The thing is that so many people say they don't mind just chatting but don't mean it. This makes it difficult for people like you tbh most of the time the message gets opened and just left so I think forums and event nights will be good " Like many, on our couples profile we view the senders profile before opening a message. If there's nothing to spark interest then the message won't even get read. The main reason so many people (mainly men) struggle is because they put all their time and energy into trying to write a decent opening message and completely disregard the most important part of their Fab life - a decent profile write up and some good photos. If you don't put more effort into your profile than your messages you're shooting yourself in the foot. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"We use the initial message and profile as a filter. Would you have taken any notice of your profile when you were on here as a couple. As you will know couples and single females get plenty of people to choose from,so you need to stand out. But socials are a good way to meet people." yes we both replied to everyone unless they were being nasty about things then they got blocked but always made time to say not for us sorry | |||
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"Like minded is on hundreds of mens profiles I don't get it go to a glory hole sucking cock in 5 mins and verify you " do many women do this as all I see is blokes putting this up to empty straight cocks never a woman | |||
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"It takes a long time unfortunately, most people won't interact with new profiles or no varifications, I'd say you'd need to be on for at least several months before you get replies and meets. " was a new profile as I deleted the other but was tempted back was veried on that 1 | |||
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"Like minded is on hundreds of mens profiles I don't get it go to a glory hole sucking cock in 5 mins and verify you do many women do this as all I see is blokes putting this up to empty straight cocks never a woman " no it's men you are bi so you should get cock sucked by men | |||
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"Honest answers as a single lad on here find it hard to get messages back is it worth staying or just deleting " Only you can answer your own question If you want a quick fuck I’d say no If you want to join the forums, have a laugh, perve gorgeous naked and semi naked photos and a meet is a bonus I’d say yes | |||
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"How am I bi ? I'm straight hun " you looking for TV they are men dressed up | |||
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"How am I bi ? I'm straight hun you looking for TV they are men dressed up " no I'm not where does it state this ? | |||
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"Honest answers as a single lad on here find it hard to get messages back is it worth staying or just deleting " In short, yes it is,😁 | |||
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"Honest answers as a single lad on here find it hard to get messages back is it worth staying or just deleting In short, yes it is,😁" cheers pal | |||
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"Men only whinge on here when they not getting BJ 🤣🤣🤣 buy one of them tight toys full it with lube job done no whingeing " Where does the lube go and which toy ? Lego, subbuteo a football? Help a guy out  lol | |||
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"Stay OP, use the forums, attend clubs and social events and you'll eventually get a meet. 3 weeks on here is nothing. You need to be patient and have thick skin on here. " cheers shag yh thinking of going cupids try it out | |||
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"Stay OP, use the forums, attend clubs and social events and you'll eventually get a meet. 3 weeks on here is nothing. You need to be patient and have thick skin on here. cheers shag yh thinking of going cupids try it out " Cupid's is good club | |||
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"Stay OP, use the forums, attend clubs and social events and you'll eventually get a meet. 3 weeks on here is nothing. You need to be patient and have thick skin on here. cheers shag yh thinking of going cupids try it out Cupid's is good club " thanks yh I'm gonna check it out there and took some people's advice too | |||
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"Stay OP, use the forums, attend clubs and social events and you'll eventually get a meet. 3 weeks on here is nothing. You need to be patient and have thick skin on here. cheers shag yh thinking of going cupids try it out Cupid's is good club thanks yh I'm gonna check it out there and took some people's advice too " little Miss sub does really good events she one most friendliest nice women I have ever met on club scene her fella is nice too | |||
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"Only you can decided that. Do you think your doing everything you possibly could. You've been on the forums awhile now, look at all the successful men on the forums and try to pick up some tips. Failing that your only other choice is to get yourself out to clubs or socials" I'm going cupids next week all sorted now gonna try it out not expecting anything maybe get chatting and few drinks | |||
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"Only you can decided that. Do you think your doing everything you possibly could. You've been on the forums awhile now, look at all the successful men on the forums and try to pick up some tips. Failing that your only other choice is to get yourself out to clubs or socialsI'm going cupids next week all sorted now gonna try it out not expecting anything maybe get chatting and few drinks " well that's good | |||
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