FabSwingers.com forum: Love Making

By *art_Time_Lover_69 OP Man
17 weeks ago

Southport

Has the art of life making died! I mean maybe fab isn't the place to indulge in such practice but for me it is a pivotal part of building that intimacy no matter what the situation.

Thoughts? Do you rate it? Is it something you want from a meet?

Maybe gojng soft in my mature years 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

What do you class as "love" making?

I prefer passionate sex over a pounding.

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By *sWyldWoman
17 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm with Mrs Knights on this ..

I want passionate, full on intense and slow.

I don't want to just be fucked. I want all the kissing, touching, exploring, eye contact, being pulled in closer stuff. Heck I even love it when they hold my hands in theirs.

Also I've found it plenty on fab

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By *oughmanMan
17 weeks ago

Sunderland

I certainly hope not. There are ones here that like to get done and go but I've always liked to take my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"I'm with Mrs Knights on this ..

I want passionate, full on intense and slow.

I don't want to just be fucked. I want all the kissing, touching, exploring, eye contact, being pulled in closer stuff. Heck I even love it when they hold my hands in theirs.

Also I've found it plenty on fab

100% this

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By *aintsnsinnersCouple
17 weeks ago

Tamworth

We love a guy that is sensual, kissing, caressing, caring, skilled, makes love to my wife.

Then when she needs fucking, well she needs fucking

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By *allnHandsome12Man
17 weeks ago

Teesside

"Has the art of life making died! I mean maybe fab isn't the place to indulge in such practice but for me it is a pivotal part of building that intimacy no matter what the situation.

Thoughts? Do you rate it? Is it something you want from a meet?

Maybe gojng soft in my mature years 😂"

I hope it’s hasn’t OP else my sex life is destined to be disappointing for all involved 😂

I can’t do ‘just sex’ there has to be eye contact,, exploring, kissing, caressing, the slow down/speed up of hands, lips and all body parts haha

Why do you ask OP? Have you found meets changing for you?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"What do you class as "love" making?

I prefer passionate sex over a pounding.

Don’t lie, you love the spider grip 😂😂😂

The mr

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By *edSirenWoman
17 weeks ago

magic mountain

I prefer sensual build up to a hard fucking 👌🏻

But. Each method has their place in time and situation. In the right circumstances, slow and sensual can be 🤤

I’d still miss having my hair pulled though 😁

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By *iddle ManMan
17 weeks ago

Walsall

Sensual, passionate are all key words and the minimum requirements I feel. Making love sounds robotic.

I do much prefer fucking though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't want love making. Love is between my husband and I.

It's possible to have sex without love being involved. I want the person I'm with to care about me in the moment and I them, to think fondly of me afterwards and I don't want to feel used but *for me* 'love making' is not possible with someone I don't know very well

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By *ceKweenWoman
17 weeks ago

Bolton

There’s a time and a place for all kinds of sex but love making far excels just fucking

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By *agertha73Couple
17 weeks ago

Cardiff

"I don't want love making. Love is between my husband and I.

Agreed. We're not here for love making, we're here for the art.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Is up there with forehead kisses and them telling you how beautiful you are mid fuck.

Pass.

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By *oeBeansMan
17 weeks ago

Derby

I prefer it sort of slow and sensual so that I can really take in all the feeling rather than a hard pounding which is totally not because my cardio is absolutely shit 👀

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It doesn't have to be soft and slow to be making love.

But, that's something I do with my partners. For someone classing as a meet on here it's definitely aiming for something a lot more casual. I don't want to make love with casual fucks 💜

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By *ripfillMan
17 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

"There’s a time and a place for all kinds of sex but love making far excels just fucking "

Agree 👍

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By *allnHandsome12Man
17 weeks ago

Teesside

After reading replies it seems the phrase love making has different meanings for us. From a fab meet I can’t see how ‘love making’ can truly happen as the feelings are different however I think the art of sensual build up can be considered love making.

There definitely is excitement from hot, vigourous sex from the outset and the longer more seductive type in any meet i think.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
17 weeks ago

Norwich

I love sensual sex. Give me a delicious orgasm with plenty of foreplay.

Pounding sex literally makes me dry. I get nothing from it.

However I only call it love making if I'm in love with the man otherwise it's just sex but great sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I don't want love making. Love is between my husband and I.

Agreed. We're not here for love making, we're here for the art."

I'm only here for the beer. I think you need to be a certain vintage to get that 😬

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By *ife NinjaMan
17 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Sex is dull. Love making is divine 🤓

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By *sWyldWoman
17 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Is up there with forehead kisses and them telling you how beautiful you are mid fuck.

Pass."

See those are things I crave!

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Is up there with forehead kisses and them telling you how beautiful you are mid fuck.

Pass.

See those are things I crave!

If he kisses me on the forehead I feel like I'm having sex with my grandma. And I don't really want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"What do you class as "love" making?

I prefer passionate sex over a pounding.

Don’t lie, you love the spider grip 😂😂😂

The mr "

I can't even say I don't.... 🥵

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Has the art of life making died! I mean maybe fab isn't the place to indulge in such practice but for me it is a pivotal part of building that intimacy no matter what the situation.

Thoughts? Do you rate it? Is it something you want from a meet?

Maybe gojng soft in my mature years 😂"

I make love with my husband

I fck my BF

😈

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By *annetMan
17 weeks ago

Oldham

Lucky fella 😉

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham

"I don't want love making. Love is between my husband and I.

Perfect answer! 😍

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By *isskxxyvWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

"Is up there with forehead kisses and them telling you how beautiful you are mid fuck.

Pass.

See those are things I crave!

I also love this.. but only sometimes.. I also like to be used like a total whore.. figures🙊

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By *isskxxyvWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

"Is up there with forehead kisses and them telling you how beautiful you are mid fuck.

Pass.

See those are things I crave!

You make these forums😂😂😂

If he kisses me on the forehead I feel like I'm having sex with my grandma. And I don't really want that. "

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Is up there with forehead kisses and them telling you how beautiful you are mid fuck.

Pass.

See those are things I crave!

I also love this.. but only sometimes.. I also like to be used like a total whore.. figures🙊"

Same! As long as you get those head kisses afterwards, all is good 😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
17 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Versatility is key. Happy to make love missionary, hands clasped kissing as much as I am pounding from behind like a demented fuck machine with a handful of hair. I find a nice transition is a slow hand to the throat from missionary to spoons.

Last time I mentioned throat play I was DM'd with "you're fucking weird" 😂

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By * and R cple4Couple
17 weeks ago

swansea

I'm not looking to make love with anyone we meet on fab that's between me and my husband.

I think to make love you have to have some kind of romantic feelings with that persons.

We just have friends that we have a great laugh with and have great sex with.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

"I prefer sensual build up to a hard fucking 👌🏻

But. Each method has their place in time and situation. In the right circumstances, slow and sensual can be 🤤

I’d still miss having my hair pulled though 😁"

This … a nice balance between the two and I am happy 🍭😁

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By *vaRoseWoman
17 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Sex without chemistry, passion intensity and wanting is just not for me.

I like a good hard fuck but that has got to be part of a much longer sensual and passionate encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I only make love. I am a soft, gentle lover. I prefer to have sex this way.

I don’t have to like you or be in love with you to have this ‘making love’ type sex. Don’t read into it.

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By *ustus5555Woman
17 weeks ago

Mansfield

Long,slow,intense is for me. A wham bam has its place at times but its usually the former for me. X

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By *ilva69Man
17 weeks ago

stockport

Yes, gentle lovemaking definitely has a place in swingers community, it’s not all about the guy climaxing, a good threesome can be extended by getting to know the people as well as their likes

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By *eliWoman
17 weeks ago

I don't think it's lovemaking unless you're in love.

I get that it's used as a shorthand to signal a more sensual intensity, sex that leans in to eroticism rather than primal lust but... it's not lovemaking. Besides, making love doesn't have to be this tender, soft lighting, tears on orgasm, all of that.

I enjoy lots of different styles of sex. It has a place on Fab. Still not sure about lovemaking though.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester

Isn't love making more about the person you're having sex with rather than the sex itself?

Love making can be slow and sensual or passionate and animalistic it's more about being in love with the person and wanting to express that physically

I have slow and sensual sex with people I'm not in love with all the time I wouldn't say that is making love. But then making love is a phrase I would never use anyway.

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By *edSirenWoman
17 weeks ago

magic mountain

"Versatility is key. Happy to make love missionary, hands clasped kissing as much as I am pounding from behind like a demented fuck machine with a handful of hair. I find a nice transition is a slow hand to the throat from missionary to spoons.

Last time I mentioned throat play I was DM'd with "you're fucking weird" 😂"

You arrrrre fucking weird 😝😁

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By *edSirenWoman
17 weeks ago

magic mountain

"I prefer sensual build up to a hard fucking 👌🏻

But. Each method has their place in time and situation. In the right circumstances, slow and sensual can be 🤤

I’d still miss having my hair pulled though 😁

This … a nice balance between the two and I am happy 🍭😁"

Exactly. Switching it up is the best kind of sex… but with me it will almost always descend into a little bit of rough 😈

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Like all sex there is a place for it

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