FabSwingers.com forum: Xxx

By *EAT..85 OP Woman
16 weeks ago

Nottingham

Do you put kisses at the end of messages?

Is this to everyone or to specific categories of people?

If you don't and someone puts it on their message, would you respond in kind?

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By *rdere OpusCouple
16 weeks ago

Brum - ish

No - or rarely, if it makes sense in the context. I don’t add them just because the other person is.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
16 weeks ago

Beverley

It's been that long since I've sent an initial message that I honestly don't know.

I don't think I do first time around, but respond in kind

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

No.

If you get into the habit of doing it then on the one time you forget they are all "why no x, what's a matter with you?". It's easier to just not.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I do, I don't know why I do I just do it xxx

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
16 weeks ago

Reading

I do sometimes. An ex used to always add 'Xx' to the end of messages and I always hated how the first x is capitalised and the second isn't. But I never said anything. But I'd sometimes send my own lone x to him in return. I'll do it sometimes but there's no pattern to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Used to, but things would be misinterpreted by the recipient over the number of xs or if I forgot to put any. So I’ve just stopped to everyone now

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By *exxyyDy11Man
16 weeks ago

North West

I do yeah x

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

One kiss.. and that's only so because no kisses seems harsh 🤷‍♀️

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By *avie65Man
16 weeks ago

In the west.

I do that quite a lot. I also do it to my mates from time to time. Some of the replies I’ve had include a lot of choice words to say the least.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
16 weeks ago

North West

Not really - only with those I have gotten to know well

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By *ooBulMan
16 weeks ago

SNottingham

Oh Op, I do this unconsciously .... Holy Crap!

Is this not helping? I've never really given it much consideration to be frank.

To be honest - "I don't really care!" It amuses me.

I've done it & women reply to me. It doesn't seem to bother them really then does it.

I am quite chilled out & kissing my heels (no drugs needed.)

A lovely femme fetale will reply if she wishes too!

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By *viatrixWoman
16 weeks ago

Redhill

Only to someone I want to send kisses to.

I didn’t grow up with this xxx or xoxoxox meaning kisses/affection, so still feels weird to me.

I prefer the emoji 😘😘😘😘😘 when I used to correspond with the husband back in the 90s by email it was :-* or :*

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By *y serendipityCouple
16 weeks ago

Warrington

I do or use 💋 xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
16 weeks ago

Leeds

No never.

The mr

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By *midnight-Woman
16 weeks ago

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I'm an inconsistent xx'er

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By *each needs some creamWoman
16 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's normal one kiss on everyday messages and to casual chat x.

With someone special it can be loads of xxxxxxx or 💋

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By *aizyWoman
16 weeks ago

west midlands

"I'm an inconsistent xx'er

Same, Midnight xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Always handy when chatting to couples

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By *riel13Woman
16 weeks ago

Northampton

It depends who I'm messaging but I pit kissy face emojis not an x... I don't send kisses to anyone I wouldn't kiss

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By *riel13Woman
16 weeks ago

Northampton

"It depends who I'm messaging but I put kissy face emojis not an x... I don't send kisses to anyone I wouldn't kiss"

Bloody check your spelling before posting woman!!

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By *oeBeansMan
16 weeks ago

Derby

It varies to be honest. I wouldn't usually but if another woman does it then I'll tend to do the same. I've actually picked up when I'm in the doghouse before when they haven't put it at the end of their message 😅

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By *aizyWoman
16 weeks ago

west midlands

"It varies to be honest. I wouldn't usually but if another woman does it then I'll tend to do the same. I've actually picked up when I'm in the doghouse before when they haven't put it at the end of their message 😅"

Frantically checking back through all of our msgs now! 😱

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By *midnight-Woman
16 weeks ago

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By *midnight-Woman
16 weeks ago

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"It depends who I'm messaging but I put pissy face emojis not an x... I don't send pisses to anyone I wouldn't kiss

Bloody check your spelling before posting woman!!

FIFY

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I prefer y.

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By *rHotNottsMan
16 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I do sometimes when I reply with a short message like….. Ok or yeah let’s do that x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"No. If you get into the habit of doing it then on the one time you forget they are all "why no x, what's a matter with you?". It's easier to just not."

Totally putting kisses at the end of my next message to you. Just to piss you off. xx

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By *eoBloomsMan
16 weeks ago

Springfield

I use it often with friends and family but no biggie if it gets missed. x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
16 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Just depends

Sometimes I might put a kiss. Wouldn't really take much notice if someone sent me a kiss or not except my late partner

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

My answer is NO, I don’t use or respond in kind with

I hope, that’s not being rude? It’s never my thing. But, big with emojis 😚🥰🥂

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
16 weeks ago

kent

"Do you put kisses at the end of messages?

Is this to everyone or to specific categories of people?

If you don't and someone puts it on their message, would you respond in kind? "

In private messages, I do to people I’d quite like to kiss. On the forum, I do sometimes, just because x

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"I'm an inconsistent xx'er

Same, Midnight xxx"

Same, Daizy xxxx

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By *allnHandsome12Man
16 weeks ago

Teesside

Outside of very close family I won’t use them , sometimes I’ll lead or reciprocate here so I don’t come across as blunt but overall I’m a light user of the X!

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

No. It's never been habitual. A few years ago, on here, a woman with whom I was chatting remarked that I never signed off with an "xx".

It just never occurred to me and I was surprised by her remark.

Now, maybe once in a while I will. These days the saviour is the "🩶" emoji for me.

I can't get used to the "xx"... ...

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

Sometimes. If I’m sending kisses it doesn’t matter which gender I’m sending to though

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By *orkshir20308Man
9 weeks ago

near by

I put a kiss x

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By *.R.MMan
9 weeks ago

Norfolk

Sometimes

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Every message when it comes to my son anyone else only if they add a x to the end of there message first

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Only to some people, and not all of the time. It varies. I usually wait and if they use a X than I will too.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

No I never do but many people do.

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By *ceKweenWoman
9 weeks ago

Bolton

Very rarely do it, so when I do, I mean it

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen

No, I never have. I dont know why I am quite an affectionate person

🤷‍♀️

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By *liceDarkTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Worksop

Not since HR called me in to their office.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
9 weeks ago

Altrincham

I don't add kisses as I see that as 'sending them a kiss' and I don't want to send a stranger a kiss until I get to know them better

🚫💋

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