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By *ockchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Just wandering if its our looks or if its because we are not full swap.

Just looking for bi fem within a couple, We know its not for everyone.

Thanks

Rockchick x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What do you want the man in the other couple to do while you are soft swinging with his partner ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wandering if its our looks or if its because we are not full swap.

Just looking for bi fem within a couple, We know its not for everyone.

Thanks

Rockchick x"

You look great so it’s definitely not that I’d say it’s what your looking for that will take time also maybe include some pictures of your partner for a couples profile

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"What do you want the man in the other couple to do while you are soft swinging with his partner ?"

We had kind of a similar thing a few years ago.

Met a couple ( no longer on here)

Who wanted a couple with a bi gem, but the hubby wanted to join in but I wasn't allowed to and only wanted to meet up as a couple.

So yeah basically I was expected to sit in the corner twiddling my thumbs whilst they had a good old time AND they wanted us to pay for the hotel!!!

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By *oughmanMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

I'm I missing something? I just woke up so it's possible. But wouldn't it be better to look for a bi women instead of looking for a couple and not wanting anything to do with the other half?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just wandering if its our looks or if its because we are not full swap.

"

Your thread title asks "what are we doing wrong"

have you considered it might be your profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile is a weird combination of talking about yourselves in the 1st and 3rd person. Makes it look a little suspect despite the verifications.

People will also wonder why there are no photos of him if you are a couple.

Oh and the 'fab is a publicly traded entity' shite is a filter for some people so maybe lose that too

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Op it's nothing to do with how you look nor the type of play your into..

It's the scenario as others have rightly said which will limit the pool of other couples who want that too..

As Doughman said maybe look for a bi fem..

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

The definition of bi female hints that she might be interested in Mr too. Yet no pics of him. This and making it clear about who will or won’t be joining in might help

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're more likely to find what you're looking for at clubs. Many couples who go will play play bi-fem and soft swap.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

You look fantastic in your pics - stunning figure.

Not having pics of Mr on your profile would mean that we’d walk on by so maybe others think like us too.

If we are all going in a room together to get naked, we’d want to see each person regardless of who was playing together.

K

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By *ockchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Noted and editing now many thanks

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By *aintsnsinnersCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We have met a couple that only play with my wife but they are full swap and are happy for me to video which was fun

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, not all couples will just want girl on girl fun, followed by play with their own partner only. So yes, I think that will be impacting your chances.

You're leaving one partner out really for a bit, so unless they really get off on watching 2 fems, it probably won't appeal.

As someone else said, why not look for a woman to join you, that way you'd all be involved.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Noted and editing now many thanks "

It reads much better now. Far clearer although I am curious who the second woman in the FFF is.

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By *ockchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We have regular friends and we all fancy a fff.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Hmmmmmmmm the women seem to be doing an awful lot .....

Soft swap = touchy feely the other bloke

F on F = All the stuff with another Fem - men sit it out.

M on F = has to be back with your own partner.

Seems to me the bi fem bit is always for male entertainment ...

How about the women get it on and orgasm all night in a private room..... sounds a better deal to me.

I don't think you are doing anything wrong - Just not offering much at all except for a bi woman who woman who wants sex with another woman and we don't need men for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it’s the green trainers says h

what were you thinking pal ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Profile looks great now..

Good luck in Liverpool. It was Graduation day yesterday and a bit packed

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
over a year ago

North West

So much better now there are pics of both of you.

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By *ockchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Its called style and a geniuses favourite colour is green lol

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By *ockchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Its called style and a geniuses favourite colour is green lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its called style and a geniuses favourite colour is green lol "

Great profile they pictures look brilliant best of luck getting what you’re looking for

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By *ockchick OP   Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Many thanks x

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