FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have a look

By (user no longer on site) OP
17 weeks ago

Do you have a specific look you like?

Have you ever compromised the personality over the look?

Me personally I like the more alternative or rock look but it’s more than the look. It’s also the music that we may have in common or even going to events together

Although for me I need that spark, or the ability to be able to hold each others attention outside of the bedroom (other rooms are available)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ortney FoxxxWoman
17 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

I tend to go for the tall dark handsome (the old cliché) anyone else it was for a bet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
17 weeks ago

kent

Neither of us are attracted by a particular look, and we don’t have much of a look ourselves. Ailsa is half hippy, half mad scientist. I just look scruffy most of the time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aron Van WinkleMan
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

Yes I do have a certain look I like. But my attraction to someone doesn’t begin and end there.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orphia2003Woman
17 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I do love the goth / rocker look and love the music too. Like the OP, it's nice to have common interests with someone. Just adds to the attraction.

That said, I've connected with plenty of people who are the polar opposite of that aesthetic.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wist my nipplesCouple
17 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I’ve realised over time that I tend to like a man with a big face. Not like a massive melon sized noggin, just a more expansive face. It’s absolutely not set in stone though. Also it sounds weird written down

Mrs TMN x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I like people who don’t look like serial killers.

People will just get us confused.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wist my nipplesCouple
17 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I like people who don’t look like serial killers.

People will just get us confused. "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester

Generally with men a little bit "alternative" which can vary from metalheads, goths, indie/hipsters, nerds, big viking looking blokes. Just not mainstream Turkey teeth and fake tan sportsluxe wearing love island types.

I do have a weakness for men who look like middle aged, coffee drinking, guardian reading English teachers with a shoegaze playlist for the car tho which I've mentioned before on here 😅

With women I am very attracted to alt/goth women but also curvaceous brunettes and redheads with pale skin over barbie doll types.

But generally I am attracted to a variety and personality also plays an important factor.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

yes... that 'look' in their eyes that they're thinking/feeling the same as me 😈

As for looks-looks, No, I know it when I see it. There's no defined aesthetic I must see to find someone attractive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inaTitzTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes and I aim for that look in glam mode. Mostly aim to shoot all over their tits

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vaRoseWoman
17 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Ooh looks can vary but there has to be a twinkle in their eyes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ggdrasil66Man
17 weeks ago

Saltdean

I used to sport an ice white Mohawk, but it would look silly on me now I’m of a certain age.’ Same with the skinhead look, I’d look like a thumb.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

I don't experience physical attraction to others in a normal way. So generally when I see someone for the first time (in a picture, say) I'll look for signs of kindness or an openness in their face. It sounds stupid when I write it and it's hard to explain. But I definitely have a 'look' just something that aligns with an idea in my head.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I do have a weakness for men who look like middle aged, coffee drinking, guardian reading English teachers with a shoegaze playlist for the car tho which I've mentioned before on here 😅"

👀

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 28/03/25 12:06:29]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

God dam typos.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *upanovaMan
17 weeks ago

Sheffield

I don't have a type, as my profiles says. I definitely have demisexual and sapiosexual traits.

There needs to be a form of connection as well as an attraction, which is why I like socials first. If we end up in bed afterwards, great!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *upanovaMan
17 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Ooh looks can vary but there has to be a twinkle in their eyes "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"God dam typos."

To be fair, I thought [removed] was your type.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isskxxyvWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

I don’t think I have a type.. however I’m sure there’s others who would disagree 🙈

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I don’t think I have a type.. however I’m sure there’s others who would disagree 🙈"

See, this happens to me.

I don’t think I have a type. But I get accused of having one.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *leasingmyhubsCouple
17 weeks ago

Holbeach

No particular look for me

I really like men my height or taller.

I'm 5'10 and often in 3" heel's

But an amazing sense of humour goes an awfully long way!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Big titty goth girls 😂

I like the Alt look but as long as they're presentable and stylish I don't mind

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"I don’t think I have a type.. however I’m sure there’s others who would disagree 🙈

See, this happens to me.

I don’t think I have a type. But I get accused of having one.

I just figured your type was 'female'

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exxyyDy11Man
17 weeks ago

North West

"I don’t think I have a type.. however I’m sure there’s others who would disagree 🙈"

I'm the same. I think I'm more into connection through similar interests and laughs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I just figured your type was 'female'

^ I like her because she really gets me, y’know?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isskxxyvWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

"I don’t think I have a type.. however I’m sure there’s others who would disagree 🙈

See, this happens to me.

I don’t think I have a type. But I get accused of having one.

You do NOT have a type.. there couldn’t be more variety in the people you dip your stick in 🤣🤣!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Personality and how I gel with someone would be more important than looks to me. I'll chat to anyone, and it's through that I'll become attracted to someone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"You do NOT have a type.. there couldn’t be more variety in the people you dip your stick in 🤣🤣! "

I just like sexy people. And there are lots of different ways to be sexy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLips2.0Woman
17 weeks ago

Debauchery

I don’t really have a type, it’s the personality for me. If you see the different looks of people I’ve been with it’s obvious I don’t. I do however seem to lean to more men that either look on the geeky side

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ikeHawkenerMan
17 weeks ago

If there’s no connection mentally then the physical side wouldn’t work for me

I’ve got to have a balance between the two, someone’s personality, humour, morals and actions can be a massive turn off regardless of how attractive I find them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester

People can definitely be sexy in different ways.

Some people it's the way they look (which can also vary wildly from person to person), some people it's their aura/attitude, some people it's their mind, some people it's their sense of humour. You can't control who you have chemistry with either. Sometimes you just unexpectedly 'fit' with someone and the chemistry is electic and it can take you by surprise.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyLips2.0Woman
17 weeks ago

Debauchery

"People can definitely be sexy in different ways.

This is perfectly put. I 100% agree. This is what it’s like for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eyond PurityCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

It’s all bout the eyes for us…that ‘come here I’m going to eat you alive’ type look…

…but not in the zombie type way it now looks like when I read it back 😬

Hungry eyes and a sexy outlook 🥵

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aizyWoman
17 weeks ago

west midlands

"People can definitely be sexy in different ways.

Exactly this! I thought I had a type when I joined fab when it came to looks, I soon realised I didn't, it is all down to that chemistry and spark.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

For me, I don't have a look I go for at all, it is down to personality, whether they are a genuine nice person, a connection and mutual interests whilst still having different interests as well.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ude LawMan
17 weeks ago

Harrogate

"a sexy outlook 🥵"

You should see my inbox.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isskxxyvWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

"It’s all bout the eyes for us…that ‘come here I’m going to eat you alive’ type look…

…but not in the zombie type way it now looks like when I read it back 😬

Hungry eyes and a sexy outlook 🥵

I most definitely have these type eyes.. hopefully I don’t give zombie esque 🙊

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anderer88Woman
17 weeks ago

essex

"I don't experience physical attraction to others in a normal way. So generally when I see someone for the first time (in a picture, say) I'll look for signs of kindness or an openness in their face. It sounds stupid when I write it and it's hard to explain. But I definitely have a 'look' just something that aligns with an idea in my head."

I feel very simularly to what youve described, it's been quite the journey to discover what I find to be attractive attributes and then how to articulate it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

I feel very simularly to what youve described, it's been quite the journey to discover what I find to be attractive attributes and then how to articulate it. "

Feel free to send me a private message if you wanted to talk about things further. I had a real lightbulb moment talking to friend about it and I hadn't realised how alone I felt until I knew someone else understood me in that way!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avinaTVTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I like men and women who are more on the alternative to goth spectrum. They're more likely to appreciate my music, film and aesthetic tastes. They're also more likely to like my look as well.

🧛🏼‍♀️

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *layfull pairingCouple
17 weeks ago

Bristol

They just have to look a bit “naughty”... and yes, some people do just have a “naughty” vibe about them that’s instantly recognisable...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ooBulMan
17 weeks ago

SNottingham

I like the rock t-shirts/jeans & walking boots look. I like basball boots but prefer semi boots or walking boots. Need to get me some Nike's.... Denim jacket to get too!

However, if going on a hot date then maybe a suit & tie. You gotta look smart for the ladies......

So, I straddle 2 camps really.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *EAT..85Woman
17 weeks ago

Nottingham

I don't think so. Other than a penchant for gingers, I'm open looks wise.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I definitely have a type on paper.

Not one of my favourite people is that type though 🤣

So I think chemistry is the thing.

#searches dor chemistry teacher …

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mmaleiaWoman
17 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Definitely go for the more alternative type, biker or viking aesthetic, a guy with a bit of edge about him

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atman_and_PoisonIvyCouple
17 weeks ago

The Batcave, nr. Cannock

We love curves... and a vibrant personality. For guys, clean, alt, tattooed is a bonus etc

But we're not judgey

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eyond PurityCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"a sexy outlook 🥵

You should see my inbox."

Is it Hotmail or hot males?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
17 weeks ago

Redhill

I like clean-cut, good guys.

Suit, well-groomed, kinda vanilla … no bikers or beards for me 🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣

Height will always get my attention. Tall, not short haha

The look I portray here is kinda sexy and well dressed (or undressed haha) but in everyday life I am quite casual because it is tiring looking sexy all the time. 😉

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mmaleiaWoman
17 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Big titty goth girls 😂

I like the Alt look but as long as they're presentable and stylish I don't mind"

Need more men on fab like this 😏

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Big titty goth girls 😂

I like the Alt look but as long as they're presentable and stylish I don't mind

Need more men on fab like this 😏"

Lol 😅

So I've heard we are few and far between and worse still is one someone can be attracted to or is respectful and decent

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

Tall dark and handsome is the written down version but in reality what I have been attracted to has seen many variants to this. Aside from that something that catches your eye initially, and personality, I have found all manner of things sexy. The way a person holds themself, maybe a little crook in their nose, a scar, their lips, their voice, long hair, short hair, covered in tattoos, a bit of a nerd, an indie/alternative guy … the list goes on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

More often than not I find myself drawn to tall, dark-haired, pretty faced men. But there has and will be exceptions if they're humour matches mine.

With ladies, I'm drawn to curves and kissable lips but again, there's always exceptions.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inceIlkestonMan
17 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Do you have a specific look you like?

Have you ever compromised the personality over the look?

Me personally I like the more alternative or rock look but it’s more than the look. It’s also the music that we may have in common or even going to events together

Although for me I need that spark, or the ability to be able to hold each others attention outside of the bedroom (other rooms are available)"

Clean cut, smart casual, makes an effort

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
17 weeks ago

Niche

I don't have a ticklist or shopping list. It's not Build-A-Bloke. Although that might be kinda fun.

But I am drawn to a certain type of character. It's always way more than simple chemistry.

Good chemistry makes good sex possible.

Good chemistry + character traits + someone I respect makes anything possible.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atman_and_PoisonIvyCouple
17 weeks ago

The Batcave, nr. Cannock

"Big titty goth girls 😂

I like the Alt look but as long as they're presentable and stylish I don't mind

Need more men on fab like this 😏"

Fuck yeah

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread