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"The liars and the dirty dirty dogs..." New to the internet and contact sites I take when you joined  | |||
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"I think for me it was having my messages at the start unread or deleted, I thought how rude and anti-social are people on here. Obviously I realised and read the FAQS to know what the score is on here. Also ninja mode, I didn't even know that was a thing until I saw someone mention it on the forums. " Exact same, used to be confused about why a message wasn’t opened at the least! Never dawned on me that I was just one of hundreds and that lady I messaged was probably inundated 😂 | |||
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"Seeing so many people into watersports, it's a real eye opener." Never keep your eyes open, you could use goggles though if you must | |||
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"Seeing so many people into watersports, it's a real eye opener." I'd keep your eyes shut | |||
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"Seeing so many people into watersports, it's a real eye opener. Never keep your eyes open, you could use goggles though if you must" You're too fast for me, DD🫡 | |||
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"What’s ninja mode?" You can go “Hide on who looked at me” Means you don’t show up when looking at someone’s profile | |||
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"Didn’t really appreciate the ratio on here of men to women "The Sirens of fab draw sailors in from afare with their charms. | |||
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"Not understanding why British men are voyers but never take it further" A friend and I were discussing this the other day as it seems there are many more no-shows now than in the past… or chats that never follow through to meeting. It seems that many are just after the wankety-wank, hahaha we exploded in fits of laughter because “wank” is such a funny word for me. Once the wank is done, they disappear. | |||
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"Not understanding why British men are voyers but never take it further A friend and I were discussing this the other day as it seems there are many more no-shows now than in the past… or chats that never follow through to meeting. It seems that many are just after the wankety-wank, hahaha we exploded in fits of laughter because “wank” is such a funny word for me. Once the wank is done, they disappear. " Yep I find this hugely with most of single female profiles that message me. On 12 months 4 materialised . Couples pretty much the bulk of them just wanted male to meet or just ongoing chit chat. I like to meet fast within 2 weeks socially it club etc as after that it just falls away into most likely not happening in my experience | |||
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"The genuine lack of women" It’s over populated by men. That’s the issue and must women are attached | |||
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"Ppls ability to be offended by the slightest little thing. 🤷" How dare you say such a thing 😂 | |||
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Then that changed
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"That there lot of Men that whinge and men are very bitchy " Does seem like there are a lot of guys lately on the forums moaning because they can't get meets | |||
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"The lack of emojis. A lot of my messages/statuses had ???????? In
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🥹🥰🤩 😻💄💋👑🦄🪼"I was always wondering what you were so curious about 😂 | |||
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"The lack of emojis. A lot of my messages/statuses had ???????? In
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🥹🥰🤩 😻💄💋👑🦄🪼"Oh it used to make me laugh. I'd put a status up, use emoji and then I'd see ????? It proper confused me at first | |||
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"The jealousy. Worse than in conventional dating imo." In what way Bloomsy? Lamp post pissing "she slept with him but won't sleep with me" type (applicable the other way of course but less likely). | |||
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"Also. Fab hot is real. I know, I know. Lots of people claim they get the same attention away from fab but I don’t have 50 people tell me they find me attractive everyday. That was weird to get used to " Dying of thirst watching others drown | |||
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"The jealousy. Worse than in conventional dating imo. In what way Bloomsy? Lamp post pissing "she slept with him but won't sleep with me" type (applicable the other way of course but less likely). " More the behind the scenes stuff, which does spill onto Forum. | |||
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"The jealousy. Worse than in conventional dating imo. In what way Bloomsy? Lamp post pissing "she slept with him but won't sleep with me" type (applicable the other way of course but less likely). More the behind the scenes stuff, which does spill onto Forum. " Ah, Roger that Ghostrider. Getcha | |||
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"The jealousy. Worse than in conventional dating imo. In what way Bloomsy? Lamp post pissing "she slept with him but won't sleep with me" type (applicable the other way of course but less likely). More the behind the scenes stuff, which does spill onto Forum. " I hate it when it spills into the forums and then the Chinese whispers start and it gives credence to the "Clique" claims that go around. Absolute secondary school bullshit. | |||
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"Also how fucking socially inept some people are - especially single men. The complete lack of self awareness and an overestimation of self. Taking shite pictures, endless pics of their ugly cocks and then wondering why women aren’t falling over themselves to get in touch." I totally agree I been looking for social meet for months carnt seem to get one on here no more it's change on here | |||
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"The number of "straight" guys who want sex with other men." 🤣🤣 | |||
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"WHEN THEY FLIPPED ORDER - THE PUBLIC VIDEOS APPEARED ABOVE PUBLIC PHOTOS. 🤬😡 WTF!! Why they messin’ " Fuck sake. I honestly thought it was me that got that wrong. That cucumber and vag vid cannot be unseen | |||
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"The amount of men trying to fuck me who wouldn't look twice at me "in the wild" 😂 The amount of vagina close ups on people's profiles How many men don't know how to take a decent photo How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy " 🤣 thats why I don't attend clubs Much no more it's same people | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy " This is such a good one | |||
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"The abuse I would get for saying “no thanks” " Probably pales into insignificance the amount of abuse you get when you ignore! | |||
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"The amount of men trying to fuck me who wouldn't look twice at me "in the wild" 😂 The amount of vagina close ups on people's profiles How many men don't know how to take a decent photo How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy 🤣 thats why I don't attend clubs Much no more it's same people " This is why I try to vary the clubs/events is attend as it can get very cliquey and you get regulars who just like having sex with the same people. I like variety and no drama | |||
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"How intolerant and judgemental quite a lot of swingers are for such a marginalised lifestyle they lead How much poly people, kinky people and swingers can judge eachother. " ...not just each other but anyone that doesn't fit in their circle of moral stance. But woe betide anyone outside that circle judge them for theirs. That, "how dare they critique my lifestyle choices, they don't know me" contradiction. | |||
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"The abuse I would get for saying “no thanks” " I've never understood the abuse really. Is it hurt egos? | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one" This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄 | |||
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"The amount of men trying to fuck me who wouldn't look twice at me "in the wild" 😂 The amount of vagina close ups on people's profiles How many men don't know how to take a decent photo How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy 🤣 thats why I don't attend clubs Much no more it's same people This is why I try to vary the clubs/events is attend as it can get very cliquey and you get regulars who just like having sex with the same people. I like variety and no drama "I not been for a year | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄" Same could be said for the forums 👀 | |||
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"How intolerant and judgemental quite a lot of swingers are for such a marginalised lifestyle they lead How much poly people, kinky people and swingers can judge eachother. ...not just each other but anyone that doesn't fit in their circle of moral stance. But woe betide anyone outside that circle judge them for theirs. That, "how dare they critique my lifestyle choices, they don't know me" contradiction. " 100%! | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄 Same could be said for the forums 👀" Since using them more regularly I have noticed a bit of this it's like an interesting social experiment | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄" And given the high degree of inbreeding down in West Englandshire you are very likely to end up shagging your cousin, who is also your parent and possibly sibling. If that actually works out. Anyway. 1 degree of separation. *I'll grab my helmet and shield. Give me 2 minutes. | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄 And given the high degree of inbreeding down in West Englandshire you are very likely to end up shagging your cousin, who is also your parent and possibly sibling. If that actually works out. Anyway. 1 degree of separation. *I'll grab my helmet and shield. Give me 2 minutes." Omg😭🤣🤣 | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄 Same could be said for the forums 👀 Since using them more regularly I have noticed a bit of this it's like an interesting social experiment "I haven’t noticed too much yet but I’m new(ish) to the forums xx 😄 | |||
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"The abuse I would get for saying “no thanks” I've never understood the abuse really. Is it hurt egos? " I think it’s more of the fact…cause you’re on here, they think you are “game” with whoever | |||
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"The amount of people who think I’m not real!🤣 " That’s kind of fab law, if you don’t find a profile attractive, you’re fake. The mr | |||
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"The amount of people who think I’m not real!🤣 That’s kind of fab law, if you don’t find a profile attractive, you’re fake. The mr " Or if you get ignored, it must be because the account isn't real | |||
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"The abuse I would get for saying “no thanks” I've never understood the abuse really. Is it hurt egos? I think it’s more of the fact…cause you’re on here, they think you are “game” with whoever " Ahhhh I've gotcha. Well nothing wrong with having standards I say. If some can't understand that, then that's on them | |||
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" How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy This is such a good one This is a good one…..once you start looking through the veris it’s like six degrees of separation . It’s a busy but quite a small scene in Wales xx 😄" Even in London and the South east it's surprisingly small so can only imagine | |||
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"Oh and one thing that was an eye opener is the amount of people on here without their wives or husbands knowing about it. Made me feel uneasy actually. " I bet your wife's not thrilled either! (*joke) | |||
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"Oh and one thing that was an eye opener is the amount of people on here without their wives or husbands knowing about it. Made me feel uneasy actually. I bet your wife's not thrilled either! (*joke)" Told you not to tell anyone | |||
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"Oh and one thing that was an eye opener is the amount of people on here without their wives or husbands knowing about it. Made me feel uneasy actually. I bet your wife's not thrilled either! (*joke) Told you not to tell anyone " | |||
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"Actions and Words are often contradictory. This "Yes, and actions are pretty much all that counts. | |||
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"Not understanding why British men are voyers but never take it further A friend and I were discussing this the other day as it seems there are many more no-shows now than in the past… or chats that never follow through to meeting. It seems that many are just after the wankety-wank, hahaha we exploded in fits of laughter because “wank” is such a funny word for me. Once the wank is done, they disappear. " Equally so there are many women that don’t actually meet I would say at least 50%. So many profiles where the last veri was well over a year ago gets my alarm bells ringing unless they are returning and finally the ladies who like to give one word answers and then wonder why us guys quickly go off the boil. | |||
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"Not understanding why British men are voyers but never take it further A friend and I were discussing this the other day as it seems there are many more no-shows now than in the past… or chats that never follow through to meeting. It seems that many are just after the wankety-wank, hahaha we exploded in fits of laughter because “wank” is such a funny word for me. Once the wank is done, they disappear. Equally so there are many women that don’t actually meet I would say at least 50%. So many profiles where the last veri was well over a year ago gets my alarm bells ringing unless they are returning and finally the ladies who like to give one word answers and then wonder why us guys quickly go off the boil. " I have met men and asked them not to do veris because I don't want what I get upto on here all time | |||
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"It took me a bit of getting used to being blocked by those you've never interacted with. It also took a bit of getting used to how many don't look like their pictures " I'm still blocked by people I've never interacted with. I don't get it. But each to their own I guess | |||
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"It took me a bit of getting used to being blocked by those you've never interacted with. It also took a bit of getting used to how many don't look like their pictures I'm still blocked by people I've never interacted with. I don't get it. But each to their own I guess " I've had that before as well. Then I green arrow then and go "oh yeah, that's probably why" 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I discovered after looking at people's profiles to have a nosey when the "forum awards" thread was going that I'm blocked by an alarming number of people I have never interacted with 😅 that was quite funny! " Me too!!! | |||
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"It took me a bit of getting used to being blocked by those you've never interacted with. It also took a bit of getting used to how many don't look like their pictures I'm still blocked by people I've never interacted with. I don't get it. But each to their own I guess I've had that before as well. Then I green arrow then and go "oh yeah, that's probably why" 🤷♂️" It's just annoying having to log into your couples account to see their pictures 🤷♂️ | |||
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"It took me a bit of getting used to being blocked by those you've never interacted with. It also took a bit of getting used to how many don't look like their pictures I'm still blocked by people I've never interacted with. I don't get it. But each to their own I guess I've had that before as well. Then I green arrow then and go "oh yeah, that's probably why" 🤷♂️ It's just annoying having to log into your couples account to see their pictures 🤷♂️" That's a workaround about to set off a lot of paranoia 😂 | |||
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"The amount of people that ask to meet me solo…….in the first message, when I don’t even know them and our bio says I don’t meet solo! Xx " Just goes to show most people don't read bios | |||
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"I discovered after looking at people's profiles to have a nosey when the "forum awards" thread was going that I'm blocked by an alarming number of people I have never interacted with 😅 that was quite funny! " Why would anyone block you though. That is just bizarre | |||
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"That there lot of Men that whinge and men are very bitchy Does seem like there are a lot of guys lately on the forums moaning because they can't get meets " Not realising that that they can't get meets because they're whiny bitches. It's like they've never been told no before. | |||
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"I discovered after looking at people's profiles to have a nosey when the "forum awards" thread was going that I'm blocked by an alarming number of people I have never interacted with 😅 that was quite funny! Why would anyone block you though. That is just bizarre " Fuck knows, I'm hardly controversial. Maybe they just think I'm munting and don't want to look at me it was a mix of men, women and couples as well. Odd 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"It still amazes me how many people are here happily playing away from home, I never quite get past the surprise of that. It has actually jaded me a lot regarding relationships; while I'm not looking to date anyway, I'd definitely think about it extra hard if I was. So many folk apparently will cheat instead of just leaving, or communicating better. I'm not sure how well I will ever trust someone again because of fab. " Well I've got to admit that made me a bit sad to hear about. But I understand how trust can a very fragile thing. It may not have been fab but, yeah do understand it. | |||
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"The amount of men trying to fuck me who wouldn't look twice at me "in the wild" 😂 The amount of vagina close ups on people's profiles How many men don't know how to take a decent photo How small the swing/club scene is. Most people have fucked someone who knows someone else you've fucked etc etc and it can get a bit messy " Not sure why you’d think that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look (mr) and no I’m not saying that because I want to fuck you .we’re not interested in meeting single females | |||
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"Not sure why you’d think that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look (mr) and no I’m not saying that because I want to fuck you .we’re not interested in meeting single females " Just my experience. But thank you, that's kind of you. | |||
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"How needy you men can be! " How needy you women can be! | |||
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"How needy you men can be! How needy you women can be!" Just sssssh and bring your penis here. | |||
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"How needy you men can be! " Sorry 😞 | |||
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"The amount of desperate men who would fuck anything and delusional women who put "curvy" as there body type 🤣." Had to put curvy as there isn't a fat or chubby option | |||
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"Just sssssh and bring your penis here. " Help! I’m being objectified! . (Okay. 🤐🍆) | |||
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"Also forgot, the amount of people who message /wink from 200+ miles away. " I had a couple message me from Toronto once. I thought. I will just get in my private jet shall I and fly over to Canada 😂 | |||
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"The amount of desperate men who would fuck anything and delusional women who put "curvy" as there body type 🤣. Had to put curvy as there isn't a fat or chubby option " I had to say that to someone the other day x | |||
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"It's looks that get you laid on Fab. Most of what people say about 'chemistry' or 'personality' can be safely ignored, which took me a while to figure out.🤦♂️" I see physical attraction and chemistry/personality as a bit like the yin and the yang on here. It can't work without the other. | |||
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"The level of expectancy some have simply because they spent a short while setting up an online profile on the Internet, as if that was all that was needed to find someone willing to have sex with them. That's not something that took me a while to get used to. I never will. 🤷♂️" I feel like a lot of people see it as too much effort to get talking to someone or arrange a social beforehand. So they go for the lazy option and expect being on here guarantees them instant sex. Or maybe I'm completely wrong. I don't know. | |||
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"The level of expectancy some have simply because they spent a short while setting up an online profile on the Internet, as if that was all that was needed to find someone willing to have sex with them. That's not something that took me a while to get used to. I never will. 🤷♂️ I feel like a lot of people see it as too much effort to get talking to someone or arrange a social beforehand. So they go for the lazy option and expect being on here guarantees them instant sex. Or maybe I'm completely wrong. I don't know. " Nope. I think you're spot on. It's a common misconception for sure. It does tend to be more prominent in a certain gender too. In 17 years I've never had a 'are you free now/tonight' message from a woman or couple. 🤔 Not one I believed to be a genuine woman or couple anyway.....🤷♂️ | |||
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"The amount of desperate men who would fuck anything and delusional women who put "curvy" as there body type 🤣." Ain't that so. There's me thinking I'm a chunkier, and I look around and see I'm anorexic in comparison | |||
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"The amount of desperate men who would fuck anything and delusional women who put "curvy" as there body type 🤣. Ain't that so. There's me thinking I'm a chunkier, and I look around and see I'm anorexic in comparison " Sorry there's no "fat as fuck" body type option 🤷🏻♀️ | |||
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"The fact there is a *report* button but not a like button tells me how too many people take offence but no way to praise others" The report button is there to use when necessary due to abuse or rule breaking, not because someone has simply taken 'offence' to something they've seen/read. And you can easily message someone with praise or a compliment. It's your opinion that they're worth it though, so not really relevant to other users. If you've actually met them then that's what verifications can be used for of course. | |||
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"The fact there is a *report* button but not a like button tells me how too many people take offence but no way to praise others" Most of the judgy forumites need the report button though, it helps them get through their day on Fab | |||
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"How confident and ballsy some people come across as on here.... yet when you actually meet them, you find they are quite timid... " I feel seen!!!  | |||
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"How many people do not have a smidgen of self awareness and are genuinely confused as to why no-one will meet them." You mean cock pics next to sky remote and lynx cans don't work? Where have I been going wrong? | |||
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"How many people do not have a smidgen of self awareness and are genuinely confused as to why no-one will meet them. You mean cock pics next to sky remote and lynx cans don't work? Where have I been going wrong? " Should have used a can of sure ✔️ | |||
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"How many people do not have a smidgen of self awareness and are genuinely confused as to why no-one will meet them. You mean cock pics next to sky remote and lynx cans don't work? Where have I been going wrong? " Ha - speaking of cock pics. I think there’s a strange double standard there. I’m forever reading that nobody likes to see dick pics, yet when I had it as my profile pic my cock pic had 1000’s of fabs and my inbox is never empty. So I don’t believe that cock pics are unpopular. Though I do agree they may be distasteful, which is why I’ve temporarily put mine away. Consider it an experiment.  | |||
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"How confident and ballsy some people come across as on here.... yet when you actually meet them, you find they are quite timid... " Ohhh this is me! 🙈 Although I do confess to being all talk....I blame it on my alter ego, split personality & introversy 😬 | |||
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"How many people do not have a smidgen of self awareness and are genuinely confused as to why no-one will meet them. You mean cock pics next to sky remote and lynx cans don't work? Where have I been going wrong? Ha - speaking of cock pics. I think there’s a strange double standard there. I’m forever reading that nobody likes to see dick pics, yet when I had it as my profile pic my cock pic had 1000’s of fabs and my inbox is never empty. So I don’t believe that cock pics are unpopular. Though I do agree they may be distasteful, which is why I’ve temporarily put mine away. Consider it an experiment. "Thousands? 🤔 | |||
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"I think for me it was having my messages at the start unread or deleted, I thought how rude and anti-social are people on here. Obviously I realised and read the FAQS to know what the score is on here. Also ninja mode, I didn't even know that was a thing until I saw someone mention it on the forums. " Rejection | |||
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"How mean people can be. Just because I’m not someone’s type or what they are looking for, doesn’t mean I deserve a slagging off before blocking me." this !!!!! | |||
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