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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously can't even get a conversation out of most women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of most woman?

Clearly you can from some as you’ve had meet verifications

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By *carlettsWoman
over a year ago

Harpenden

Suppose it depends how you start the conversation as some of the crude messages I receive I instantly delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just concentrate on the ones you can get a conversation with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Seriously can't even get a conversation out of most women "

Are you trying to make conversation about a topic they have no interest or knowledge in ?

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By *valiceslutTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it! "

Agree - three great veris …. All from women who have found you charming, a great kisser and social.

Your profile is articulate and clear. It outlines what you like and what you can do.

Your photos are similar. The obligatory cock shot to show you’re still male but indispersed with clothes and full face photos.

Like the other women have said, maybe it is what you’re saying that has resulted in no replies ….. or that you’re now reaching the ying of no replies to the Yang of encounters you’ve had! The universe is after a balance …. After feast …. Comes famine!

Buckle up x

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By *igblackchocolateMan
over a year ago

London & Essex

Depends which ones you go for and do they like what they see in the piks and on the profile do what they read captivates there attention and fo you tick the box to what they look for

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

You poor thing

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Are you that bad in what way ?

Looks or conversation ?

If it's conversation you REALLY want , try other real life , face to face places.

What you mean is SEX you can't get a sexual interest from women on here.

There may be many reasons but ONE reason is this...... ( a bit of imagination needed here )

Idris: Hi Granny. Did you see the eclipse of the moon last week? Wasn't it breathtakingly stunning ?

Granny glances at his picture quickly...

Granny thinking : Hmmmm great convo but if I start to share what I think about the moon he will tell me about the time he stuck his cock in it and then ask me if I could get a moon up my clunge and I JUST DON'T FANCY HIM.

Conversation AND unwanted sex...... over.

Granny goes back to reading the forum while Idris pisses in the wind on Mums net.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

You started the thread before 6 in the morning

When I’ve logged on to FAB after 12 and before 6 I can safely say that the guys that have messaged us aren’t wanting any normal conversations 😱

K

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Do they say they've stuck their cock in a partial eclipse ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

maybe they look at the profile before answering messages

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

What bad?

Most people aren't compatible with most people 💜

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Most women hey. 🙄

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan

This is the most please talk to me I’m a nice guy post I’ve ever seen

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Hiding


"You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it!

Agree - three great veris …. All from women who have found you charming, a great kisser and social.

Your profile is articulate and clear. It outlines what you like and what you can do.

Your photos are similar. The obligatory cock shot to show you’re still male but indispersed with clothes and full face photos.

Like the other women have said, maybe it is what you’re saying that has resulted in no replies ….. or that you’re now reaching the ying of no replies to the Yang of encounters you’ve had! The universe is after a balance …. After feast …. Comes famine!

Buckle up x

"

I think we must be looking at different profiles, or maybe OP decided to take minimalist approach...

OP, is your profile showing you in the best light possible? Explaining to people why they should choose you over thousands of other guys? If yes, don't change a thing.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

can't you just meet the women you have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

without opening your profile I knew exactly what it would be like

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo."

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo."

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. "
another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

You carry on doing what your doing guys, can't imagine why your not having any success

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread "

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand?

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Aye

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? "
you've puy zero effort into your profile text

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
over a year ago

Chester

These women who have their own choices, how dare they?!

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text"

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"These women who have their own choices, how dare they?! "

Disgusting if you ask me

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"You’re doing far better than most by the looks of it!

Agree - three great veris …. All from women who have found you charming, a great kisser and social."

I know someone who said in her veri that the bloke was good with his hands. What she was referring to was he could play the guitar. Just saying...🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less "
But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"These women who have their own choices, how dare they?!

Disgusting if you ask me "

Exactly what we're chatting about!! 😂 😂 😂

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

When you start pointing fingers at someone, you have 4 more pointing back at you

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read"

Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here x

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"These women who have their own choices, how dare they?!

Disgusting if you ask me

Exactly what we're chatting about!! 😂 😂 😂 "

Yeah just be chilled fellas if someone wants it speak they will. Same as anywhere in life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read

Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here x"
didn't think there was anything subtle about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People chill.. it was a frustrated post

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Aye terrible buddy 🤣🤣🤣

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By *exxyyDy11Man
over a year ago

North West

You've got three verifications OP. You're doing better well by fab standards. As for most not wanting to chat, it is fab. Single guys are at a disadvantage due to the numbers. Either keep perserving or continue chatting to those who you've met or talked too before.

You need a thick skin on here. Rejection is part and parcel of being on here. We all get rejected. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that is fine.

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read

Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here xdidn't think there was anything subtle about it"

It is comical being abused for my profile by a hidden profile just be nice petal life’s too short 😂

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read

Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here xdidn't think there was anything subtle about it

It is comical being abused for my profile by a hidden profile just be nice petal life’s too short 😂"
I'm not abusing you I just can't understand how people can complain when they put zero effort in

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By *eviant87Man
over a year ago

wigan


"That's fair enough.

I think the thing with most is, when you are a genuine person and your message gets read and deleted, not even a "thank you but no" majority of the time.

Yet we see many ladies saying a good message trumps looks,

I guess majority allow ourselves to get into our own head sometimes.

I've learnt not to let it both me now, however I think we should encourage the acknowledgement of those that actually put time into messages rather than, "select dick pic, send message". Cringe that grown men are having their cock as a profile picture imo.

Just treat the place like a pub and think if that woman was in a pub do I think she’d come over and speak to me or would I go and speak to her and get a good response. I’m not going to message an unbelievably good looking woman as I’m not going to get her attention off the site. Then you don’t set yourself up for failure. That’s my way anyway also as single men on here we’re not the power imagine what the girls inboxes are like must be a minefield so just don’t worry and move on with it mate. another one whose profile is could guess. I'm becoming quite the mind reader on this thread

What do you mean sorry I don’t understand? you've puy zero effort into your profile text

I don’t see it matters if you send a message that’s has effort in but opinions are opinions. I just think it comes down to the female or partner deciding you’re not for them and that’s fine nothing more nothing less But most people read the profile before opening the message. You can send the best message but if you haven't got a good profile it won't even get read

Yeah maybe I was just trying to be nice to the lad and help him out but I’ll take your subtle dig and continue on my merry little way. Hope you find what you’re after on here xdidn't think there was anything subtle about it

It is comical being abused for my profile by a hidden profile just be nice petal life’s too short 😂I'm not abusing you I just can't understand how people can complain when they put zero effort in"

I didn’t complain petal not once I was chatting to the guy who seemed he was in a bit of a shitter being nice. Anyway I’m bored enjoy your night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair enough.

Totally get your POV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You started the thread before 6 in the morning

When I’ve logged on to FAB after 12 and before 6 I can safely say that the guys that have messaged us aren’t wanting any normal conversations 😱

K"

This made me lol!!! It's so true!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Well I would just like to say someone on this thread has taken my advice and now has a Well written profile

My work here is done

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