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Whatever happened to the good, old-fashioned orgy..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was introduced to Swinging a long time ago - 1985 in fact. At the very first party I went to, after all the play in different rooms in the house, everyone still there at about 1am ended up in the very large lounge in an orgy of about 40 people, with an approx 50/50 split male to female.

This was very much the pattern for all the house parties I attended over the following 4 years until I left the scene and 'settled down'.

Since returning just over four years ago, the one thing that has puzzled me is that I don't see much - if any - mention of orgies either in clubs or at parties, and very rarely on Fabs. Is it something that has died a death on the intervening years, or has the concept of group sex (ie. a number of couples swapping) largely replaced the orgy?

I can fully understand if it is the need for safe sex which may have killed it off, as this can be difficult to maintain in a true orgy situation.

Wondered what anyone else thinks on this, or have I just got a completely incorrect view and they are actually taking place right under my nose!!? Lol!

Interested what others think, specially those who were swinging as far back as the 80's like me.

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

Probably nothing...

As you get older you probs aren't getting invited to orgies anymore..

Ahh, the relentless march of time...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I haven't been doing this long enough but some smaller, everyone in the same room, clubs feel orgiastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to experience an orgy, just a mass of bodies entangled together

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Do you think that the awareness and better uderstanding of STDs has had an effect? Is there not an element of trust that protection will be used?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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I can fully understand if it is the need for safe sex which may have killed it off, as this can be difficult to maintain in a true orgy situation.

"

I would say this.....

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Knowing my luck, I'd cone up sucking a Fishermans Friend

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've heard descriptions of group sex on here where it was several couples fucking each other then swapping, I'd always wanted to try group sex where everyone was properly interactive with everyone else, I guess being bi is a huge advantage in those scenarios but I did do group sex a while back and I suppose that could have been described as an orgy. I'd like a room full of people all fucking and licking and sucking, all bodies mixed up, all hot, sweaty, sticky and no one caring what they do or see.

I dream a lot.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Knowing my luck, I'd cone up sucking a Fishermans Friend "

Off to do a username search to see who you will end up with.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've heard descriptions of group sex on here where it was several couples fucking each other then swapping, I'd always wanted to try group sex where everyone was properly interactive with everyone else, I guess being bi is a huge advantage in those scenarios but I did do group sex a while back and I suppose that could have been described as an orgy. I'd like a room full of people all fucking and licking and sucking, all bodies mixed up, all hot, sweaty, sticky and no one caring what they do or see.

I dream a lot. "

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"Knowing my luck, I'd cone up sucking a Fishermans Friend

Off to do a username search to see who you will end up with. "

would love to know if some one here has that name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like to experience an orgy, just a mass of bodies entangled together "

Fecking security and manager

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would like to experience an orgy, just a mass of bodies entangled together

Fecking security and manager "

Hmmmm.... wonder which hotels do 'Group Rooms'....????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Knowing my luck, I'd cone up sucking a Fishermans Friend

Off to do a username search to see who you will end up with.

would love to know if some one here has that name "

If he is, don't tell him ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think that the awareness and better uderstanding of STDs has had an effect? Is there not an element of trust that protection will be used?"

I have a feeling this is what may lie behind it. Despite the arrival of AIDS in the early 80's, bareback was still very much alive and well some years later and this is what used to go on at these parties. Even in a somewhat smaller group situation, it can get a little 'dampening' to be changing condoms time and again as you move from partner to partner, but if you want to maintain a position of safe sex, that's what is needed. Try doing that with 40 people on one carpet/mat as I experienced on a regular basis back then and it ain't easy to do reliably...

Pity though, as an orgy on that scale is a LOT of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in "

if I ever do, you'll be the first to know.... Lol!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

We had no trouble with changing condoms after each shag, it was all just part of it, a breather inbetween women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had no trouble with changing condoms after each shag, it was all just part of it, a breather inbetween women. "
See - silver lining in every cloud lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We had no trouble with changing condoms after each shag, it was all just part of it, a breather inbetween women. See - silver lining in every cloud lol "

Yes although my condoms were flavoured so they were different colours. A veritable rainbow and fruit cocktail, as it were. I wish we could have a fab forumites orgy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had no trouble with changing condoms after each shag, it was all just part of it, a breather inbetween women. See - silver lining in every cloud lol

Yes although my condoms were flavoured so they were different colours. A veritable rainbow and fruit cocktail, as it were. I wish we could have a fab forumites orgy. "

If a 'suitable venue' could be found, I think that could be a go-er...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in "

Me too - I'm parked behind the pampas grass!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We had no trouble with changing condoms after each shag, it was all just part of it, a breather inbetween women. See - silver lining in every cloud lol

Yes although my condoms were flavoured so they were different colours. A veritable rainbow and fruit cocktail, as it were. I wish we could have a fab forumites orgy.

If a 'suitable venue' could be found, I think that could be a go-er... "

As would I be! Lol!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in

Me too - I'm parked behind the pampas grass!"

Have you got the fish swinger symbol on your car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knowing my luck, I'd cone up sucking a Fishermans Friend

Off to do a username search to see who you will end up with.

would love to know if some one here has that name

If he is, don't tell him ffs "

If there wasn't before, there probably is now - be afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in

Me too - I'm parked behind the pampas grass!

Have you got the fish swinger symbol on your car?"

yeah, but I keep getting invited to church by born again christians!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had no trouble with changing condoms after each shag, it was all just part of it, a breather inbetween women. See - silver lining in every cloud lol

Yes although my condoms were flavoured so they were different colours. A veritable rainbow and fruit cocktail, as it were. I wish we could have a fab forumites orgy.

If a 'suitable venue' could be found, I think that could be a go-er...

As would I be! Lol! "

Hmmmm..... might be giving this a bit of thought.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well, count me in. I love getting naked in a group of people.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i d love to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in

Me too - I'm parked behind the pampas grass!"

watch out there might be some holly in that pampas grass

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"We would like to experience an orgy, just a mass of bodies entangled together "

Us too.....^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have an abundance of males and lacking females, but i am sure you will have the names rolling in soon....

Good luck with this....

PS: I don't think the master bedroom will be big enough for this....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Count me in Big Ted!! Less females...more males for me and the other ladies!!!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You know what - that sounds fun!

Count me in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know but if you want to get them started again, we'd like to throw our car keys in

Me too - I'm parked behind the pampas grass!

watch out there might be some holly in that pampas grass "

Indeed. Be careful or you may get a little prick.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have an answer for the condom conundrum: put all twelve on at the beginning and then just whip off the top one each time you change. You'll be less sensitive at the beginning but by the time you get to the penultimate one you should be feeling almost everything.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I have an answer for the condom conundrum: put all twelve on at the beginning and then just whip off the top one each time you change. You'll be less sensitive at the beginning but by the time you get to the penultimate one you should be feeling almost everything. "

Spoken like a woman!

Have you considered the effect on blood supply that a dozen condoms one over the other would have on the guy??????

Medics on standby!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have an answer for the condom conundrum: put all twelve on at the beginning and then just whip off the top one each time you change. You'll be less sensitive at the beginning but by the time you get to the penultimate one you should be feeling almost everything. "

Blimey! I'd win Britain's Got Talent with a quick change act like that!!!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I have an answer for the condom conundrum: put all twelve on at the beginning and then just whip off the top one each time you change. You'll be less sensitive at the beginning but by the time you get to the penultimate one you should be feeling almost everything.

Spoken like a woman!

Have you considered the effect on blood supply that a dozen condoms one over the other would have on the guy??????

Medics on standby!!!!!!!"

Don't be a wuss - it can't be worse than strapping into a shape-changing corset.

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

...........and i volunteer to be the medic and check all the guys are correctly erm, covered.......i'm helpful like that......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...........and i volunteer to be the medic and check all the guys are correctly erm, covered.......i'm helpful like that...... "

You're too kind. would you like me to supply the Marigolds, or will you bring your own.... ??

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I have an answer for the condom conundrum: put all twelve on at the beginning and then just whip off the top one each time you change. You'll be less sensitive at the beginning but by the time you get to the penultimate one you should be feeling almost everything.

Spoken like a woman!

Have you considered the effect on blood supply that a dozen condoms one over the other would have on the guy??????

Medics on standby!!!!!!!

Don't be a wuss - it can't be worse than strapping into a shape-changing corset."

Certainly less painful than a holliwood waxing!!

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

i have proper medical gloves..blue ones...no latex.....or purple if you prefer....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have proper medical gloves..blue ones...no latex.....or purple if you prefer.... "

Oooooh - a selection of colours! Should go nicely with the multi-coloured condoms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose i could be of use to one or two

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