FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By *atman_and_PoisonIvy OP Couple
3 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

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By *ongAndThick123Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I block if I’m not interested. It saves the abusive messages that come from not responding, or from politely declining.

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By *irsSubCouple
3 weeks ago

Darlington

I get blocking after chatting or seeing face pics, however cold. Sending a first message then blocking has happen to us a few times and left us confused as well

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
3 weeks ago

east lothian

We’ve blocked people for a lot of different reasons if Mrs gets a bad vibe then we usually block that’s probably the main reason tbh (mr)

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Anyone I don't want to see, and their mutuals.

Males who message and persist after a polite "penis ain't for me thanks". Any profile that displays traits/opinions/wants that don't align with mine.

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By *oughmanMan
3 weeks ago

Sunderland

Well, yeah, that would be a pretty good reason to block. I have to wonder how much success they actually have with openers like that? And these are the ones that will later go on to whine that they can't get a meet. With a gem like that what did they expect?

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I use the block button regularly.

Some of my reasons are :

-Pests who won't take no for an answer or keep asking to meet, when I've said no.

-Creepy messages from forum posts that have been turned sexual, even if the post wasn't.

-Profiles in my updates where I don't like their pics or they post horrible statuses naming or shaming others.

-if they regularly make unsavoury forum comments.

-Anyone who is rude or abusive to me in a message.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also if I've chatted to someone and they say something that puts me off or is a red flag, I block.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
3 weeks ago

London

Blocking:

Hey sexy

I'm in London on Tuesday afternoon for work can we fuck

I can make you squirt

I like to lick pussy for days

Do you want a young guy

Your pussy looks juicy

Now?

Tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I've gone through phases of blocking.

These days I just can't be arsed, I only have an ex blocked currently.

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Blocking:

Hey sexy

I'm in London on Tuesday afternoon for work can we fuck

I can make you squirt

I like to lick pussy for days

Do you want a young guy

Your pussy looks juicy

Now?

Tonight?

They’d do well to lick it for days if they’re only there on Tuesday afternoon or maybe the tongue will go 5 times as fast 🤣

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
3 weeks ago

London

"Blocking:

Hey sexy

I'm in London on Tuesday afternoon for work can we fuck

I can make you squirt

I like to lick pussy for days

Do you want a young guy

Your pussy looks juicy

Now?

Tonight?

They’d do well to lick it for days if they’re only there on Tuesday afternoon or maybe the tongue will go 5 times as fast 🤣"

I should have clarified these are not necessarily all one person

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By *ongAndThick123Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Blocking:

Hey sexy

I'm in London on Tuesday afternoon for work can we fuck

I can make you squirt

I like to lick pussy for days

Do you want a young guy

Your pussy looks juicy

Now?

Tonight?

Free?

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvy OP Couple
3 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

"Blocking:

Hey sexy

I'm in London on Tuesday afternoon for work can we fuck

I can make you squirt

I like to lick pussy for days

Do you want a young guy

Your pussy looks juicy

Now?

Tonight?

They’d do well to lick it for days if they’re only there on Tuesday afternoon or maybe the tongue will go 5 times as fast 🤣

I should have clarified these are not necessarily all one person

🤣🤣🤣🤣 could you imagine if it were? I mean bravo and fair play

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

I very rarely block but if they start getting personal and abusive then I will block.

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I only really block if a conversation is going south and they don’t take no for an answer.

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By *anjabi princessWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

yeah I blocked the rude man who wants something for nothing and abuse women off-line. They can’t handle rejection instead of bully you and report you for no reason because they can’t handle rejection.

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

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I tend to block if I find them offensive to women or minority groups

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By *idnightMischiefMan
3 weeks ago

London

I have a massive block list - these are my main reasons:

Not attracted to someone who always shows up in my search.

Their profile text indicates that they're not interested in someone like me.

Message sent by a hairy panty-wearing crossdresser that grosses me out when I see them.

Someone I know in real life.

Rudeness or bad attitude.

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvy OP Couple
3 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Persistent creepy viewers who aren't our type, don't communicate and just view every activity you do

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I have a massive block list - these are my main reasons:

Not attracted to someone who always shows up in my search.

Their profile text indicates that they're not interested in someone like me.

Message sent by a hairy panty-wearing crossdresser that grosses me out when I see them.

Someone I know in real life.

Rudeness or bad attitude.

Isn’t your comment about “hairy panty wearing cross dressers that gross you out when you see them” both rude and/or bad attitude which you also state you don’t like!

Just because you don’t like them doesn’t mean you have to react like that

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By *ackdaw52Man
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Constantly posting stomach churning pics.

Abusive messages (men get them, too)

Badgering me for meets when they know I'm not interested.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I’m a reluctant blocker and my block list is very small.

No shows with the temerity to context me again.

Anyone with strongly (ie violently) homophobic views or tendencies.

People who are associating with people I actively dislike.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
3 weeks ago

west london

Blocked someone the other day...he messaged us and we never replied so second message was abuse!!!

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By *iss DevilWoman
3 weeks ago

Bedford

I block for a variety of reasons. Including those who keep looking at my profile/sending me friends requests without any message. The hardest blocks are for people who I was chatting to with a view of meeting but they said something that made my spidey sense tingle, or said something really crude and out of character.

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Watermouth

Males are blocked on mass.

Anyone who starts a conversation then just fades away, they are judged to not to be interested in meeting, it happens too often.

Anyone who is not for us, our kind, that's not many we are very open minded.

Anyone who is abusive we block.

Sometime we block those blocked by our friends.

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

Can be lots of reasons. Obviously the ones you can tell are fake straight away. Those that totally ignored what profile says, unless is just a nice message or responce to a thread or similar. By far the ones I block most is those who have been abusive or hold abhorent opinions in what they post or send totally inappropriate messages. I think that's it

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By *ritasiancoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

london

Unfortunately people don't read the profile and start messaging about things you've specifically stated explicitly stated you're not looking for (Blocked)

Or when we get "couples" where the guy just wants more and more and more details about how I have sex with my partner... Couple? Yeah right! (Blocked)

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvy OP Couple
3 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

I don't think I would've blocked for that. It was a message and if you're judging that as unsolicited then everyone is sending unsolicited. He obviously likes your profile and asked you a question. But it's your call

We're very chatty and tolerant tbh

Our block list is very small. Only people that persistently message.. or single males that come in hot and heavy with messages like that.

For one.. it proves they haven't properly read our profile as right at the top it says that 'we're not interested in single males, so being honest.. save yourself the time and please do not message. '

May seem harsh to block, but let's be honest... what good would have come from the conversation if we had replied?

It's not what we're looking for in the first place and the reason why we haven't set THAT particular filter, we have friends who are single males who are also in couples who we enjoy chatting to and have regular connection with.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

We're very chatty and tolerant tbh

Our block list is very small. Only people that persistently message.. or single males that come in hot and heavy with messages like that.

May seem harsh to block, but let's be honest... what good would have come from the conversation if we had replied?

True. To be honest I didnt check your bio and if it states that then yeah, fully get it. Although, and not intending to double down 😂 I would've just ignored. Persistence. Fuck yes. Block, seek and destroy. 😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I’m a reluctant blocker and my block list is very small.

No shows with the temerity to context me again.

Anyone with strongly (ie violently) homophobic views or tendencies.

People who are associating with people I actively dislike. "

Yes Glow. The last one. I blocked a clique. That was very cathartic.

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvy OP Couple
3 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

In context, however we did have a single male message... and it made our day and was worthy of a decent reply.

In keeping with our Batman theme, his opening message was something like:-

"Good evening caped crusaders... Robin here. I think we might need to take down Poison Ivy together as a dynamic duo. She was last spotted causing trouble in Gotham, should we meet up and discuss the plan of action at the Batcave"

Which we were charmed by and thought was incredibly sweet and put a smile on our faces, despite not being what we're after.

Sometimes, you got to love a chancer.. commendable.

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By *oodoodMan
3 weeks ago

Suffolkish

Rarely block anyone but I've been blocked a few times after sending face pic 😆 it's very character forming

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"In context, however we did have a single male message... and it made our day and was worthy of a decent reply.

In keeping with our Batman theme, his opening message was something like:-

Which we were charmed by and thought was incredibly sweet and put a smile on our faces, despite not being what we're after.

Sometimes, you got to love a chancer.. commendable. "

Oh very good, throw in a few 'Joker' quips a 'riddle me' and a penguin mention and K-Pow he would have landed in the Batcave.

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands

I don't block very often tbh, I find it hard to be bothered enough to block someone.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

They delete my message so don't disturb again

They mention drugs

They seek money

They ignore what's on my profile

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By *eoBloomsMan
3 weeks ago

Springfield

I block completely randomly to keep things interesting so please dont take it personally. I blocked myself for ten days once.🤦‍♂️

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I don't block very often tbh, I find it hard to be bothered enough to block someone."

Likewise. I think the only people I’ve blocked have been guys who regularly (very regularly) contacted me asking to suck my cock. Like, to a boring level of messaging weekly or daily. I’m straight, I’m not interested, leave me alone.

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By *ony MannMan
3 weeks ago

South Newton

I'll block , mostly when they get abusive

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I have more single woman and couples on my block list than single males

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I don’t block very often but the few I have are people that message persistently, if I’ve ignored the first 15 offers to ‘pop round now….’ then chances are I’m not intetested! 😄

Also, people that are very local and I think I might know them, easier to block than chance being recognised xx

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I'm actually really surprised I haven't blocked myself. I have messaged myself twice.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I’m a reluctant blocker and my block list is very small.

No shows with the temerity to context me again.

Anyone with strongly (ie violently) homophobic views or tendencies.

People who are associating with people I actively dislike.

Yes Glow. The last one. I blocked a clique. That was very cathartic."

You mean there are multiple cliques?

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands

"I'm actually really surprised I haven't blocked myself. I have messaged myself twice."

I've done that too, it annoys me no end seeing I've msged myself twice at the top of my profile

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
3 weeks ago

North West/Sometimes South West

"I'm actually really surprised I haven't blocked myself. I have messaged myself twice."

I have done this too 😂😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I'm actually really surprised I haven't blocked myself. I have messaged myself twice.

I've done that too, it annoys me no end seeing I've msged myself twice at the top of my profile

I know. Haha it messes with my Feng suay or however you spell it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've always been a happy blocker. Block for all types of reasons. It's a site tool to use

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By *oorman 2025Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

"I've always been a happy blocker. Block for all types of reasons. It's a site tool to use"
completely agree it helps me filter the people out where's there's no interest in eachother

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands

"I'm actually really surprised I haven't blocked myself. I have messaged myself twice.

I've done that too, it annoys me no end seeing I've msged myself twice at the top of my profile

I know. Haha it messes with my Feng suay or however you spell it"

I've had a drink, spelling looks fine to me

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I'm actually really surprised I haven't blocked myself. I have messaged myself twice.

I've done that too, it annoys me no end seeing I've msged myself twice at the top of my profile

I know. Haha it messes with my Feng suay or however you spell it

I've had a drink, spelling looks fine to me

Using Feng Shui (😂) and you on the ale, D I could possibly rearrange you on the sofa and give you my Chakras to hold. In?

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By *rlandoMan
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Blocking gives me the satisfaction I don't have to come across rude ignorant people again

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By *old MemberMan
3 weeks ago

Worcester

I block anyone that has looked at me and they have a cock as their profile pic.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

I block if I don't like a persons name, their status, pictures. All sorts of reasons.

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By *idnightMischiefMan
3 weeks ago

London

Isn’t your comment about “hairy panty wearing cross dressers that gross you out when you see them” both rude and/or bad attitude which you also state you don’t like!

Just because you don’t like them doesn’t mean you have to react like that "
If I'm grossed out I'm grossed out, and if someone doesn't like my attitude, then they're welcome to block me too. 😉

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By *carlettsWoman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

I often wonder if I will reach the block button limit as i've blocked a lot, mainly for crude, rude or nasty messages

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Loads of reasons, it's a great tool.

Don't like pics

Don't want to see them in updates.

Don't like profile.

Don't like something from the forums.

They look at the profile a lot & I don't like them.

Abusive messages.

Cock pic messages.

Random friends request.

Too local.

Just don't like them 😂

Mrs

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By *andSxxCouple
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Blocking:

Hey sexy

I'm in London on Tuesday afternoon for work can we fuck

I can make you squirt

I like to lick pussy for days

Do you want a young guy

Your pussy looks juicy

Now?

Tonight?

They’d do well to lick it for days if they’re only there on Tuesday afternoon or maybe the tongue will go 5 times as fast 🤣

I should have clarified these are not necessarily all one person

🤣🤣🤣🤣 could you imagine if it were? I mean bravo and fair play"

Omg.. what do they expect after such impotent messages? 😂😂

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By *orseman82Man
3 weeks ago

Marlborough

Block guys who see ‘Straight’ on a profile as a challenge

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By *ony MannMan
2 weeks ago

South Newton

Some friends said does bother with them, so I blocked them

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